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#i was thinking about his grief#and how so full of rage he is#and how there is two sides to grief#and i wonder how many times he bawled his eyes out on his own and then picked himself up on his own and got so explosively angry because#there was nothing else he could do . ten years is a long time to stay quiet about being hurt#i have a lot of feelings on his my brother was killed by someone who was supposed to help him thing#because i understand#and it’s interesting to me when i think about how i dealt with that that my rage was directed inward#sort of like jc#i have a billion psychology major thoughts too but eh maybe later#gestures have a doodle#art tag#mdzs#nie huaisang#nie mingjue#nie bros
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Wut?
#we having lava lamps now as merch?#who's idea was this#i need to know#which one of those idiots(affectionate) is the one who enjoys staring at these for hours on end?#no other explanation in my eyes#i wanna know#because i understand#but still#having a lavalamp as merch is just so funny for some reason#sleep token
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#as an IT 2 veteran with at least 1 foot still in it#i'm allowed to mutilate the original post#and repurpose it#because i understand#in many ways REDDIE and BOYLAN are the same... they are parallel#oh so ur gay and in love as teens then ur apart for 2 decades then reunite in ur evil hometown and go crazy and have to fight demons...#and ur both gay#anyway#justified#they dug COAL together
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Everybody!
Just sit down and listen because my The Sun And The Star book just arrived yesterday and I just finished it so you guys are gonna hear me freaking out about this
So,
Nico and Will 😏
Oh, well, my dad bought TSATS in july (because portuguese version was just ready this month while for you guys it was up on may) and it arrived at thursday. And then! when I came home from school I just found it here at the table, my dad gladly smilling for me like "yo here's the book you were freaking out about last month" and I just freaked out some more.
I startes to read it and oh dam
I need to say I loved the concept
And the implications
"You cannot cut your past off, but it's a part of you"
And also "There's no light without darkness, just as there's no darkness without light"
I loved it because was also a golden key to nico's character arc
He dealt with really bad stuff in this book
And ofc character's bad stuff is good stuff for us
But really,
All his demons were shown for everybody to see in this book (like, literally, and i loved this part), and Will was at his side all time.
I loved this too: Nico and Will's relationship has no problems at all, but their understanding of each other was so limited. Will saw Nico's darkness as a bad thing, a thing he had to heal from. And Nico tried to flinch away everytime someone tried to help him, we already knew that.
And then their values were crushed off
Will learns about darkness; about the dephts of the Bad Things; about Nico; about how not everything related to the dark is bad
And Nico learns about himself; about his needs; about his motives; about his strenghts; about his heart and about his health
And really
I think it was a particulary Hot TakeTM that the Percy Jacksom fandom just shouted and pleaded "NICO DI ANGELO!" and rick riorsan gave us fucking nico di angelo
And also
(the quote may be not accurte here because again, my version is portuguese's, and im having to translate it here)
"Will let the anger power him and searched inside himself for darkness. He knew loneliness, like the nights he spent in the corner of a show house while his mother sing for the crowd. He had felt fear. He had felt envy. He was son of Apollo and, because of that, with all his feelings flowing, Will focused on his dad's power and did something he has never did in his entire life.
He gave his enemy an allergic rhinitis attack"
THIS HAD ME LAUGHING SO HARD MY BROTHER STOPED PLAYING ROBLOX AND ASKED ME "ARE U OKAY"
The first page also just MADE MY HEART MELT
And their stories for Gorgyra appearing beetwen one chapter and another just had me--
I LITERALLY READ THE FIRST PAGE ONCE AGAIN AFTER FINISHING THE LAST PAGE
here, have a photo
So yea, i loved it ❤
#tsats#i was HOLDING MYSELF#in order not to search any nico fanart#becaise last time i did i found spoilers#but now im here bitches#infodump to me as well#and!#in the last months i've seen a nico drawing of him and his chocoballs!#and i didn't understand back then but now Im just ^/////^#because i understand#when the chocoballs arrived i was just like HERE I FOUND IT THERE YOU ARE#maybe in you guys version they aren't called chocoballs but in portuguese version they are#talking about 'they'#NONBINARY DEMON PUT AGAINST NICO#*chef kiss*#and nonbinary Vish-Majesty (by far the best name in all the world im agreeing with nico here#book#riordanverse#rick riordan#nico di angelo#will solace#the sun and the star: a nico di angelo adventuee#and when bob said in the former books: say hello to the sun and the stars for me#i CRIED#percy too#and one hot take in this book?#this is why he calls nico and will his sun and his star#<- ok this is from some months ago but out of the drafts you go#cuz im not deleting it
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the what when I reveal to myself that my favourite genres are nonfiction, historical, dystopian and apocalypse fiction. plus a little glaze of unreliable narrator and depressive fanfiction. there goes my cute image which was already lying dead on the floor
#queute#[tomorroweatstoday]#reading my economics notes is the most liberating experience#because i understand
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I’ve only had hallucinations/delusions like this once due to an OD/attempt. I was convinced that I heard my roommates at the time yelling and trying to find me when I was in the hospital. I was convinced they were following me and had found me. It was the most terrified I had ever been.
When my delusions escalated to the point that I thought my …notes had been given to the psych nurses, I was scaring the tech who was with me I was so adamant. Eventually a nurse came and sat with me and listened.
She explained how my thoughts were illogical, calmly explained that what I was experiencing was due to my brain trying to make sense of the excess stuff in my system and I wasn’t crazy. And even if I was, I was in a safe place. That my roommates didn’t have to know anything I didn’t want them to, that I had rights as a patient.
That nurse then convinced me to take an anxiety med, as I hadn’t slept in 40 hours at that point, and I was able to sleep off the worst of it.
Thanks to that nurse. It wasn’t perfect, but it kept me safer than I was in my delusion.
No doctor will ever get my respect like the woman in the ER who checked me for claws and fangs because I told her I was turning into a werewolf and could feel it and let me know gently that she couldn't find any but that didnt make it feel any less real, like THATS how you do it, other doctors who just flat out told me I was wrong take notes
#mental health#tw od mention#mental health awareness is not just for depression and anxiety#I have BPD and a dissociative disorder#and I don’t usually experience delusions#but when I did I was so convinced that people were confused#I was legitimately convinced there was nothing that could change my mind#since then I’m a lot more careful in my choice of language regarding past schizophrenic clients#because I understand#and even if I didn’t they still deserve more respect than I was originally taught to give
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wait do people read first person stories and think they're the ones in the story???
Saw people talking about not liking first person, which is fair, but their reasoning was like "I would not do that" and I don't understand that mindset.
First person stories are still about a character. A character making their own decisions. First person isn't about you???? At least I thought it wasn't. What am I missing? I've always seen first person as just a more in-depth look into a character's mind and stricter POV. Not as a reader stand-in.
#reading#writing#writblr#writeblr#isn't second person the one more likely to be projection#because it's involving you in the story#unless it's told in a more artistic way#like dislike a pov style if you want idc#I just don't understand this specific reason
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please i love you i'm begging you bring back suspension of disbelief bring back trusting the audience like. i cannot handle any more dialogue that sounds like a legal document. "hello, i am here to talk to you about the incident from a few minutes ago, because i feel you might be unwell, and i am invested in your personal wellbeing." "thank you, i am unwell because the incident was hurtful to me due to my childhood, which was bad." I CANT!!!!
do you know how many people are mad that authors use "growled" as a word for "said"? it's just poetics! they do not literally mean "growled," it's just a common replacement for "said with force but in a low tone." it's normal! do you hear me!! help me i love you please let me out of here!!!
#i am so sick of writers having to anticipate the most boring#bad-faith readings of their work. i am like - if you use cheese as a currency#okay! as long as the world makes sense to me: cool. cheese tax. moving on.#my job as the reader is to suspend my disbelief and say okay! i am so sick of like#fanfiction authors having to write dissertations#because they had an interesting idea they'd like to try out!!!#just write it! if it doesn't make sense that's someone else's problem!!!#PS OP is autistic. yes sometimes i take things literally at first glance. then i think about it lol#this is so clearly not about accessibility etc. it's about like. girl even i an autistic person#am able to understand ''they probably didn't mean his eyes darkened LITERALLY''
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not caring too much about a fandom’s favourite guy is the worst. you’ll think “oh i’ll look into the tag see if anything new and cool’s there” and it’s just that fucking guy again
#this is about astarion. gale to an extent too#had this with dragonage too because 80% of the time it was just solas or cullen. who i dont care for too much#and i do LIKE astarion and gale. But my favourites are the girls and wyll#something i had less with the dao cast because i generally also like the popular guys of that one alistair and zev#but then it’s like. ‘do you guys even understand these characters’#da2 i dont care for anders dragonage all that much. Fenris i do LIKE and he’s my fav guy. but i dont care for them the most#sorry for complain posting. Went into a tag today if you couldnt tell#roscoe rambles
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are you guys ok this has so many notes
can we talk about how sweet crowley was this whole season. he told gabriel to jump from the window, regretted it, and made him cocoa. he saved a woman from suicide. he saved a bunch of goats and 3 kids by turning them into birds or lizards. he bumped muriel on the shoulder like a dad would when they told him they were 37th not 38th. he wanted aziraphale to be safe. he told that one guy not to feed the ducks bread because he wanted the ducks to be safe. he sheltered aziraphale, who he’d only known for a few minutes, under his wing. he helped aziraphale with his magic trick and supported him the whole season—his only condition being that aziraphale was safe.
crowley is a good person. even if he hates that, it’s true. and more than anything he wants aziraphale to be safe because he knows what it’s like to lose him. and he wants to protect aziraphale from heaven, because he knows how terrible they can be.
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enough about taylor swift already. reblog and tag the smallest, least known artist you listen to
#txt#put your energy where it'll make a difference#i have not and will never be silent about sperling but they are not the smallest in my library#it might be Dachs - which is swiss!#and i love that for me because i understand fuck all it's all just vibes to me#and the vibes are great#muted post
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#meme#if you dont understand this you probably have really boring shitty sex#not sorry#oml one of my stupid vanilla friends is arguing with me about this#he says because top and dom usually coexist means theyre basicslly synonymous#no#hes dumb and if he didnt live in canada id punch him#thank god i never fucked this guy it would be so boring
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Weird phenomenon I've seen on tumblr
#like i understand how frustrating it can be to make art and for it to get no attention#but that ain't an excuse to shame and threaten people into reblogging#some of y'all need to relearn some manners ffs#like christ#usually anything to guilt trip/shame ppl into reblogging does the opposite#because good god who the hell wants to spread the guilt tripping?!#anyways back to you regular tagging schedule#my art#doodles#rambles#comic#my sona#furry art#furry
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The second you start talking about some mysterious "they" that are controlling society in some fashion, you are engaging in dangerous conspiratorial thinking even if you're being woke about it. "They" did not institute the 40 hour work week specifically so you would be too tired to revolt. "They" did not invent the sleek minimalist aesthetic in order to crush the spirit of art in the common people. "They" are not pushing mediocre media into the mainstream in order to poison people's critical thinking skills.
Your best case scenario after that is you talk to someone who actually knows what the fuck they're talking about and you get embarrassed because you can't answer basic questions about your own ideology because you never learned anything past "the ruling class/capitalists/politicians are making things bad and if we got rid of them the bad things would all go away!"
Your worst case scenario is obviously the woo-to-fascist pipeline and you end up believing Jews are poisoning American food supplies with GMOs in order to turn us all into beta cucks, so like . . . maybe just stop blaming "them" before you fall down that route.
Obligatory round of disclaimers: Yes, sometimes people do bad things. Be specific about exactly who is doing what instead of ascribing it to some vague group of shadowy elites. Yes, sometimes things in society are bad. Learn to identify the root causes of complex social issues instead of assuming that they're actually extremely simple to fix and we're just not doing it because of some vague group of shadowy elites. Yes, minimalism isn't for everyone. Learn that some people don't share your tastes and get the fuck over it for the love of god.
#surprise! this was actually just my way of complaining that that 'classical tutor' post is going around again#complaining about the degeneracy of modern society because our cars aren't colorful enough or whatever#what if i told you that sometimes societal tastes and customs change naturally over time#and not because of targeted interference from vague groups of shadowy elites#anyway! be specific in your words and actually work to understand the underlying causes of things#and above all else understand that sometimes people just like things that you don't like#and that's not a conspiracy. it's not even hard to understand. like come on people#skepticism umbrella
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I guess Chilchuck has brought us right back to 'adults who are short are child-coded and if you like them you're a pedophile' discourse huh
#spitblaze says things#anyway.#1) please google 'halfling'#2) THERE ARE ADULTS WHO ARE VERY SHORT. DID YOU KNOW THAT. WERE YOU AWARE#3) THERE ARE ALSO ADULTS WHO HAVE CHILDLIKE FACES. DID YOU KNOW *THAT*#4) IF YOU THINK THE ONLY REASON A MAN COULD LOOK LIKE THAT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE TRANS MEN IM GOING TO KILL YOU#5) jesus christ will you just read/watch dungeon meshi and understand that the entire conceit of his character and of half-foots in general#is that its fucked up to treat people as children or subhuman because they do not 'look' like what you expect a cisgender adult to look lik#anyway if i see one more person call Chilchuck 'has gray streaks and an ex wife and three adult daughters' Tims a sh*ta#im gonna start smashing things#doin numbers
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People on here are always like "fuck capitalism, why can't things be weird anymore" and then write up a whole dissertation about how the biggest IPs need to change to be weirder.
Like, you are so close. You are so close to getting the point. "Big" IPs *can only exist because they are normal*. They will *never* be weird. They will *never* do what you want. Go find some smaller IPs. Bring back discovery. Bring back never having heard of a book before you buy it. Bring back watching obscure anime online that none of your friends know about. Bring back trying new things, even if they're bad or cheaply made. That is how you get *weird*.
#if y'all want some obscure recs i got em#but understand that centralized will never be weird#weird exists because it appeals to a few#mainstream exists because it tries to appeal to everyone by boiling out individuality#it is impossible for the weird to become mainstream because that would inherently make it *not weird*#stop trying to shift the things you like into the capitalism model#break the capitalism model#fiction#fandom#stories#books#reading
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