#be selfish

[lycoric3]

You know what's so bitter about Yoohyun leaving Yoojin in order to protect him? The fact that he never really understood the social implications of it.

We know that Han Yoohyun doesn't care for social cues, laws and regulations, all mannerisms and behaviour towards people are done simply to please his brother. And so- he doesn't realise that by denouncing Yoojin, as a highly praised and popular S-class, he has condemned him in society. Yoohyun leaves as soon as he can, publicly announces that he's a burden, and the media is having a field day where Yoojin is made a villain.

Unfortunately, it's only made worse by Yoojin's lost desperation to find out why his brother, his child, who he has raised all his life has left him behind. Has spit in his face and is so cold, and that maybe Yoojin has failed him all this time. His desperation in trying to get to talk to Yoohyun at least once, to give him a birthday cake, to awaken so that maybe he can reach him. It only ends up adding to this manic, ungrateful and spiteful image that the world views him as.

Yoojin is condemned by society. Yoohyun gets mad that he's a hunter but Yoojin has no other option. He can't get a regular job because his reputation has been dragged through the mud and because the constant public attention is too burdensome for any employers. Seok Simyeong has constantly berated Yoojin, fucking up his mental state and as the 'spokesperson' of Yoohyun, Yoojin must think its true.

Yoohyun tries to protect him from hunters through this instinctual thought of predators and prey, but society is far too nuanced and he doesn't understand. By trying to leave him out of the dungeons, he left him to the world.

Oh Han Yoohyun, you've doomed him.

[universalitgirlsblog2]

💗🍰BECOMING SELFISH IS THE BEST THING I DID💗🍰

This post is my notes of thewizardliz video of the same topic as this post . I always tend to lose the notes I make 😑, so I thought that I should make a post on this ( lol )

💗STOP ARGUING WITH PEOPLE WHO AREN'T WILLING TO LISTEN

If the boundaries were crossed, the conversation is over . They aren't worth your time or energy.

🍰START PRIORITIZING YOUR OWN NEEDS & WANTS

" Whatever I want , goes first ". Fill your own cup first, Are you whole ? Are you okay ?

💗STOP BEING ALWAYS AVAILABLE & TRYING TO SAVE EVERYONE

You cannot save everyone. To be honest , you cannot same anyone . If a person does not want to change , if a person doesn't want to be saved,you will not save anyone & just end up losing your energy.

🍰SOMETIMES YOU HELPING IS ACTUALLY SABOTAGING GOD'S PLAN

People get certain problems or situations in their life because God gives them , it's for them to go through. So they can become wiser & fulfill their life purpose. If someone is stepping in & trying to be their savior , they are sabotaging God's plan & blocking their own blessings.

💗START BEING OKAY WITH PEOPLE MISUNDERSTANDING YOU

They don't have to understand you. It's very reasonable they don't understand you , people have come from different countries , culture, environment. They don't have the same mindset or heart as you. You cannot make them understand you because they aren't you. If you constantly go through life thinking everybody has the same heart as you , you will be hurt . People are different. Let them be.

🍰REALISE THAT YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURSELF

Humans love comfort. In order to change, it requires alot of courage , strength & discomfort. If you are constantly putting your energy trying to change people , to become their best version. You are wasting your energy that you can use to become your best version. Lead by example .

💗STOP NEEDING PEOPLE TO VALIDATE YOUR SELF WORTH

You don't need anyone to tell you how good , smart or beautiful you are , if you already see those qualities in yourself. If you only feel that you are a good person when someone else tells you that you are a good person, if you need validation from other people , then you are just a slave of other people because their opinion can change your reality.When you are the one who always creates their own reality. You have to be strong in your own self , tell yourself how amazing you are.

🍰TALK TO YOURSELF , TAKE YOURSELF ON A DATE , HUG YOURSELF , COMPLIMENT YOURSELF

Say in the mirror how amazing you are to yourself.

💗LESS CHASING MORE ATTRACTING

Tune in with your feminine energy . Be relaxed, just do what is good for you & your body. Become open to receiving to your blessings & manifestations. If you aren't desperately chasing after things , then you are really whole.

🍰ONLY ADDING GREAT PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE

Allow people who add value in your life. Do they make you happy ? Is it a both way thing ?.

💗STOP SEEKING PEOPLE'S PERMISSION TO DO WHAT YOU WANT.

You don't need anyone's permission to do what is good for yourself. You know yourself well enough. " I know I can do it & I will do it " . Others opinions should be irrelevant to you , how cocky people can be to think that they know you better than you know yourself. They haven't gone through anything you have gone through. They haven't lived your life so who are they to decide what is good for you ? " Mmmm..none of your buisness ,goodbye "

[feministfang]

My love and respect for Taylor Swift increases day by day because of how selfishly she focuses on her career, ignoring the entire world. I love how her jobless loser haters are always offended by her never using her platform to speak up for world's atrocities. She alone built this platform and worked hard to get her reputation back. She is successful on her own, and so only she gets to decide what to do with it and how to use it. I absolutely admire her for her silence because the queen knows she doesn’t owe anyone anything and doesn’t have to sacrifice her fanbase for the sake of other people. And besides, she is not anyone's political puppet. She is rich and prospering and that’s the only thing she should care about as a woman. All the world problems are for the men to fix. I love you, Taylor! 🫶🏼❤️

And also, if i see anybody barking on her or any other successful woman for being selfish or evil, i will fight you for them. I love it when women don’t care about anybody except for themselves because so do i 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

[blabbershere]

You will either be the villain in someone else's story for standing up for yourself — or a fool in yours if you don't. Pick your poison.

— Samira Vivette

[supremeromanticizer]

Your self worth is not tied to your productivity.

[starlightsuffered]

Be Selfish

Info - incubus Timothée, Angel/deity reader, AU, angsty, mentions of sex, unrequited love

His gorgeous chest rose and fell beautifully after our coitus. I loved him in these moments. Precious moments where he looked satiated and heathy. He looked satisfied and fulfilled and a smile often played over his delicate lips.

I reached out and touched his slightly damp clavicle. He was shimmering with sweat from our actions. He took my hand and removed it. I frowned. He began to explain.

The longer he spoke the more upset I got. I wanted to tear my clothes. My vision was blurred with tears. I was having trouble sucking in the air I needed.

“That’s why I can’t see you anymore?” He said softly.

I screamed.

My scream could have made the most villainous drop to their knees and beg those they’d wronged to forgive them. It could have made the most pure of heart kill thousands. My scream was an eldritch horror all in its own. My scream was utter pain and loss. I was angry and confused all at the same moment.

“I don’t understand,” I gasped as I sobbed. I crawled my way across the ground towards him. My nails broke and caked themselves with dirt. “I-I have given you everything you’ve ever wanted. I was the best I could be fore you.”

I was not the most pure deity, nor the most beautiful, or the most favoured. I knew that I was on the pure side. I knew I had some talents and abilities, some worth.

I knew that he was an Inn incubus. He fed off sexual energy. He too was not the strongest incubi. He was not the Lord or ruler, in fact he didn’t even consider himself that talented. He was used to having to use conniving, persuasion, and dark temptation to feed off another for sex.

All those things he’d had to bargain for; all that he’d had to strive for, everything he was used to not getting - I had given freely. I had seen him and leaned more to him than any responsibility I’d ever had. No prayer, no mortal, no reward, no job, nothing had ever drawn me like he had. He had never even used his powers on me. I had simply fallen.

Did he not believe me? I had let him feed whenever he needed. I desperately wanted to help him and care for him. He could take my energy. He could have my life force. Why didn’t he want to just take? If he thrived off my sexual desire, then he would be well fed in my presence. No one had ever made me feel this way.

WHY WOULDNT HE JUST TAKE FROM ME? I FREELY GAVE! WAS I NOT ENOUGH?

“Be selfish,” I whispered.

“Huh?”

“You may not feel the way I do, but be selfish. Care not about what is good for me. Never mind how my feelings will be affected, just let me be yours. Let me be the only one you fed from. I promise I will be a good force. You needn’t care about me. Just let me be the only one. You can drain me of everything. Just be selfish.”

“I can’t do that,” he murmured. He looked down at me. He studied my tear tracks. He surveyed the body he’d touched and used so many times. He gulped down his own emotions and looked at the sky.

“I have begun to care for you deeply. I care for your future. I care for your well-being. I care for your happiness. You are the first being I have ever felt like this for. I cannot feed off you when I feel this way for you. I shan’t be selfish and drain you. I would not want to force you into a life of being my only source where you cannot have what you want. I care for you.”

“If you care for me then stay,” I said in a broken voice.

“I can’t darling. I can’t be what you want. As we have joined I’ve seen what your heart desires and I can’t be that. I can’t be yours. I am sorry,” he sighed.

“Please!” I wailed as he disappeared. He left me there to sob, to shriek, to plead, to waste away. I would have rather have wasted away with him using me to have what he needed. I’d rather company even if that company drained me. I didn’t want to be alone. If only he could be selfish.

@pmak2002 @softhecreator @plutoispurplw @sp1deyyf4ngz @seungcheol17daddy @jesschalamet @vvsdreaming

[diabolicalwhores]

Nonexistent .

[greeneyed-jade]

PSA:

You cannot put everyone on. You will drown trying to rescue the people who were never taught to swim.

[extratragic]

BOWEN WHY DIDNT YOU SHOOT THE PUCK

[plutos-satellite]

please, i beg you, for at least once in your life: be selfish.

[rantithesis]

I wish people (women) would treat a romantic relationship like the massive lifestyle choice it is. You’re not being shallow or selfish for rejecting anyone and everyone who isn’t compatible for any reason. Especially if you’re partnering with a man, it’s better to be alone than it is to have an unfit partner. Emotions can only carry you so far when you’re talking about someone you’re going to live with, care for, and possibly legally and financially tie yourself to for the rest of your life

[womanborntotheendoftheworld]

the person who directs the movie as he wishes is the lead, the person who directs the lead role is the director.

[universalitgirlsblog2]

🧼🎀BE SELFISH 🎀🧼

🧼Being selfish is often described as a bad thing . Well no 🎀

🧼Being selfish can actually save you . I'm not saying be selfish and use others for your own benefit.

No , I mean , be selfish and priotize yourself . You should be your NO .1 PRIORITY 🥇

🎀Be selfish enough to believe in yourself when circumstances & people are against you .

🧼Be selfish enough to distance yourself from people who don't value you

🎀Be selfish enough to build boundaries and be firm about them with toxic people who constantly drain you or make you question your self worth .

🧼Be selfish enough to take a break when everything is draining you .

🎀Be selfish enough to listen to your instincts, trust yourself & not seek validation from others 🧼

🎀Be selfish enough to not allow others opinions to define your worth

Believe it or not , 🧼selfish people win .

🎀People who are selfish enough to put themselves first and their goals🧼People who don't allow others opinions to define their goals .Those people who go for what they want regardless of what others say

Go ahead and 🎀be selfish and persist in your desires and don't care about the shitty limiting beliefs others have🧼 ( friends , family , loa coaches , strangers etc) and don't care about the 3d circumstances too and just persist and believe in yourself 🎀🧼

[limusss]

Ignoring vs Caring

Start ignoring people who threaten you joy.

Literally, IGNOReeeeee them.

Say nothing.

Don't invite any parts of them into your space.

Master this @Art0fLife_ ........ ignore!

[blabbershere]

I gaze around, striving to fathom each soul,

To see the reasons behind the ways they’ve hurt me whole,

Yet not a whisper of understanding, no reflection or return,

As I stand alone, with empathy that no one will learn

Just to be called naive in return.

—Ruth Winter / Naive

[supremeromanticizer]

Goodnight.