#bad friend

[bojackhorsemanobviously]

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[hotwife-affairs]

[mangoofthesea]

I saw a post today talking about how difficult making friends can be, as well as maintaining friendships, and as someone who has spent the last few years learning how to maintain friendships while moving a couple times and some big life events. One of the best things you can do for a friendship is organise to do THINGS.

Not just meet and talk or chat over message. Arrange to go swimming, or for a row boat ride, cook dinner together, try making clay creatures and laugh at how bad they are. Go to see a play or a singer or a waterfall.

Sit on a call together in silence while you crochet or watch something at the same time in different locations.

Or while you both draw or do dishes and say the random questions that come to mind 'do you think aliens could exist?' 'How can you tell when you're in love?' 'There’s a really cool bird out the window I think you'd like it, it's all blue and green!'

The key is to not try to keep the friendship for the sake of it, but enjoy the Person and their company

Maintaining of a friendship over time requires effort, but also acceptance that you won't speak or see each other all the time. My 3 best friends are all from different phases of life and I have had periods of months or years where I didn’t speak to them just because we had shifted how much we saw each other.

You see them when you see them, you speak when you speak, but you'll find people who with even a tiny amount of effort (a birthday gift, a card, a meme sent, a message or a gif) you can hold onto. People who mean the world to you even though you only see them a could times a year.

I once heard the phrase that friends are like stars, even when you don't see them, they're still there.

Friendships that truly mean something aren't like sitcoms or movies. Life is more complicated and people are too, don't feel bad if your friendships don't match up to what you expect, or if you can't be there all the time.

All things considered, I'm a pretty shit friend sometimes, I forget birthdays and I'm useless to get hold of sometimes. But on either side of friendships that I have, we both make enough of an effort that they're still there.

I'm going to the cinema tomorrow with a friend I've had since I was 11 (or 13 depending how we've decided to measure it that day) and I haven't seen in person in nearly a year. We're still going to have a great time.

Your friendship takes whatever form works for you, don't lose sight of the people you love cos the way you love them doens’t look like 'it's supposed to'

[an-elveinthesky]

Not a single wound on my soul has been inflicted by an enemy. Not a single dart pierced in my heart has been thrown by my nemesis. Not a single one.

—Akshita Singh

[writtenroses1813]

When you made absolutely sure everyone was included at all times - making group chats only you texted in with no reply, asking about their days, making sure everyone had a chance to talk when hanging out - only for them to push you out and act like you were nothing to them <<<<<

[ayaisnotokay]

I have a lot of one sided friendships. I'm also the one starting conversations, suggesting plans, or just trying to share things. It rarely feels like it's returned.

I want to believe people care, but how can they? Surely you think about someone you care about? You should want to reach out with them and spend time together.

I'm tired of fighting for seconds of my friend's time when it feels like they wouldn't willingly take a minute of mine.

I guess I finally understand the 48 laws of power a little bit better. They say you should be distant and present your presence as a rarity.

if your time is a commodity you can't treat it like air. When something is so readily available, it's inevitably taken for granted. It seems that in being forever unavailable, your time is preciously coveted.

I suppose that's why people never come to me when they're free. Maybe I'm trying too hard. So they just figure, "she'll be there tomorrow," but tomorrow never seems to come.

[lifefactz]

[canwepretendthatairplanesss]

They're all fine with you having social anxiety, until you show a symptom of social anxiety or say that you can't do something because of it. Then, in their minds, you stop being a socially anxious person, and instead become a bad person.

[desirediariesx]

diary entry #20

I fucked my best friend's boyfriend in the middle of the night

I ended up sleeping over at my besties place last night. Her boyfriend also slept over cause we had all gone to a party together the night before. We got pretty drunk at the party and I ended up not bringing a guy home, and I was really tired and just wanted to crash so my bestie let me stay over at her place on the couch in the living room

In the middle of the night I was woken up by the sound of someone coming into the living room. They were actually just going to the kitchen to get some water and I could see that it was her boyfriend. If you have read my earlier posts you know that I have been fucking him on the low recently. I decided I needed some water too so I got up and went into the kitchen after him.

He poured me a glass of water and I asked him "Is she asleep?". He nodded and I started to get close to him. "Did you fuck her last night?" I asked him. He nodded again. I started running my hands down his body until I could feel him. He was rock hard. "I wanna taste" I said.

I got down on my knees and pulled his cock into my mouth. I could taste the sex they had. God i'm such a whore. I took him down my throat and got his cock all wet before bending over the counter in the kitchen so he could fuck me from behind. He fucked me hard while we tried out best to be quiet and not wake her up.

When he started to cum he pulled me close against me and came deep inside my pussy. Fuck it felt good. I love making him cheat. After we finished he went back to bed to go lay next to my best friend and I fingered myself on the couch in the living room until I came too. Thinking about how he was laying next to my bestie after filling me with cum the entire time.

[vampireink]

They're not my friends

They say they're happy for me

But I see it in their eyes

They're the least happy for me

They pray for my downfall

But I won't succumb to them

I am better off alone

Where I am safe

Where I am understood.

[Kas]

[kyo-isuppose]

I’m making a thing >:3

To the song Bad Friend by Cheese on Bread

[holycoco]

Frienemies pt 1: definition

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Lets talk about secret animosity.

Hi jelly beans,

I’m mary, and hopefully I’m here today, to wake the fuck up of you dolls, you and your kind, sunshiny tender souls.

Be aware of your surroundings, not everybody is your friend. just because they smile at you, that don't mean they love you, and i think we all know that.

So let's step into a deeper lever of secret animosity…✎ᝰ

౨ৎ A frienemy usually approachies you because she (౨ৎ or HE why not? but lets keep the "she") sees something that she admire in you, your look, your style, your personality, including the way you talk and express yourself.

That admiration can turn really quick into envy, back handend compliments, energy sucking, boy crazy, external validation, copycat, slow identity stoling.

౨ৎ Step one don't fall into the mindset of being a treat to your frienemy, and trying to prove it to her.

The beef is one sided, its okay to rassicure a real friend and make them feel loved, but with this type of people is not the case. it can quicly turn into gaslighting.

౨ৎ Its not your responsability (you don't own them shit) to make them feel good about themeselves (just because you look a perfect glazed donut!) when they're around you just to study and take notes about your life.

౨ৎ They’re professional haters and waiters for a good sabotage moment.

Be safe mamas!

・♡₊˚ 🦢・₊✧

love, Mary

[space-deer]

Space Deer No. 24 - You'll do

[k3t4min5]

[an-elveinthesky]

Surviving too many friendships with women who secretly held animosity towards me while all I wanted was sisterhood has left my tea table gray with poison

and I drink it everyday.

- Akshita Singh

[writtenroses1813]

Never rlly been one for vengeance but sometimes I rlly wish they had suffered the consequences of their actions