#bUT COME ON PEOPLE

[corvikari]

wAIT, why are people calling people with ocd npd and bpd dangerous and scary??? that is not okay???? I am not diagnosed with these things so I am not able to properly speak into this but how would you like it if I called you ‘scary’ or ‘dangerous’ because you are on the spectrum and you couldn’t help but throw things in response to not being able to properly communicate or regulate their emotions, or my younger brother has issues regulating his emotions due to suffering substance abuse in the womb he’s not fcking dangerous because he has a problem and you’re uncomfortable or don’t know how to handle it properly.

A little reminder that the "scary" neurodivergents belong in the community too. The ones with intrusive thoughts. The ones who seem self-centered.

The people with ocd, bpd, npd. Stuff like that. They belong here too.

[weirdozjunkary]

“Are you the creator of HungryHero.EXE?”

Yes.

“Your style looks similar to the HungryHero.EXE comic”

I am the creator. I just don’t advertise it on other places.

“You’re the person who created HungryHero.EXE?”

MY NAME IS LINKED ON THE TOP OF THE BLOG!!!

[untitledgoosegay]

I Am Once Again expressing my bafflement over people using "many human populations have Neanderthal DNA" as a derogatory statement as if it is not incredible that we lived with another human species closely enough to know them and love them and marry them

[doginprogress]

an actual pet insurance appeal we received today:

“you said this is preventable so you won’t cover it. please tell me how we could’ve prevented this, I’d love to know” (sarcastic and condescending)

Y’all the claim was for an outdoor cat needing vet attention after getting in a fight with another animal…. it was the fifth occurrence in the last year

Idk maybe keep your cat indoors???

[acidicwerewolf]

Hot take perhaps, but I genuinely hate Shen Jiu. Like, he's not a bad character necessarily! I never particularly liked him but I thought he was a well written character, all things considered. But the infantilization and complete disregard of his cannon character has genuinely made me want to write him out of svsss!! And he's not even the first or only character I've had this thought about!!!

[madebypointlesswords]

Gwen after she got kidnapped for the 3295576934th time

Gwen: I think my guardian angel drinks

[anotherunreadblog]

Hi, not going to answer the ask I just got because it's inflammatory, but I want to say something.

I am a grown woman, I don't need to be told who to befriend, avoid, block, etc. This kind of ask is the reason I took years away from posting in the oc community.

Let me post my little things in peace. I don't want to be involved.

[kstarlitchaotics]

Like father like son of having Bruce and Dick's romantic relations of the fans pining them against each other when in reality the fans shouldn't be so aggressive to whom one may end up with cause in the end they always go back n forth of most any partners (especially with the main ones) and they both at some point screw said relations so I don't know why the fans take the shippings so seriously

[bitchfitch]

writing advice for characters with a missing eye: dear God does losing an eyes function fuck up your neck. Ever since mine crapped out I've been slowly and unconsciously shifting towards holding my head at an angle to put the good eye closer to the center. and human necks. are not meant to accommodate that sorta thing.

[skullchicken]

If you have achieved something, please remember to observe a mandatory period of basking in the warm glow of your achievement like a lizard on a stone, lest you teach your brain that effort is futile, actually, because it didn't get to enjoy its happy chemicals, so, naturally, nothing good ever comes of trying. (And no, avoiding punishment is not a reward!)

I recommend, like, 5% of basking time in relation to whatever time you invested into achieving the thing minimum. And if you can't make your own bask, friend-brought is fine (= tell your friends!).

[chaotic-neutral-knitter]

I think one of the kindest things you can do for people with various mental health struggles is just... let people back into your life after they've been absent for a while.

Making friends as an adult is so fucking hard already and isolating yourself from other people is a very common symptom of depression, anxiety, burnout, ocd, trauma, grief, etc. Which means that someone will do the hard work of recovery/healing and resurface back into a world where their previous friends have written them off because they stopped showing up.

So if you know someone where you're like "yeah we could have been better friends but they fell off the map a bit" and that person suddenly reaches out, or starts showing up to events even though you kind of forgot they were still in the group chat... well they may have been Going Through It and you don't actually have to punish them for their absence you can just be glad that they're back.

[orphanblaque]

have any of y'all actually read the article? it's interesting. the author isn't saying she doesn't spend time with her kids doing things they all enjoy and having fun. just that when it comes to a certain kind of play, she's found that her kids do better working with each other and working out whatever differences they have together rather than complaining to her about how they want to do things. i don't know that i agree with all of what's said, but it's not about parents ignoring their children and never engaging with them.

Demons are real and they write for the new york times.

[hauntedhotel]

Me, on the welcome desk in the library: Good morning, how are you today?

Customer: I have welcomed Jesus into my heart and so I am well today and every day.

Me, a little unnerved: Okay then! Is there something I can help you with?

Customer, digging around in his bag and pulling out an iPhone in a box: Unfortunately, Jesus can't help me with this fucking phone, so I came to the library.

[butchfalin]

the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

[markwateneymemorialcrater]

Please note. The orange one is not included because A. He isn’t a billionaire. And B. Calling him obnoxious is too kind for him.