#audhd4audhd

[theboyjack]

what? i don’t have a type -but if i did it’d be audhd and trans

[neopronouns]

flag id: two flags with 6 stripes, which are dark indigo, faded blue, pale green, light orange, pink, and very dark red. in the center of the left flag is a large purple heart outlined in white. in the center of the heart is a white circle with the audhd symbol, a symbol of a butterfly with an infinity symbol forming the top portion of its wings, in red within it. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

audhd4audhd/autihd4autihd: a person with both autism and adhd who prioritizes or prefers relationships with other people who have both autism and adhd. can also be a descriptor of a relationship between two or more audhd/autihd people. a combination of auti4auti and adhd4adhd.

[pt: audhd4audhd/autihd4autihd: a person with both autism and adhd who prioritizes or prefers relationships with other people who have both autism and adhd. can also be a descriptor of a relationship between two or more audhd people. a combination of auti4auti and adhd4adhd. end id]

got a request on my other blog involving this term and figured i'd make a flag for it! the top three stripes are from the auti4auti flag, the bottom three are from the adhd4adhd flag, and the symbol is the heart from the auti4auti flag with this audhd symbol in the center.

@radiomogai | dni link

[confessions-of-a-masochist]

Silly little guys are so hot. Cute little trash goblins. Just wanna take em home

[thateclecticbitch]

Love dating autistic people because in my experience they're always very explicitly clear about their intentions and expectations. You never have to nervously discern if "watch TV at my place" means Netflix And Chill or Netflix and Cuddles. They will literally just tell you.

[xenon-demon]

only one (1) coherent thought in my skull right now and it’s domestic steddie with Steve washing Eddie’s hair after he’s discharged from hospital post-Vecna.

I’m imagining Eddie’s being discharged to Steve’s house, because Steve is but a simple man with a saviour complex (and also a crush on Eddie) so he’s letting Wayne and Eddie stay with him. Partly so they have somewhere to be while the government sorts out some new housing for them, but mostly because Eddie needs support for these first few weeks out of hospital and Wayne is away at work a lot. Having Steve around as well means Eddie won’t end up in a situation where he needs a hand but is stuck home alone for hours.

Eddie’s recovered enough for discharge but still requires a lot of physical therapy, and one of the things he still can’t do is raise his arms above his head. He can’t wash his hair pretty much at all, and while the nurses washed it for him in hospital, they didn’t do it frequently enough for Eddie’s standards. His hair has been driving him insane, as the limp, greasy feeling against his face, neck and scalp makes him want to claw his skin off. When he’s told how long it’s expected to take before his arms have full range of motion again, he makes a joke-that’s-not-really-a-joke about going back to his buzzcut days just to avoid dealing with the feeling.

Steve is horrified at the suggestion, and immediately offers to wash Eddie’s hair for him. He also divulges that part of the reason he styled his hair the way he did in high school was because he played a lot of sports, and couldn’t stand the feeling of sweaty hair against his neck and face. Sure, he genuinely did want his hair to look good, but styling it up so it was out of his face was an added bonus.

Eddie’s hair is driving him so crazy that he says yes, especially once he realises Steve might actually get where he’s coming from.

Cue an emotionally tense shower, where both Steve and Eddie are stripped down to their boxers because they don’t want to this fully clothed but they sure as fuck don’t want to do it naked, either. (Spoiler alert, they’d both actually love to have a naked shower together, they’re just both too nervous to bring that up at this stage!)

But then Eddie slips while in the shower, still unsteady on his feet and learning to adjust to his bad leg, so Steve makes an executive decision to switch over to the bath. After a bit of manoeuvring they find a comfortable position to do this; Eddie sitting in front of Steve in the bath, Steve’s legs stretched out either side of him. Between the physical intimacy of having your hair washed by someone else, and the way they don’t have to look at each other’s faces as they do this, they end up talking. They get a lot more personal than they were able to in hospital or during Spring Break, and it’s such a nice experience that they’ll each happily put up with the sensory hell of waterlogged boxers.

Eventually - after Eddie and Wayne have moved into their new place, but Eddie and Steve are over at each other’s houses often enough that they might as well still be living together - Eddie can move his arms enough to wash his hair on his own. He’s gotten more used to his bad leg and can stand long enough to even shower if he wants to. They go about three weeks with Eddie washing his own hair, both of them desperately missing this little routine they’d built but not wanting to admit it. One day, however, Eddie feels so lonely and so tired from physical therapy that day that he asks Steve to wash his hair for him. Steve accepts in a heartbeat, almost before Eddie’s even had time to say the words.

It feels different that time. The energy between them is charged, everything feeling more intimate somehow. It’s so palpable a difference that after Steve runs the conditioner through Eddie’s hair to let it sit for a few minutes, Eddie turns around in the bath to face Steve. He takes a breath, trying to steel his nerves, and asks: can I kiss you?

Steve doesn’t answer him; he thinks the way he leans in and slots his lips in between Eddie’s is answer enough.

[vipier]

bryan a+++ partner for overstimulated autistic girl. before he goes to work makes sure I have a pillow behind my back and my heated blanket on and a cup of calming tea and a snack and my kindle and the tv remote and game controllers in reach so I can cocoon without having to get up for as long as I need and does all of this with soft voice and hand gestures only and asks if he’s good to kiss me on the head before leaving hey I love him.

[monsterhospital]

chick from bumble offered me some of her adderall

[punkeropercyjackson]

@franollie DREW JAYSUMM FOR ME AS A SURPRISE GIFT!!!!!!!!!!GRACIAS TANTO FRAN,SE VEN BUENOSSSSSSSSSSSS Y TORTOLOS SUPER

Summer is a dudette☝🏽He/they pronouns + they are transmasc4transmasc(and audhd4audhd)

[piratecaptainscaptainpirates]

Ed Teach runs a life skills mentorship service for other people with autism, ADHD, and other neurodivergencies that focuses on working with their symptoms rather than against them, and he loves it but it's gotten to be a bit of a grind. When Stede's shitty dad recommends him for the service, Ed helps Stede figure out how to be kinder to himself, and Stede helps Ed apply his philosophy to himself.

This is a very fluffy, self-indulgent modern AU about working with yourself, finding other people who get you, and lots of sweet, sweet AuDHD4AuDHD care. Rated T, 4.5k words!

[wildpeachfarm]

dnf as messy audhd4audhd bi4bi makes me feel very represented to be quite honest

GUYS ASDGHJK

[tinogiehd]

i cheer with every dnf audhd4audhd mention

[runwiththerain]

percabeth is audhd4audhd and t4t and bi4bi and cptsd4cptsd i said what i said

[lesbianyuuga]

idk if uve ever talked abt this BUT I NEED TO KNOW IF U HAVE ANY HCS FOR ARGOS OR MR PLANT OR BOTH

i do ! :3 i posted my plargos hcs a while back https://www.tumblr.com/theworldofmrplant/721146415138668544/plargos-headcanons ! but i do have some for argos & mr plant individually too >__<

argos:

prefers having long hair over short b/c it gives mr plant something to play with

his favorite self care to do is taking baths because it relaxes his muscles + eyes

the only eyes he can actually see out of are his two main ones

he journals a lot

he' s trans :3 and uses he / him pronouns

he dislikes skirts + shorts

he lets the kids he works with paint his nails !

he has a surprisingly good memory

he has adhdtism :3

mr plant:

he likes playing with argos' s hair / hands

he cuts his nails really short so that he won' t hurt himself when wringing his hands

it' s trans and uses he / it pronouns

it' s very insecure about his height

he refuses to show off his arms ( make of this what you will )

it also has adhdtism ( plargos audhd4audhd and t4t is so real to me )

he wears rings and plays with them when anxious ! !

he knows asl :3

if it was human i imagine it' d be mixed ?

[thateclecticbitch]

Wait? Your partner uses they them pronouns, but you call them your boyfriend? What? Are you t4t?

Okay, gonna take these one at a time.

The Boyfriend is nonbinary and uses they/them pronouns, but I call them my boyfriend because that is the terminology they enjoy using.

We are boyfriends.

I mean, I'm t4t and gay. That doesn't mean cis people or women are outside of my dating pool, it just means my attractions double as a very accurate egg radar.

As for whether this specific relationship is t4t... I think so? Maybe? If it is, I should probably clarify that while we are both gender funky and experience queer attraction to men, it is not a transmasc4transmasc situation, if you catch my drift. I feel like we are AuDHD4AuDHD more than anything else to be honest. Just a couple o' nerds who's love language is parallel play and infodumping.

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 6 images in 3 pairs. each has one image of the listed trolls character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Branch, who also goes by Frond, from Trolls is an asocial, autistic, bugtistic, soft butch, butchfluid, bambisexual, genderanger, tritsi, melaconstrucovenic, demigrace, etolic, forowshroomcorian, forestcoric, dirtcoric, ambedoric, forestpunkaesic, eterniarbour, nofingender, bi hetero, masfluxiri, nonbinary transmasc boyflux, lunavir, cryptidmasc, bevultmushic, parasecosic, fogcancryptic, mushroomperspesque, sapphboy romeric, nerdlexic, invipaledot, sanvertalix, liminatal, invirevidot, invicoream, twipine, cinctaboy, invistairaqua, fingtiptapstimmic, dancestimmic, hypoergonic, valeogender, morsecolexic, boyfail, percifem(inine), malewife, introgender, masculenby, acontactant, genderskull, bi gay trans guy with alexthymia, GAD, PPD, and AVPD! Hx has a special interest in traps, safety procedures, engineering, Morse code, and technology, and 🍄 uses ze/zim, hx/hxm, thxy/thxm, pi/pin, dirt/dirts, hill/hills, lea/leaf, 🌿/🌿s,🪨/🪨s, 🍄/🍄s, 🌰/🌰s, ☁️/☁️s, and nameself pronouns!

Poppy is an ambiamorous thistle femme, boyfemme girlbutch, lulluna, starmusette, fantasizer system, funwordstimmic, audistimgender, affectionascriptic, believelexic, cuddlexic, dndperspesque, pinkbodiment, warmcoloren, cutebodiment, evildritchean, waterlilinvisia, femenergimasc, solaera, forowshroomcorian, glimragender, schooldoodlic, hopecoric, femmepresentic, invicatchalkic, inviridescence, marshmallexic, mellifluouslexic, meliorismlexic, discolexic, cuspfem, jerrian, nocismasexual, auralexesia, gendercheer, fatelexesia, songlexesia, cupiaflux, owndestinia, sillyaeangender, strawhiconfec, laughstimmic, gigglefemion, extrogender, gendercuddle, snuggtant, strawberrycakegender, confettiblood, transfem pan lesbian with ADHD and synesthesia! Pop uses shey/shem, sparkle/sparkles, neon/neons, sh☆/h☆r , fae/faer, pop/bop, mu/musi, lu/luck, ca/care, cotton/candy, choc/choco, 🎵/🎵s, 🌈/🌈s, 🎤/🎤s, 🍭/🍭s, 🎉/🎉s, 🌺/🌺s, and 🪷/🪷pronouns!

Both trolls are in a wavership!

Poppy is also dating Queen Barb, an autistic, amatopunk, butch boydyke, mascunec, posttransandromasc, motoreymasc, motoreycier, mascorette, afab transneumasc, lovebadsoloic, azur², azurgirlvir, queerperspesque, punkperspesque, minstraic, queerbian-oriented aroace, chompgender, audhd4audhd, anarchy dyke, velocimasc, veloest, voroxety, daebodiment, chaosfree, feralbodiment, pridemon, twimeljackalic, 7800fera, queerfuckoff, killercatic, voidpunk, flugenistatic, horrorgender, villainperspesque, rulerperspesque, gorecoric, apolladox, gnawstimmic, maulexic, autiquoiple, rockgender, daredevilexic, chaostix, grungerica, unholylexic, punkgender, chrysanthi, lunyxia, elixian, DieLoveMelinaic, trashpunkik, punkpresentic, punklexic, punkbodiment, ferucanic, airguitarstimmic, bangstimmic, chaoticrimegender edgeboy with low empathy, ADHD, NPD, and ASPD! Bite uses they/them, mu/mur, ve/vis, sie/hir, zhey/zhem, xy/xym, punk/punks, ri/riff, wra/wrath, bite/bites, 🎸/🎸s, ⚠️/⚠️s, 🚫/🚫s, 🖤/🖤s, 🕷/🕷s, and 🤘/🤘s pronouns!

[thuranni]

companion thoughts so far

harding: i like her. i’m not 100% sure why she’s here but

neve: 9/10 her va is doing great and i would bring her on missions more often if i were not a mage. still a bit thrown that her name is “nev” and not “neev” but okay

bellara: i like the direction she’s going in a lot, and the fact that she’s as awkward as she is is fairly endearing to me lmao. i also enjoy having a magitech rogue around. super cute but not quite getting my advances yet and that’s okay i’m goinggg to woo her. audhd4audhd

lucanis: g-d his va is doing well but something about him just makes me want to bully this man BADLY. he is also our only melee character so i am dragging him EVERYWHERE behind me and bellara. worst third wheel situation ever