#attraction flags

[cannifreak]

DECORA KEI 4 VISUAL KEI

- : a flag for people who are decora / like the decora style / like the aesthetic of the decora style and are attracted to people who are visual / like the visual style / like the aesthetic of the visual style . . . requested by anon !

- : flags and term(?) coined by me . . . give credit if reposted . . .

[candymogai]

The Candy Dealer opens its coat up . . .

Demi / AlterHuaman 4 Human ➿💫

When you are demihuman or alterhuman and are attracted exclusively or majorly to humans !! & Vice Versa 🚬✌

Can be romantic , platonic , sexual etc .

Sorry for inactivity !! Life is crazy y’know Σ(゜゜) ,, I've been quite busy with many things and have been very tired ,,

I apologize if the flag looks a little... off . ive been experimenting with flag templates :0)

i will need help with alt text due to low energy so if you could , thank you !

other flags ^^

The Candy Dealer hides in a fog of smoke . . . who knows when it will emerge again.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

can I put in a request for some flags for terms that I can’t because I’m not the best at making flags /srs

so here are my requests,

Roselia - Juxera orientation towards women.

Caelorum - Juxera orientation towards men.

Chromasia - Juxera orientation towards androgynes/daen and similar people.

Astraia - Juxera orientation towards neutrois and similar people.

Spectruma - Juxera orientation towards xenogender people.

Luminalis - Juxera orientation towards people whose genders are outherine in nature.

Polaris - Juxera orientation towards any or all genderqueer/nonbinary/elsegender/not binary people.

Harmonia - Juxera orientation towards other Juxera individuals.

Below are your flags in order:

I hope you like them! The orange tulip represents understanding and appreciation. 💙💚

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[grayblebayble]

Studios are so obsessed with trying to find the next cash cow that they will kill the calf before it's weaned from its mothers milk.

[spritzcoiner]

Airreur

A label that can be described as feeling like your relationships are inherently doomed because of the way you love. This could be caused by being unable to truly love, loving the wrong people, loving too much, or any other reason

Doesn't have to be romantic

[cozylittleartblog]

happy pride month. i did not make this up for th ememe

[woodbyne]

   ＠ Affection desperate

One who needs, yearns for, etcetera, the concept of affection / giving & receiving affection / adjacent.

Self indulgent, not requested.

[Plain text start: Affection desperate. One who needs, yearns for, etcetera, the concept of affection/giving and receiving affection/adjacent. Self indulgent, not requested .Plain text end]

[miyoshi81194]

I may hate everytime Eric (Frankenstein) pulls up on screen, but I have to say, him saying “she’s everyone’s type…and so are you 😭😭” truer words have never been spoken.

[buntress]

[No spoons for IDs, help appreciated]

❝ Cringic Attraction ❞

[PT :: Cringic Attraction]

Not to be confused with cringe attraction, Cringic Attraction is a form of tertiary attraction based on "cringe" itself. An attraction where one wishes to be cringe and free with the object of their affection (no matter what that affection may be), where one wants to do all the cringe shit they can't do around others with the one they hold dear. The attraction does not make one cringe, the attraction in itself is cringe. Examples Could Include :: - Making bright and colorful kandi friendship bracelets for your partner - Going on "cringe" dates such as going to build a bear, hot topic, etc - Oldschool scene // emo comics and memes about love // couples (ex :: rawr means ily in dinosaur) - Wearing "cringy" matching outfits with your partner - Partaking in "cringe" behavior with your partner - Being entirely, unabashedly yourself with the person you love.

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For @cocajimmycola's 1k Follower Event!! Day 3 :: cringe // love // contradictory (I kinda did the last one if u squint) Notes :: It is *checks clock* 7:30am as I schedule this. I hope my definition makes sense! I know me and one of my boyfriends def have a relationship built off being cringe as fuck together hehe <333

Archive Tagging :: @radiomogai @orientation-archive @tertiary-attraction-archive

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Taglist :: @genderdenied @mimiscoiningcafe @discrophy @horrgores @smilepilled

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Additional Tags :: @kiruliom @theflaggerrrr @rabidbatboy @blood-moon-night-coining @hundchentanque (hai babe i never tag u in these but hai hi haiii haiiii hai hi hai <33333)

[nichelink]

nichelink: a newly coined niche relationship/relationship dynamic that differs from social norms, but is consensual and aware of potential risks.

differ from the norm: this is flexible and vague on purpose. see the ‘examples’ section.

probably niche: niche, probably not many people will identify as this, it’s just now been invented and posted on tumblr dot com, but it’s still a valid want and identity label.

aware of potential risks: this is inspired by the kink phrase Risk-aware consensual kink or risk-accepted consensual kink (RACK), and it means that everyone in the relationship is silently nodding and acknowledging there might be risks. you don’t have to prove yourself to others on this, don’t feel expected to tell everyone your personal business on how you’re managing this risk, because it’s not their relationship…

consensual: this is inspired by the kink phrase Consensual non-consent. basically it means that everyone in the relationship agreed to have the relationship play out a certain way, and the relationship may play out (maybe in a sort of roleplay-like fashion) like it’s non consensual, but everyone in the relationship is both expecting this to happen and still has the ultimate say on if things need to 100% stop or if it’s time for them to leave the relationship.

newly coined: i want to make it clear that existing relationship dynamics shouldn’t be shoved into this label because that feels disrespectful to those existing words, so essentially this means that existing words for it didn’t 100% describe this dynamic, so you can’t just say xyz thing is actually this term. (however, if you find one of these describes something you've already been doing for years, it's perfectly fine to start identifying with this of course.)

examples:

relationship where one person is treated as if they are an object owned by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a deity, and the other/s in the relationship are their followers

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a pet owned by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a child adopted by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is transforming the other/s in the relationship into something

labels under this umbrella have a Ratings System.

All-Ages: a label that is suitable for all ages.

16+: a label that would be best if it was only used by people 16 years or older (bodily). this doesn’t mean that it’s NSFW or something, but should be used when the term has something pretty intense or serious about it which probably shouldn’t be practiced with younger people. all terms under this umbrella that involve identity modification or training are inherently 16+.

18+: a label that is inherently not suitable for people under 18 years (bodily).

grammar:

nichelinking: the state of being in this kind of relationship with someone else. “we’re nichelinking,” “we might start nichelinking”

nichelink: 1) the specific terms themself. “i coined a nichelink,” “definition: an all-ages nichelink where you…” 2) the relationship itself. “our nichelink,” “his last nichelink”

nichelinker: someone who participates in nichelinking.

there is currently no word for having a nichelink-related crush on someone, suggestions welcome.

inspirations

neurowiry

relationship anarchy

roleplay

found family tropes

desirdae

dissomei

my own personal experience of becoming someone’s “dad” - i made a friend in high school who i came out as transgender too, and then as a joke based on how people in the undertale fandom called toriel “mom,” we began referring to me as my friend’s “dad.” this joke stuck and then started genuinely being a serious part of our friendship. reflecting on this made me realize that there’s actually lots of relationships in life that’re similar, where you refer to each other as something unusual and it feels like it changes the entire status of your friendship. i liked the idea of making a word someone can use for this kind of friendship/relationship if they wanted.

i did a lot of writing about what this term means and can be used for and it ended up being long so you can read it on this page. (updated 1/10) here are some of the faq questions (but not all, so please read that page):

is this a k*nk thing?

no, it’s not intended to be. there are plenty of nichelink terms usable by anyone at any age. however if you’re an adult and you find a term appealing and start to use it because of k*nk things, more power to you, go right ahead.

is this anti r*dqueer?

i don’t find it makes sense to say that something that isn’t a stance term/blankqueer term is anti this or pro that. but this term was inspired by r*dqueer “consensual abuse” relationships, and i did start working on this because i saw that there were a lot of people who craved a specific relationship dynamic or way of being treated who felt like they couldn’t get that outside of the r*dqueer community, so i wanted to make a risk-aware and safer alternative that is not attached to a harmful community known for abuse, transphobia, racism, etc.

if you crave being treated a certain way, yes even in a “harmed” way, this term is welcome to you.

can i coin my own?

not yet. i’m still working out the kinks (🥁✨) on definitions and guidelines. i also have a big list of terms i’d like to coin for it. you can send me a request at least.

can i post this term on…

wiki/term definition sites: yes, and you don't have to ask, but i would like to be informed.

pinterest/other social medias: no, never, i'm not comfortable with someone else posting my term for me.

tags: @antiradqueerguy | @radiomogai | @the-silent-fellowship | @harmlesspersonalidentityarchive | @beyond-mogai-pride-flags | @desirdae-archive | @dissodic-archive | @kiruliom | @anti-rq-gumi | @antiradqueerguy | @neopronouns // ask to be untagged

general flag for all All-Ages nichelinks:

general flag for all 16+ rated nichelinks:

[uncanny-tranny]

Quick tip: If a trans passing guide is focused on thinness, whiteness, or getting rid of anything about yourself that is "too clockable" (regardless of if that thing about yourself makes you happy), maybe it isn't worth fretting about, since it is clearly coming from a homogenized idea of what passing looks like

[cannifreak]

CULT PARTY KEI 4 VISUAL KEI

- : a flag for people who are cult party / like the cult party style / like the aesthetic of the cult party style and are attracted to people who are visual / like the visual style / like the aesthetic of the visual style . . . requested by anon !

- : flags and term coined by me . . . give credit if reposted . . .

[missymogai]

— Queerbond / Queerbonded

A tertiary attraction label between two or more queer identifying individuals. Intended to be non-romantic, this label describes a relationship that is a more profound platonic, a destined connection, and is akin to soulmates.

🪽 For day four of @winecovered's 400+ event. Made specifically with @lil-sis in mind.

[abyssblooded]

⠀✦✧⠀Starbound ( partners/lovers/etc)

Starbound — A term for when you and your partner are bound, intertwined, or linked by the Stars / are Stars that are bound together / etc.

Inspired by Heartbound by @/winecovered.

⠀✦✧⠀Notes:

Image ID needed.

There is no wrong or right way to use this term. It is loosely defined.

Do not repost this anywhere without my permission.

Please tell me if this has already been coined or not.

[vocalux]

— cannuzic attraction

an attraction based on cannibalism , the desire to kidnap , murder , torture , imprison , abuse , manipulate , etc . the target of attraction ! symptoms are usually shyness around the target , racing heart , pupil dilation , thoughts related to cannibalism , torture and others !

something similar probably exists , i just wanted to create something specific for the world of my characters ( which im still creating , be it stories or everything lol ) !

[thecreepycrawlersss]

PLURAL TERM COINING POST FOR VALENTINES DAY !!

pluramour - a term used to describe a form of attraction towards a headmate / headmate's that cant be described using any other pre-existing attraction terms (like queerplatonic or alterous, for example)

pluramoured - a term used to describe being in a pluramour relationship with a headmate / headmate's.

plush - the pluramour equivalent of a crush

culeamour / pluramoursys - the pluramour equivalent of a polycule

this flag has two uses / definitions

amouro - a masculine term to describe a headmate you are pluramoured to.

amouronted / m&lm& - a mlm / masc4masc / gay / achillean / etc pluramour relationship

this flag has two uses / definitions

amoura - a feminine term to describe a headmate you are amouranted to.

amouranted / w&lw& - a wlw / fem4fem / sapphic / etc pluramour relationship

this flag has two uses / definitions

amoure - a neutral / androgynous / genderless term to describe a headmate you are amouranted to.

amourented - a nb4nb / neu4neu / enbian / diamoric / etc pluramour relationship

THIS TERM IS FOR ALL SYSTEMS OF ANY ORIGINS. THIS TERM IS INHERENTLY PRO-ENDO.