#at his father’s funeral
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her as a parent is so — it’s always on my brain because like the way she talks to her children is very ? she gives them the respect she would give an adult from a very early age. she encourages them to speak to her, to speak their mind without a filter attached to it so they can address it whether it is something they want to be allowed to do or something they want to talk about in general or something they need help doing. like they’re children, they’re going to make mistakes and have feelings and be unruly at times but if it’s something that can fixed ? If they get increasingly uncomfortable in a certain place at a certain event, and want to act out from that she’d much rather they tell her they’re uncomfortable or upset and they need to leave, so they can ? handle it. she doesn’t want them to feel like they need to act out to fix a fixable situation with an easy solution.
she expects them to expend the entirety of their effort when it comes to tasks, she expends them to at least try, but she doesn’t expect 100% success, because they’re at an age where mistakes should happen and should be encouraged so they don’t make them again when they matter as adults. she’s a very methodical instructor who took a direct hand when it came to their education as kids and into their teenage years; she would have been the one teaching high valyrian from an early age - not because they necessarily needed to know it to govern, but because it was apart of her culture that she was eager to share with them. she would’ve encouraged them to take up a hobby or something that had nothing to do with weapons training or with their future positions. they were sent to squire for six months on end at the ages of 12-13 — jacaerys in particular was sent to squire in the vale of arryn under her cousin the lady jeyne arryn ( no jace writer is obligated to adhere to this headcanon )
she’s also a very affectionate parent, very big on words of affirmation and on physical affection like she displays her pride and love and caring in very ? overt ways. when they have small little successes to the bigger ones she acknowledges them all. she gives them small tasks and gives them little rewards whenever it’s done correctly whether it be sweets or staying up that extra hour. or taking them out to the shoreline to play or taking them to aegon’s garden to decompress and to play along the rows of cranberry bushes and flowers. she’s kissing their heads and holding their hands and hugging them and promising them they did VERY well actually and that’s all that matters. correcting what they did wrong and showing how to do it correctly. she never really raises her voice at them and never really gets angry at them like it’s very ? she tells them what to do and she expects them to at least try and to come to her directly in regards to any issues they might have with it instead of disobeying her outright.
#like they LIVE on dragonstone and she allowed joff ( approx age two ) to bring his emotional support dragon across the seas to comfort him#at his father’s funeral#like it’s very ‘ you respect me telling you no and I’ll respect you having issues with whatever I say to do ‘ because like there’s always#going to be a good reason that she’s denying them like if it’s something that’s not big like going to the dragonmount or leaving an event#early or going to a fair in the city like if they’re at least behaving in their lessons sHES more then likely gonna say yes#like I’m never not thinking about her yelling the words ‘ my sweet’ re joffrey like she says it enough the words come through her lips#naturally in a panicked state#she also has called them more then once ‘ her strength and consolation ‘ out loud at court for it to have#been something she was known to say#she IS their staunchest defender and that ever constant figure and she will always prioritize them
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Valentinian & Valens
I’m mostly playing off of Subleyras‘ paintings featuring Valens and Theodosius for my own interpretations. part of me wants to put them through the forced twin-ification blender, since they already have the brother-father-maker dynamic down. what’s one more increasingly claustrophobic association in the name of themes and narratives!
⭐ places I’m at! bsky / pixiv / pillowfort /cohost / cara.app / tip jar!
#celebrated turning 29 the other day by drawing my man and his brother and combined they’re my url w/ saturated colors#my other favorite brother-father dynamic is Ascanio and Ludovico. I think those two are more claustrophobic than these guys#if I’m being honest. but I also read Brotherly Love and I’m like. yeah okay so ALL imperial families are insular to the point of#unavoidable textual weirdness. you’ll die and your absence will create terrible situations etc. ascension. wedding. funeral.#late Roman Empire tag#drawing tag
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This panel just hurt my feelings ? He just looks so tiny and alone !
Also, I am dying to know what he told both Kori and the Titans as a whole when he came back from seeing Bruce with another injury that wasn't there before on his body.
Let's be real,it's Dick so he probably didn't say anything but I wanted them to know so they could be angry on his behalf.... Because truly someone has to.
#dc#dc comics#dick grayson#nightwing#when your father doesn't tell you your brother is dead so doesn't wait for you to come to have a funeral and them blame you for his death#just a normal day being Dick Grayson I guess#¯\_(ツ)_/¯#koriand'r
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i am begging one single person in this entire show to consider, for perhaps one single second, THE POSSIBILITY THAT THERE IS A REASON HOUSE HATES HIS DAD THIS MUCH
#everyone is so dreadfully shocked and confused by him not wanting to go to his own father's funeral#but not no one makes any real effort to find out why#and that's not to say house would actually talk about it#(though tbh he might if someone asked in a genuinely nonjudgmental way. and he does tell wilson a couple of things.)#but either way it just feels like everyone is assuming#that house is just being an asshole for the sake of being an asshole#and it has occurred to no one that house's late father could possibly be at fault for his son not wanting to attend his funeral#i just. it would be nice if someone would consider the notion#that a person not wanting to be at their parent's funeral might have a valid reason for that#(like abuse. or something)#anyway this was a good episode#i'm always up for for daddy issues and hilson road trips#(i am considerably less up for forcing abuse survivors to honor their dead abusers)#house md#house season 5#house 5x4#op#john house
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I think one of the funniest framings of the first ep of blue exorcist is hypothetically Yukio and bon met cuz they originally shared a dorm only for Yukio to immediately leave and not return until a week later and now he's his teacher
#I'm fully assuming Yukio went home for his father's funeral prep cuz it would be weird if he didn't#It's actually really weird we don't see him the day of but the funeral had already ended when we see rin grieving so that's prolly why#I get its a narrative set up so we don't see Yukio since he left until he's revealed cuz rin is the protag but still#Anyway that was prolly really weird for bon especially cuz it's never mentioned#I'm also assuming the exwires didn't know Yukio would be teaching cuz it was a sudden change since Shiro was supposed to teach originally#I'm just now realizing this would stress me the fuck out#I cant believe rin went to school right after his father's funeral like take a week off or something#None of these notes are actually about this post#Take all of this as you will#blue exorcist#ao no exorcist#yukio okumura#ryuuji suguro
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having a segment of a coherent thought about the miss havishamification of artemis fowl
#like....yes. the obvious and intentional parallel is angeline#but artemis....artemis is the one who begins living in funeral wear as an expression of grief for a father who wasn't coming home.#he's stuck in this limbo of perma-childhood. forced into a horrible mocking parody of the of adult he was supposed to grow into#he wears nothing else. thinks of nothing else. CNN constantly blaring. surrounded by the old possessions of his father#yet he can never become him!!!! because he's a child.#& yet even when he DOES return artemis cannot leave this stasis. he never leaves his suits behind. colfer does not let him leave childhood#i lied. this was not coherent. society if i'd read enough theory to back this up#artemis fowl
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i feel like i just got so used to ciri and how natural ciri and geralt’s relationship left, via being introduced to the witcher via witcher 3, and then reading the middle of the saga before i finished the short stories…
that i never really innately picked up on the fact that ciri turning out to be geralt’s daughter and not his son was… uhm, part of the entire surprise, let’s put it that way :’)
geralt and ciri are just soooo natural as a father and daughter duo that i can’t imagine it any other way, if ciri had been a boy this would have been way less remarkable as a series, there would be no witcher series as we know it. so to me ciri being a girl was the normal and default, expected way things were supposed to go.
even when i read a question of price-sword of destiny-something more for the first times, i was like “ok” when ciri being a girl was a switch of expectations: geralt (and, supposedly, the reader) having expected pavetta to have a son. like… “alright, it’s a girl, so what.”
i had to be informed about how this was an intentional shock… not only because i’m not a parent, but i mean, well, ultrasounds get mixed up all the time, right… it’s not so uncommon to have a kid and be surprised by the gender…
and because of this, i was more inclined to eyeroll at blood of elves being preachy with going over ciri’s biological sex what seemed like ten million times in chapters two and three… what with the whole “daughter has her first period” subplot, ciri upset over her lack of potential strongmanship, and the witchers mostly relying on triss for guidance in raising a girl. the moral being both “just raise her like any other child” and “be sensitive to her needs that you’re blind to…”
although i still think these segments have visibly aged and date the series (not inherently a bad thing, just a quality of it)… they do make more sense when i try to empathize more with the perspective of a new father… who didn’t know he was receiving a girl… who thought she died… who only got her back through a miracle… and having to raise a girl… that’s not a young child anymore, not yet a teen, but is very shortly going to start going through puberty?! it’s like growing up in the desert, just learning what water is, and then getting thrown into the ocean.
because “having to raise a girl” still doesn’t seem that strange to me, but then i remember geralt didn’t see a woman and only had heard about them as a concept until he was an adult (because “warrior-monk” realness), he grew up with a hole in his heart that his absent mother bore, he lives in a highly gendered society, he experiences hostility from everybody of course but especially from women and girls, who take fright at him for… specific reasons explained by the old women in edge of the world…
no, geralt’s not helpless, but i forget, because he acts normal, but… (i mean, although he has issues, he could have really gone off his rocker with regards to women, a little sacrifice confirms this and vilgefortz embodies this) i forget that geralt’s inexperience with women… mostly manifesting in anxiety and both uncertain and impulsive behavior… like ghosting with a nosegay of flowers, the “dear friend” and all… would affect his view of the gender as a whole, including how he sees ciri. and it does.
in his situation, yes, having to raise a girl does intensify the element of “what the fuck am i doing”. especially as a single dad.
and although i do like it when the pov shifts from geralt in the saga but just to another person in the room, for how he becomes more of a distant and enigmatic figure, seeing him through others’ eyes always makes fills me with this uncertainty. buuuut, i would fucking adore blood of elves chapters two and three through geralt’s eyes just for how much of an emotional wreck he must have been… and trying not to show it to her :(
#i love geralt 😇 books geralt i will avenge you against the world !!!#the ‘something more’ = she really loved him because he was a good father and loved her — 🤷🏻♂️ i’ll lose my mind#actually straight up if ciri had been a boy then there would have been no saga#because the elder blood gene wouldn’t fucking reactivate if she was a boy#also not funny to imagine how much boy ciri would have resembled emhyr 💀#‘kaer morhen is a monastery with swords and herbs’ so often forgotten#i swear up and down that cdpr gwent stories are not canon… but#one of the good things was dandelion meeting geralt and immediately wondering when he had last fucked and if he had ever fucked#and he started thinking about this because geralt went 👁️👁️ at a waitress or innkeeper’s ample bosom#this is literally so in character for both of them i was surprised it was fanfiction#that and the structure of the story was really resonate with their characters#‘there is going to be a wedding’ ‘there is going to be a funeral’ they did a great job with that#it did feel like games characterization but overall high standards#day 1 meeting in posada dandelion asks geralt if he still has his balls or if they… as part of his training#not in a mean way but in a very casual tone resembling ‘so how’d you get into this line of work’ chat#the elbow-high diaries
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I just think people need the gentle reminder that while you may consider a celebrity a loved one, to them you are just someone who loves them. I’m sorry if that hurt your feelings✨
#and yes I’m looking at y’all who think you deserve an invite to Liam’s funeral because he’s special to you like y’all have to understand#a funeral is private for family and loved ones not for fans and we can mourn him and grieve him on our own not at the funeral with his#family who are trying to say goodbye to their son or brother or father or actual bestie#like i love y’all but sometimes I need yall to turn your big brains all the way on#celebrity culture#one direction#liam payne#my little lanky baby#my little irish marshmallow#harry styles#niall horan#louis tomlinson#zayn malik#parasocial relationships
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Thinking about how the entire reason Zane went along with Wu was to try to find out more about his past. Thinkinggg about how he reached his true potential after finding his father's workshop. A big chunk of his character arc in s2 focused on how badly having no family left affected him. Then he found out how father was alive and he was sooo happy... and then his father died. And then Zane died too.
#alek insanity#ninjago#zane julien#dr julien erasing zane's memories the first time he died and practically giving him a new life -> zane ending his own life once his father#died a second time is something that's in constant brain rotation. zane's sacrifice was an act of suicide#“oh. but he needed to defeat the overlord” he found an opportunity and took it. season 3 he was constantly putting himself in harms way#even though it was completely unnecessary. kinda crazy about none of the ninja knowing how fucked up he was about his dad's death#rewatching s2 like... damn zane doesnt make it another year ! and how these are the teams last interactions before everything falls apart#s3 had lloyd off doing his own thing. the love triangle threw a wrench in things. and then zane died and s4 is them picking up the pieces#guhh the period of time where zane really was dead and how messed up the ninja were. especially kai#“it shouldve been me” and it snowed at zanes funeral when kai gave the speech and he became an alchoholic#what the hell !!! whatttt the hell !!!#when zane sakd “IM GLAD YOU MADE ME” OHHH MY GOD OHHHHH MY GOD IM SICK#rant over
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You think Gabe was able to handle 2 years old David at David’s mom funeral? Because that’s literally all I keep thinking about for some reason 🥲
Taking this from experience I feel like he had to worry more abt the other members since David probably didnt even know what was going on, but imagine him raising him after that day alone😭 Gabe’s whole story is so sad to me😖
#My uncle died when I was like 4 or 5#and I was laughing at his funeral bc they had to cut off his legs to fit him in the open casket#I kept going ‘Mom they cut off his legs 😆😆😆!!!’#my mother was busy crying so I went to play in the corner with my cousins who just lost their father💀#redacted audio#redacted asmr#redactedverse#redacted david
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still not over how the way tom didn't go to logan's funeral because he was working was huge forshadowing for him becoming ceo. like roman cries and shows that he's actually human and boom. he's no longer in the running for the top job. but tom misses a funeral for work (something logan would absolutely do too), becoming the most inhumane of them all in that one moment, and it shows he can handle the job. he has basically become logan 2.0 with that decision and i think that's so wild
#this is in no way me calling tom inhuman in general i'm just saying#like that was his father-in-law and he didn't attened the funeral because he was working. he put work first#it's a HUGE parallel to logan missing connor's wedding#and in that moment that's when we see that tom can handle the pressures of this job. he can become the corporate shell of a man logan needed#idk i just have many thoughts still#succession#tom wambsgans#roman roy#logan roy
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#wang yibo#wyb#yibo#zhai zhiwei#love actually#in fact the context of this scene is very cute#zhai zhiwei grabs a katana after his father's funeral and goes to take revenge on the villain#and a friend knocks him out#after which he wakes up chained with toy handcuffs in the friends' kitchen
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'“Shame it’s not held there, actually,” Kakashi said. “A friend of mine used to say that playing chess in Moscow was like eating a home-cooked meal.”
Temari let out a sharp breath with her smile. “Asuma Sarutobi.”
“Yeah, that’s right, it, uhh…” Kakashi’s eyes narrowed, amazed. “Yeah, it was him — how do you know that?”
“Shikamaru Nara told me.”
The words fell easily from her mouth, almost proudly, and before she could fully acknowledge them, she saw Kakashi nod.
“Good kid,” he said, then shook his head and swung his bananas about his finger as he turned away. “Good man.”
Grandmaster on ao3 by @notquitejiraiya
Inspired by @backgroundcharacterno5 comic strip style! (and to @clumsydragon28 for helping me snoop out shikas hair time line 🤭)
#This scene really stayed with me (idk why out of all the other scenes)#Kakashi correcting himself and calling shika a man now that he was grown#And you certainly do after someone close to you passes away#kakashi has his green bananas and orange book 📙#Shika is comforting Kurenai at Asumas funeral#but hes too young to carry the coffin#and then later he carries his fathers coffin along with choji inoichi chozou#I used the national flowers of Sweden and Finland on top of the coffins#and shika is carrying his little orange walkman (although he probably wouldnt have had it here really)#short haired shika fresh from the army#MAKIING COMICS IS HARD#shikatema#grandmaster#naruto#nara shikamaru#notquitejiraiya#temari#i love gm shikatema so much#losing my mind week 11
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I have a slur to say (fags................)
#i love my 144p quality 5 pixel tall 3 pixel wide gay men#“It's good to see you too”#I HAAAVEEEE.... A SUGGESTION!!!!! Gay sex#They should fuck nasty#and also attempt to kill eachother#that would fix them i think#Why's Doug just..... standing like that.............#he looks like a poor little orphan who was abandoned at 2 months old in a cardboard box during a storm#he looks so polite what's wrong with him#Fit for arriving 30 minutes late to your boy best friend's father's funeral#to confess your love for him and then shit talk his father to hell (while still confessing your undying love for him)#and uh share a cigarette with him in the process too i guess#what is wrong with them like genuinely#guys i think they want eachother carnally#gruesome playground injuries#corey gpi#doug gpi
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Spoilers for the new digital circus episode
THE NEW EPISODE WAS SO GOOD OH MY GOD AAAAAAAA!!!!!!! They totally teased us with that Jax angst, but it was still amazing! They better bring back Gumigoo in a future adventure. Man did not deserve what happened to him. He had his entire reality crushed and just when things were going well for him again, he got deleted. And of course it was Pomni who had to get close to him. My poor girl just can't catch a break. ALSO, THEY HAD A FUNERAL FOR KAUFO. THEY HAVE FUNERALS. I AM NOT OKAY. THE ENDING WAS SO FUCKING SWEET MY GOD!!!! POMNI HAS FRIENDS NOW AAUGDKDVAJSG!!! All it took was for her to get trapped in a digital hell hole. Good for her! Also there's a Kinger plush. I must have it. I need to cuddle him.
#still got a little bit of Jax angst at the very least!#I saw his face when they were talking about the funeral he cares!#love idiot men that don't know how to deal with their emotions#Kinger has a father and daughter relatsonship with Ragatha and you cannot tell me otherwise#THAT SCENE THEY HAD ON TOP OF THE TRUCK WAS SO SWEET!!!!#this episode was just really sweet honestly#I swear I didn't intend that pun#Caine has absolutely no idea how much trauma he's causing these people and I fucking love it#he's so unhinged my god#I also love how the characters react in the worlds kinda show how different people play video games#there's the ones who treat the npcs as if they're actual people#and there's the ones who just want to cause chaos and bloodshed#and the ones in between either have no idea what they're doing or they're just goofing off#I love this show a lot can you tell#the amazing digital circus#tadc#tadc episode 2#spoilers#tadc spoilers
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BL ROYALTY SPOTTED AT GMMTV HEADQUARTERS
This may be their first public sighting together since Singto’s return! :’)
The way they walk when they’re side by side. :’)
The Kings of Couples have returned. :’)
#they were together at the funeral for off’s father as well but of course that’s different#i wasn’t emotionally prepared to wake up to this#i always believed they’d do another series together one day#but i never thought it would be with gmmtv once singto left#i admire him so much for coming back#just#damn man i missed him so much#i can’t wait for his appearance on armshare later today#KRISTSINGTO HAVE RETURNED :’)#kristsingto#krist perawat#singto prachaya
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