#as is sexuality

[fobnsfwdoodles]

Just wanted to say this blog is inspiring all the fics just thank you for your service and I hope more people pay you in the future! I'm glad you offer free requests for those who cant as well <3 but you deserve all the love and regonition!

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1. I love y'all's writing so so so much, if you ever write something based on one of my doodles let me know and I'll link it on the site so we can all enjoy together <3

2. True that I need money to be alive lol but apparently this blog has changed my demeanor so much that at yesterdays market someone asked me out of the blue if I do 18+ work haha so fingers crossed that I get commissions even if theyre not directly from here (but y'all are my fave commissions, shh don't tell anyone)

3. I grew up poor and in a lot of ways the internet was my only connection to the outside world. I am of the opinion that art should be by the people for the people and that exploration of sexuality, pleasure, joy, and community are the rights of every person. A lot of people don't talk about sexuality which leaves room for harm and confusion behind closed doors and also so much popular porn is studio made male gaze stuff that doesn't reflect a lot of people. So even though I joke about drawing little porn drawings for my friends here, y'all really are very important to me and this space is important to me. I'll do my best to keep it free, accessible, and shared because we all get something valuable out of destigmatizing sexuality and learning to find joy in this dang world together

[werecreature-addicted]

people are always like "Oh a vampire wouldn't get horny while drinking someone's blood, that's like getting horny while eating a sandwich" and like man have you never had a really good fucking sandwich?

[lgbtlunaverse]

The world exists in such a baffling state of simultaneous sex-aversion and sex-hegemony. Every social platform on the internet is trying to banish sex workers to the shadow realm but I can't post a tweet without at least two bots replying P U S S Y I N B I O. People are self-censoring sex to seggs and $3× but every other ad you see is still filled with half-naked women. Rightwingers want queer people arrested for so much as existing in the same postal code as a child and are also drumming up a moral panic about how teenage boys aren't getting laid enough. I feel like I'm losing my mind.

[frankierotwinkdeath]

Y’all want Taylor Swift to be gay so bad but you won’t even write femslash about her

[mickedy]

Since it's pride month I'm going to say. Can we stop making fun of adults who don't have sex. Not even particularly asexuals, just general people who don't like sex personally or don't want to have it for whatever reason. It's just not great to portray people who don't have sex as weird losers or naive little kids or whatever, even as a joke

[bogglle]

sea grunks bonding because I feel like the universe needs more of it

[bulldog-butch]

i’m gonna say something controversial yet brave: sexuality labels are a convenient tool we use to define something that is undefinable

[tactfullyinappropriate]

It's like we all collectively forgot as a society that friendship and just connection in general takes effort. Even if you meet someone you immediately click with, it takes hanging out about 20 times (!) to become friends. And guess what, some of those 20 meetings might be awkward or unimpressive.

We all want to reap the benefits (having a friend circle, having a partner, getting married) without doing the work (going to events, interacting with people, learning to handle conflict maturely, dating). Myself included. If I could, I'd never leave the house or go on another mediocre date again... except, that's part of the process.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, the cure to the loneliness epidemic is touching some grass and building tolerance for tedious in-person interactions.

[a-totally-reasonable-username]

I'm wishing a very Happy Pride Month to all the queer people who:

are disabled

are chronically ill

can't celebrate for health reasons

disability gets in the way of their gender representation

disability got in the way of a relationship

don't have anyone to celebrate with

have homophobic caretakers

Happy Pride Month to all disabled queer people

[powerupcomicstonight]

[haley-harrison]

Calypso: The stars are beautiful tonight.

Odysseus: You know who else is beautiful?

Calypso (blushing): Who?

Odysseus: Penelope.

[elrondhalfelven]

had the wildest interaction today some random woman called me a slag and my dog a fucking faggot because I was using a pink lead/harness and he’s a boy like what the fuck lmfaoo

[milomilesmib]

Quick reminder that you don't need a solid sexuality! You can just be in love! Or not be in love! Or have a gender! Labels are a choice, not a requirement. All you need to do is be someone you like being! If labels help with that, great! But they are not required. You don't owe it to anyone, so don't feel pressured to choose labels if they aren't your thing!

[buddieinmybeddie]

LGBTQ+ folk what was your gender/sexuality pipeline?