#as if they are both equally valid?
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I have personally been falsely accused of rape by a woman before. I have also been raped before... Please, Guess which one was worse. Guess which thing I think about every fucking day of my life. Guess which was more mentally, physically, and psychologically scarring- being falsely accused of rape or being raped. GUESS.
#ps She broke down and admitted that she lied for attention in front of everyone when she was confronted (like most false accusers do)#i have heard a million men say “your biggest fear is rape? well mine is being falsely accused”#as if they are both equally valid?#this is my fucking response#false rape accusations are very rare but when they do happen they almost never reach court or have real consequence.#false accusations are not a societal problem#but rape is#.#1%>#vs#50%<#as a man you are 250 times more likely to be raped than to be falsely accused of rape.#its funny because i almost never bring up that one time i was falsely accused of rape.. because it was so forgettable and i got over it.#yet males are CONSTANTLY bringing up this “fear” of being falsely accused even though they have had no experience with it#it proves to me that they are not actually afraid#they just use this “false accusations” rhetoric as a means to silence SA victims. thats all#feminism#feminist#womanism#womanist#female hysteria#feminist discourse#girl blogger#vagina dentata#false accusations#mra#meninist#mens rights#misandry#feminazi
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No hold on I'm gonna make an extra post about this:
I wouldn't choose to be alloromantic
If I were given the choice to either remain aro or become alloro again, I would choose aromanticism.
And I think a lot of people need to hear that.
#aro#aromantic#actually aromantic#safeforaro#alloromantics are encouraged to reblog this#aros aren't the only ones who need to hear that our orientation isn't a consolation prize#too many ppl - both aro-specs and alloros - think that being aro is okay only bc it's not something we choose#with the implicit belief that if we COULD choose then OF COURSE we'd choose to be alloro#bc it's clearly the 'superior' option#and honestly? it's not.#they're equally valid options and which one is 'superior' depends entirely on your own needs and preferences#and my preference is *being aro*#so if you're aro and you feel like yeah sure it's OKAY that you're aro bc you DIDN'T choose this#but if you could you WOULD choose to be alloro?#well maybe being alloro really would be better for you. or maybe it's just internalized amatonormativity.#and I cannot answer for you which one it is - the only one who can is you#all I can do is raise you the OPTION that it might be amatonormativity and then leave you to consider it#so this is for the aros who need to hear that option#and for the alloros who pity us for supposedly getting the short end of the stick#we are not a tragedy
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Everyone always talks about autistic people who hate being touched, but where's the representation for sensory seeking autistics who love hugs and would be cuddling with someone 24/7 if they could????
#both are equally valid!!!#my brother and i are on both autistic and are opposites#he can only tolerate high fives or fist bumps#meanwhile i hug everyone near me & need as much physical contact as possible#autism#actually autistic
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I came out of No Straight Roads shipping May and Zuke a little but this is absolutely their ship dynamic to me.
#No Straight Roads#Mayzuke#shitpost#nsr mayday#nsr zuke#Honestly they're one of those pairs where both romantic and platonic interpretations are equally valid#In the end they are a set do not separate#OTP: Bunkbed Lovers
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difference between hilson and huddy is that in s8e8 house hands wilson a gun telling him that it’s fake and that wilson should shoot him to prove it but. it isn’t fake. house just knew wilson would never do that. he trusted him with his life. cuddy would have shot him
#and she would’ve been right for it#both equally as valid#two sides of a coin#house md#hilson#huddy#+
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Sweet and salty is my favourite flavour 🍭 🧂
#jamie campbell bower#jamie bower#henry creel#both are tweets are equally valid#and appreciated#elon musk#twitter#jcb#he's a real one
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Bangel/Dangel + Parallels
#btvsedit#atsedit#buffy the vampire slayer#bangel#bangelus#buffy x angel#dangel#angel x darla#zanisummers#dailybtvs#dailyats#*gif#parallels#the two most important women in Angel's existence#the only two valid Angel ships#sorry I don't make the rules#the one that makes him better#the one that makes him worst#both equally epic in opposite but similar ways
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I absolutely love pedro’s line delivery of “you have no idea what loss is.”
it’s a line that’s always stuck with me just because of how joel made a blanket attempt to invalidate ellie as that was how he would shield himself from relatability and shedding sympathy. but it’s also the cadence, the tone of his voice that has me bouncing off the walls. I remember when this was the only footage of joel from the show we had and people were quick to say “ugh he doesn’t say it with the same emotion.” but that’s the point! he’s consciously restraining himself from showing obvious emotion. just mere seconds ago he was visibly vulnerable with ellie. and then there was the sarah name drop. and his whole face shifted. the wall was back up. he rebuilt the barriers like The Contractor™️ he is and reacquired this deadpan demeanor because he couldn’t allow his vulnerability to seep through. the topic of his daughter was too sensitive. it adds such a specific weight to the line, by making it almost “robotic.” because in his mind he had to be. regression was a survival instinct. knowing just how delicate joel in the show is reinforces the notion that countering vulnerability through fabricated numbness is his go to. what a brilliant take from pedro
#and both line delievries are equally valid#with game joel it was ‘this kid is poking the bear I have to expression my anger by the very THOUGHT she understands what I’ve gone through#with show joel it was ‘i cant show that this is getting to me I have to make this sound like an emotionales objective statement’#mmmm so good#the last of us#the last of us hbo#tlou spoilers#joel miller#pedro pascal#ellie williams#bella ramsey
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ok, you were introduced into the fandom via ghost, same, but was it because you liked that he was hot or because you liked that he looked sad in the same way you're sad...
very important question
#both are EQUALLY VALID BTW !!#im just curious#the real winners are those who found him sad the same way theyre sad and thought he was even hotter bc of it </3#his eyes are the window to the soul yes not just his but mine too </3#like wow we are kindred spirits or something (he would hate me irl)#simon ghost riley#cod ghost#cod#call of duty#my ramblings
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I think that what I’ve discovered, the error of my ways, if you will, is underestimating how outnumbered I am as a person who is already the constantly-warm human space heater in his relationship. I think the desire for someone who is big and will keep you warm is something I am fundamentally lacking in this hypothetical Wolf vs Aax scenario and you know what, I’ll live with that. That’s on me that’s personal taste.
I’ll stand by that you can’t discount the “Aax is always cold” as a reason he’s not as attractive because you know what, maybe that is attractive. Maybe I want my cuddles to be like built like a PC hydro cooling system so I don’t overheat at night.
I understand the Wolf love, absolutely, I’m not disagreeing, he’s not an incorrect answer. He’s just not the only answer.
There’s no “right answer” here gang there’s no winning the argument of personal taste-
#god I did not expect this bit to become such a full blown debate omg-#guys it was a joke I promise both boyfriends are equally valid#I just think Aax is better in the specific zombie situation#fable smp#fablesmp#fable smp aax#wolf fable smp
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Okay- the community has spoken that Trans Telemachus is very much being supported here and a fun possible head cannon for a lot of people
But the question is, is Telemachus Trans fem or Trans masc??
(I’ve seen a lot of votes for Trans masc and Odysseus fucking up the sirens for misgendering his son. But I’ve also seen arguments for Trans fem Telemachus as when Odysseus comes home, she comes out to her dad)
#This is all silly#Not an actual competition#Just being a little silly billy#epic the musical#telemachus epic the musical#trans telemachus real??#trans telemachus#God damn it now I want to write a fanfic of trans fem Telemachus coming out to Odysseus-#I want people to fight on this#Be oh so serious#Defend your answer to the death#But also we are all very supportive here#And we all love and support Tele and the trans community either way :)#Neither trans fem nor trans masc is better#we love and support them equally#And they’re both just as valid all the same#This is all just for shits and giggles
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gee, i can't wait for the backlash over michaela being a woman to die down so we can then get into the real fun stuff: intracommunity discourse over what francesca's sexuality is!
#so nobody misinterprets i am being sarcastic 💔#i'm already seeing of the beginnings of it and i can only imagine it'll get worse with her season#the real issue that's not an issue is that both interpretations are equally valid and supported by canon which i enjoy personally#but other people are. not pleased. and inevitably it will turn into rampant lesbophobia and biphobia#“don't erase her love with john” vs. “her love with john was platonic” i can see it already and i do Not want to be there#as a lesbian i would love for her to be a lesbian bc rep of comphet and deep platonic love are like unheard of but i would also love for he#to be bi because i love john as a character and i love their relationship and i feel like people will devalue it if it is solely platonic#francesca bridgerton#john stirling#michaela stirling#bridgerton#bridgerton spoilers#franchaela#francesca x john
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I hate the term Milkvan. It's stupid, childish, and petty. I don't ship Mileven, and I'm not telling anyone to either. . .do people not get that this is El and Mike's FIRST relationship? It's not perfect, of course it isn't and of course, I don't think they're going to last forever. They're young, they're experiencing romantic feelings for the first time while also dealing with pretty heavy shit. . .and I'm telling you now that if it had been Will instead of El, they would probably be having the same problems because Mike Wheeler doesn't know how to deal with his feelings properly especially with all the trauma he's experienced. Bylers have way more shippers. They're probably going to win, so instead of raining on Milevens' hope for the couple, why not just leave them alone? Why not focus on your ship and leave them to wish that these two can make it work? All you have to do is look at the numbers, Byler has more people on here, and Milevens don't. I don't know who started this discourse, and frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. I want to fucking end it. Just ignore Milevens, Milevens ignore Bylers and just have FUN with your ships. Enjoy the fact that we can make fanart and fanfiction over other people's work. Friendly reminder that one day, the Duffers might decide to wake up and realize that all that they profit from this might not be enough, that they don't want people rewriting what they wrote. They have the power and the right to sue sites like this. I sometimes forget about that, and I have to remember just how lucky we are that they get something out of us doing all of this. . . If you still want to bitch about Mileven *sigh* I can't stop you but can we at least quit it with Milkvan? It's the stupidest fucking thing I have ever heard.
#stranger things#el hopper#will byers#mike wheeler#byler#mileven#i don't have anything against either ship#they're both equally valid to me#i just don't ship them#anti toxic fandom#anti discourse
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THE BOYZ Roar Relay Dance
#the boyz#tbz#tbzinc#kpopco#malegroupsnet#kflops#dailybg#*mywork#useroro#rosieblr#higabi#madstual#lunanuggets#wabisarah#i combined both endings bc they were equally cute so forgive the many gifs#my friend could not stop commenting on snagy's behaviour and honestly valid
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ice and his obnoxious ass academy ring are my fav part of TG 86'
does your mav have any thoughts ab his husband wearing that damn ring
he’s probably still a little bitter about it but it’s not like ice SHOULDNT be proud of going to the USNA or anything so what is he gonna do, ask him to take it off??
i have this image ive yet to incorporate into any of my writing where ice spends his whole life with the USNA ring on the fourth finger of his right hand & feels a little imbalanced. something’s missing. & then he marries maverick, and he has the wedding ring on the fourth finger of his left hand, and finally he is complete. he has both. he is both a great officer and someone capable of love. neither side is subservient to the other anymore. they coexist in harmony at the end of the day. and of course that’s something maverick would respect.
oh shit brb adding that image to my slider one-shot rn
#ty for the ask <3#it’s equality!!!!#i don’t personally put any importance on ices naval career…boo it makes him unhappy…#but he still takes immense pride in it!!!!!#he can be proud of both!!!!!!!! and he should!!!!!#at least in his universe#tom iceman kazansky#pete maverick mitchell#icemav#ornamentation#probably my most obvious hc ever is that ice is fucking awful with money#maverick helps him solve his credit card debt in the 90s and that’s how they fall in love for real#ice (broke; 22) shelling out $150 for his stupid ring: this is a good financial decision bc it validates my masculinity#👍#actually i just googled it and i thought they were a lot more than 150 tbh#my HIGH SCHOOL class rings were >$300 LMFAO imagine#but that joke was a lot funnier in my head when ice’s class ring was more than 150#i spent 150 on a piece of the f-14 they used to film tgm like that’s…fine.#by class ring standards#so nvm
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Aegon wasn't a rapist in Fire and Blood. Stupid producer/writer Sarah Hess only made Aegon so vile on the show because her woke feminist ideal of having Rhaenerya girl boss be a "saint" and be so pristine so that viewers had to like Rhaenerya instead of having actual fleshed out characters on both sides for the show.
Aegon's predatory behavior toward serving girls is straight from the book. As for the intent in the show's portrayal, Sara Hess and Clare Kilner have both spoken about believing Aegon to still be deserving of sympathy despite being a rapist; Sara Hess even more disturbingly talks about "upstanding men" who've committed sexual assault without having knowing it and tries to paint Aegon as not knowing what he was doing. So I'm not sure where you came up with this idea that Aegon was only portrayed as a rapist to push an agenda, but it's certainly not anything from the writers themselves. It seems like you're just upset that the Greens, despite their whitewashing, are being portrayed as the antagonists that they are. The Greens usurped Rhaenrya for being a woman. The writers can add more depth to their characters and give them other motivations, but there's only so much that can do when that's the main point of the entire show. It's not very surprising that the majority of the audience is aware of that and sides with Rhaenrya because of it.
#ask#anon#anti team green#team black#Rhaenrya is the protagonist and the Greens are her antagonists I'm not sure why that's so hard to grasp for some people#spare me from people who think nuance means that both sides have to have an equally valid point#no one told you to stan the Greens and have a compulsive need to ride a moral high horse come to terms with it or switch sides idk#/the writers are biased towards team Black/ no your faves are just shitty people
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