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Amatonormativity is OUT queerplatonic relationships are IN
#aroace positivity#aspec positivity#amatonormativity#queer platonic#queer platonic love#queerplatonic relationship#queerplatonic#qpr positivity#aspec culture#aromantic culture#ace culture#actually aroace#aroace pride#aroacespec#oriented aroace#ace aro#aroace thoughts#aroace stuff#aroace story#aroace#aro ace#juliet's mind throws up stories��️
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An asexual/aroace vampire that's used to the victims thinking they're incredibly lustful and find another victim who is "probably into them"
The Aroace victim who just really loves vampires.
#vampire#asexual vampire#aroace vampire#aroace victim who is just very fascinated by vampires#bonus if the victim treats it like they're a detective and has multiple research on vampires#maybe they act like that one character type where a character is very adamant on aliens existing#they become best friends#:3#MAYBE I'll draw it#y'know how you draw dynamics with the silly little guys#asexual#asexual story#aroace#aroace story#dynamics#story ideas#asexual spectrum
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Soulmates are inherently amatonormative and it's so wild how many people refuse to acknowledge that and instead go around trying to "make it more inclusive" which mostly just leads to then forcing aspec characters into a amatonormative narrative.
#text#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aroace#amatonormativity#soulmates#soulmate aus#Like no allowing QPRs into ur soulmates stories does not fix the core issue#you just put QPRs into a amatonormative role that the story relies upon#no saying friends can be your soulmate isn't inclusive it's still putting aspecs into an amatonormative structure#Soulmates at their very core are inherently amatonormative. they do not work if they aren't#you trying to force aspecs into the mold of soulmates will never fix the main issue.#it's not that there are no aspec characters in soulmate content its that the world around soulmates is inherently against aspecs in general#it's not that Aspecs don't show up. it's the fact the universe itself is inherently hostile to the idea of aspec people#it's the fact that the reason aspecs dont show up is because it goes against what the soulmates trope dictates to be true#the soulmate trope erases us from existence completely. because no matter what we will never fit into it's ideal narrative.
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"No, I know they would be [supportive]! Honestly, I... I just can't be bothered to give everyone a vocab lesson" IS SO FUCKING REAL AAAHSJAHJHJHISJHJHK
#ALICE OSEMAN I MISSED YOUR STORIES#my posts#heartstopper#heartstopper liveblogging#heartstopper show#heartstopper tv show#heartstopper s3#isaac henderson#aromantic#aro#asexual#ace#aroace#aroace rep#aroace characters#aroace experiences
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I'm gonna write a story about an asexual vampire who just steps right into the sun because they can't eat garlic bread anymore.
#tumblr#yes#memes#lol#wtf#dank memes#humour#funny#shitpost#shitposting#asexual#ace#funny stories#funny story#writing memes#writer#vampires#vampire#vampire story#writeblr#writing community#aspec#aroace#aromantic
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an aro-ace's love letter to love.
(the title "Laozi's bowl" is in reference to the famous quote by Chinese philosopher Laozi who said "It is the empty space which makes the bowl useful.")
#it can be lonely sometimes being aroace. but ive somehow made a career out of writing romance stories#ive made peace with myself#and what my identity likely means for my future#im fine with it but i cant help poke fun at the irony#to be a hopeless romantic and also aroace is a fun cocktail#aromantic#asexual#stillindigo art
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I'm writing a vampire LGBTQ+ story for the gays!
Any vampire obsessed LGBTQ+ people out there? I don't want to date i just want to talk at length about vampires being gay coded and have goth friends
#lgbtq#queer#vampire#vampire goth#goth#gay vampires#vampire story#gay story#lgbt story#writblr#vampirism#writing#the gays are at it again#vampires are gay#aroace#aroace story#want to connect to like-minded people#lgbtqia#lgbt pride
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🦋not the only story🦋
#lgbtqia#artists on tumblr#digital art#aromantic#aromanticism#aroace#aspec#illustration#romance is not the only story#reading#books#bookshop#asexual#asexuality
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A princess runs away from an arranged marriage. Her knight follows her.
The kingdom thinks they’re in love with each other. They’re not.
The knight is aroace and takes his job very seriously. The princess is in love with the farmer’s daughter. The knight and princess are best friends.
The knight plays wingman for the princess. The farmer’s daughter falls in love with the princess.
#story#original story#story prompt#princess#knight#lesbian#aromantic#aroace#asexual#love story#story ideas#book idea#fantasy#shitpost#random#king#queen#short story#writing prompt#prompt#gay pride
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Not me writing an actual I Can't Fucking Stand You to QPR
#that's so aspec of me#long live aspecs relationships#fuck amatonormativity#aroacespec#aroace positivity#actually aroace#asexual aromantic#aromantic asexual#arospec#aro spectrum#aro spec#aroace stuff#aroace story#aroace things#ace aro#aro ace#aroace#queerplatonic relationship#qpr positivity#queerplatonic#queerplatonic attraction#queer platonic love#queer platonic#queerplatonic story#juliet's mind throws up stories™️
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Romance vs Platonic
I understand Tori in the way she sees romantic relationships. How everyone craves it, desires it, they throw themselves head first into it and when it backfires they don't care they still stay in those relationships even if it hurts friends doing so is frustrating and stupid and you can hardly understand why people would do that just to have a partner when they already have friends. I understand the confusion when it comes to wanting to be held to want to hold someone's hand but also feel confusion when people talk about their dates and it just sounds like they and their partner went and hung out like friends do. There's this thing about romantic relationships that are so confusing because they are so CLOSE to platonic friendship relationships the differences? you kiss? you have sex? No, because asexuals exist and some don't want sex but are still in romantic relationships. SO WHY THE FUCK IS EVERYONE SO HELLBENT ON A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP IN THEIR LIVES?! For your brother to ask if you and your guy friend are together all because you hang out and he makes you happy? Isn't that something friends do? How do you know what makes a romantic relationship? How can you know when you're in one. Whats the difference?
#heartstopper netflix#heartstopper comics#heartstopper#tori spring#tori and michael#victoria spring#charlie spring#this winter#solitaire#solitaire alice oseman#alice oseman#oseman tag#osemanverse#asexual#aromantic spectrum#aroace#confused#love#this is not a love story#i haven't posted in a while
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enough stories about how someone learns to truely be happy through love. i want a story where someone is desperately seeking out love thinking it's the only way to be happy only for them to learn by the end that happiness is what they make of it and they don't need love at all to make it.
#aro#aromantic#ace#asexual#aroace#loveless aro#loveless#non-partnering#nonpartnering#non partnering#nonamorous#aplatonic#enough of amatonormative tropes in media!!! enough 'you're miserable without love' stories!!!#less “you're too focused on ambitions to make you happy that you dont let yourself fall in love”#more “you're too focused on finding love to make you happy that you wont let yourself live”#more “there is so much more to life than love and so much more that can bring your happiness if you just let yourself experience it.”#maybe I should write this story#and when i say love i mean all love. not just romantic love.#which is why i tagged aplatonic too#while i mostly see this trope in terms of romantic love i think there's something to be said about#telling stories where people are perfectly content alone too#it doesn't have to be sad or pathetic to not have friends by choice. they dont have to be a miserable person to not have friends#i think we need more variety in stories where it shows people just content in their lack of love or relationships in all shapes#not everyone wants a family not everyone wants friends not everyone wants a partner not everyone wants love#some of us are content without. that should be explored without the need to fix it.
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Parents: When are you going to start giving me grandchildren?
Me, an asexual:
#asexual#ace#aroace#asexual memes#ace memes#ace humor#memes#if you ever want to know what it's like to be me#story of my life
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In Stars And Time? More like In Ace And Gender
+ some alts
#in stars and time#isat#siffrin#josh art tag#happy pride yall!#getting to play as a nonbinary protag who is also ace was just so so cool#im hoping to draw the main 6 with their flags for pride#cuz this game and its lgbt-ness makes me so happy and its awesome that its canon!#i also really love the varied relevancy of the lgbt themes#cuz its certainly not the plot of the story#but some characters lgbt-ness is quite important to their backstory or their current struggles!#while for others its just kinda there!!#and i think thats great#its a good reflection of real life and how different people have different experiences being lgbt and how it affects their lives differently#and works well with the story#it doesnt get in the way at all while still being important to the characters#and it even fits into the worldbuilding so well????#truly if there were no mentions of the Gender Themes i think the worldbuilding wouldnt have been quite as good#mirabelle specifically really gets to me...#prolly cuz im. yknow. aroace too#but seeing how she felt she was betraying her religion? how she fept she needed to change to fit other peoples expectations?#and how earlier in the game she does actually say breaking traditions is also a part of the change belief#but she doesnt realize that can extend to her#it all hits really hard for me
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i think part of the reason that aromantic awareness is lagging so far behind that of asexuality is that romance is viewed as straight-up ubiquitous, whereas sexuality is thought of as a choice people make. (e.g. purity culture & making the choice Not to have sex; dating as a given while hooking up is notable)
hence, asexuality may be misconstrued as synonymous with celibacy, but aromanticism isn't (can't be) construed as anything because nobody can conceptualize its existence at all. a fish doesnt even know it's wet...
#aromantic#aro#even when you say something like ''i don't ever want to date''#or ''romance isnt my thing'' or ''i've never really been interested in people that way''#people think of you as a straight single person. or gay if you 'look queer'#bc aromanticism is a 'lack' of something theres no way to positively prove it#in peoples' heads#also annoying when trying to do aro-coded characters in your stories thatll actually get read as aro#o.#aroallo#non sam aro#<- not directly related but i think this post is more relevant to them than to the aroaces
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lemme try this again
Hey Tumblr! I'm writing a book. It's 102k words (and counting) of pure queer fantasy and a year's worth of emotions.
It's about a queer kid finding community and support, and then stepping up to defend the people they love. And it's about falling in love and finding yourself, and it's about trust, and connection, and responsibility, and trying to do good in the world. It is also about gay.
Blurb thing:
Destiny has always been alone, self-isolating so that no one will find out about her magic, the same power that she watched a little girl dragged away for nine years ago. Then she meets Vida, a beautiful fae whose kiss sparks something inside her, and Destiny chooses to follow her.
She's not expecting Vida's family to be a werewolf pack. Or that they'll be so welcoming— she was told werewolves are monsters, after all. She's definitely not expecting them to become her own family.
But when Destiny begins to change, it's the wolves who accept him for who he is. And it's the wolves who are the first to see Destiny's magic and swear to protect them, no matter what. And it's up to Destiny to decide what that looks like.
Even if it means changing the world.
(yes the pronoun shifts in the almost-last paragraph were intentional)
And now a quote:
“Don’t you ever want to do something you’re not supposed to? Love the wrong way, be the wrong person, want the wrong things?”
If this sounds like your cup of tea, rb and let me know! I'm not sure when I'll start posting it, there's still a few edits I need to get done, but encouragement will definitely make that happen sooner~
#my writing#shadow and light#writers on tumblr#queer writers#queer#queer community#sapphic#trans#transgender#nonbinary#enby#queer fantasy#uhhh and considering that im aroace attempting to write allo characters there's definitely undertones of aro in the romance#which is honestly a bit weird to think about but it's accurate#aro writer#ace writer#romance#sapphic romance#i dont understand how genre romance writers do it; writing a romantic plot is hard enough when it's not the main story#indie author#nonbinary writer#writeblr#debut novel#first novel#fantasy#trans fantasy#gay#fantasy novel#high fantasy#holy shit so many tags 😅 can u tell im excited about my gay little story
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