#dynamics

[ooctlt]

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[ihavenoideawhatimdoingheree]

There’s something terribly endearing about mildly afraid Daniel

Tumblr wouldn’t allow me to post more than one vid so enjoy this shitty complication I made

[forbescaroline]

dynamics i've been wanting to gif: spencer & alison - pretty little liars I’m coming with you. I don’t really care that you’re pissed at us, okay? I care that you’re safe.

[birdaquiver]

we love a "shut up" / "make me" but consider: "start talking" / "make me"

as in like. proud character who refuses to talk about how they feel about the other because it's mortifying & makes them feel awfully exposed & everything they say are lies or half veiled truths or crafty clever words designed to circumvent honesty and it's so damn annoying that the other character finally snaps and forces them to start talking properly, pushes them until they cant think of any more schemes or poetic sardonicism or conniving comments to evade the truth, strips them of their mask to leave their vulnerabilities bare and bleeding & now all they can do is spill their thoughts & emotions out & spell out desire with unlacquered transparency

[witchesroad]

JOSH, BETH AND HANNAH WASHINGTON FROM UNTIL DAWN (2015)

how does it feel? do you enjoy feeling terrorized? humiliated? i mean, panicked? all those emotions that my sisters got to feel once one year ago! only guess what? they didn't get to laugh it off! no! nope! no no no! they're gone!

[maxmcyfield]

ROSÉ & EVAN MOCK in toxic till the end music video (dir. ramez silyan)

[kaz-identified]

Big fan of the specific dynamic of Sacrifical Platonic devotion. Of course I love you. Of course I would die for you. Of course I would kill for you. Of course I will stand by your side as the stars burn out and the worlds crumble to ashes. Of course I will be with you even when you stray. Of course I will hold you close as it all burns down. Because what else would I do? You’re my friend. I’ll burn it all down if it means you stay warm.

[myfandomrealitea]

top/bottom discourse in the Genshin fandom is annoying

hear me out, I don’t have anything against people who like one fixed dynamic only. Unless they go out of their way to harass other fixed/switch dynamic shippers

and that’s exactly what happened to a zine artist. The zine is for profit, also still in the making but they announced a guest artist who doesn’t care about strict dynamics, they occasionally lean towards the other dynamic (let’s call it vanilla) but would draw the fixed dynamic (chocolate) for this zine

people who wanted chocolate only were angry about the fact that an artist who leans more to vanilla was invited for a chocolate zine. They called it “false advertising” and “being lied to” and “how can we make sure this person will only draw chocolate?!” and “how dare you invite a VANILLA artist for CHOCOLATE!”

the harassment was so bad that the artist deactivated their twitter and I’m really sad to hear that. What more, there were Chinese fixed shipper in the comments who insulted the zine mods and artist, making comments like “it looks you slept with each other” or “if you don’t get why were complaining, you’re stupid!”

and I’m just like… this is no big deal.

This zine is not out yet. No one lost money, no one was hurt by “false advertising”. The zine mods protect the artist and said switch shippers are welcome as long as they draw the fixed dynamic the mods decided on, which the artist will do or would have done. If you don’t like the product, you don’t have to buy it! It makes me sad that something so little exploded into something so big

Unfortunately this isn't just a Genshin issue. Fans are fucking rabid about top/bottom discourse and it usually boils down to some kind of heteronormative-vaguely-sexist flavor.

You see it most often in ships which have very obvious dynamic and personality differences. The "little sunshine one" is always the super feminine uwu bottom. The tallest one is always the top, though some people like to add a little spice by making them a submissive top.

And don't get me wrong—I'm not immune. I have the odd pairing where I'm more fixated on a set sexual dynamic, but I'm a switch shipper through and through. And I'd certainly never try to dictate that my preferences in fanon are the universal rule.

In all honesty, I'd have cancelled the zine. People need to learn that actions have consequences. If you want the fun fandom thing, you have to be respectful. Too many people have caved to fandom pressure and harassment and just aided in educating people that being cunts effectively gets them what they want. People need to learn there are consequences to ruining it for everyone else.

(Because lets be honest, you are going to be nobody's favorite person if everyone knows you're the reason they lost out on something.)

[packing-it-up]

Lovers, friends and other dynamics:

Carina & Maya - Station 19 (2018- )

[ooctlt]

nona, what are your thoughts on the gang?

[ihavenoideawhatimdoingheree]

Just a good boy getting his pats

[forbescaroline]

dynamics i've been wanting to gif: mabel & honoria - the buccaneers I know you and I won't get any of this. We won't get any of their world. Not really. Not in a way we deserve, but perhaps if we could be brave, we can make our own world. And maybe... maybe it'll be better.