#are you a narc…?

[ruvonix]

are

insert shudder

would you draw house of card emmet or ingo mpreg, those tags were suspicious slash lighthearted slash lightheaded slash jay

Whattttt? I would nEVER.

[drill-bits]

From a @/spoon888 fanfic “The Doctor Is In” that I’m a little bit obsessed with

[equalperson]

I find it so ironic how many stereotypes about narcissists aren't just inaccurate, but are actually the complete opposite of how the average narcissist thinks.

"narcissism is excessive self-love" when most narcissists feel shame more easily than non-narcs do.

"narcissists don't work hard" when most narcissists are prone to perfectionism.

"narcissists are abusers who only pretend to be victims" when most narcissists were abused in childhood and are often on the receiving end of abusive relationships in adulthood.

"narcissists don't try to fit in" when most narcissists are constantly watching for signs of respect or criticism, constantly adjusting our behavior so those around us will see us as competent and pleasant.

and then when you describe what narcissism is actually like, they insist that a narcissist would never act like that, that anyone who fits that description must just have post-traumatic stress or one of the "good" PDs (if they believe there are good ones, that is).

[autopsyfreak]

Homicidal Ideation

homicidal ideation is the term for having active thoughts about murdering others. these thoughts can be intrusive, however they can also often be voluntary.

misconceptions:

‘people who have these thoughts either have killed someone or will kill someone in the future’ - this is false. most people who have these thoughts usually have disordered behaviours (most commonly as a result of personality disorders) and struggle to find healthy ways to cope with their emotions, therefore provocation and stress can easily cause thoughts of inflicting harm onto others. this doesn’t inherently mean these people are dangerous, nor does it mean that they’re going to act upon these thoughts. most people who experience homicidal ideation never act on it and use it more as a way to process their distress/frustration internally.

‘having these thoughts about people in your life means you can’t possibly care for them’ - also false. caring for someone doesn’t make them an exception to mental illness and it doesn’t stop your mental illnesses from existing. to think that someone’s love for you is only valid as long as they’re not displaying traits of mental illness is unfair and is hugely misinformed. to love and be loved by someone who is mentally ill is to accept that they will display symptoms of their mental illness. you are not the exception and they do not love you any less by showing traits of being unwell.

‘so you endorse murder’ - no. that’s not at all what this means and if you seriously think this then your grasp of severe mental health issues is too limited to be commenting on such topics.

‘you’re evil’ - for being unwell? don’t be a cunt. if you seriously think that having a disordered manner of processing emotions internally makes someone ‘evil’ then that sounds more like an issue with you being too sensitive and having a lack of understanding, not an issue with the mentally ill person experiencing these thoughts. don’t make your inability to understand mental illness into someone else’s problem.

as someone who does experience homicidal ideation, it’s also important to not make the mistake of assuming everyone who is mentally ill experiences these thoughts either. i had an anonymous ask earlier today that directly associated the fact i’m mentally unwell with murder and homicidal thoughts, to immediately make this assumption just because someone is mentally ill is disgusting.

[sashayed]

so glad i was born just under the wire in time to use a rotary telephone in my house because now i have those visceral sense memories and i can run them in my head instead of going insane from my stupid job. someone is saying meaningless corporate nonsense to me and outside i'm going :)) mm-hmm but in my head i'm dialing my mommy's office. ffft clicliclick. ffffffft clicliclicliclicliclick

[witch-of-the-creek]

Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead

[frothingbeerbottles]

As a borderline, I love narcissists so much and cannot understand why some people are like “bpd is the result of narcissists/narcissistic abuse” when the term narcissistic abuse was coined by an israel defence solider, who yes, did have npd, but he also blamed his narcissistic tendencies for three counts of securities fraud. He also believes that narcissists “cannot be healed, because they do not exist as real persons, only as reflections” and exist as a false self instead of that just being them or having these be adaptions for survival in stressful situations, all of his takes on narcissists are self-cop outs to demonise other narcissists and make him unaccountable for his actions. And you guys fell for it hard because you didn’t even know that it was made by a narcissist or even the integral history behind it like you guys seem to do with EVERYOTHER thing.

I LOVE it when narcissists are high and low, i LOVE it when they devalue people because they’re being unreasonable or ableist assholes, or even just because they’re being grating and purposefully ignorant and no one wants to say anything. You guys who hate on narcs for being disordered, ESPECIALLY if you have bpd, are just assholes, point blanc. All you want to make a group of people who are already hated on and targeted specifically because they are not your idea of perfect victims which makes you look more victimised in comparison.

TL;DR: you guys fell hard for the term “narcissistic abuse”, clung to it like a baby sloth and didn’t even know the history behind it or that it was made by a narcissist, and you guys definitely don’t know or care what being a narcissist entails or how it forms in people so maybe think twice before you flap your lips and speak up on shit you’re clearly uneducated on. Don’t throw your narcissistic siblings under the bus to get validation from neurotypicals who wouldn’t spit on either of you if you were on fire.

[rodenticidez]

"Empaths" will preach 'treat others how you wanna be treated' then abuse a narcissist for no reason.

[koroart]

Alright, no more joy — time for feels ( WIP )

[aspd-confessions]

It's so weird that you people keep pushing Carnis into the box of "abuser" and me into the box of "victim in need of help" despite us having the same Cluster B disorders. It's almost like you guys can't accept that a masc and femme person can be in a relationship without it being heteronormative. It's almost like you guys can't separate the idea of femininity from the trope of a princess in need of saving. It's almost like being a supporter for the marginalized is worth nothing but clicks. It's almost like you guys aren't as concerned about women, the mentally ill, abuse victims, and queer people as you claim to be.

Imagine that.

@npd-confessions

[fansblogs]

ok fuck it i’m maintagging this,,, everybody look at him. look at how sweet he is. if you hate him you will die and go to hell

[solitaryschizoid]

Why is it so hard for neurotypicals to understand that it's not safe to be formally diagnosed with a personality disorder when they literally paint us as abusers and evil monsters at every possible chance they get?

[theshorekeepers]

Nothing pisses me off as much as "narc abuse." btw.

[autopsyfreak]

empaths will say ‘narcissists are evil’ but then go and write a tutorial on ways to psychologically abuse us.

go figure.

[fireflyapocalypse]

Since there's XFC where X is basically Colonel Sanders, does that mean that they made a dating sim of him too?

[pycth]

BvZ OC

“Bandit” is not his real name, of course, but an alias he chooses to go by.

He ran away to Springrock from New Tennessee after essentially escaping near death and losing his twin sister. Humbled by the aid of the passive doctor who found him and treated his wounds, he strived to find a new purpose and live as to not let his efforts go to waste.

Bandit is known to be a charismatic man by those familiar with him. He displays himself with an empathetic demeanor not commonly found in most bounty hunters, wanting those he surrounds himself with to feel as though they are safe in his presence—he uses this underestimation to his advantage in combat.

His words and mannerisms are meant to be playful. His kindness genuine to those deserving, his trust is not so easily given despite how open he likes to be meeting new people. Except when it comes to his past, he tends to be vague on details even with his friends.

Abilities—

Bandit’s strength weighs on being as traceur with light feet, giving him the advantage of moving around quietly and swiftly without being traced.

The scythe he wields can retract into a handheld compact for easy travel. He took it from one of his first bounties as a souvenir, but it took him long than expected to actually understand what it could even do. It has the ability to send high voltage electrical shocks that cause paralyzation and slice through certain metals with enough energy usage.

(BONUS)

Voice claim time :)