#anti yumejoshi

[brandokisser]

(☆) Colorful pastel "this user's selfship is _4_!" userboxes.

Free to use, no credit required, but reblogs to show usage would be appreciated!

[joestarkisser]

Friendly reminder that profic folk MADE selfship spaces! These spaces were made for us by us! Antis are unfortunately infesting every corner of the internet if you speak English, but even though they're trying to push us out of our spaces, the fact is antis can't selfship like we do!

No matter how hard antis try to force us out of what we made, not only were we here first, but we're the only ones who can make any use of these spaces at all!

[mettatonfangirl]

＊ hi, i am charlotte, or you can call me vanny. i am a bunny and a real life nymphet. i like to draw.

＊ im a Mettaton fangirl. i am actually his #1 fan, i’ve been in love with him since i was a child. he watched over me since then. i post about him & my yumeship nonstop because he is my boyfriend. i am really really crazy for him. ♥︎

＊ i would like to be friends with other Mettaton fan(girls) ! but if you claim to love him more than me then it is best not to come near me, as, no one loves him more than i do.

＊ i am fine with any friends as long as your nice and 18+ im multifandom and like a lot of things besides undertale im just really obsessed with Mettaton. i like fnaf, steven universe, mlp, gravity falls, south park, hazbin/helluva boss, and deltarune.

＊ my blog is a safe space for all things fiction. i post both sfw & nsfw things. keep in mind i am mentally a child and i draw to cope with my trauma. i am not responsible for you being triggered by my content. i did not ask to be violated for years as a teenager.

warnings for: l0lita, sh, s3xual themes, abuse, and alot of worshipping.

＊ please be kind to me, i am very friendly! thank you and have a wonderful day. ໒꒰ྀི › ⸝⸝ ก꒱ྀི১

[hazysurrealist]

it's my birthday and all my f/os kissed me in the lips life is great

[teutonophile]

Look what I got in the mail today! Now I can sleep on it :3 heh

[yume-natsume]

Best thing about the Yumejoshi community is that everyone is SO FREAKING NICE. Like, you can say you selfship with a wall and everyone would still be super kind about it!!! I love y'all

[kanaehokariswife]

Here's some of my Kanae commissions I've gotten over the years, including two dakimakura, a small bean plush, and many art commissions! Some I can't share here due to Tumblr's rules but rest assured they're steamy hot.

[brandokisser]

(☆) (More) Colorful pastel "this user's selfship is _4_!" userboxes.

pt. one

Free to use, no credit required, but reblogs to show usage would be appreciated!

[joestarkisser]

Being obsessed with that color because of your F/O, buying and hoarding things with the color because you look at it and it fills your mind with them.

[p1nkfern]

me and pookie !!!11!!1??1?1?? (a bit rushed but its okay)

[schizofrenelle]

﹉﹉﹉﹉﹉﹉﹉ ୨ᰔ୧ ﹉﹉﹉﹉﹉﹉﹉﹉

• hello !!!! my name is vanessa ( or nene , or ness ﾉ nessa , or vanny ), she ﾉ any ♀ and i am a 15 year old living in the usa :D i am a liberian-american 🇱🇷 and kru lorma ♡.

• i l♡ve eddsworld , homestuck , nature , drawing , philosophy , cute things , fictional boys and gals , guns , and much much much more you will see on my neneblr !!!! :B 🌱👧🏿

my ideologies on fiction are based on my personal experiences and psychological research and information I've done and gathered during the time i've coped with fiction.

im a unbashed supporter of artistic expression , if you disagree with what i believe or it upsets or triggers you, for your own safety move along and have a wonderful day. (purposefully exposing yourself to things that upset you IS a form of mental harm :×).

• if you want to learn even MORE about me, i suggest going to my strawpage !

all my art is free to share with credit 🫀

instagram :: oniusparacosm

newgrounds :: yumekru

cara :: yumekru

[dentalself]

❥ bonsoir! what sort of content would my mutuals/followers like to see from the justice’s cherié? imagines, reblog games, etc?

❥ any mutual is also free to ask for my discord!

[kanaehokariswife]

Introducing: me and my wife, Kanae Hokari

I've not really tried to actively put myself out there in the self-ship community much before, but I think this might be a fun way to do so. I adore CLOCKUP's game euphoria to pieces and Kanae Hokari even moreso. I'm 100% proship and kindly ask please don't interact with me if you're an anti or believe that enjoying taboo fiction = real life interests. I'm too old for that shit. 18+ only please, I'm in my mid/almost late 20s.

Anyways! I met Kanae back in March 2012 right after a pretty traumatic incident and watching the freshly-released episode 2 of the OVA. In April, I played the source material, the wonderful eroge made by CLOCKUP. The storyline was fascinating, the characters intensely endearing in their own ways, but more than anything... by the end of it, I realized I truly fell in love with Kanae. I could dive into so many reasons why, but to be honest many are spoilers and my brain can only put out "hehe love my wiiiiife" at the moment. I'll write followups as to why I love her sometime!

This blog will contain spoilers for CLOCKUP's eroge euphoria, but I will be tagging them accordingly. Still, you may see them should you choose to interact here. Nice to meet you all in the self-shipping community! I hope to make friends who understand what it's like to love a character to such a deep extent. I'm okay with doubles and such, so no worries on that front!

[newtsselfships]

Selfship Glossary

Notes: Many of these terms can be written with or without spaces and with varying punctuation and capitalisation. I write the same terms multiple ways in this glossary.

Some of these terms have very similar definitions and can therefore be used interchangeably.

Bolded terms have a definition listed.

Anti / Anti-Ship

Those against the problematic things that pro-shippers accept. (Adult/minor ships, incest, abuse, etc.)

Anti-Anti

Those against antis

Used by those who classify as ‘Pro-Ship’ but desire to avoid the negative associations of the term.

Comfort Character / CC

A character that brings one comfort; pretty self-explanatory

You sometimes see this term being used in the same way as 'F/O' on here.

It's worth noting that TikTok has a comfort character community which I would consider to be it's version of our selfship community. It has a strong focus on reality shifting.

Com-Ship

Short for ‘Complicated Ship’.

Used by those who classify as ‘Pro-Ship’ but desire to avoid the negative associations of the term.

Fictional Other / F/O

A play on significant other

A fictional character that you consider yourself to be in a relationship with. The most common kinds are romantic, platonic and familial.

Ficto / Fictoromantic / Fictosexual

Labels mainly used by those who are attracted exclusively to fictional characters, although it's worth noting that these exist on a spectrum.

Husbando

From the Japanese pronunciation of the English word 'husband'

The lesser seen male version of 'Waifu'

Pro-Fic / Pro-Fiction

The same as pro-ship but referring to people's works (writing, art, etc.) rather than shipping specifically.

Pro-ship / Pro-shipping / Pro-shippers

A term much larger than just this community. It can be summarised as believing that any ship is valid, including problematic ships such as adult/minor ships and incest.

Within the context of this community, these are people who selfship with minors (as an adult) or people who condone this.

Some people who don't personally selfship with minors but condone this may refer to themselves as 'neutral' but this is technically inaccurate.

Safeship / Safeshipping

A category of selfshipping specifically separate from pro-shipping, used by those who wish to avoid proshippers.

@ssslep and @pizzacrustdisposal both individually provided me with the post where this term was coined

Self-Insert / S/I

A general term used for an original character created to be represent the creator. These are inserted into fictional stories.

In the context of this community, this character is a vessel to interact with one's F/O

Self-ship

A ship between one and a character they like

Self-shipping

Shipping oneself with a fictional character

Significant Other / S/O

A general term; self-explanatory

This is only on here to mention that this is what those in the waifuism community commonly refer to characters as.

Waifu

From the Japanese pronunciation of the English word 'wife'

Another term used for characters in the waifuism community, as well as communities focused around pieces of Japanese media

Generally used for female characters

Within the community it can be used in a gender-neutral way, but 'husbando' is also used for male characters

Waifuism

Reddit's version of the selfship community on here.

The main subreddit is r/Waifuism but there are others for those who dislike r/Waifuism's strict rules, such as its rule on monogamy, which disallows people from having multiple waifus or a real life partner.

Yume / Yumejoshi / Yumedanshi

Yumejoshi is a Japanese term meaning 'dream girl' or 'dreaming girl'

It is a Japanese subculture with many similarities and overlaps with the selfshipping community

At a basic level, it is a person who enjoys imagining themselves with a fictional character but it has its own complexities.

@saveourship sent me this twitter thread going into more detail

Thanks so much to the people who provided me with resources for this post!

Note: If you found this post through a reblog this post may not be fully up-to-date.

(here’s a link to the original if, like me, you can never get to original posts on tumblr for some reason)

[handlebarbs-helmet]

MY INTRO!

꒰ intro post ꒱ | ꒰ my tags ꒱ | ꒰ tier list ꒱

୨୧ ︵ ﹫Basic info

HIII my name is Julia Gabriella but you can call me Gabi!! Other names are Natsume or Kokomi :3

Click here to see my fandoms!

My comfort characters are Handlebarb, Dillard, Sparkle Cadet & Toman 🫶🏽 (click here to see the list with all my comfort characters)

I'm from Brazil 🇧🇷💚

୨୧ ︵ ﹫Extra

I'm addicted to this fanart an unhealthy amount

CEO of Toman's House AKA best episode ever AKA I'm obsessed with this episode AKA I even made a whole Instagram highlight about it! AKA I care about it enough to rant about it

I'm literally Sparkle Cadet irl. I'm her. She's me.

I'm a Yumejoshi / Selfshipper daydreamer! (which means, antis DNI)

I'm an artist!!

☆ last update : july 15th, 2024

[joestarkisser]

By the way, selfshippers with "unattractive" noses - your F/Os think your nose is adorable!!

Your nose is beautiful how it is! Be it Roman, Greek, bulbous, fleshy, funnel, aquiline, etc! Not every nose is a conventionally attractive button nose, and that's beautiful!

Your F/O likes how your nose's bridge feels when they kiss it, they like how it frames your face, they like how it perhaps speaks so strongly of your ancestry, they like how you look with it. And they don't think you need to change at all.