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floating way up high 🎈🌈
(my first traditional watercolor painting since i was a child!)
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Mouse nesting instinct has got to go wild
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you need to ask yourself why you assume i'm a cis man because i said i'm a male lesbian. you need to ask yourself why you assume every other male lesbian is a cis, het man because they say they're a male lesbian. you need to assess why you jumped to that conclusion - and then you need to assess why you think it's a threat, or a danger. you need to assess why you think male lesbians are a threat to you. you need to assess why a cis, het male lesbian would actually, in the real world, somehow, in some capacity, be a threat to you. you need to question why someone else identifying as a lesbian is somehow a threat to you.
you need to also consider that not all men are cisgender. you need to ask yourself why you assume all men are cis. you need to ask yourself why you think someone who started in the lesbian community can somehow "invade" it. you need to consider that trans men and mascs generally start in the lesbian community and therefore can't "invade" a place they've already been in forever, as long as the community has existed. there's a lot you need to unpack when you hear about male lesbianism. i understand this much. but it's not logical to catastrophize and jump to the worst possible conclusion when you encounter something new and unfamiliar to you.
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The author's poorly disguised fetish
The author's proudly displayed fetish
The author's fetish you're pretty sure they don't realise they have
The author's fetish which they're firmly convinced everyone has and is just pretending otherwise
The author's non-sexual special interest which just sounds like a fetish because of their habitually unfortunate phrasing
The fetish the author is making a well-meaning effort to cater to in spite of clearly not understanding it themselves
The author's fetish that never quite makes it into the text because they keep getting sidetracked by the requisite worldbuilding
The author's utterly pedestrian sexual preference which the text treats like a bizarre fetish because they've got shit to work through
The author's seemingly innocuous recurring trope they're going to have a personal revelation about ten years down the road
The author's fetish you missed on a first reading because it's so far out of pocket, it never occurred to you that you could sexualise that
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western twitter himejoshi will complain on and on about the ao3 stats on f/f ships but not write any femslash themselves and also not read fanfiction at all because they think ao3 is too problematic
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western twitter himejoshi will complain on and on about the ao3 stats on f/f ships but not write any femslash themselves and also not read fanfiction at all because they think ao3 is too problematic
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I wish death upon no one….except myself
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Shut your stupid ass up or I’m going to draw you as a closed species furry and sell you
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pro-abortion. pro-divorce. i believe we have the god-given right to give up
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i dont like the idea that kids these days are doing their fandom rps with ai chatbots. that's how you're supposed to make lifelong friends as a weird really online teen.
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Lets talk about how easy it is to abuse a narcissist.
Someone who's sense of worth is so fragile and dependant on the external is incredibly easy to manipulate and have power over. Someone who experiences being wrong as a threat to their entire being is less willing to admit they are being abused and leave. DARVOing is so much easier when society has decided your victim is the monster and inherently abusive themselves. The reactions of a narcissist to being abused can be of the kind that makes it easy to be labelled as "mutually abusive" (which is a myth, by the way, it is self defense)
There is no reason to think "mentally ill people are more likely to be abused than abuse others)" does not also apply to narcissists.
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I hate when people say they think the intersex flag is ugly. Like. I’m going to bite you I’m sorry it’s not, it has amazing symbolism and is basically spot on when it comes to what makes a good flag design. The design is simple and easily recognizable, it’s visually distinct from most other pride flags while still being relatively cohesive with the way a lot of pride flags are designed, and also. The SYMBOLISM. Purple. An in-between of pink and blue. Yellow. Also a colour free from a lot of gendered associations. And the circle. The CIRCLE!!!! Wholeness and completeness and unbrokenness!!!!!!!!!!!! The intersex pride flag is beautiful and I refuse to budge on that
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Fine, okay, look, you've been a perfect little pet for mommy. That's what you wanted to hear right? That you've been a perfect pet? Well you've left a lot to be desired as a fucking roommate. Mommy's getting tired of picking up the slack with the chores we were supposed to split evenly. Good girls do what they're told, right? How about this: good girls pick up the beer cans they left on the coffee table. Good girls refill the dishwasher before they get high and destroy a pot of ramen on the stove. Can good girls refill the fucking ice tray? Please? Come the fuck on stop humping my leg for one second
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