#Proselfship

[yumesei]

If you're prone to anxiety, imagine your f/o coming to hug you, whispering that everything will be fine as they press a gentle kiss to your temple.

You know that they aren't lying, they'd never let anything happen to you. The comfort of their presence calming down the erratic beating of your heart. You're safe, you can breath again.

[ofironandivory]

Something incredibly beautiful that the proselfship community has taught me is that there's always someone out there willing to love somebody!

Every fictional character, no matter their appearance, personality, morality or plot relevance, is someone's favorite and just thinking about them brightens up their day

And I know for a fact that your F/O feels the exact same way about you

Every insecurity or "flaw" that you find within yourself is just another reason for them to adore you, like each detail was sculpted and placed to create everything that their heart has ever desired

And this isn't strictly tied to romantic feelings either! All your F/Os love you for who you are, as you are. Yesterday, today and tomorrow, the person that you are blossoming into will always be their favorite version of yourself

Your romantic F/Os couldn't dream of a more perfect partner, you are everything they've ever yearned for and craved

Your familial F/Os are so proud to have you as a member of their family, every single achievement of yours is something to be celebrated and cherished by them

Your platonic F/Os are thankful to have a friend like you, sometimes they feel like you're the only person who really gets them, like you've known each other for many lifetimes

Your pet F/Os are overjoyed to have an owner like you, they know that things can be rough but they'll always appreciate your kindness, patience and care

Your F/Os love you just as much as you love them! You've met for a reason and even if you can't figure out what brought you together, you deserve to allow yourself to be loved

[claysgf]

hey, are you having a bad day? think of your f/o giving you words of reassurance, soft kisses on your lips, and letting you sit on their lap.

there you go, you won't have a bad day anymore :)

[milopi]

❥ imagine your f/o with one-sided feelings for you watching you laugh at something they said or did. they wish they could be the one that puts that smile on your face every day. they look at you with longing, maybe make a brief comment about how bright or pretty your smile is, then keep hanging out with you like their heart didn't just melt

[sttalker]

selfshippers in toxic relationship with your f/o(s), i love you

selfshippers who abuse their f/o(s), i love you

selfshippers who get abused by their f/o(s), i love you

selfshippers in one sided relationships with their f/o(s), i love you

selfshippers who are obsessed with their f/o(s), i love you

selfshipper whose f/o(s) are obsessed with them, i love you

i love you ! ! ! stay awesome ٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و ♡ ໒꒱

[baakamachu]

Shoutout to those who selfship who miss their f/o's even if they aren't real </3

Shoutout to those that want to feel their f/o's warmth but never will </33

Your f/o's would miss you too if the roles were reversed <3 they would have the same passion for you that you have for them. I know this to be true. <33

[alpha-leoniis]

sometimes, selfshipping is about the little things. like brewing a specific blend of tea because I know she loves it and that'd make her happy

[adolescenceknight]

i hope i am not only a mutual to you but also someone you can point at a fictional character and go "oh shit that guy on tumblr is super fucking mentally unwell about that one" about

[yumesei]

Shoutout to all of us who didn't choose our f/o. The kind of f/o that called out to us, pulling us towards them, as if they're the one who chose us.

That was fate. Yes, you're that fictional character's soulmate.

[dearestdrearilygirl]

"ugh proshippers and antishippers are both sooo immature like shipping discourse is sooo stupid like i'm neitherrrr like why would you even want to engage with that"

I've seen antishippers unironically say and agree with eachother on the following opinions: being a proshipper means people should be allowed to bully you. proshippers make them believe in eugenics. proshippers all belong in jail. being a proshipper means people can send you death and rape threats because "you deserve it". being a proshipper should be basis for taking away someone's human rights or at least put them on a watchlist.

I'm not a proshipper because i care too much about fictional ships, I'm a proshipper because antishippers sent my friends threats for liking certain ships. I'm a proshipper because i believe i shouldn't have my human rights taken away or be bullied or in jail just for liking a fucking ship. If you believe ship discourse is stupid and immature, then you probably believe people shouldn't be thrown in jail for it.

[asses-to-ashes]

Writing stories where a character thrives in an environment that hurt you is a textbook definition of healthy coping actually

[engiewife]

Selfshippers when they see the worst fictional character ever:

[muttship]

selfship affirmations:

i CAN put them in the mincrowave

i CAN put them in the blender

i CAN put them in the salad tosser

i CAN put them in my mouth and chew them up

i CAN shake them around like a dog toy

i CAN throw them at the wall like a ball

[cozmo-system]

imagine being so disconnected from reality you directly compare a sex trafficker to fan writers and artists, go rip off a toenail

[proselfship-boy]

I've said it before and I'll say it again:

Antis who demand to know someone's trauma remind me of age regression haters who demand proof that a regressor does it for trauma reasons and not icky yucky secret kink reasons.

You don't care about victims, you care about your own moral crusade.