#proselfship imagine

[us-angels-together]

Shoutout to Selfshippers who....

want to talk about their fictional others but also feel embarrassed about doing so

want to talk about their fictional others but feel too protective about them and want to keep them completely to yourselves

hide the fact they selfship

religiously read x reader fanfiction

have told people they selfship and were made fun of or were unsupported

have lost track of how many fictional others they have

feel guilty about having multiple fictional others

have only one fictional other

have only just recently started selfshipping

have been selfshipping for years

You are all amazing, keep doing what you're doing! Keep having fun with your selfshipping. Keep doing it!

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[crowsdove]

Your f/o(s) would never judge or shame or bully or infantilize you because of your triggers, no matter what they are. No matter if they don't have a problem with the thing themselves, no matter how silly or weird the thing may seem. No matter what.

They will always be more than happy to help you avoid your triggers whenever they show up because they love you, and your safety and your comfort are what matters most to them. They will immediately do whatever calms you down, be it distracting you in some way, getting you to another area away from the trigger, or anything else that helps you.

Even if it happens in the middle of a movie (even if they were super invested in watching it), they'd immediately turn it off. They would never treat you like an inconvenience or a burden. They just want you to be okay and be happy. They'd even check on that trigger website (if it covers yours) before you watch something together because they want to be extra sure that it'll be safe for you.

If you suddenly encounter something that triggers you when you're playing a video game, after calming you down your f/o would figure out how to get past it for you so you don't have to deal with it any more and so you can still play the rest of the game if you wanted to (unless it stays like that of course).

Your f/o has the utmost respect for you and it really shows in their care for you. And if anybody ever mistreats you because of your triggers? Even if your f/o isn't the confrontational type, you better believe that they're standing up for you. There's no way they're letting anybody upset you further, no matter who it is doing it. They will always have your back.

Your f/o loves and respects you more than anything. Even if it feels like nobody else does, your f/o always will.

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> antis please dni <

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[quillandink333]

If you and your dominant f/o are into intense degrading roleplay, imagine the two of you having a non verbal signal that they give you to let you know they still love and care about you. For example maybe they’re objectifying you in this roleplay, calling you their toy and saying you were made to be used by them, but to keep you from getting too immersed in their words, they gently pinch the shell of your ear or smth distinct like that, which is them silently reminding you that they don’t really mean it and that they still cherish you for the wonderful being you are

[thepitycryingparty]

Imagine your parental f/o sneaking into your bed late at night.

-antis dni-

[huntinglove]

Imagine your chubby/fat F/O...

💙 Petting your hair while you lay your head on their thighs. They couldn't get themselves to admit it, but feeling your cheeks nuzzling their skin makes their heart race! Having you place kisses over their thighs makes them blush like nothing else can!

🕯️ Sharing their shirts and hoodies with you! Maybe you wear a similar size and the clothes wrap around you comfortably and warmly. Maybe you wear smaller sizes and the fabric wraps around you like a blanket full of love.

💙 Needing some reminders to eat! You make sure to keep an eye on them so they're not making themselves overly self conscious about their eating habits. If you cook for them, they're more than happy to try it out and tell you about everything they loved about the dish!

🕯️ Feeling confident about their body whenever they're around you! The way your eyes shine with love and appreciation for every single aspect about them makes that adoration seep into them as well. They'll always be grateful to have your love and affection!

💙 Losing their composure and turning into a blushing mess when you kiss, hold or rub their belly! Your lips and hands feel wonderfully comforting and being so close to you is all they could ever dream of!

[doesdarlingexe]

! op is proship and dx'd para !

Para S/I x F/O imagines

! pro contact dni !

🍷 Telling your fluffy f/o that you think you're a paraphile. Maybe they comfort you by telling you that it's alright. Are they one too? Either way, they reassure you over and over that they love you for you, and not for what you're not. Does this include kisses, cuddles? Or do they take you to dinner or somewhere else special to show you that nothing has changed?

🥩 How about your clueless F/O? Looking at you with an astounded expression, or maybe a bit of disgust, but you're their partner, and they do love you, so they listen as you explain what it is properly without the mix-ups. They're understanding, and are happy that you're so comfortable that you feel okay telling them. They love you for you.

🍷 What about a more hateful one? Your abusive F/O takes the knowledge and runs with it. They understand what it is fully, maybe it even starts with one of the first two, but they don't let you live it down. During arguments they mock you for it, calling you disgusting and perverted, or maybe they say that your attraction to that para makes them feel unwanted, that THEY'RE the victim. Anything to twist you into a knot trying to please them, anything for that extra bit of attention and the assertion that you'll never leave them. But deep down, they don't care. It's just another ploy to make you stay, to break you apart, just another handle. They want you, whether for love or just to break, they don't care about your para.

🥩 No matter what, your F/O wants you for you, not for what you aren't. No matter how they express it, your disorder isn't a big deal to them ; it's just a part of you, and it's okay. Just because some people don't understand your disorder doesn't make you any less perfect for your F/O.

[author-chan06]

Selfship Imagines For No/Low Empathy:

Your F/O will never think less of you for your no/low empathy.

Your F/O is more than happy to help you through emotional scenes and conversations if you want that.

Your F/O will always defend you from accusations of being less or being heartless or being cruel that are formed around your no/low empathy status.

Your F/O will always be willing to work with you on growing your empathy if that’s something you want or—

Your F/O will always be happy with the idea of you keeping your empathy levels just the way they are if that’s what you want.

No matter where you fall on the empathy scales, or how you want that to be, your F/O will love you regardless and will be there every step of the way to make sure that you remember you’re perfect to them, no matter what.

[us-angels-together]

Imagine going on a walk with your f/o in the woods. The leaves have begun to fall and are so many different beautiful colors. Dead leaves crunch under your feet. You have a scarf wrapped around your neck as you felt a bit chilled today but holding hands with your f/o has definitely warmed you up.

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[lovesmenot2015]

Imagine your f/o killing your abuser, making sure that you are always safe and happy after. They take care of you and make sure that the both of you run away together, avoiding capture from any authorities. You have eachother now and thats all that matters, no matter if you have to hop from motel to motel or live in some sort of vehicle.

[crowsdove]

Imagine cuddling with your f/o on the couch while you watch something together. Either something you've already seen and liked or something you're seeing for the first time, you're enjoying it regardless, especially getting to share it with them. But you catch your f/o just gazing softly at you, and if you ask them about it, they say it's because they just love seeing you enjoying things. You being happy makes them happy too.

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> antis please dni <

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[thepitycryingparty]

Imagine you and your f/o getting matching jewelry, maybe a magnetic type necklace that forms a heart when pressed together or matching name bracelets

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[huntinglove]

Imagine your F/O sharing funny videos and memes with you!

💚 Maybe they're still getting used to the internet or even technology in general! Sure most of the memes they show you are a bit old, but it still makes you smile! Sometimes, they'll end up adding some new catchphrases to their vocabulary because of it!

🍓 Maybe they have a little folder full of videos that remind them of you! There's a little bit of everything in there, including your interests and things that relate to your own relationship. Even when you're not around, they still catch themselves rewatching the whole playlist while thinking about you!

💚 Maybe they want to cheer you up after a stressful day! They just make sure you lay back and relax while showing you all the fun videos they've saved up during the day, watching your reaction and feeling a great sense of accomplishment whenever they're able to get you to smile!

🍓 Regardless of their reasoning, your F/O loves bonding with you and sharing these happy and domestic moments with you. Your smile and laughter brighten up their day like nothing else ever could!

[quillandink333]

Aghh I’m so bored I just wanna put on a lil fashion show with my f/os where they buy me whatever clothes I want and/or clothes they pick out for me and then I show off all my new fits to them in the privacy of our own home :(

And they’d help me with my hair and makeup and they’d tell me how cool and cute and pretty and elegant and sexy I look in every fit and they’d say my “imperfections” don’t ruin the look but rather improve it and and anda nd an

:(((

[us-angels-together]

Imagine going on a date with your f/o to the aquarium. Seeing all the different kinds of sea creatures and the beautiful lightening of the aquarium that casts blue light onto your f/o. Your f/o looks amazing under that lightning.

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[lovesmenot2015]

Imagine the pining stage with your f/o.

Imagine how much you two wanted each other but were too nervous to say it, how your f/o was nervous you would reject them and thinking about advice others had possibly given them or crude comments others had made about them having their sights set on you- Figuratively taping over their mouth, nothing compares to being with you though. They have to get it off their chest sometime. Who ends up cracking first?

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[crowsdove]

If you have multiple f/os (of any relationship type. Platonic, romantic, familial, etc), imagine going on a group road trip! Like, imagine all of you piling into an RV.

Where are you headed together? Are there any specific destinations in mind and a whole itenerary all planned out? Or are you just seeing where the road takes you and making stops along the way every time something nearby interests at least one of you? (Like a lake, or a local festival, or a market, for example.) Is there someone that's super excited about the whole thing and/or someone that wishes you could just skip straight to the destination, or are everyone's feelings pretty equal?

Regardless, it's sure to be a trip to remember.

As someone takes a turn at being the driver, your favorite song is playing (over the radio or from someone's playlist), and at least one of you is loudly singing along. Snacks are being shared, someone was thoughtful and packed everyone's favorites.

It's a bit chilly at the moment, but that's okay. You're wearing a jacket that doesn't belong to you, because you forgot to bring your own and someone let you borrow theirs. It smells like them and it feels like a comforting hug.

You may be in unfamiliar places, and yet you've never felt more at home in your life, than right here and now, surrounded by your favorite people.

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> antis please dni <

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