#proselfship imagine

[professionally-shipped]

to: selfshippers who're recovering from self harm

tw for self harm and slight medical/injury mentions under the cut

imagine your f/o(s) helping you with alternate coping mechanisms, finding ones that you can both try together, and encouraging you to seek help if you can.

your doting f/o(s) treating your injuries if you relapse, making sure to disinfect everything before wrapping it.

your stoic f/o(s) showing their caring side as they comfort you through everything you're dealing with.

none of your f/o(s) would never get mad or hold your relapses against you, not ever.

they would do everything they could to help you. they'd let you talk stuff out with them, explain it if you want to, they'd distract you if that's what you need, they'd never judge you for what you're going through.

your f/o(s) love you no matter what! they love you through your worst times, no matter how long they last.

they're so proud of you for every step you make towards getting better, and how far you've made it in your recovery journey.

they will support you through everything and are always going to be there for you, no matter what.

[us-angels-together]

Shoutout to Selfshippers who....

want to talk about their fictional others but also feel embarrassed about doing so

want to talk about their fictional others but feel too protective about them and want to keep them completely to yourselves

hide the fact they selfship

religiously read x reader fanfiction

have told people they selfship and were made fun of or were unsupported

have lost track of how many fictional others they have

feel guilty about having multiple fictional others

have only one fictional other

have only just recently started selfshipping

have been selfshipping for years

You are all amazing, keep doing what you're doing! Keep having fun with your selfshipping. Keep doing it!

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[crowsdove]

Your f/o(s) would never judge or shame or bully or infantilize you because of your triggers, no matter what they are. No matter if they don't have a problem with the thing themselves, no matter how silly or weird the thing may seem. No matter what.

They will always be more than happy to help you avoid your triggers whenever they show up because they love you, and your safety and your comfort are what matters most to them. They will immediately do whatever calms you down, be it distracting you in some way, getting you to another area away from the trigger, or anything else that helps you.

Even if it happens in the middle of a movie (even if they were super invested in watching it), they'd immediately turn it off. They would never treat you like an inconvenience or a burden. They just want you to be okay and be happy. They'd even check on that trigger website (if it covers yours) before you watch something together because they want to be extra sure that it'll be safe for you.

If you suddenly encounter something that triggers you when you're playing a video game, after calming you down your f/o would figure out how to get past it for you so you don't have to deal with it any more and so you can still play the rest of the game if you wanted to (unless it stays like that of course).

Your f/o has the utmost respect for you and it really shows in their care for you. And if anybody ever mistreats you because of your triggers? Even if your f/o isn't the confrontational type, you better believe that they're standing up for you. There's no way they're letting anybody upset you further, no matter who it is doing it. They will always have your back.

Your f/o loves and respects you more than anything. Even if it feels like nobody else does, your f/o always will.

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> antis please dni <

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[quillandink333]

If you and your dominant f/o are into intense degrading roleplay, imagine the two of you having a non verbal signal that they give you to let you know they still love and care about you. For example maybe they’re objectifying you in this roleplay, calling you their toy and saying you were made to be used by them, but to keep you from getting too immersed in their words, they gently pinch the shell of your ear or smth distinct like that, which is them silently reminding you that they don’t really mean it and that they still cherish you for the wonderful being you are

[thepitycryingparty]

Imagine your parental f/o sneaking into your bed late at night.

-antis dni-

[doesdarlingexe]

! op is proship and dx'd para !

Para S/I x F/O imagines

! pro contact dni !

🍷 Telling your fluffy f/o that you think you're a paraphile. Maybe they comfort you by telling you that it's alright. Are they one too? Either way, they reassure you over and over that they love you for you, and not for what you're not. Does this include kisses, cuddles? Or do they take you to dinner or somewhere else special to show you that nothing has changed?

🥩 How about your clueless F/O? Looking at you with an astounded expression, or maybe a bit of disgust, but you're their partner, and they do love you, so they listen as you explain what it is properly without the mix-ups. They're understanding, and are happy that you're so comfortable that you feel okay telling them. They love you for you.

🍷 What about a more hateful one? Your abusive F/O takes the knowledge and runs with it. They understand what it is fully, maybe it even starts with one of the first two, but they don't let you live it down. During arguments they mock you for it, calling you disgusting and perverted, or maybe they say that your attraction to that para makes them feel unwanted, that THEY'RE the victim. Anything to twist you into a knot trying to please them, anything for that extra bit of attention and the assertion that you'll never leave them. But deep down, they don't care. It's just another ploy to make you stay, to break you apart, just another handle. They want you, whether for love or just to break, they don't care about your para.

🥩 No matter what, your F/O wants you for you, not for what you aren't. No matter how they express it, your disorder isn't a big deal to them ; it's just a part of you, and it's okay. Just because some people don't understand your disorder doesn't make you any less perfect for your F/O.

[author-chan06]

Selfship Imagines For No/Low Empathy:

Your F/O will never think less of you for your no/low empathy.

Your F/O is more than happy to help you through emotional scenes and conversations if you want that.

Your F/O will always defend you from accusations of being less or being heartless or being cruel that are formed around your no/low empathy status.

Your F/O will always be willing to work with you on growing your empathy if that’s something you want or—

Your F/O will always be happy with the idea of you keeping your empathy levels just the way they are if that’s what you want.

No matter where you fall on the empathy scales, or how you want that to be, your F/O will love you regardless and will be there every step of the way to make sure that you remember you’re perfect to them, no matter what.

[mikudaki]

Imagine ur idol f/o falling in love w only you, giving you special treatment during meetups, kissing you backstage, and fucking you in the vip room/lounge

Mdni

[professionally-shipped]

selfshippers who have chronic pain!

imagine your doting f/o(s) taking care of you during a flare up! giving you your meds, helping you brush your hair, making sure you have everything you need before settling in with you.

if you want a distraction from the pain, they'll tell you about their day, make small talk, put on your favorite tv show, whatever you want!

they'll make dinner for you (or order something if they can't cook), soothe you through your pain, cuddling and rocking you back and forth, letting you cry into their shirt, etc.

just.. doting f/os comforting you <333

[us-angels-together]

Imagine going on a walk with your f/o in the woods. The leaves have begun to fall and are so many different beautiful colors. Dead leaves crunch under your feet. You have a scarf wrapped around your neck as you felt a bit chilled today but holding hands with your f/o has definitely warmed you up.

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[lovesmenot2015]

Imagine your f/o killing your abuser, making sure that you are always safe and happy after. They take care of you and make sure that the both of you run away together, avoiding capture from any authorities. You have eachother now and thats all that matters, no matter if you have to hop from motel to motel or live in some sort of vehicle.

[crowsdove]

Imagine cuddling with your f/o on the couch while you watch something together. Either something you've already seen and liked or something you're seeing for the first time, you're enjoying it regardless, especially getting to share it with them. But you catch your f/o just gazing softly at you, and if you ask them about it, they say it's because they just love seeing you enjoying things. You being happy makes them happy too.

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> antis please dni <

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[quillandink333]

Aghh I’m so bored I just wanna put on a lil fashion show with my f/os where they buy me whatever clothes I want and/or clothes they pick out for me and then I show off all my new fits to them in the privacy of our own home :(

And they’d help me with my hair and makeup and they’d tell me how cool and cute and pretty and elegant and sexy I look in every fit and they’d say my “imperfections” don’t ruin the look but rather improve it and and anda nd an

:(((

[thepitycryingparty]

Imagine you and your f/o getting matching jewelry, maybe a magnetic type necklace that forms a heart when pressed together or matching name bracelets

- antis dni -

[proselfshipsafespace]

Paranoid selfshippers, your f/o(s) wanted me to tell you that it'll all be okay, that you're perfectly safe and they'll protect you from whatever you think might get you or whatever is troubling your mind.

I promise you, you're f/o(s) want to keep you safe and protected and want to make sure you feel comfortable and calm.

[proselfshipp]

The self-shipper urge to make a fictional character feel like the most loved, cherished and cared for being in the entire universe.