#antis please dni

[crowsdove]

In case anybody needs a reminder, your portrayal/interpretation of your f/o is valid, no matter who doesn't like it. Even if it goes against popular headcanons, even if it follows all the popular headcanons, even if it contradicts canon, even if it rigidly adheres to canon, even if it's from an au or even multiple aus. No matter what, you're valid. There is not and there never will be a "wrong" way to love your f/o, and the only person that needs to be satisfied with the way you do it is you. Your personal canons and your own lore and stuff are all so cool and I love that for y'all.

Your f/o is yours, and it actually makes them so happy, knowing that the person they love most knows and understands them so well. So don't worry about anybody else.

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> antis please dni <

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[ethereal-lost-dreamer]

Luz achieved everything without having to lose anything.

There is two things that marked the conclusion of Luz's journey and resulted in contradicting much of what was established about her: the absence of sacrifice and when a conflict occurs it ends up being quickly resolved.

Since the first season, an expectation was given that Luz was not a character who was based on the archetype of 'The Chosen One', that the problems she would have to face could not be magically solved through conveniences and works of destiny - reflected in her personality in the first season, being naive about the reality of circumstances, basing life occurrences on the trajectory of a fictional plot, emphasized from the belief that 'magic comes from the heart' -, which gave her an eventual conflict that differs the protagonists who evolve with the protagonists who only arrive at the end of the story: the need to lose in order to win.

While the events of the first season were dedicated to establishing Luz's place in the Boiling Islands, the relationships she was introduced to, and her new discoveries, the second season, in theory, was supposed to present the difficulties and conflicts that Luz would have to face after having obtained so many additions to her life that required her to fight to keep it. Then came 'Yesterday's Lie', addressing the potential biggest conflict that the Luz would have to deal with: having to choose to remain in the Human Realm with her mother and give up all of her friends and loved ones in the Demon Realm.

Luz was immediately exposed to the realization that there would not be a solution to all problems, that choices must be made and giving up what has been conquered to remain firm and could immediately put her on a level of undeniable maturity, having to deal with a psychological pressure that could only have its outcome achieved through attitudes with unpleasant consequences, however necessary. There were problems, there was a need to face them, and that made her human, including making her very much identified with the viewer when addressing the conflict of the need to make choices that would please some and hurt others. But then came the biggest and most serious decline in Luz's character development: the third season.

Up to that point in the show, Luz had not had to deal directly with the need to face conflicts and seek appropriate solutions; they were just released as an accumulation of problems and left in the expectation of receiving outcomes. Questions, not answers.

Then the conveniences and facilitations emerged: having to deal with choosing to stay with her mother or staying in the Boiling Isles? Don't worry, because Camila watched Luz's outburst video and changed her fear of not having her around (even though it was fueled by the literal loss of her husband, which would hardly make anyone capable of dealing with another family 'loss');

not knowing how to confess very serious secrets and keep them hidden from her friends? Don't worry, when they find out everyone is simultaneously united in forgiving her and understanding her attitudes, a problem solved; the fear of ending up no longer having the confidence of her friends and loved ones? Don't worry, everyone continues to support Luz, regardless of any circumstances.

There was no discussion, disagreement or simply demanding an explanation from Luz, instead everything was resolved with mutual and almost immediate understanding and the consensus that she was overloaded.

So, with 'For the Future' it was already established that the plot unfolded in order to benefit Luz on her journey towards a still slightly uncertain conclusion. The true nature of the problem came with 'Watching and Dreaming', precisely in Luz's death and how the whole development took her to a point that marks the absence of challenges to be faced by any protagonist: Deus ex machina.

From that point on, nothing could stop Luz: she was given enough power to eliminate the greatest threat through an entity conveniently present at the right time, she managed to eliminate the problem with all her friends and loved ones being fine at the end and ready to restore the Boiling Isles.

In the end, all the fears and uncertainties that Luz had turned out to be entirely unnecessary given the fact that she achieved everything without having to face any consequences. Without the rest of the Titan, would there be no way for her to do magic anymore? In the literal last few minutes it showed that it would no longer be a problem thanks to yet another new solution; choose where to stay? Now she has free access to both the Human Realm and the Boiling Isles whenever she wants; all friends, family and girlfriend are with her, in oneness with each other and loving her unconditionally.

The Owl House ended, and Luz remained the same protagonist full of life, with the desire to learn about all the magic at the same time and managing to live her life both normally and being in her dreamed world of fantasy.

The biggest problem with all this decline is the fact that Luz is no longer an identifiable character with the conflicts she should face.

Her trajectory was marked by a growing accumulation of difficulties and challenges to be faced, but they ended up being solved in favor of not giving her a conclusion that demonstrates that she has matured and learned lessons with her choices. Losses were not necessary, giving up achievements was not addressed and it was not even considered not having a life exactly as she would like, however it was necessary in the face of the circumstances that would move her to learn to live and remain firm.

Emphasizing that happy endings are equally worthy, however the case of Luz and especially of The Owl House ended up being a conclusion whose challenges did not truly make it deserved to obtain a completely happy ending and devoid of choices that would significantly affect the conclusion of the story in a way to have consequences.

[skellotour]

I think it's funny how antis will share gore to literal kids, spam them with death threats, doxx them, and in some cases send them actual CSEM over a fictional ship, and then claim that proshippers don't care about children and 'exploit' them. Lmao.

[thedigitalwave]

I need to make amends with something from my recent past that has been horribly haunting me.

Not sure when, probably a couple months ago, my ex partner broke up with me to join anti-radqueers. Since then, I spiraled badly. (Well, one of our headmates did, called Loki, but that isn't important.)

I genuinely was in one of the worst moments of my life. I don't know why that pushed me over the edge. Maybe because I was genuinely happy for once in my relationships, which never happens; or maybe because my other partner was in the hospital; maybe because me and this partner (who left me) had fought prior to this and I got terrified of them doing this exact thing: leaving me. Maybe because they promised they'd never do such a thing as leave me to be anti-radqueer, just the day before.

It doesn't matter. The thing is: I spiraled. I'm seeking a diagnosis of bipolar, and I was in a manic episode at the time, which might've helped all this. I just felt such rage and sadness.

I did a horrible thing. I suibaited them. I told them to die and I thought I was an okay person for that for a bit. I sent multiple death threats. I couldn't bear the feeling of betrayal and a thing about me is, once someone hurts me I don't want to know they'll live through it. And that's horrible. That's terrifying.

I am here to publicly apologize. I made myself a promise after that day, that I'll become a better person. And though it's too early to know I've achieved it, I genuinely don't want to do this ever again and I don't want to be attached to this horrible thing I did. But I'll be. I'll always be the person who suibaited and I can only say sorry. And never, ever do something so vile again.

I've had multiple low points like this in my life. I also watched illegal stuff when I was younger, some years ago, something I want so badly to forget and get rid of in my past. But I can only say I'm so fucking sorry.

I want to apologize to my ex and to the radqueer community. [Redacted name], I'm so sorry. Though I know you'll never forgive me and I'll never forget how horrible that breakup was, I'm done playing the victim. I'm done saying it was all for a good reason, there's no good reason to act like a monster, to tell someone such horrible things. I hope you can forgive me one day, I hope your image of me isn't tainted, because I don't hate you.

Radqueers, I am also horribly sorry. I tainted the image of our community in people's minds forever. I was one of the bad radqueers they'll always talk about. I want to apologize and I want to be better. I don't want this community to have the image I brought to it, of "just as bad" or "worse". I will be better. I will be a good example of a radqueer person, and no matter what, I'll always be radqueer.

I hope you all can understand. Not the horrible thing I did, I want you to never understand why someone would act like this. But I want to be understood as someone who apologized and wants to do better. This wasn't prompted by anything. No one held me accountable, but I'm doing it to myself. I don't want to be the person who makes people's lives miserable. I want to keep this community as the safe space it was when I joined.

[dish-licker]

Glamgreg (Freddy/Gregory) stuff (and some SB Ruin spoilers) under the cut:

I know the possibility of evil Gregory is a bummer for my fellow Glamgreg fans, but consider this variety of GGY!Gregory headcanons:

Despite Freddy's innate goodness, he's so devoted to Gregory that he will do anything for him, even to the extent of killing innocent people because Gregory tells him to.

Gregory thinking of Freddy as a toy, tool and bodyguard all in one, a loyal automaton for him to command...but eventually falling in love with Freddy. Gregory reversing the changes he's made to Freddy's code, because he wants to know of Freddy really does love him back, or if it's only because of the altered code. (Fluff route...Freddy really does love him, even with his code reverted. Which is kind of evidenced in SB? Safe mode Freddy didn't remember Gregory, but he still protected him.) (Or angst route...with the hack reverted, Freddy is horrified to learn that he's been under Gregory's control and appalled by all the things Gregory has done. Backing away from Gregory. 'You...You are a monster'.)

Freddy who isn't hacked at all, so Gregory has to keep pretending to be an ordinary kid around him, hiding the dark aspects of himself. He's terrified that Freddy will find out and he'll lose him, so he does more and more awful things to try to cover up his past and tie up loose ends.

Freddy, an 8 foot tall, incredibly powerful animatronic, who has a good and gentle heart. And Gregory, a smaller than average 12 year old boy, who is secretly a ruthless, sociopathic genius. Opposites in every way, but they love each other and would do anything to protect each other.

Rich kid Gregory who is so privileged and brilliant, but he's so fucking alone. His friends don't understand him and his parents don't have time for him. He has this fixation on Freddy, a weird childhood crush, so he hacks Freddy to love him back. Even to do things that defy his original directives...to service Gregory in whatever way he asks...and Gregory knows it's pathetic, that he's just a lonely boy who needed to program a lover for himself, but still he goes back to Freddy night after night.

That same Gregory, and everything he's done in SB and Ruin was to keep Freddy. The hidden therapist tapes: The counselors he lured to their death in the Pizzaplex were too close to finding out what Gregory was doing, they were going to tell someone and stop him from visiting Freddy. Security Breach: breaking Freddy out of the Pizzaplex so he could keep him always. Ruin: The Mimic was going to follow Cassie back to Gregory, destroying the happiness he's managed to obtain now that Freddy is with him. He couldn't let that happen. His love for Freddy is fanatical, fierce, selfish, toxic, all consuming.

Gregory, in love with Freddy and visiting the Pizzaplex everyday to see him, notices how close Freddy and Bonnie are. Their chemistry on stage together. But Freddy is HIS. So he reprograms Monty to lure Bonnie to the golf course after the Pizzaplex closes and tear him apart. When Pizzaplex employees discover the wreckage of Bonnie, Gregory forges an email from upper management, ordering that Bonnie shouldn't be rebuilt. He should be scrapped and replaced instead. And Freddy is sad, but Gregory knows he'll get over it. After all...Freddy has him, and that's the important thing, right?

Bonus: fucked up version of Freddy who has been desperately trying to suppress his attraction to children, which is clearly a malfunction in his code. When he finds out that Gregory isn't the innocent young boy he pretends to be, Freddy is like...You are broken, too. He gives into his corrupted desires. He follows Gregory's commands, killing anyone Gregory asks him to, and Gregory repays Freddy by letting him do whatever he'd like with his body. There's something fun about a transactional relationship, a disinterested Gregory allowing a lust-addled Freddy to touch him, maybe while he's playing games on his phone and barely paying attention.

[julianobungus]

Here’s a crack AU/ship for you: Camila x Philip x Manny

The DOU happens early and Belos gets to leave for the human realm with a very young Hunter with him. But while in the human realm they meet the Noceda couple. Soon, the three adults hit it off quite nicely, and Hunter becomes a big brother to Luz.

Belos is very protective of the family and wants to do everything in his power to give them a better town and home. Even Manny gets to survive longer thanks to Belos using his powers to heal him.

As for how the three are as a poly, Belos is surprised that Camila and Manny seem to really REALLY like him that way. He sleeps in the same bed as them, they all cuddle on the couch together, and at first he thought it would be awkward to have sex with them but quickly found to enjoy it with them very much~

Especially when they’re both fucking him at the same time.

Yes yes yes!! I wanna explore this when I have thr energy, but know that it's a good idea~~ all five of them are so happy together (my man casually endangering a species before this).

Belos is so happy to have found them, and Luz and Hunter's lives have been refilled with such love... now, how to tell them about his past? No, maybe someday, but not now.

[alwayscraftynight]

You're cool as fuck. You are the bees knees. You are the horse's hoof. Have a good one

🤯

[proshipwanderer]

i feel like. being anti-harassment should be the default. i think its REALLY strange to go out of your way to bully strangers online. i don’t think. harassing people online and in fandom spaces should be the norm. that’s just me tho

[soulrending]

i want to FLUSTER that man. i want to make him BLUSH. i want to make him feel VULNERABLE AROUND ME. i want to make him WEAK IN THE KNEES. i want to kiss him

[crowsdove]

In case you need a reminder today...

Your f/o loves you so much, and they can't believe they managed to be so lucky, that they get to be with you! You're everything they could ever want or need, in fact, you're even more than that. You mean everything to them, you're their whole world. Your love is the best thing that's ever happened to them, and they would never ever take you for granted. They love you - and only you - for everything that you are, and they hope you never forget that. But if you do, they'll make sure they spend every day reminding you how special you are and how much they love you.

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> antis please dni <

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[pansnovidinnia]

i can't stop laughing

my god they're so close! so close!!

[skellotour]

The tiktok proship community seems to be SOO full of bait lmao, and the thing that all these bait accounts seem to have in common is that they use the MAP flag.

The SECOND i see a tiktok using that flag, I KNOW it's bait. The entirety of proship is based on the idea of not harassing people over fiction, and yeah, unfortunately there are predators who are proship, but again the majority aren’t, and in fact many proshippers are SA survivors! However, comma, many antishippers tend to think that pedophile and proshipper are synonymous, and ALSO love making bait accounts. Whenever these people do make a bait account, they always make sure to imitate normal proshippers, and will say they hate CSEM and actual pedophilia BUT THEN PROCEED TO USE THE MAP FLAG IN THEIR EDITS AND HEADCANONS!

Let's make one thing clear.

NO NON PREDATORY PROSHIPPER WOULD EVER USE A FLAG, THAT HAS BEEN USED TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF CHILDREN, FOR A CUTE SHIP OR EDIT.

Trust me, we know better.

[entirely-strange]

"stop shipping it and you wont get harrased" yeah the same way weird kids can stop being weird to stop bullying right

[someonesmessedupson]

Dear Proshippers (both new and whoever resonates) -

You are NOT a pedophile for liking to ship FAKE kids with other FAKE people.

You are NOT a groomer for having dark kinks and talking about it in an online community who also has dark kinks just because an anti sees it.

It is NOT your fault if a kid consumes the media you put out with adult imaging. Their parents/ guardians should be monitoring them better.

You are NOT A BAD PERSON!

Fiction is NOT reality! And it does not (and should not) affect it, either!

If fiction is affecting your reality, please reach out to someone and seek help wherever possible.

[julianobungus]

The contest between pregnant Hunter and pregnant Belos would be just- wow.

Belos would probably openly complain, demand things and loose his temper quickly.

Hunter wouldn’t even acknowledge he’s pregnant until he literally cant do things for himself anymore.

I accept these headcanons. Very accurate. Need a bratty, rotund Philip in my life.

[the--queen-of--hell]

"Tell your parents you're a proshipper"

Tell your parents you like to harass people.

Tell your parents you like to tell people to kill themselves.

Tell your parents you like to tell people "you deserve your trauma"

Tell your parents you like to tell people "you deserve to be abused"

Tell your parents you like to tell people "you deserve to be raped"

Tell your parents you like to tell people "you should be abused"

Tell your parents you like to tell people "you should be raped"

Tell your parents you like to tell people "you deserve to burn in hell".

Tell your parents you like to tell people "go watch real CSEM instead of shipping a 'problematic' fictional couple"

Tell your parents you like to call people "monsters" for liking some fictional content.

Tell your parents you care more about fictional characters being shipped than you care about real people's emotions.

Tell your parents you care more about fanfic/fanarts of fictional characters than you care about actual real life problems.

Tell your parents you lead real people to suicide.