#annoyed rant

[akhillasmyth]

Actually weird comment but

My partner knows I’m aroflux… and knows i have established i have days where i don’t feel romantic feelings even for them as my partner

So with that knowledge, why would you say you’re hurt by me saying “i love you too buddy” as a response

I’m already doing my best to show love to you when i can’t reciprocate nearly as well, and I’ve called you buddy before just as a random term

So like why make me feel more guilty about it omg

Sigh

Yeah I’ll tell him about it (communication… yay) i just feel annoyed atm randomly

[menxyouxneed]

So annoyed I haven't been able to see the new DW episodes. Get your shit together BBC America

[ashtraysystem]

mm looooove seeing fuckin posts tagged inappropriately. why is this shit on my feed so often suddenly. i do not need to feel sick to my stomach bc of an untagged post. i do not need to hear about all that, thanks.

its so fucking triggering for me, jesus christ.

[creepy-carno42]

I just wanted to know how heavy a pound was, not what it was, how much it was, and a bunch of other junk.

Just a simple answer, why can't anybody just answer it? Just tell me if it's heavy, light, or a little heavier than light. JUST TELL ME THAT AND NOT THE WHOLE HISTORY OF THE FUCKING WORL-

[createanescape]

Just going to rant for a second about a stupid movie… just watched “You Again” and *spoiler alert* the plot of the movie is basically that the main character, Marnie’s (Kristin Bell) brother, Will (James Wolk) is marrying Marnie’s high school bully, Joanna (Odette Annabel). Now, the whole point of the movie is that Marnie needs to “grow up” and forgive Joanna for her actions, despite the fact that Joanna absolutely tortured Marnie for the four years that they went to high school together. Now the thing that makes me so annoyed is that at the end, Marnie shows the rehearsal dinner the truth about what she went through during high school, and everyone gets mad at her for ruining Joanna’s night. Even Will is equally mad at Marnie for showing that Joanna was a shitty person as he is with Joanna for lying to him. And Joanna lied about so many things! She lied about not knowing who he was (he was a basketball star while she was a cheerleader in the same school and yeah he didn’t know her but that’s because she was younger, and how many people do you know that literally cheered for the team and DIDNT know the name of the lead player?) she also lied about not being a bully, and she didn’t tell him that she was engaged before him! There’s probably other things. Anyways, it bothers me that Marnie is treated like the equal villain when she was tortured and it doesn’t matter that (eventually) Joanna apologizes, those scars won’t go away. It drives me crazy this belief that anyone that doesn’t forgive their tormentors is equally as evil as them. Like honestly Joanna deserved to lose everyone. She lied to them all and tried to downplay her part in marnies torture. If this were real life, Marnie likely would have at least considered ending her life because of the sheer amount of torture. And then you take into account that Joanna continued bullying her once Marnie started trying to get her to remember her (even though she was only pretending to not remember her). Joanna dog whistles Marnie with the “MOO” necklace, torments her with the song she used to sing while bullying her, and forces Marnie into situations where she is obviously uncomfortable and remembering the horrors of high school. Yes, Marnie does retaliate by bringing her ex fiancé (who she didn’t know was her ex fiancé) to the rehearsal dinner, and plays the video from the Time Capsule of her in the high school BUT that does not mean that they’re on the same level. Like no matter what Marnie did in that movie? She was still the victimized one who deserved that the history be out in the open and to have her family rally behind her. She didn’t deserve to have her bully forever cemented in her life as her sister in law.

I don’t believe in turning a blind eye to the actions of the past. Actions have consequences and just because she claims to have turned her life around (which I don’t believe because at the first opportunity she goes back to bullying l) (and she only “changed” because her parents died. If they were still alive she’d still be a raging monster) doesn’t mean her past actions aren’t still carrying hurt. Also, when people show you who they are, believe them. And Joanna is a bully that deserved to have her night ruined. And Will shouldn’t have still gone on to marry her. She’s obviously a liar. Why believe that she isn’t going to continue lying? And why tie yourself to her when she tortured your sister and will only serve to remind her of the horrid time she had? Like I get you love her and she lets you have sex with her but MY GOD did you see a third of what happened during high school? Maybe I’m just a terrible grudge holding loser but I think it’s kind of telling that Marnie had to be the bigger person. The victim always has to be the bigger person in fear of being called just as bad.

[amberkendslacy]

Ugh can't post one thing about body positivity without someone reblogging about how it is hard to be skinny.

Can it not be about you for five seconds?

And why is this overly religious fatphobic person reblogging my stuff anyway? This is Fat Loving Dyke Vampire Central, you've taken a lot of wrong turns to get here.

Blocked them but the gross smell is still in the carpet. I just cleaned in here.

[frenchfries02]

(10) Roller coaster ride with emotions

I did not imagine I'd get this far, commiting to having a log everyday ngl. I'm a very lazy person, but most of the times it's the people around that influences me to become productive.

Disappointment, nervous-ness, fun, tiredness, joy, anger and sadness.

From midday, morning, before afternoon, afternoon, evening, dawn, and dusk.

I think the only thing that I enjoyed the most for this day was spending my time with Mojo. It's the only one that has been giving me all the energy to be alive rn.

It sucks when your parents doesn't align with you at all. Mine doesn't.

I can't with this family. I'm too tired of explaining everything to them. I'm too tired of understanding them.

They are religious. I'm not.

I'm respecting their point of view in life,

and they cannot on mine.

I really don't agree, that all parents are right.

I know everyone is all a victim of life.

Most of the times I get fed up with it.

They make me feel all the time that I owe them everything, even though It's not even my fault that they can't take the responsibility of having a child.

It's very suffocating.

I tried to talk them all about it. They can't even understand what I mean. They can't understand that they cannot control everything. They are not even trying to understand me, whereas I have tried to understand them all my life.

They can't even stop themselves from making me feel sad. They can't even blame themselves from their faults. They just throw it all at me.

Most of the time they make me feel that there is something wrong with me.

It's making me think that there is. Maybe there is. Or maybe it's just how life is.

It's very heavy.

It's so tiresome. To be alive.

To those reading this I am so sorry for exposing you from my broken-ness.

Life is short. Thy all of our journey's become one of the things that gives us reasons to have our Mojo-s.

[windkonig]

when people say "ok but x bug has no benefit to nature" I bet they can't even name 5 facts about the bug they're shitting on. so how could they Possibly know what its function is in the environment and if it's "useless" or not

wasps being the perfect example, I still get people saying "oh bees are cute and pollinate :) yay. but WASPS ARE EVIL and they don't contribute ANYTHING!!!" and it's like buddy. wasps pollinate too. they also control spider populations. they do a lot of great valuable things. but even if they didn't, they're still worthy of being here. I see SO much hatred toward wasps and I wish people would try to learn a little more about them.

I'm mainly talking about paper wasps here because these are common ones we run into in daily life and most commonly deemed "aggressive". but wasps have body language. and if you learn to read this language and learn how to properly act around them, things will go a lot better for you! wasps can be curious creatures and they may come up to observe you, especially if you're wearing something brightly colored. this can be startling for sure, but my best advice is to just be still, DO NOT SWAT or wave your arms. try to just back away or sidestep so it loses interest and leaves. swatting is just gonna make them feel as if they are being attacked and increase your chances of being stung.

many stings happen due to unfortunate but accidental circumstances. unknowingly getting too close to a nest, stepping on a wasp on accident, one getting stuck in clothing, etc. I got stung once while gardening, went to pull a weed and the wasp was on it, so I grabbed her without knowing and she stung me because she was scared. this doesn't mean "oh wasps are AGGRESSIVE and EVIL" it means you stumbled into an unfortunate situation where the wasps felt threatened and defensive. instead of being like "FUCK all wasps" go forward trying to learn about common nesting areas, be wary of holes in the ground, wear gloves while gardening, and if you do have to be around a nest, try not to make a lot of noise. if the nest absolutely needs removed, call a professional.

[neurospicyyy]

• Fidgeting and stuttering do NOT always indicate that someone is nervous.

• Avoiding eye contact does NOT always mean someone is lying.

• Having a hard time focusing does NOT always mean someone is lazy.

• Carrying around a stuffed animal or blanket does NOT make someone childish.

• Poor motor skills is NOT a direct indication of intelligence.

Not everyone fits into your box. Deal with it.

[chimerical-creations]

FUCK

The Norwegian branch of MDP Supplies (the place I get all my sandblasting vinyl) seems to have closed down.

Goddammit.

WHERE AM I SUPPOSED TO GET MY MATERIALS NOW

Really glad I bought a big roll of transfer sheet last time. Gotta be careful with the thin sandblasting vinyl now, since I only have a few metres of it.

[teslafactory]

every few months some annoying motherfucker makes a post asking why it's called 'spirk' instead of 'spork' or 'kock' and the short, easy answer is: spirk is already the silly ship name, the og ship name is 'k/s' and the og og ship name is 'the premise', because spirk is a ship so old that it was around before ship names were invented. now never come into my house again.

[annaberunoyume]

Something I found frequently in post-2020 movies is that they don't let a the scene falls naturally. Like I watched Guardians of the Galaxy 3 last night and it just felt too rushed. Like a dramatic did not even have a steady. It was, 2 milliseconds of the letting the scene fall, then boom! Rush rush to the next scene. I swear, it seems that every new movie director never studied the art of movie-making (like the ''show, don't tell'', the rule of 180 degrees, etc. Don't get me wrong, to have an avant-garde movie is okay, but JUST avant-garde movies that blows rasberries at structure is really annoying.

[creepy-carno42]

People are upset because Tim Burton doesn't have black characters in his films and stuff, and when he does they're seen as villains- that's not being racist, being racist is when someone discriminates against a person of color. Having POC as villains isn't being racist, it's just having someone who isn't white being a villain-

People will say- "Oh, but black people are associated with gangs and stuff!" Okay so? Just because something is stereotyped and then is used for something close to the stereo, doesn't make it bad! We want to stop racism yeah? To do that we need to start treating everyone regardless of gender, race, religion, etc, as we would anyone else.

Honestly I hope the aliens make peace with us and help us out- they're probably better at taking care of each other and their planets than we are.

[one-lonely-potato]

Today we were scheduled to make a presentation to some government representatives.

They were one hour and five minutes late. ONE HOUR.

They did not apologise nor did they give an explanation.

(Though they did make a reference to having had a big lunch........)

Is this how people who are supposed to represent such a large group of individuals should behave? What kind of example are they trying to set???

[livvyofthelake]

beronica canon in the archie the musical dream universe btw…

[marzipanandminutiae]

Of course, the burkini ban is messed up on grounds of religious freedom and racial discrimination. But also

Under any other circumstances, people would be HORRIFIED at a government mandate that women have to show a certain amount of skin. Like. That’s fucking dystopian, and the absolute opposite of feminism. If a government tried to pass a law that all women had to wear tube tops and miniskirts to go outside, people would rightfully be up in arms demanding blood

But because it’s targeting a marginalized religious group, many folks are lauding the blatant forced sexualization of women. Appalling

(apparently the ban also outlaws things like sun – protecting bathing suits if they cover too much skin. Which like. Yes, let’s give everyone skin cancer just so we can spite a religion we’ve decided to hate. Sounds like a good plan </s>)