#and then I guess it’ll never happen for me never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never
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ugh yes you get it it’s not ABOUT ships being endgame i feel like ppl have come to expect that nowadays and it’s really weird. whatever happened to scraping for crumbs of interaction and running 20 miles with whatever we got?? and even if a ship does become ‘canon’ it’ll usually never happen in the way you personally want anyway. they’re NARRATIVE FOILS babe it doesn’t get much better than this i am eating it UP
i swear the new season has been EXASPERATING from a fandom standpoint. i think in retrospect it was like this with season one and the whole mel thing, too, but enough time has passed that my brain conveniently forgot about that.
i don't want to make this about age, but when i was growing up in fandom we used to have maybe a 1% canonization rate when it came to queer ships, which forced me to develop an array of skills i don't see much of anymore. queercoding and queer characters were there still, regardless of how canon or not a ship was, and everyone agreed that canon love interests mattered very little when the dynamic of two characters was the core of said characters.
i genuinely could care less about mel and jayce when they uh. got together i guess??? and i say i guess because we barely know anything about their relationship and dynamic. which is the point! we know way more about him and viktor, so that's where my thoughts go.
people were making a fuss over jayce and mel fucking, meanwhile i was going insane over their sex scene being paralleled to viktor coughing blood, and about how afterwards we see mel waking up in bed alone because viktor wakes up in bed and jayce is beside him. now, people are making a fuss about viktor and sky and i'm over here thinking of what sky is: a symbol, a representation of viktor and jayce's dream, of viktor's humanity and of his remorse. because that isn't even grief—he barely knew sky, didn't even look at her once in season one, he cannot grieve someone he didn't care for; he grieves her POTENTIAL, what she could have been had he let her, he feels guilty for being the cause of her death and he clings to his humanity through her.
arcane is all about visuals. every single frame. none of it is left to chance. and this is unfortunate when its viewers seem adamant on not turning on their brains whilst they watch.
#jayvik#arcane#jayce talis#viktor arcane#vikjayce#viktor the machine herald#arcane meta#arcane spoilers#asks#to clarify: this isn't hate towards mel or sky. i don't care. mel is her own character and sky serves a purpose.#i'm just stating what the show visually conveyed so far
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I want episodic OVAs for Jujutsu Kaisen so bad
#😩 it’ll never happen but I can dream. and listen to the audio dramas I guess#inserting ‘filler’ would mess with the main story. however an OVA would be perfect#like just show me mahito doing some darkly hilarious experiment or something idc
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fire and blood
#guess what#more Jon#but also a dany!#I’ve never tried to draw a book version of her and I’m quite happy?#went a bit Tudor with the dress#also if Jon gets cool scars so does she#probs drogon related#this is based on a very specific scene in a fic I’ll never write#something like Ned realising ‘oh shit I fostered a targ restoration in the cradle of winterfell’#backgrounds are awful btw#you wouldn’t think it’s difficult to make something simple to frame a picture#AND YET#urgh I love targ Jon#i don’t think it’ll happen#my main bet is kbtw or something for the endgame#but let me dream#also outing myself as a jonerys enjoyer#I’m not exclusive in my Jon coupling thoughts but I do think they’d have a lot to talk about#Jon snow#daenerys targaryen#asoiaf#a song of ice and fire#valaryian scrolls#r+l=j#Targaryen#game of thrones#minsart#my art#fanart#snowstorm
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I can go on that ramble about the future and housing and aromanticism though now. It’s like man, the future is already something that is so inconceivable to me. To then have the sexuality that does not allow me to slot in the cookie cutter you find a romantic partner that you end up moving in with is terrible. And like In this economy I sure can’t live alone, and I know at least when I’m sick I desperately want someone to be there. And then there’s I’m likely to move around a bunch how do you deal with that housing, other than the work having paid housing. like constantly having to find somewhere that’s looking for roommates and it isn’t terrible? And then long term, when I find a job I stay at for a while (that’s remote so I’d love to live in a remote place) is it like I find a place to stay and then I’m stuck there forever and I just have to hope that I make good friends at this new place. (Friends that don’t want to live exclusively with a romantic partner no less.) I want to live with close friends so bad and I’m not sure if that’s a feasible thing for my future. I’m a person that has so much hope so I have to assume that yes it will work out, I do believe that. But man just hearing someone mention it, sparks that hope.
#… vaguely related other way too personal ramble#I need to try so hard to keep my friends for a long time. I want it so much#but I’ve never had close friends till now and once I went to a different period in my life the friends I had were gone#and Ive made really close friends now in college and one day I was talking with one of them on a walk home and mentioned still being friend#in 5 years. and they were like that’s not happening this friendgroup isn’t sticking together that long and they were right#at least for them specifically they were the one that came back worse and it’s a big group#there are most definitely different groups inside it and that makes me worry if once I finish college I’ll still chat with them at all#and oh hey tying this into another thought I had earlier… I’m planning on studying abroad next semester (that’s the application I’m procras#inating rn lol) and I’ll be like 8 hours in the future and I guess that’ll be the ultimate test on if I can really keep friends#a trial run before I graduate#and I won’t let this thinking of the future ruin my time now I know that doesn’t help but still.#well… actually summer sorta also is a trial run. and I still talked with them just less often and in a different way… it’s gonna be okay#this is a post i made#uh I am bad at tagging if things are vent posts or not#vent#oh I completely forgot to put the online part of the tag ramble! Ive made quite a few friends online and we talk for a while and I love the#and then it’s a every once in a while going hey I still care about you but I can’t hold a conversation for the life of me#and now there’s. you know who. who I care about so much and we say things I never imagined people saying about me#and I am so scared? (… sure) that that’s gonna go the same way. and I’m not sure reassurance on any of this will really help I think it’ll#just be I will only be less scared of the future as time passes and it’s proven to be wrong#mh hit the I want to keep this all inside and not let this out to not make other people think about it thing#… okay now I need to make a joke that is so tonal whiplash cause uhhh okay siffrin#… I need to go to sleep it’s late I’m sure that’s why all these feelings are being brought up… ’I’m fine’ as great role model siffrin says#… but it doesn’t feel real that people care about me. that I do actually have an impact. that I’m actually a note in someone’s story#I know it logically everyone I’ve ever known is part of me but it’s so hard to imagine that applies to me in others#okay I’m gonna go shower and go to sleep. I wanna say ignore this post but that’s not a good idea I don’t think#though just talking into the void does help a lot. I’m great at talking myself into believing that things are a okay if I just talk about i#… this wasn’t supposed to be a vent or be so long geez
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#I keep making this post and deleting it#and both are cathartic: writing it out over and over. and making it not exist again. over and over#and both feel awful. both feel awful. both feel awful#it’s not over till it’s over#but I think it’s over#i sobbed for three hours but it’s amazing how much your body can just#keep crying#it finds the reserves somewhere#I think on Saturday I will have to leave the wedding and drive an hour to get more bloodwork done#and then I guess an ultrasound#and then if I haven’t miscarried I guess they’ll have to make me#and then I guess I can’t try again for a while if it’s a certain drug#and then I guess it’ll never happen for me never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never#no. but maybe. but that’s what it feels like right now#idk. or maybe a miracle will happen#I lay awake in bed last night thinking#maybe this is the last time I get to be pregnant for sure#me and my baby the size of a sesame seed#who now it seems like maybe never existed#in any size or shape at all
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Damn it
#Legit just tag your sui and sh posts#I feel like I’m angry for no reason#Feel constantly ignored. Left behind. Left out. Forgotten. Feel invalidated almost.#See people going through the same shit I am#But I’m just ignored#And okay fuck it all I guess#I’ve just complained too much for anyone to mind#It makes me feel bad. But I mean. It’s better this way. I’ll eventually vanish and it’ll be okay bc nobody would notice for a while#And maybe it’s a stupid thing to be sad about#Because like. I shouldn’t need the help. Never got it before. I should be able to manage#Oh well#See others consistently getting help for much less#It hurts because I feel like I’ve only been spiraling further and further and nobody cares and one of these days#I’m fucking terrified I’m gonna off myself because I get so stuck in my own head and so angry with myself#But I guess it would be better off if it happened#Tw suicide#kinda
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we are quickly approaching “pepper get overwhelmed cause she makes too many plans at once” territory, only mostly exacerbated by the fact that nearly every one of them accompany a 2-3-4 hour drive now. maddening.
#usually i gotta ask everyone to be patient with me#BUT i have a different silly request this time#which is:#it might be time for you all to get comfortable having more of an online relationship with me hehe#rather than an in-person one#not that it’ll never happen but#if you don’t text me cause ur waiting for the hang-out#we r just not gonna talk#cause who woulda guessed that moving and starting a new job and all is stressful!!!!!!#anyways love u all text and message me lots and lots MWAH 💕#or call me#literally why doesn’t anyone avtually call my phone#maddening
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I really think I only get by at work because I look a bit pathetic all the time and people take pity on me
#people really let me get away with insane levels of incompetence and for what#case in point: the phone rang and my immediate reaction was to say ‘oh god why’ and then pick it up before i could second guess it#i babbled ‘hello; [name of workplace]; ellen lastname speaking?’ and then i was so anxious i didn’t listen to what the person said#i understood enough to realise we were either being auditied OR asked to make an order. both of these options made me panic because girl#i am not even CLOSE to being equipped to do either of those things. two seconds ago i was disinfecting a shelf and now i’m talking#to someone who seems to be welsh. i’m confused#so i said ‘uhhhh i’m going to get a manager sorry. it’ll just be a minute’ and i leave the phone on the hook#coincidentally the retail manager (NOT my manager but A manager) appears with a joiner who he is showing around and explaining some work#that needs to be done; and i hand him the phone and am like ‘i have no idea who’s on the phone but they need to speak to a manager’#he takes it from me and is like ‘[name] here. someone will call you back’ hangs up and looks at me like i’m some horrendous pleb#‘it’s a wholesale frozen food company. tell [assistant catering manager] they called’ and i’m like ‘okay sorry. thanks’#i felt soooooo stupid but nothing bad happened! and the assistant manager said we don’t order from them anymore because their stuff isn’t#good lol. so that was funny#this is why i don’t answer phones girl.#i was expecting it to be someone calling in sick (aka the only thing i was equipped to deal with) that was why i picked up tbh#because like who else has SPECIFICALLY the catering number. why do these people have it. so weird#but yeah. i really think i only got away with this because i’m so deeply pathetic looking lol#like gerry could never get away with this sort of thing#there’s a reason our boss’s boss asked gerry if he knew how to cash up yet and didn’t bother asking me. like. i OBVIOUSLY don’t know#i can’t even be relied upon to answer a phone lmao. i MOP FLOORS WRONG#world’s most incompetent barista over here ✨#personal
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I’m listening to an interview to James Wan about M3gan and his career and he’s just said “creating creeps, like, a creepy atmosphere, is the hardest thing”
And I’m picturing Robert Eggers
#I don’t like James wan#I did like M3gan but he didn’t direct it#and I liked Malignant#and the first Saw I guess#but they also talked about jumpscares and he was like ‘this is how you make good jumpscares’#and I have never been impressed by even one of his jumpscares so#like I don’t necessarily hate jumpscares but I hate when I can predict them down to when they’ll happen#even down to the music foreboding that something will happen#WHY DO HORROR DIRECTORS DO THAT BTW????#just make the thing pop up with no crescendo in music or anything#JUST THROW IT AT ME!!!!#I won’t get affected or anything bc I’m way past that but at least it’ll be fun and unexpected
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can you guys all please actually actually be so kind to each other and I mean it tangibly like stop being a coward about what you’ll lose cause it doesn’t fucking matter more than being kind and you know it just fucking do what you can we’ve already lost so much what is the fucking cost of being kind to you anymore. people are so fucking desensitized to their own bullshit they’re dealing with like they’re so casual and blaise and ignorant about things that even harm them directly like why not at least be kind about it why not at least deal with the bullshit that comes from being kind instead i am so sad abt this why do people have to make it so hard. like I get capitalism and colonialism and whatever plays into people being raised to be unkind but are we that fucking fallible like that really fucking sucks bro
#tagged#maybe I’m finally processing my emotions after pulling off the thing and maybe that’s good but I just don’t fucking know man#it fucking sucks#it could be 6 months of emotions I haven’t been able to fully process happening all at once#but it’s also like#am I just never gonna get closure on humans sucking ass as much as they do#am I never gonna get closure on the sheer amount of humans failing to be a safety net for the people who aren’t so kind bc turns out they#aren’t kind either#am i just gonna be fucked up abt this forever like I have been my entire life#like holy fuck god damn I am fucked up and all I can seem to do about it is try not to be fucked up to other people to keep myself sane#but what about me hello#is this the woman experience like#idk what to do bc almost no one is kind to me in a way I can fully trust#so I guess I’ll just bleed out kindness for others till I die I guess#and if I’m lucky it’ll teach them how to be kind back to me#but some people you can never be kind enough to I guess#is that really true#I get it’s to protect you from staying with toxic people forever#but what about never giving up on people what about being kind just to be kind#I don’t care abt being glorified for being kind i just want to know the kindness had an impact#I guess I’m supposed to care abt getting it back like sure yeah I deserve it too#but is that actually going to ever happen#so like whatever I’ll just keep being kind until I’m out and I just disintegrate quietly into the wind while no one even seems to like#sit with me and the weight of what I’m going through about it and really really try to be there for me even if I talk about it#I really am going though it holy fucking god damn#I thought I was mostly feeling more fucked around my period but it is a week after my period and I’m just feeeeeeling it Whoo#like I’ve slowly realized how often I’ve felt incredibly anxious and fucked up and then try to just go abt my day but it is so much more#than usual#and none of the therapists I’d maybe trust are taking insurance#how the fuck can you even start a therapist relationship when you want to vent abt covid and None of them are fucking masking anymore
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thanks god. and Jesus. I guess
#‘‘hey are you mentally recovered from last night? yes? great. here’s a horrible family moment. you should go kill yourself’’#I wish anything that I did or that happens/happened to me mattered but it won’t I guess. it’ll just be like this forever#it’s fine I guess. i can’t really do anything about it. not like it’s gotten any worse yet. equilibrium of gray maybe#feels like how I imagine purgatory would be. just baseline exhaustion and nothing. I don’t know#isn’t it supposed to get better at some point? like everyone says it does. its supposed to#I don’t know. my eyes hurt#dying sounds convenient but also like too much work so. I guess ill just do this forever#vent#<- i guess. could be anything at this point I think#it’s like I’m on an elevator but the elevator never stops so I’m just staring at the metal wall or the glass window infinitely
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#my mom isn’t a drinker she doesn’t even go out that much but when she does she GOES OUT and she has no limits. and it’s exhausting.#i wish she wouldn’t do this🙃#actually not even parties if we go to a restaurant or a family thing. no limits.#it’s crazy bc a year ago we were with family and she was drinking and my great aunt pulled me aside#and told me she knows how hard it is it’s not easy seeing her like that etc and i told her well. she doesn’t really. do this. it’s only at#events never at home and she was like oh.#like. how many people think she’s an alcoholic?#anyway sorry she really stressed me out tonight!!!#god damn it. GOD. and this weekend is a parade thing guess what she’s definitely gonna do this weekend :) and unlike previous years i can’t#hide out at my dad’s.#also next weekend is another parade so no doubt it’ll be happening again!!
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#i feel empty#could really use some f1/motogp/indycar rn#I’ve ruined things and there’s nothing i can do#he’ll never speak to me again#if he does it’ll be just small talk#i hate myself#i wish i could go back and handle things differently#now I’ll never know if we could’ve been something lmao#someone please kill me now#i’m so heartbroken#it’s ridiculous#can’t focus on work and can’t sleep bc my brain won’t stop thinking about what happened#I’m just so tired of life#the older you get the worse crushes feel i guess#i will never open up my heart for anybody again#i can’t take any more of this#rant over#personal
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#would be nice to talk to you at least a little bit today#but it seems that’s not going to happen#you’ll send me one message right before you put your phone down to go to bed#and it’ll be as if I never existed except for those 5 minutes it took to send#nevermind the fact that I really needed to be able to talk to you earlier when I was having a shitty day#nevermind the fact that I still could really use my friend right now#doesn’t matter what I need or want since I’ve let you dictate our whole relationship#you’re never here when I need you#but I guess I don’t matter all that much and you’ve always made that pretty clear#maybe I’m just being moody and petty as I always seem to be#but I’m just kinda tired of being blown off all the time#i guess this will make it easier to cut things off when the time comes#personal
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It’s wild how, on my good hearing days, I feel like my charisma and likability goes through the roof. It feels like a super power. Tonight I spent 10 minutes talking about horror movies with a guy at the gas station. And talking to strangers sucks! Wow. I’m, like, seriously proud of myself. I’m probably the bravest boy on earth.
#a lot of days I’ve got shitty processing issues along with fluctuating hearing loss#so it sucks talking to people a lot#but man as soon as I have a good day I just want to talk to everyone#well… not really everyone. social anxiety is still a thing. BUT I am 100% more open to shooting the shit with nice people#I wish it could be like this every day#if you have decent hearing then please cherish that shit#you really never know when it’ll give out on you#I didn’t even blow it out with loud music! it just happened and no one really 100% knows why#I know it’s like glib to say ‘oh cherish this now while you have it’#that kinda saying feels kind of hollow to me#I mean you never reeeaaally know how much you’ll miss it before you lose it#so I guess by cherish it I don’t mean fall to your knees and rejoice in your hearing#but maybe I dunno… find a good pair of headphones listen to a song you like and I mean just really sit there and soak in the sounds#just get silly with it I dunno sounds are good. just remember that every once in awhile.#anyway… I’m also incredibly lonely so I’ll go gaga for pretty much anyone that’ll give me the time of day#okay anyway I love you thanks for reading this#this isn’t important#text#hearing loss
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I spent an hour and a half staring at my google doc and ended up with no newly typed words and the overwhelming urge to tear my own hair out
#I’m never finishing this fic#it’s literally just a thousand words. maybe 1.5k#that’s all there is to finish this chapter#I’m so so close and yet I can’t reach it#I don’t want to tell this story anymore. I’m sick of it#but I have to finish it or it’ll become another stain on my conscience#like sotrl. like whumptober 2021. like everything I’ve ever tried to write#I don’t think I could live with myself if I never finished it#I never finish anything. I need this to me the one thing I do#just to prove to myself that I can#that I’m not useless. that all this suffering and beating my head against the wall had some worth to it#I’ve reached the bargaining stage#just this one. finish this one fic and you never have to write again. I promise#just one final push to the finish line and you can quit#god… what happened to me#what happened to that 11yo girl who just found out fanfiction existed and went all wide eyes#said she wanted to write too. how it must be so much fun#where did she go#it was like she existed one minute and was gone without a trace the next#guess what happened was what happens every time nia decided to take up something#she’s all starry eyed about it right up until actually trying. then she realises she sucks at it and quits#but this time. I pushed on. trying to accomplish something. and it ended up not being worth anything anyway#it ended with nia begging herself to write just another thousand words and then she can quit and never think of writing again#I want that girl back. can you imagine if I was as passionate now as I was back then#not hating everything my hands touched? I’d be unstoppable#fuck. I just had a breakdown over this last weekend. I hoped it was drawn out enough for the next wave to be pushed back further#guess not. guess I’m stuck crying for no good reason over and over again. instead of sucking it up and finishing and quitting#laughable. nothing short of pathetic. and I called myself a writer once. now I can’t wait to be able to quit#I can count the number of people who read my stuff on one hand anyway. me quittung not a big loss by any means#only one person would be truly upset. maybe two. but I’m done. I don’t give a shit anymore. be happy I’m not deleting everything. that’s it
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