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kitkatcadillac · 1 year ago

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not the past hanging on with an oppressive weight and the future pressing down on me with crushing intensity and my silly ass being square in the middle like scrat trying to keep a grip on that friggin acorn

#fjsjfj im Okay but i am Anxious i want things to go well and it isnt always easy #skelly speaks #oough i am at an age in my life.#and im trying to be with my partner...#and im still working on what ny trauma has done to me #and im poor #and my family is not doing the whole queer discussion so well #and my car is having issues #and the government wants money #and i have money owed to me but im struggling to get it #but we stay silly (':#finally starting five days a week this week again but god. at what cost

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welcometogrouchland · 11 months ago

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[ID in ALT] I've made posts before about Talia/Dick co-parenting Damian moments (will never happen but let me dream) and this came to me in a vision. Took me ages to finish for some reason 😭 and then even longer to post

#dc comics #dc #damian wayne #dick grayson #talia al ghul #batfamily #dc robin #nightwing #anyway. yes im a self-indulgent ''dick as damians secret third parent'' truther #like i DO think it's way more complex and nuanced than the schmoopy affectionate fan portrayal of it #they're brothers they're father and son they're partners they're the dynamic duo except only in past tense etc etc #but consider! I'm not immune to schmoopy affection in fanworks. it compells me despite itself #anyway it's technically not that crazy when it comes to dick and damian. they hug! often! at least they did #it's not as big a leap to these types of scenarios #also talia ''somewhat absent for complex reasons on both her and damians part but very loving and loved by her son'' al ghul #you will always be famous to me #son of the demon origin...bwahhh #anyway. someone made a comic kind of like this/like a post i made abt this topic #but way funnier bc dick and talia starting trying to beat each other up #so go look at that as well #anyway. it's been a somewhat difficult few weeks so I'm. desperately trying to take it easy #i got some reading with me (first vol of kevin smiths GA run that i found second hand and jaimes BB run vol 2!)#so we'll see how far i get through those. considering there's demons in my head telling me to re-read things (LET ME OUT!!!)#when i finish GA and BB i do plan on rereading robin 2021. as a treat to myself #it's a run I've really warmed up to as time went on #I'm keeping up w/ the current b&r run even though it is. admittedly very slow w/ some weird dialogue #i read it for the damian content more than anything. also nikas back so that's neat :]#idk I have a feeling that after absolute power shakes out we might get some more creative team switch ups #so if anyone at dc is interested in taking over the reigns on b&r...that could be very neat #mine

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dapper-lil-arts · 8 months ago

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I'm not the kind of person that's like "Here let me fix the canon" usually but like holy crap gen 5 implied a lot of messed up shit about our hero Twilight Sparkle lmao

#It almost says something about the dangers of undertakin responsabilities alone #the nuanced idea of putting heroes on a pedestal being inherently self destructive #hell its kind of funny that Sunny idolizing her is objectively wrong #her legacy was a house of cards!#but I digress #I hope this post isnt swinging a bat at a hornet's nest #but y'know #this is also related to my fics lmao #bc of course #twilight sparkle #sunset shimmer #gen 4 #gen 5 #pony posting #mlp gen 4 #my little pony #friendship is magic #Also like. Celestia herslef regretted banishing luna #and shes happier ruling WITH a partner #meanwhile twilight is like “Ok im not even on my thirties time to undertake all of this”#bonkers! Nuts!#its almost like. entirely accurate #entirely purposefull that her rule would fail completely #Wouldn't it be fucking sick for sunset to try again #to give it another shot!!!#now that shes better #changed for the better by none other than twi #i wrote fics of this lmaooo #fanfiction #writing stuff

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syrupbitee · 1 month ago

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free my boy from his own show he did nothing wrong

#they did him soo dirty wth and no one gaf about him at aaaal jentry started to being a dick i mean yeah sure understandable but the rest #of the cast?? they didnt interact with him but judge him as if he was the worst they didnt care to know him uug the show was okay there's #just things like this i didnt like at all i belive it was a wasted opportunity to befriend michael and stella with kit they would definitely #get along i also hated the fact jentry told stella kit wasnt a human when it is something sensitive for him she just came out him and showed #no remorse and faced no consequences that felt so out of character i swear😭 AND I ALSO DISLIKE michael and jentry as partners #it feels as if they are just trying to make their childhood crush real yknow i dont fucking see any intimacy between them besides their #first interactions i mean i dont ship jentry and kit but dude their emotional intimacy is deep they even kinda share the same vision of live #anyway go watch jcvtu so i can know what the sigma happens next i swear if kit doesnt revives i swear #myart #sketch #fanart #jcvtu #jentry chau vs the underworld #kit #kit jcvtu #okay so talking a lil about my sketch mmm i used that photo for the pose because there's no way ill break my head over it and well the thing #kit has in his hands is supposedly the thread he uses for his humans cosplays #if theres anyone reading this excuse my grammar is just that idc im having fun

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napping-sapphic · 3 months ago

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Life is actually about wearing a dress and daydreaming about someone you love zipping it up for you btw

#wlw #wlw mood #sapphic #sapphism #lesbian #i’ve actually never run into a dress that i’m unable to zip up myself but the point stands😤#because if given the chance i would absolutely make a partner do it for me instead😤😤#flexible shoulders be damned #i love dresses so much by the way!!#i’ve been trying to heal my relationship with them the past few years and get into wearing them more casually #and!!! it’s fun!!! i love them!!!!#:)!!!#im gay and i like sleeping

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cosmicredcadet · 1 year ago

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I think i just need to express that the culture surrounding QPRs right now made me think that i couldn't have strong bonds with my friends. Society told me i cant have strong bonds with friends because that was only for romantic relationships. Then i went into aro spaces and this idea was reinforced using QPRs instead of romantic relationships. it was "You can still have strong bonds with people without romance! It can just be a QPR instead!" "QPRs are MORE than friendship so you can have STRONGER BONDS than you would with friends."

it made me think that the relationships i wanted with my friends HAD to be something other than friendship for it to be as strong as i wanted. If i wanted to be the first person in someones life i had to enter some sort of committed relationship. if I wanted someone to care about me as strongly as i did them then it would have to be a relationship that was "more" than friendship.

I thought I wanted a QPR because i was told the only way to get that care and security that I wanted was to enter into a relationship that was "more" than friendship. because friends didn't care that much. because friends didn't live together their entire lives. because friends were never the priority relationship wise. and it took me years to realize that i didn't want any partnership and i shouldn't have to be in one to want these things from a friend. these things CAN be something friends can do. but i found that out on my own. because the aro community kept saying "you want a QPR" when i just wanted a friend who finally saw me as a priority in their life.

#text #personal #aro #aromantic #aroace #aspec #qpr #queerplatonic relationships #queer platonic relationships #tbh i was around when qprs were still getting footing. ppl werent sure how to properly label them #so to avoid allos saying it's just friends the common response was 'its more than friends but less than romance'#as if they were trying to justify it's existence as if we had to have a equivalent to romance to be justified in our identities and as ppl #because being aro made you not be a person. because how can you be a person if you dont love or have a partner #because being aro was sad because being aro meant ou were alone and you shouldn't want to be alone!!#and these ideas made it so that amatonormativity was just reinforced in aro spaces #and it isn't until recent years when amatonormativity started getting used top put a name to the problem #that i really saw ppl start standing up for aros who didnt partner because why are we expected to partner anyways?#shouldnt ppl be whole as they are?#and this is only my experience im not saying this happens everywhere #but this is why i think we need to have a conversation about QPRs and how they are used in aro spaces #because im not the only one who struggled through this #my experience may not be universal but my experience has happened to others #and thats worth talking about #srry im having a lot of thoughts recently

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seeminglydark · 6 months ago

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Lets skip the bus, and just walk so we can spend more time together.

i know its not so easy for you right now, nothing is, I guess.

But I can help you carry the load, and we'll get there eventually.

And even if we don't, well, thats ok. Walking beside you in the early morning light is what mattered to me anyway.

Sully and Caro are from my webcomic Mil-Liminal.

#the punk and the cheerleader #original characters #early mornings #cute #crust punk #cheerleader #in the closet #i initially did this sketch and ended up feeling bad about it like it wasn't good enough and sorta threw it away #but i really loved it so i decided to finish it with a lot of care #been feeling like i cant live up to expectations all the time or like i fall short or whatever a lot lately #but im trying #and shout out to my partner and my friends who help me carry the load along the way #this ones for me #and also for you #i love you i love you i love you #posted this in the wrong blog so if you saw it #no you didnt

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blossoms-phan · 3 months ago

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thinking about this photo

#can’t think too much about how phil almost died without spiraling #and that’s just referring to the video filmed on their holiday like… how was that this year #phil in the wad hat…#with all his little drinks and the remaining milky bar buttons #they’re actually in a hospital room and they are lucky to have access to good healthcare and all but #there’s just a certain feel to hospitals that I can smell and feel through this singular pic #dan being sillay and taking a little pic while he’s like >:[ cause yeah wouldn’t you be too #but like god… something so intimate and human about this whole ordeal and the fact that they shared it with us #companions through life… this is some real partner shit #like i know they’re gonna be there. they’re always going to be there and right beside each other through everything #but…………. man #shoutout to pinterest once again for sending me down my nightly dnp spiral when im just trying to scroll and it’s either cute pics #or this #dnp #dan and phil #phan

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kissingarthurclaus · 1 month ago

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Originally they were gonna be watching Krampus (2015) but that seemed a little too mean-spirited, but I really wanted to draw my s/i showing Arthur a...different kind of Christmas movie 😂😂

Taglist♡: @me-myself-and-my-fos @tiny-cloud-of-flowers @sunstar-of-the-north @dearly-beeloved @adoredbyalatus @changeling-selfship @crushes-georg

@cherry-bomb-ships @rosieaurora @rejaytionships @in-true-blue-love @tropicalgothships @little-miss-selfships

@cupiidzbow @frozenhi-chews @limey-self-inserts @candyheartedchy @space-sweetheart @halsinkisser @clancykisser @dearheartwitcher

#artfarts #self insert #self ship #self insert art #self ship art #self insert x canon #oc x canon #arthur christmas #arthur claus #🎄 my christmas wish 🎄#IVE BEEN WORKING ON THIS ONE A WHILE #its been rly fun watching a bunch of christmas movies with my irl partner but now i get to imagine watching em w arthur too 🥺👉👈#AND YEAH HE'D LIKE SOME OF THEM MORE THAN OTHERS #im just trying to broaden his horizons a little!! push him outta that comfort zone a little #and i LOVED gremlins as a kid and i still love it now #its such a goofy christmas horror/comedy flick with some awesome effects #but yeah i decided to go with that instead of krampus cause of the aforementioned reason #and also hcs he'd absolutely have at least some knowledge of krampus as a folklore character!#i mean idk how real he is in this universe 🤔🤔 being the foil to santa claus and all!#but arthur the christmas autist would definitely KNOW about krampus but he might NOT know about gremlins since theyre more pop culture

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amygdalae · 26 days ago

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lmaooo we spent a full hour in his car when he dropped me off just making out and biting each other and getting handsy and I kept almost going inside but then one of us wld go back in for another kiss etc. until eventually he was just like "yeah you should go before I turn into an animal" LOL get tortured

#we were talking abt stuff I wanna try and I mentioned im curious abt pegging #n he said he's never tried it cuz none of his partners ever suggested it but that he's interested 😳😳😳#We're both such switches it's so fun going back and forth talking abt the things we want to do to eachother #one thing at a time though I've still gotta get used to how huge he is I only lost my virginity on Friday and im literally still healing up #But I like pain so #anywaaaays #TMI

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neonhellscape · 4 months ago

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most offputting twink youve ever seen in your life

#orikan the diviner #the infinite and the divine #i am once again inflicting chromatic abhorrations upon you all #he laughs like a crow and would refuse to spit in someones face because they dont deserve to touch him even in that way #he. looks very dramatic.#..yknow. ive kinda dealt with being told to draw nicer things and cuter things my whole life and. always struggled with it #very recently have been trying to draw more freak shit and. i am realising just how much that criticism has held me back #im fucking terrified [see i showed my partner this first and when given the stamp of approval i just said 'really' in shock like four times #but. im enjoying it more. i want to do more freak shit like this #anyway. the divinerrrrrrrr

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dapper-lil-arts · 9 months ago

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Working on a multiverse thing, thought I might as well show some of the arts for it. Across the Shimmerverse

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lilithofpenandbook · 6 months ago

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Seriously how can M*r*uders stans like random Slytherins (who tf are Evan Rosier, Pandora (is that Luna's mum and why tf is she Evan Rosier's twin in half of these), and I don't even want to discuss Regulus) and make them Actually Misunderstood Good People Who Were Forced Down That Path when at least one of them *coughreguluscough* was obsessed with Voldemort

And then turn around and make Snape an awful person?

#i saw a post with hcs about the marauders and the “slytherin skittles”#and i swear to god they gave everyone a lil nuance but snape was evil #just... how?????#im starting to wonder if they just can't accept that the marauders were actually horrible people as teens #and so in order to digest that they need to make snape awful to be like “Oh but he DESERVED it because he's So Awful”#it's just ridiculous #like i hate james but i can also acknowledge that he did ultimately love lily and harry and would have been a loving partner and dad #even if he was a fool #and i don't vibe well with sirius but i also acknowledge that he was fucking traumatised so yeah he wouldn't be the best person #why is it so hard for the marauders stans to understand that their faves tormenting a geniunely innocent child #because honestly? severus was innocent from the start #they're the ones who pushed him over the edge #I've said it once and I'll it again:#being into the Dark Arts doesn't automatically make someone evil #anyway i need to go sleep #or at least try. i got very pissed lmao #severus snape #pro snape #anti marauders fandom #(not even anti marauders as much its their fandom that pisses me off)#also #anti james potter #(just because i want to be petty UwU)#snape defense #also you know what #anti regulus black #<-whoever he was it wasnt what the fandom said #in my mind he was one of the worst out of the black cousins from an early age #(mostly as a mental Fuck You to the stans lmao)

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evenmorecrows · 3 months ago

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modern rookanis au where spite is lucanis' cat who at best coexists with him and constantly knocks shit off counters and will find lucanis only to sit in front of him and yell. and then lucanis and rook get together and rook meets spite and spite immediately latches on. still a little shit, still a freak but he'll let rook pet him and he'll sit in their lap and Maybe even purr.

#i still havent gotten very far in the game because im trying to upgrade the shadow dragons shop and get everything i want from it #so this isnt incredibly informed but we're silly here its fine #i imagine before rook comes along spite is less of a pet and more of a roommate. like that cat just Lives here.#tmw 'your' cat likes your partner more than you #and if i can share my vision for what cat!spite looks like to you. if you know pangur imagine pangur but short haired and black-furred save #for one tiny tuft of white on the chest #idk what eye color he'd have. if we're trying to be realistic then he couldn't have purple-ish eyes without being albino so im not sure.#green maybe?#but considering this is made up and does Not Actually have to adhere to real life he Could have purple eyes anyway #dragon age #dragon age the veilguard #da: the veilguard #datv #spite dragon age #lucanis dellamorte #rook dragon age #rookanis

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lambment · 11 months ago

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Can we ask about Kallamar’s spouses? How many does he have??? Are they happy??? Is he a good partner?

even I dont know how many spouses Kallamar has.

you didnt hear this from me, but he has health and dental benefits.

#the answer is yes they are V happy #I think hes prob in a polycule of at least 6 tho #ik poly is played for a joke alot of the time but im fr kallamar is a good partner and everyone involved is v happy #I want you to imagine my cult as a functioning village #so it has a couple of hundred followers and rising #so kallamar despite his efforts cannot rizz them all #Kallamar is that one sim you try to make wahoo the town #speaketh #kallamar

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mettywiththenotes · 3 months ago

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Smthg smthg Jinx stapling her leg, Viktor carving runes into his

#im Staple. and im Carve. the Self Harm Siblings #well not siblings. future partners? colleagues? potential friends?#whatever you get my point #arcane #jinx #jinx arcane #viktor #viktor arcane #tw self harm #tw sh #mettys posts #metty posts #tw self harm mention #tw sh destructive behaviour #ask me to tag #trying to cover my bases

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