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no one wants him to be harry
just because something is hard for you it doesnât mean is not easy generally speaking
why donât you go get whipped or slapped or whatever it is you do and stop talking nonsense

Why are yâall so fucking obsessed with my sex life akfkakfkakf is it cause you donât have sex???
#and donât give me that âyou talk about it a lotâ cause I know I donât#and since you CLEARLY have issues with me youâd only know that if you fucking followed me or checked in on me more often#also also Iâve spoken with Louies before#yâall absolutely want him to be Harryâs level of fame#i believe I was once directly told âwhatâs so wrong with wanting him to play the same venues as Harryâ#yâall use Louis as your stand in for feeling important in 1D fandom#and solos have ALWAYS pushed YOUR expectations on him#because (again this is something I have been directly told by solos) you want to be able to tell people who you life#and get fucking validation for it#you donât want to feel âweirdâ or âjudgedâ for liking someone less mainstream#and thatâs something yâall are gonna have to learn to cope with#there is gonna come a time in your life where you tell people the stuff you life#and no one is gonna know what they are#AND GUESS WHAT#THATS OKAY#also also#words mean something#and if something is HARD for someone that generally means it is NOT easy#but I feel like that isnât something youâve gotten to in your school lessons yet
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Studying linguistics is actually so wonderful because when you explain youth slang to older professors, instead of complaining about how "your generation can't speak right/ you're butchering the language" they light up and go âreally? Thatâs so wonderful! What an innovative construction! Isn't language wonderful?"
#linguistics#gen z slang#english#as people in the reblog pointed out!#most gen z slang comes from (or was appropriated from) aave#honestly I was just excited to talk about how people in my field actually get excited about non standard uses of English#instead of ridiculing speakers#and I tagged incorrectly and didnât point out the very real issues of language and power and appropriation inherent in modern slang#in that much of it was appropriated#and even that which experiences language change in the wider culture still originated in aave#aave is just as linguistically valid as any other English dialect because it is a proper language#and the grammar is incredible!!!#habitual be is fantastic and an excellent example of how a richer case system or a certain case can render an adverb unnecessary#and the phonology is just beautiful#anyway Iâm very sorry#I fucked up
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I remember discussing Tintin casting choices with a friend from Germany and remarked how it was odd he often has an English accent in adaptations rather than a Belgian one, and my friend just replied "that's because Tintin gives incredibly strong English boy energy (derogatory)"
Here in the UK there's a lot of weird classism tied into accents. Today accent diversity and representation in broadcasting is actively pursued but in Tintin's time there certainly was a preferred accent to have.
imagine this exchange happens between pages 28-29 in The Crab with the Golden Claws
#tintin#adventures of tintin#comic#captain haddock#archibald haddock#snowy#milou#fanart#the crab with the golden claws#i remember tintin crafting a trumpet to communicate with an elephant#and he remarks he must get the accent correct#very odd scenario but it shows he would be a stickler for that sort of thing#i also have to say accents do not indicate how smart someone is#a lot of pundits use an english accent to sound more credible#but i have to say there are a lot of fucking idiots here#me included#thank you 2011 film for validating my scottish haddock headcanon#any french speakers who have read to this point i wonder what your hcs are for his french speaking accent
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hey btw if you're in the USA at  2:20 p.m. ET on Wednesday, Oct. 4, they're testing the emergency broadcast system. your phone is probably going to make a really loud noise, even if it's on silent. there's a backup date on the 11th if they need to postpone it.
if you're not in a safe situation and have an extra phone, you should turn that phone completely off beforehand.
additionally, if you're like me, and are easily startled; i recommend treating it like a party. have a countdown or something. be surrounded by your loved ones. take the actions you personally need to take to make yourself safe.
i have already seen mockery towards any person who feels nervous about this. for the record, it completely, completely valid to have "emergency broadcast sounds" be an anxiety trigger. do not let other people make fun of you for that. emergency sounds are legitimately engineered to make us take action; those of us with high levels of anxiety and/or neurodivergence are already pre-disposed to have a Bad Time. sometimes it is best to acknowledge that the situation will be triggering for some, and to prepare for that; rather than just saying "well that's stupid, it's just a test."
"loud scary sound time" isn't like, my favorite thing, but we can at least try to prevent some additional anxiety by preparing for it. maybe get yourself a cake? noise cancelling headphones? the new hozier album? whatever helps. love u, hope you're okay. we are gonna ride it out together.
#watching ppl go from being like ''support neurodivergent ppl~~!"#to being like ''if this is going to give u a panic attack ur fuckken stupid''#like..... gets me#yeah man. i know im going to be triggered by it . in the old fashioned term. it is GOING to give me a panic attack. it's pretty much certai#and i shouldn't have to tell u about what i have survived for you to be okay with that.#you can just trust that i ALSO don't want me to react to it. i'm not gonna be having a FUN time.#dismissing that bc you think it's stupid.... like is the whole problem.#these sounds are workshopped by entire teams of people to get you to pay attention and move quickly.#they arent meant to be fun and exciting.#OBVIOUSLY it's gonna set ppl off.#but yeah there's something so fuckken demeaning about ppl being like. well that trigger isn't valid bc u haven't undergone X#dude i have ptsd bc i was abused as a child. like plain and simple. the fact im 30 and afraid of the dark tells you how bad it was.#i shouldn't have to ask u for permission to be mentally ill.#the reason it's a fucking disorder and not a fucking choice is that I DO NOT CONTROL IT.#like how is it any different from when ppl are like ''oh public speaking isn't that scary'' like FOR YOU#for YOU this isn't scary. now if i could fucking eat my own amygdala...
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Guilt tripping people does nothing but cause vulnerable folks to spiral and make folks who dont live with moral OCD feel negatively toward your cause
#gopher rambles#what the fuck do I tag this as#feel free to reblog but you dont have to#edit: pls not that im not saying 'only folks with moral ocd are negatively affected' or 'if these make you spiral you have moral ocd'#i mostly pointed that out because folks on this hellsite seem to only give a damn about things folks feel if theres a 'valid reason' to#which is shitty and stupid. but sometimes you gotta work with the shitty stupid shit to get your point across
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#nosferatu#nosferatu 2024#memes#I just love how angry she is at the unfairness of it all#this particular Gothic heroine isn't the sad sighing type (though that's also valid)#when she actually gets to speak her piece she is PISSED#give the girl a rocket launcher and watch her knock that decomposing fuck into next week
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like you guys know warwick is supposed to be a metaphor, right?
and by 'you guys' I am talking to the writers of Arcane S2 (2024), who appear to have forgotten this.
like warwick, in a strictly plot sense, is something that is done to vander. but warwick, in a narrative sense, is supposed to be a metaphor. you understand that, right?
it's a metaphor for the monster within the man?
the hound of the underground?
the way suffering breeds cruelty breeds monsters - the uncaged wrath of zaun?
the sins of his past come back to haunt him?
the violence he tried to leave behind, but never could?
"i knew you still had it in you."?
Sometimes, as he fed in dark alleys on stray gangers, the flash of knives would remind him of an old blade covered in blood. Blood passing from the blade to his hands. From his hands, to everything he touched. Sometimes, he remembered the girl again. And still there was blood. It had always been there, he realized, his entire life, and nothing he did could wash it off. He'd left so many scars that even if he didn't remember his past, the city would. When he peered into the eyes of Zaun's criminals - the gang bosses, murderers, and thieves - he saw himself.
that's the warwick we should have gotten in S2. vander the grey, not vander the unproblematically whitewashed. vander the revolutionary who brought his gauntlets to that bridge to fight for a future; the base violence necessary for change. vander with blood on his hands, just as much as the partner he scapegoated for it; tried to bury in the pilt along with his own guilt; not just vander who felt aw shucks real sorry about the attempted murder that one time. vander the complex. vander who sold out zaun's resistance to ease his own shame. vander the reckoning with his own complicity; his own violence; his own original sin. vander whose murkiness helps vi unpack her black and white worldview, and let go of the rose-tinted past to which she clings; understand jinx, even understand silco; understand that it's not just about Individual Bad People doing Individual Bad Things to Individual Good People, and Individual Good People who have to defeat the Individual Bad People, but that this is something far bigger and far older than any of them, a whole rotten system of misery and oppression that turns people into monsters. that the thing that turned vander into a monster, METAPHORICALLY, happened long before he met singed.
vander the monster, as well as vander the man.
instead, we got whatever this shit is:
#arcane#arcane critical#vander#warwick#LET VANDER BE FUCKED UP AGAIN#BRING BACK MY MORALLY COMPROMISED BEAR WITH AN UNDERCURRENT OF VIOLENCE STILL RUNNING BENEATH THE SURFACE#HAUNTED BY THE SINS OF HIS OWN PAST#THE BLOOD ON HIS OWN HANDS#how did the writers forget what made vander such a good character in S1#(spoiler: it's because they need to jettison any lingering notion that active resistance is valid)#(and double down on the idea that u just gotta FORGIVE! u just gotta walk away. u just gotta get out of that oppression MINDSET u guys!)
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i just heard one of my favorite youtubers say this meme out loud in a video and the pronounciation FLOORED ME so now i gotta know:
poll is just "which way do you say it"; tags is "which way is right", assuming your answer to "which way is right" is different to "which way do you say it". or i guess tags are also for uhhhhhh if your answer is complicated and if you wanna explain, if you have a diff way of pronouncing (pls tell meeeee), or whatever else you want, im not your parents, idk
#i just.. diDNT THINK THERE WAS ANOTHER WAY TO PRONOUNCE IT???#but i heard [redacted pronounciation] and i just went ''pĂĹĆĂĹ???'' so i tried to think of all possible ones?#forgive me if theres already been a poll on this; i didnt see it and thus didnt know#edit: fuck!!! i just realizied you could combine the last two like i couldve made ''be o bo'' and ''bo be o'' each an option#if oNE OF THOSE TWO ARE THE MAJORITY (not that i expect many votes at all. but still!!) IMMA BE (1) SHOOK AND (2) McFUCKING BAFFLED#edit: wow. i thought id be lucky to get 20 in a week with my follower count. okay. damn. youre sweet ⥠also ''Boo boo''s you are so valid#im sorry i did not think to add you as an option. you are so right
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do you think ariana grande has zero fear of saying and doing whatever the fuck she wants during the wicked press tour like about glinda being gay and in love with elphaba and all because she knows that literally nothing will come close to the bad press she gets by simply being with ethan slater so she just goes fuck it, GELPHIE IS CANON EVERYONE GLINDA IS A FUCKING LESBIAN AND SHE'S GAY FOR THE WITCH.
#wicked#wicked 2024#shitpost#im sorry for being like this#i will go to bed now#ariana grande#glinda upland#elphaba thropp#gelphie#can't get it out of my mind now#because if i was her#and i already went through the bad press that came with yk the entire ethan slater fiasco#i'd say i don't think there can be a worse reaction to this#especially not to the gay witches#and so i'd say fuck it and decide to let everyone know i am a gelphie truther#which is valid ngl#appreciate all the content she is giving us#woman is the number one supporter i was kidding before but it's not funny now like
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First of all, bitch, where did I ever say anything about "eroticizing inferiority"? Like, be fucking for real. Show me the receipts. Because unless youâre reading between lines that donât exist, nothing in my post said anything about power dynamics, submission, or âinferiority.â It sounds like youâre projecting some judgmental bullshit that I didnât even invite into the conversation. So letâs start thereâcheck yourself before you come into my space twisting my words to fit your weird little agenda.
Second of all, and I mean this with every ounce of sincerity, shut the fuck up. Genuinely, if you donât like what you see, donât interact. Itâs that simple. Not everyone has to match your narrow idea of what shifting is âsupposedâ to be. Shifting isnât some gated community where you get to play security guard and decide whoâs allowed in. So do us all a favor, take that rigid-ass energy, and keep it to yourself, bitch.
Letâs be real for a second. You said, âsex freaks who insist on eroticizing inferiority are ruining shifting.â Bitch, nobodyâs ruining anythingâespecially not me. All I said was that I want to get fucked. Plain and simple. If my desire to shift for a good time offends you, youâre free to move along. Shifting means different things to different people, and if sex is part of that, itâs totally valid. If I want to shift to a reality for some damn good dick, who the fuck are you to get all sanctimonious about it? Newsflash: your opinion on whatâs âappropriateâ doesnât apply here, darling.
And letâs get one thing fucking clear, because clearly, you need this spelled out: even if someone did want to shift to a reality where they take on a more passive, submissive role, what of it? Why the fuck does that bother you so much? Some people spend their whole lives having to be strong, holding shit together, constantly defending themselves, and staying in control just to survive. Maybe, just maybe, they want to create a reality where they can finally let go, surrender, and trust someone who respects them and wonât take advantage of them. Imagine thatâfeeling safe enough to let down your guard and explore a side of yourself you donât get to express in this life. For some people, thatâs healing. For others, itâs fun. Either way, itâs their choice, not yours. So back the fuck off.
So letâs talk about this âruining shiftingâ nonsense you pulled out of nowhere. Bitch, the only thing âruiningâ anything is people like you, stomping into conversations uninvited and acting like youâre the gatekeeper of how others should experience their desires. Youâre clinging to this imaginary rulebook about whatâs âappropriateâ for shifting as if that makes you morally superior, but all it does is make you look insecure, judgmental, and way too invested in other peopleâs business. Spoiler alert: nobody gives a fuck about your approval or needs it to validate their experience.
Hereâs the truth, since you seem to need a wake-up call: shifting is deeply personal. Itâs about self-determination and freedom, not conforming to some rigid-ass code of conduct set by random bitches on the internet. If someone wants to shift for spiritual growth, self-discovery, sexual exploration, or all of the above, thatâs their fucking prerogative. Shaming them because it doesnât align with your limited, vanilla-ass view of whatâs âappropriateâ is straight-up pathetic.
And by the way, bitch, sex is a natural, beautiful, and completely valid part of life. If I want to shift for sex, or if someone else wants to shift to feel cherished, adored, or, yes, even submissive, thatâs nobodyâs fucking business but ours. Maybe instead of trying to drag others down to your level of insecurity, you could take a hard look in the mirror and figure out why other peopleâs sexual autonomy bothers you so damn much. Because this isnât about âruining shiftingâ; itâs about you being uncomfortable with the idea of someone enjoying themselves in a way thatâs different from what you deem acceptable. Maybe some self-reflection would do you some good.
To every other shifter out there whoâs ever been made to feel guilty or âlesserâ for shifting for your own reasons, listen up: you donât owe anyone an explanation, and you donât need anyoneâs approval. Your DR, your fucking rules. If shifting for you is about finding love, intimacy, exploration, or yes, even some good dick, thatâs your choice. Donât let some insecure bitch shame you or make you feel like youâre somehow ruining the experience just because it doesnât fit into their narrow little box. Shifting is about creating the life and reality you want to liveâwhatever the fuck that looks like for you.
So, hereâs a suggestion: take your unsolicited, holier-than-thou attitude and keep it to yourself. If you canât handle seeing people talk openly about their desires and goals for shifting, then bitch, scroll past and save yourself the outrage. Because at the end of the day, Iâm not here to please you, and neither is anyone else. Weâre here to live our best lives, however we see fit, and if thatâs too much for you, the doorâs right over there.
To everyone whoâs out here shifting for what they want, keep going. Own your desires, own your reality, and donât let anyoneâs outdated judgment make you feel like youâre doing it wrong. Shifting is your journey, and if that includes exploring intimacy, vulnerability, or sexuality, youâre not alone. Youâre valid, and your experience is just as real and important as anyone elseâs.
Consider this your reminder that no oneâs begging for your approval. Iâll be over here, unbothered, shifting for exactly what I want, and loving every fucking second of it. â¨
#reality shifting#shiftblr#shifting#shifting community#desired reality#shifting realities#shifters#reality shifter#reality shift#shifting antis dni#shifting blog#shifting advice#shifter#shift#shifting reality#shifting motivation#fuck this shit#GIRL WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TO SLUTSHAME PEOPLE LIKE THAT ????#THE BLOCKING BUTTON IS RIGHT HERE BABE#IDK WHAT YOU THOUGH BY TYPING THIS SHIT#LIKE DID YOU FOR REAL MEANT IT OR WAS THAT SOMETHING TO BE TAKEN LIGHTHEARTEDLY ?#TONE TAGS ARE HERE FOR REASON#KINDLY GET THE FUCK OFF MY PAGE#IF UR NOT HAPPY LEAVE BBYGIRL#Chile anyways so....#Lemme shit for some Good D#and not the vitamin#TO ALL THE PEOPLE OUT THERE SHIFTING FOR SEX YOU ARE VALID#GO GET THAT D OR THAT V IDGAF#NOT MY JOURNEY NOT MY PROBLEM
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I know it took a couple days, but I've been sobbing so like... can you blame me?? Here's Heart killers text posts part 11 ft. ep 11 (new type of falvour on the ep 11 curse)
Part 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 12
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#are these hahas anymore? I'm just in my feelings at this point#I don't want this stupid little show to end#what am i supposed to do when these weirdos aren't on my screen every week anymore? move on? I can't#what the actual fuck is next ep gonna be? I still demand dubble weddings btw#also fadel is forever an emo in my heart now#I can't think of him differently anymore#do you think keen can help them get out of prison? or has he just fucked off with if bf never to come back? valid#the heart killers#thk#fadelstyle#kantbison#ro makes thk hahas
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hot take lol but ferrari dropped carlos (for lewis, so understandable but still) and pretty much kicked him to the roadside. he's fully justified in not having to play the team game at this stage and prioritise his own results
#this is coming from a charles fan. he's allowed and valid to be upset at carlos but the way some people are reacting today.. fucking yeesh#get a life idk#charles leclerc#carlos sainz#me when im a ferrari fan and i actively wish for the death of one of the drivers (totally a normal and sane thing to do)#f1
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are you truly a queer ally if you exclude or don't support the following?
queer people of color
queer women / feminine queers
queer men / masculine queers
amab queers
afab queers
intersex individuals
transgender individuals
non-binary indidviduals
any kind of non-conformity (pronoun, gender, label, etc.)
queer alterhumans
neopronominal / varipronominal / multipronominal / apapronominal / alterpronominal / nullpronominal / crosspronoun individuals
xenogenders
aro- / ace- / aroace-spec individuals
disabled queers
queer people who don't confirm with certain stereotypes of their identities or of queer people in general
the answer is, no, you really aren't. you're an exclusionist.
#if you're comfortable with your identity and how you present yourself and etc and aren't purposefully being harmful then you do you#fuck exclusionists#queer#lgbtq+#lgbtq positivity#'contradictory' labels are valid#don't police other's identities and don't let others policing your identities get to you#alterhumanity#transgender#non-binary#trans#gay#lesbian#xenogenders#xenogenders are valid#non-binary people are valid#transgender people are valid#you are valid#aromantics are valid#asexuals are valid#aroaces are valid
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girls when their issues get dismissed as anxiety for the millionth time
#futaba sakura#persona 5#p5r#p5#fanart#futabadoodles#chat i am SO losing it#went to get diagnosed w adhd wasnt diagnosed because and i quote âit could be anxietyâ omfg#neurotypical psychiatrists especially white ones die in a hole đĽ°#also because i âwasnt struggling enoughâ#like hi so i have this thing called emotional intelligence a good support system and access to coping skills hope that helps!#god forbid a neurodivergent person has tools to manage their condition and isnt in hell everyday i guess!#hate her ass!!!!!!!#i wasnt looking to get diagnosed for medication or support bc i already use a lot of like adhd specific supports and shit#and w accommodations my anxiety diagnosis can cover what i need for the most part so it was rlly just a validation/confirmation thing#like idk yeah. i am managing. im not particularly struggling. because ive been selfdx for a while and have implemented changes in my life#and i happen to be in a very very good place rn and im very lucky. so like. ???#rlly felt like âyou have all the symptoms but youre not struggling enough with anything to be able to diagnose ypuâ ok thanks fuck you#cuz ppl w adhd can manage being unmedicated by choice i js wasnt officially diagnosed before i guess its deemed âokayâ to not live in hell!#dunno im frustrated. i have difficulties but i manage them well and i am very lucky to live an easy life for now so like đ??
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