#and I don't enjoy when this happens because i dont know his friends or bf that well (only met once or twice) and it feels a little invasive
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#im gonna vent for a sec even tho i think ive mentioned this before but sometimes my twin will say things about me in front of his friends#that i consider personal information#Like#something pertaining to the amount i drink in social situations or something about my mental health/the SSRIs i take#and I don't enjoy when this happens because i dont know his friends or bf that well (only met once or twice) and it feels a little invasive#it gives me the impression that he gossips about me n my depression#anyway. he did it twice today in such a glib manner#It made me so upset I started thinking “oh you love bragging about how Fucked Up i am. You're so glad it's me and not you.”#which is a mean thing to think because i know hes had his fair share of hardships#but thats how I feel sometimes. And I'm certain there is a part of him that likes talking about my Problems just bc hes a bit of a gossip#we're not even that close thats another reason why I dont enjoy it.#It feels like theres a wall between us that prevents us from being truly candid and emotionally vulnerable#we talk about personal matters sometimes but it always feels. removed and more like a confessional than sibling bonding#maybe thats why he thinks it doesn't upset me much#vile-wizard.txt
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A FEW INTERESTING THINGS
I guess I need help
So if y'all dont know, I'm trying to revise my boyfriend's d3ath.
It's been two months since I have been affirming and a few days since I got into the concept of void. Now, I'm trying to get into the void.
I've noticed a few crazy things, that I would love to share.
I've always affirmed that “everyone will forget about my boyfriend's demise because it was just my nightmare and no such thing ever happened. He's all alive and healthy” So I guess my affirmations are kinda playing out.
1.
When I got to know about his demise, I sent him like 100 texts that day, I was so emotional and poured down everything to him. He not only is my boyfriend, but also is my best friend. The bestest friend ever and it was the worst day of my life. I was never ready to lose him.
I sent those 100 texts to him on Snapchat and obviously, my texts were just delivered. Nobody read them because that "nobody" Was long gone. I'm talking about feb, 2024. So I checked his snapchat after a few days of emotional ranting, and those texts didn't show up. I thought it might be a glitch and now after like 3 months, I went back to check on him because I missed him and guess what? ALL OF THOSE TEXTS ARE GONE!
Now idk if I'm tweaking but wtf? Snapchat has this feature where messages get deleted after 24 hours of being seen. But nobody saw my messages to begin with, where are those texts????
Like... All the snaps, that were sent before those texts and even after those texts are still in delivered, not seen.
Can anyone tell me if this is a glitch? This couldn't be, right? It's been 3 months to that incident, if it were glitch, it would have been fixed by now but idk-
2.
My bf would post about his travelling and stuffs in Instagram reels and I often visit his account to look at him all alive once again and one day, I noticed one of his reels cover has changed 💀 and I even showed it to my sister and friend and they were shocked too. I thought it might be a glitch too. But it stayed like that for 3 days and then switched back to what it was before.
This might be a glitch idk honestly but my friend said it might be a "timeline/dimensions overlapping"
3.
Two of my close friends are really logical minded and I never told them about my manifestation/shifting to a reality where my bf never got into an accident, because they wouldn't believe me. They don't even believe in multiple realities... So, not worth it.
A week ago, I texted one of these friends, saying that I feel like my bf is alive (emotional ranting) and all she told me was to hold up and move on, I'm thinking way too much 😮💨
And that's that. We didn't talk much about it.
After a few days of that, she texted me herself telling me that she feels the same. She feels as if my bf is alive too and maybe faking a death. We didn't get into the conclusion but yeah, we are still in doubt.
Also I would daydream about meeting my bf once again and i would make infinite possibilities to proof my reasoning mind that he's alive. So one of my imagination was my friend texting my bf's brother (they have nothing in common, they don't even know each other yet I imagined them talking) and his brother would say that my boyfriend is actually alive. And that scene exactly happened, except for the alive part. my friend talked to his brother to get his "last" Pics and guess what? They don't have that. Which is super weird because that accident just happened this year and those photos are gone. I texted one of his other brother who always replies to my texts and always give me updates about how their family is grieving but when I asked about pics, he left me on seen— again very weird.
Moreover, all of them (his family members) have moved on completely. They are enjoying and travelling. Idk how but like in a month of my bf's demise, they started partying a stuff which is super weird to me.
.....
I guess my affirmations are kinda becoming true. My 3D is maybe conforming slowly (?) Idk 😭
Lemme know what y'all think. Any tips on revising such thing would be appreciated. Thanks for reading 🎐
I'm sorry if I don't make any sense, I'm probably being delusional. Sorry for the rant 🥲🤌
#law of assumption#revision#loa#loassumption#loa success#loassblog#revising death#death revision#loa blog#manifesation#manifesting#void state#the void#eiypo#loablr#reality shifting#shiftblr#shifting community#shifters
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Take a chance
Pairings: Seonghwa × y/n & Wooyoung [ex bf]
Genre/tags: fake relationship to real??
Warning: cursing, smoking/drinking, cheating (pls dont do this), insecurities, jealousy, with 🔞 smut/angst, sensual touching, dry humping, cursing, pet names, unprotected sex, blowjob/handjob, mention of period
~~~ [lmk if i miss anything]
Words: 4.6k
Disclaimer:
- this story is just made up
- english is not my first language, please be nice 😊
Note: Part 2 for Jealous
I hope its good enough for the first part 🙏🏻 its sort of rushed at the end coz i finished it so late 😅 and as usual, I do write when I'm about to pass out, to sleep.
Again, thank you for those liking my short fics 🫶🏻
***
"Unnngghhhh... aahhhh...s- so good!"
Fucking hell. What am I doing? Why am I here again? At his place, panties off and riding him like my rent is due tomorrow. What the fuck happened to me? I'm not like this... I'm...
"Fuck!" I cry as I intertwined both my hands with his. "I'm... about to... explode." I am catching my breathe.
"Let it go..." he answers and then pulling you down just enough so he could kiss you on your pinkish lips. "Come for me..." he snarls as you separate.
And I did.
I threw my head back and just released everything. I even think my soul left my body coz I am shaking like a twig.
"You are amazing..." Seonghwa sits up and embraces me. "You are beautiful..." he leaves gentle kisses on my shoulder and my neck. "You are happiness..."
His words. Since we agreed with this fake dating thing. I thought, everything will be just like the same as our relationship before. Casual. But the more we spend time together or should I say, have sex in his place or mine the more he became vocal, praising me, saying such nice things to me. I don't know why but I'm not used to it. Or maybe, I'm flustered every time and I can't just express it.
I'm not saying it's a bad thing but... it's just new to me. Wooyoung compliments me yes, however, when Seonghwa does it. It feels different. It makes my heart skip a beat.
"I make you happy?" I snort a laugh as I relax my tense body. "Are you saying that because your dick is still in me and you want to go another round?" I joke
He smiles softly, "No..." and then he tugs my loose hair behind my ear. "Unless you want to..." and then kisses the corner of my lips.
"Really?" I start to tease him by moving my hips again.
He grunts as he felt my tightness and then softly giggles, "you're being naughty..."
He turns us both around. Now he's on top and my back is on his bed. I am giggling like a little girl, enjoying his reaction.
"Let me show you... why you should not tease me like that..."
He goes on to nibble every inch of my skin. Making me moan like we didn't just had an amazing sex a second ago.
Seonghwa really does a very good job at making me weak and fold in an instant. His lips, his tongue, his eyes, his words and his.... length. Everything about him had become my krytonite but at the same time fills my emptiness inside of me. Both metaphorically and literally.
Though, all of this is fun and satisfying. Our relationahip is NOT true. This is all fake. We are not IN LOVE.
Which pains me a little deep inside actually. How the fuck this have to happen to me? Finding someone that is making me happy, enjoy life, makes me feel like his only girl in the world and gives effort to get to know me turns out to be someone who is just a friend, a nice friend, that I cannot make myself fall in love witu.
I need to pause on this feelings I am having. I need to focus on me and not us. Coz there is no US.
FUCK.
***
I must've fallen asleep after having another round.
I'm still lying on his bed, face down and his white thick blanket is wrapped around me.
"It's snowing..." I mumble as I blink away the sleepiness in my eyes whilst looking outside his window. "It's been that long..." Referring to our deal.
Didn't realize that we've been doing this for more than half a year already.
I roll over looking up at his ceiling. "I've been fucking him...that long...?" I ask myself. "Hmm..."
Then my phone pings, cutting me from my deep thoughts. I get up, covering my bare top with the blanket, and check who messaged me.
WY: It's snowing. Don't forget to bring a jacket and a scarf. ♥️
I heavily sighed after reading his text. I don't get him. Him, pushing and pulling my feelings is getting on my nerves.
A month into my deal with Seonghwa, I thought, well, he made me think that he still have feelings with me. After getting jealous and all with hwa. Then after that he became cold with me again and flaunts his new girl, face to face. Then he continued sending me text messages like this, whenever he wants. Like, what? He dumped me right? And he's with a girl so... why?
And also, why does it bother me? I should be happy right? Since all of these acting is affecting the guy who just dated me just because. I am getting to him.
"Everything alright?"
Holy crap. He looks devine coming out of his bathroom; topless, freshly showered. His pants is just hanging perfectly around his hips and the band of his underwear is slightly showing. And his hair... its longer now.
Fuck! Y/N get a grip! Stop drooling!
I look away, acting fine as if his presence does not affect me. Even though my stomach is already twisitng.
"Yeah..." I answer then locking my phone and putting it back on the bedside table.
He pauses drying his hair and lays the towel around his neck. "Is it Wooyoung?"
I nod.
"He's been texting you frequent."
"Yeah... he does..." I lower my gaze on my hands.
"How do you feel?"
Nothing. Yes I am irritated but that's just me not liking him sending me mix signals. That's only it.
Before I speak, I look back up at Seonghwa. I want to guess what he's thinking. I want to know what he feels about me. Because while fucking, all I could see through his eyes is that he wants me and that he can't let me go.
Maybe I'm just overthinking about lust over love. I'm sure I'm not his type. I've seen the girls he had dated before, they are way, way up there. While me, I'm just an ordinary girl. I cannot be labelled as pretty nor beautiful.
Yeah he does say I am but his dick is literally inside of me whenever he does or when we are cuddling and making out.
Damn. Wait. Am I really into him? Stop! I should not go there. No. Or esle, I'll get myself hurt again.
"Ahm..." I look away from him. "Fine I guess..." then I scoot over to get to the edge of the bed, to make my way to the shower. "I'll get ready too..." I try to act as normal as I can. Smiling even then handing him the blanket that's covering my whole body and then walk pass him.
***
I really can't focus in my classes. My over analyzing have been affecting me for these past two weeks and it sucks. My life was so dull not until Seonghwa happened. I get excited going to Uni or if not I get exciting meeting after class and getting back to our places together. Now, I am ruining it.
Maybe I should just chill and enjoy this. And just be prepared for all the heart break and crying later.
"Hi!" Wooyoung appears out of nowhere, kissing me on the cheek.
"What the fuck?" I hiss at him.
I have to be quiet. We are at the library.
"What?" He acts innocent.
I roll my eyes at him and go back to reading my notes. "Go away..."
"Why are you being so cold to me? We're friends."
I glare at him. "We were. Then you made me your girlfriend and then dumped me..."
"But you've moved on right?"
My eyebrows shows my irritation. "What do you want, Wooyoung?"
He smirks and then shrugs. "Nothing... I swear"
"Don't. I know you." I snap at him
He smiles, "Fine." and then proceeds on sitting next to me. "You and Seonghwa... what's the deal?" His tone changes. "Are you two dating?"
"Why do you care?"
"Well because... Seonghwa--"
"If you're going to tell me something bad about him... stop okay? Don't make shit up just because you don't like seeing me hanging around him more." I am in no mood today. Plus I'm on my period.
"Y/N..."
I sigh as I start to pack my things. "Whatever him and I have... or do... it's none of your business... you two are friends and I am your ex... that's it. If we don't tell you things about us... it's on us... because it is our privacy." I slide my bag over my shoulder, "also... if you are really his friend... don't text his girl. Have decency."
I walk away.
Wow. That felt good. I don't know why. Sorry Wooyoung... I know you are not a bad person. You are just... off every now and then when it comes to things you think you own. And You don't own me. Not anymore.
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<Seonghwa's POV from the morning of the firt snow>
I got up from my bed to answer the door. I have to admit, I am a little grumpy because I don't like waking up early especially if my class is in the afternoon. But then,
"Hi..."
I think I blinked more than ten times before I could process the fact that, Y/N, is standing at my door, this early in the morning.
"Hi..." I answer back as I brush my hair away from my face.
"Sorry to bother you... this early... but I just want to check if I left my books here last week?" She asks scratching her head. "I can't find it at my place. And I already asked my classmates if they borrowed them..." she trails
She's blushing.
I want to pull her in right now. I want to... I want to grab her by the waist and give her a kiss. I want her... now. If only she's my girl.
"You want to come in?" I ask, "I mean... to look?"
When she smiles, her cheeks are reaching the heavens. She's so beautiful.
She enters my place like she's destined to be here. I know I just recently moved dorm but looking at her, knowing where to look and places that she could touch is so amusing to me.
"Sorry..." she says as she accidentally knocks my perfume on top of the drawer next to the TV.
"It's okay." I say as I sit at my sofa, just admiring her.
"This smells good." She says after sniffing it and then brings it with her and places it at my vanity area. Where all of my accessories and perfumes are placed. "Boujee..." she comments
"Look who's talking... buying an expensive shoes last week just to wear one time." I tease
Her mouth opens. "Hey! That's not my fault. I was in the rush. It's the shoes that fits my dress for the fancy celebration my friend had for her birthday..."
"Whatever you say, babe." I say standing up. "I'm going to make coffee... would you like one?"
"Sure." She rolls her eyes and then goes back to searching, going straight to my room. "Found it!"
What a bummer. She found it to quickly.
"I didn't even noticed that in my room." I say as I pull out two mugs from my cabinet.
"How can you see anything in your room? It's so dark in there..." she makes her way out of my room and then goes to the kitchen area where I am. "Open the curtains every now and then..." she adds
"I do open them...." I pause waiting for her eyes to meet mine. "When you're here..."
She laughs, "you mean... when we have sex?"
I shrug. "Well..." I move closer to her and kisses her on top of her head. "We don't usually just fuck. We cuddle too..."
"Right... cuddling that ends up with sex."
I've been noticing that these past few days she has been very vocal about us having sex. Like what we have is just sex.
She's not like this. I wonder what's going on with her mind?
Whenever we are together, we don't just do sex. No. I'm not like that. Though of course, My body feels like burning whenever we are close and intimate, when we are alone. But when we hang out, we just... hang out. We do watch movies, go on lunch dates, play games, do study dates and whatever we can do. I am not going out with her just because we fuck. I like her more than that.
Which sucks because, yes, I do like her. I... really... really like her. But our situation, our fake dating, well, I don't know where this thing ends. And if she decides to end it, what will happen to me. I don't want it to end.
I wonder, if she's acting like this because she wants us to be over and she's just being kind to me and not wanting me to get hurt. Is she waiting for me to say it? To end... us?
"Seonghwa...?"
"Hmm?"
"You okay? You didn't answer me..."
"Sorry... I am..." I lightly shake my head, "I think I'm still half asleep..."
"Oh. Right." She suddenly panicks. "Sorry for bothering you... I'll get going then... so you can go back to sleep."
She's smiling while telling me that I could go back to sleep. To rest well. Believe me I want to but to see her go after blessing me her presence this early in the morning, No. I can't let her leave, just yet.
"Wait."
She looks back, waiting for me to say a word.
"Ahm..." I have no excuse to make her stay. But then..
"Do you need company?"
Yes. I do. Only you.
She smiles again. "Then I'll go sit here and study then... since its as quiet as our library in Uni." She says as she sits up back at the the bar stool. "Can I have my coffee please?"
I'm relieved. "Yes... coffee coming."
I'm not like this. Usually. Or as far as I know.
I've dated a few girls before. Some were serious some were not. And to those serious relationships I had, none of them felt the same as this. None of them made me feel like this.
All the girl were great, I'm not saying they were not special. They are all nice and perfect the way they are. All of them are great memories for me. However, none of them made me crave for attention nor time on a level that y/n makes me. That even just a glance from her is enough to fuel my day. I feel addicted to her. Y/N made me feel... different.
It is so hard to explain or to put words into it. I just feel it.
"Are you really going to watch me study? You've been sitting there for half an hour now..."
"I can't leave you alone..."
She snorts a laugh. "Silly. Don't mind me. Just go to bed and sleep..."
"I can't..."
She scrunches her nose, "why? Are you expecting me to join you and lay down?" She says giggling
I know she's just teasing. But... what if I take a chance and she agrees?
"Yes." I bluntly answered, looking straight into her eyes.
"Hmm?"
"You heard me." I keep gazing at her, waiting for her answer
"Wait... are you serious?"
I nod.
She is silent for a couple minutes. That two fucking minutes felt like forever.
"If I cuddle with you... you will sleep?" She asks
I can't help it. The corner of my lips immediately curves are smile.
"Okay then."
I got on my bed first before her. She tiptoes whenever she enters my room, because as she said, it's dark. But before I got on the bed, I slightly opened my curtain to allow a bit of light enter so she can see her way.
"Your bed feels so cozy." She says as she positions next to me.
"It's cozier... because I have you." I mumble as I nuzzle my face on her chest and snake my arms around her. Basically cuddling her.
I hear her smile the second I close my eyes.
"You smell so nice..." I whisper
"You too..."
I could feel her soft skin on my cheek. She's wearing a square neck tight shirt which I do not approve since the weather right now is cold and she's only wearing a skirt as well. I should give her a long and thick jacket later, to bring to Uni.
I don't want guy to drool over her.
***
After some time, I think I actually fell asleep. It felt good.
I don't remember what I said or she said after I told her she smell nice. Then probably an hour later, I open my eyes and its brighter. The sun is really up. It is probably noon.
I am facing the ceiling and dazed, thinking she might have left the bed or my place in general. However, to my surprise, I felt movement beside me.
She's still here!
"Can I stay a bit more...?" She mumbles and then squeezes herself to me. "It's so warm in here.."
Of course you can stay here. As long as you want.
I embrace her, sheltering her under my arms. I can see her up close and I could feel her body on me. I am not just warming her up under this thick blanket but she's also warming me, inside.
Fuck. I hope she can't feel my erection coz I can't control my body's reaction to her.
Her cleavage is straight into my eyesight. Y/N you're driving me mad.
"Y/N..."
"hmm...?" She answer while her eyes are still close
"Can I kiss you?"
She slowly opens her eyes and looks up at me. "Of course..." she weakly answers
And I did kiss her. Until the kiss evolved to something more. We made love. She was in control. She made me fall in love with her, even more than I think I am now.
Yes I have to admit it now. I think I do love Y/N. She is not just a fuck buddy I have because I am helping her, for me, she is and can be more than that.
I hope, she feels the same way.
Because, after sex, I got ready for Uni. And when I got out of the bathroom, I saw her reading a text. I know it's from Wooyoung.
Basing on her expression, I'm not sure what does she feel. She looks irritated but also confused. Is she having second thoughts about this revenge we are doing to Wooyoung?
(End of Seonghwa's POV)
***
I am walking out of the library building, about to go to my next class, when I saw Seonghwa from afar. He's with his classmate. Probably going to his next class as well.
So funny, how cold and how serious he looks when he's in public. But whenever you two are at his place, he's so relaxed and smiling most of the time. He's not cold at all. Actually, he's very warm and very...
"Hey..." Wooyoung followed me outside. "Sorry..." he says. "I don't want to be a jerk but..."
"Woo, you're girlfiend might see us. Please... I don't want issues. Let's move on already..."
"Have you?" He is frowning
"Have I what?"
"Moved on?"
I roll my eyes, frustrated. "I am moving on... I am doing my best."
Wooyoung is quiet for a few seconds. "But... Y/N... well... she's not actually my girlfriend."
"What? What do you mean?"
"It didn't work out."
"Ahm... okay... so...?"
He sighs. "Y/N... I am single again."
"So?" I repeat in case he didn't heard me the first time I showed him IDGAF. He looks disappointed with my answer. "Are you fucking expecting me to clap and celebrate? Wooyoung... we are over... and I am not running after you just because you are single."
"But I want us to try again."
"Are you out of your mind?" He makes me laugh. "No. We are over. We can only be civil... because we have common friends. That's it."
I was about to walk away again but then he grabs me by the wrist. "You're making me jealous.. pretending to be with Seonghwa... my friend... and now you're rejecting me?" He looks very lost and very stupid right now. "Y/N, I know I've hurt you... but... it was a mistake... and being away from you..."
"So, you are saying... you, getting bored of me... basically not giving shit about me... then goes to dumping me date someone younger...the one who is more of your type. Is a mistake?? Wooyoung... I'm not stupid. You all did that on purpose. You decided to do all that... on your own... it's not like an error that you just forget to turn of your stove at home when you left your house. I am a human. With feelings okay?"
"I'm sorry..." he can't deny all of the things I said.
"Wooyoung... you were my friend before we became a couple... that should atleast made you think before you chose to hurt my feelings. Lie to me. Cheat on me." I am really on my feels right now since my hormones is at its peak. "You should've not made me like you... if you think your feelings were not certain... it could've save us time and effort. My time... and effort..." I pointed out.
"I'm sorry... again...."
"If you are really sorry... please... move on... and don't get into another relationship just because you feel like you need someone to be with. You should be better than that."
I turn my back on him, walking away when I see Seonghwa and his friends approaching. I'm sure they didn't heard what Woo and I are talking. I tried my best to be discreet.
"Hey..." Seonghwa lightly touches my forearm, "Are you okay?" He softly asks then glares at Wooyoung who's looking at us. "What did he do?"
"Nothing..." you try to smile. "I have class..." You lie. "See you later."
I've never walked so fast in my life than today. I am having trouble breathing. My feelings are all over the place. I need peace and quiet. Also fresh air.
Even though I am disappointed with what Wooyoung did to me or his choices, I still care for him. He is still or maybe was my friend. I feel guilty saying all those things to him but I also know that he deserves it. He needs to know it. He needs to be a better person. He can't treat me or any girls like this.
Fuck.
"I knew it."
You jump, spinning around to see who spoke. "Seonghwa..."
He enters the rooftop door and shuts it close after. "I've never seen you ran that fast before... even when you are already late in class." He teases
You go back facing towards the fence. "Me too actually..." you inhale and exhale. "I just... had to..."
"What happened?" He asks as he leans his back on the fence, beside you.
"I don't know... he... just..."
"Did he asked you to go back together?"
I nod.
"Did... did you agree?"
I snap my head to him, "are you kidding me? No!" You answer made a smile, form over Seonghwa's lips. "Why are you smiling?"
"Coz... I'm glad you rejected him." Then he takes out his pack of cigarette in his jacket's pocket.
"You... are?"
"Hmm.." he hums and then picks one out of the box using his lips.
"Are you going to smoke now?"
His eyes shakes and then looks at me, "do you want me to not smoke...?"
I look away. I can't ask him to stop. I have no right to. It does not bother me if he does but health wise, I hope stops.
"Y/n... tell me... do you want me to not smoke now or..."
"It's fine. I just..."
He suddenly stands still and move closer. His face is just inches away from mine. "If you tell me to stop... I will..."
"I can't tell you to stop..."
"You can." He insists. "You just have no idea..."
"What?" I didn't get what he means
"Y/N... do you like me?"
"I do." I honestly answer
"But... do you like me more than just a fuck buddy?" He puts back the piece he took in the box. "Coz, I do like you... as in I really.... really like you..."
Wait. Am I hearing him right?!?
I am speechless. I could see the panic in his eyes from me not responding to him. But, I can't speak. I... I have no words... I'm flusttered and flattered at the same time. But... My breathe was taken away by his words.
Fuck. What do I do? I like him too but... I'm scared. What if, we make it official but he get's bored with me like Wooyoung and goes back to his way, dating girls who fits his type.
I am no ones type... I am, just me.
Shit! Y/N, breathe. FUCKING BREATHE. He is not Wooyoung. He is Seonghwa. He is different. He.... he have proven you how different he is.
The years you have been with Wooyoung is not comparable with the months you have been with Hwa. He had given you more than Woo. Emotionally and physically. (Well... especially the Physical part)
But I have to consider that, during our time being together. I grew up. I have changed a little but for the better of me. He does not push me to do or decide on things. He allows me to believe and to try on my own. Even during our sex, I thought I could never lead. I thought I should always be the receiver but he allowed me to explore and make sure I enjoy while I try to please him
Yeah, I kbow what a good example about improvement of life. But fuck. Seonghwa is saying he likes me. The mysterious hot guy from my university.
"Y/n... Look at me..." he asks me, tilting my chin up. "I know you are thinking about... don't worry... I'm not rushing you okay? I just... I'm just asking for you... to take a chance on me, that's alk..." he says, "And if you can't I have to accept it..."
"Really?"
He close is eyes and heavily sighed. "It will fucking hurts I have to admit. But... yeah... If you don't feel the same... I can't do anything about it. Unless, you just want me as your fuck buddy... I'll be willing to be just that."
"Hey!" I slap him on his chest. "You're not just a fuck buddy!" I say
He smiles, "Really?" He then goes on to snaking his arm around my waist. "What am I then?"
I should take a chance right? That's how love works? To know if it is worth it is to... try....
"My man...?" you mumble shyly.
Seonghwa's cheeks are about to explode. It's so out of his chill persona but it does show that he's so happy with my response.
"I promise.... I'll show you what love is... everyday..."
#yuyu1024#ateez x reader#ateez fanfiction#ateez x y/n#ateez fanfic#ateez x female reader#atz x reader#ateez imagines#ateez smut#smut#ateez seonghwa#seonghwa x reader#seonghwa smut#atz seonghwa#atz seonghwa smut#atz smut#ateez x fem reader#fem reader#kpop fanfic#kpop smut#wooyoung x reader#wooyoung fanfic#ateez scenarios#ateez angst
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Hi. I need advice. My bf has depression and while it hasn't been terrible while we have been dating , recently he seems more distant and has mentioned he feels stuck in life, he's constantly unsure now which is very not him and keeps quiet and says "I dont know" alot. We and his friends think his depression is slowly coming back, because obviously it doesn't go away. I dont know how to help, because I do feel like its putting a strain on our relationship, we're currently doing long distance due to work so we arnt able to have our similar routine. His communication skills are not the best, we have small arguments frequently mainly due to his lack of interest on the conversation or his small outbursts. Which at the time I didnt put two and two together but now it kinda make sense. I feel like he has become distant and dont seem engaged at all when we have little time to talk. While I feel for him, im getting frustrated because our fight seem to be the same pattern, of him not being able to communicate properly. I've expressed this before as this is all we have at the moment and he seems to understand but doesn't seem to make much effort of trying. I do think the distance has affected this and he doesn't seem to realize, he a very actions person and he has expressed that he feels useless bc he can't do much for me while I'm away. Were so well together in person but lately we seem like a completely different couple . I'm not sure what to do, I think I want to give him some space , which makes me a bit sad bc we hardly have much time to chat. I ask him if he needs alone time ,etc but he can't seem to answer me with a direct answer. During our relationship his depression hasn't been bad , its been maybe mild but nothing to this effect, it's never caused a shift in our relationship but this time it feels different. So im.not sure how to go about this. Any advice would help, I do love him and want our relationship to grow but the past couple of months it seems more draining and mentally exhausting.
I know this is a very, very late response, but when things get like this for depressed people, it can be a red flag for potential suicidal ideation.
That said, being depressed can also cause a lot of brain fog, which makes people indecisive, dissociative, unable to think to the future, etc. This happens because of how exhausting and draining depression can be, especially in a world that demands you always be doing something, anything, at every moment. People with depression are extremely susceptible to burnout.
He could need a change in medication/treatment, or a change in environment, or a change in his support systems. Or sometimes, it's just a temporary rut in life. Doing more positive and/or relaxing things can also help, such as colouring in books, going to a movie, starting a new series, visiting an animal sanctuary, going on a hike, going to an amusement park, etc. Things that don't require a lot of effort and can be simply enjoyed, depending on social tolerances (ex: a museum could be a bad idea because there's too many people and it overwhelms).
There's also the fact that the strain on your relationship could be the cause of the depression and not the other way around. Which is to say, because you guys aren't in your usual routines and aren't able to experience each other often, his depression is returning. A lot of depressed people rely on routine and partner support to supplement their treatments. Breaking routine in particular can leave someone feeling lost, hopeless, confused, stuck, and so on. Plenty of people need routine to feel purpose and direction in their lives.
Depression can cause more arguing because it can deplete one's ability to tolerate others. Again, this is because of how draining depression is, which leaves someone with significantly less spoons and overwhelmed easily. Shutting down is a natural defense mechanism and presents itself as aloofness, sudden bouts of anger, disinterest in anything, inability to conversate, and so on. There can be different ways to treat these individual symptoms which can improve the overall depression.
If he seems to struggle still with communication or explaining what he wants and thinks, have him start keeping a journal or notebook where he writes everything he is feeling, or even draws pictures. Have him jot down any time his mood dips and what happened at the time it did, and maybe he can find triggers for what's going on with him.
But, it is fair to be frustrated. You have your own feelings and likely own problems as well and for the support YOU needed to be taken away is absolutely a frustrating thing. It's a good idea for you to find other support in this trying time to maybe take the pressure off of him.
If you haven't already, I would communicate to him exactly how you're feeling, and that you want to help but you don't know what to do. Ask him what he needs most right now - a distraction? a discussion? a solution? - and follow through. If he can't decide about it, emphasize you're there for when he knows. Additionally, explain to him that there's always gonna be sometimes when you two can't be in person and that he can't fix everything every time, and that you don't expect him to.
Here are some resources for both of you:
Getting Out of a Funk: How to Help Yourself Through Depression
Tips for managing depression in relationships
Babylon: How Depression Can Affect Relationships
Self-care Wellness Toolkit
Worksheet for depression coping skills
How to talk to someone who has depression
How and Why to Practice Self-Care
How can I communicate with someone with depression?
Depression in relationships
How to Tell Someone You're Depressed
Helping Someone with Depression
The Impact Your Mental Health Can Have on Communication
PsychCentral: 10 Self Care Tips for When You Have Depression
Anna Freud: Self Care
What Not to Say or Do to Someone Who Has Depression
Coping with Depression
How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Depression
How Depression Affects My Ability to Communicate
Psychology Today: Why Self Care is Hard for Depressed Individuals
The Royal Australian & New Zealand College of Psychiatrists: Self-care for depression
6 Powerful and Effective Ways to Communicate Better in Relationships
5 Signs that Depression is Eroding Your Relationship
How to Talk about Depression with Family and Friends
Tips On Communicating With Those Who Have Depression
6 Dos and Don'ts for Supporting Someone Who Has Depression
22 Ways to Cope with Your Depression
NIH: Caring For Your Mental Health
Depression Self Help Guide
Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques to Help with Depression Symptoms
Healthy Coping Skills for Depression, Anxiety, and Anger
Clear Minds Center: Tips for Communicating with Someone Who is Depressed
How Depression Effects Relationships and What You Can Do
What to Know About Dating Someone With Depression
Relationships and Communication
How to use mindfulness for depression
Depression in Relationships: When to Say Goodbye
-Mod BP
#did I say some? I meant a lot#depression#communication#relationships#relationship advice#mental health resources#mental health#depression resources#suicide m tw -#asks#anonymous#self care#self care resources
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•☽────✧˖°˖ 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗴𝗼𝘁 𝘁𝗼𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 ˖°˖✧────☾•
except I poorly explain it in my own words
⌞ harlexon ⌝
➜. they're poly, but Haru didn't come 'til later! that being said...
➜. Alex and Dilon are childhood friends, turned lovers ! but. omg. in highschool they were the worst. I'm so serious.
➜. they were borderline DATING already. they could kiss, cuddle, hold hands, and Alex would pop out with the "what are we?" and Dilon just wouldn't answer
➜. a rift was caused when Alex kissed Dilon with Derek's support (Dilon SMILED???? he enjoyed it) ... but then she started avoiding him so like. okay.
➜. he made it no better tho??? he got more and more upset and bitchy as time went on, and NO communication happened.
➜. then they had a sleepover and were forced to sleep together, and had a very awkward conversation ⤿ "... it's pretty hot right now, isn't it?" "it's below sixty degrees in here." "right... I meant-" "shut the fuck up."
➜. don't worry! they work it out, and come out the next day ACTUALLY together. they were basically insufferable for everybody, with obvious crushes on each other, but everytime someone asked, it was always "what? no, we're not together??" (or "we're not???")
➜. they are happily married tho !! have been for years now <33
➜. Haru and Dilon, as i've posted so you should know already, went from strangers, to kinda friends, to fuckbuddies
➜. they didn't exactly "get together" until Alex got back, so they had sort of a situationship going on.
➜. that said, Haru and Alex hated each other. on Haru's end, this is the girl who took the love of his life from him, and on Alex's end, this guy is really trying to compete with me for my husband. what the fuck
➜. ... long story short; they fucked and Haru casually inserted himself into their relationship (the poly was his idea)
⌞ josmora ⌝
➜. love at first sight. literally !!
➜. Shamora fell first, Josh fell harder. she saw him when passing through ballet classes to get to her boxing class (nonamericans, DONT look up if ballet/boxing classes are real in the state of California. you'll find out that Im lying)
➜. she saw a pretty girl (pre-josh transition) and went. woah.
⤿ Shamora was terribly a lesbian before Josh (post-transition)
➜. she's acting all weird now, so come lunch time, her friends piece it together that she has a crush (she used to be obvious like that)
➜. Josh didn't acknowledge Shamora's existence until one day she scared off a group of nobody-girls that were fucking with him, then she invited him over to sit with her and her friends
➜. they IMMEDIATELY hit it off, and they're the only couple here that acknowledges that they're dating before they're even dating
➜. before they get married, and after he came out, Shamora paid for his top surgery and all other needed things (no bot-surg), and he married her faster
➜. That One Couple that makes you sick. the couple with the couple goals!
⌞ dash ⌝
➜. now lookie here.
➜. they're like. worse than Dilon and Alex.
➜. except it's not even Ash's fault. Derek is just a WHORE
➜. i'd argue that they're worse than Alex and Dilon...but I digress.. On one hand, Ash had a crush on Derek for the longest... the only problem was that Derek was a HOPPER.
➜. like... first, it's his twin sister's bf, a girl at one point, some more guys... oh look at that, he married Joseph of all people.
➜. now, this is probably the first time Ash directly interfered with Derek's relationships. mostly because Joseph was...Joseph. abusive, manipulative, cunning -- not that Derek didn't hit his ass back, but still.
➜. Derek even had his baby - only to get it taken after the divorce because (via Joseph) he was too "mentally ill" to take care of the kid (Joseph didn't get the kid either so)
➜. Ash and Derek saw each other during Derek's three-year headache... and then they finally got together themselves. oh my god Ash ily (no I don't)
⌞ jerelucy ⌝
➜. mommy and daddy of the group (literally)
➜. ran(runs) a successful business, hence the wealthiness of the family, be it biological, married into or found
➜. however, we're not discussing how they got together, rather their "falling out".
➜. headcanon that Jeremy is a lightweight... a terrible holder of alcohol.
➜. because he and Lucy were happy, excruciatingly so. with three kids, and newly born twins !!
➜. until Jeremy was working late out one night. he can't remember much except for waking up with a headache, then proceeding to turn to wrap his arms around his- this was not his wife.
➜. sitting up frantically, he'd find that he wasn't even at the penthouse. he honestly doesn't think her threw up any faster than he did right then and there.
➜. of course Lucy found out about it, and of course she was rightfully pissed about it.
➜. this led to frequent arguments - their oldest son gone, and their oldest daughter out in college already, leaving their second-older son to take care of the twins while they became strangers in their own home
➜. Jeremy lost himself the moment Lucy tried to divorce him. he became an entirely different person--not the gentleman he once was-- it the good father he was before.
➜. he wasn't active in his kids' life much anymore. but he did grieve when Dilon committed suicide when he was only...nine?
➜. while still not as active, he refused to go through with the divorce. Lucy never took him to court for it either. why??
➜. she was hurt and heartbroken, but she still loved him as much as she hated him now, even if he was a stranger now
#【 💚 】 . cameron posting . . .#【 ᡣ𐭩 】 . loredumping . . .#i'd do jarchie#but TECHNICALLY#they're not even together#they're like. a secret third thing#cuz they're not NOT together#this was in the drafts
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So about type match ups....
So I'm a burnt out 'do everything for everyone oh God I gotta fix this issue' type person. I'm a creative but I've not found time for any art anymore. I like to cook when I have energy, I think I have a decent voice, I read a LOT. Books are a confort. I'm not exactly pretty, but I clean up pretty well. I've got some pretty bad trauma that's resulted in being jumpy a lot.
I'm a good friend, LOVE LOVE horror movies (and some romcoms, sue me lmao), love just taking road trips, just being in nature makes me happy. Unless it's like boiling out T.T. (northern Canada native, give me the cold)
Ive had a lot of failed relationships. I dont know why, im always the breakup-ee, if that makes sense. I just want someone that I really connect with, someone who's not just a boyfriend, but a best friend. Idealistic but not realistic, I know.
You like horror movies and like to read? Hi, meet your new prospective partner Nightmare. He actively encourages you to find whatever sparks your interest to breathe new life into your creativity again, and will relegate tasks to other people so that you have time for your art. He doesn't fancy himself much of a chef, but he can cook... kind of. But... that passion means you get along well with at least one of his boys which is also a bonus.
You read, and he loves that. Have you seen his library? No? He'll show you. And... if you're jumpy around him, or he spooks you somehow, he's gentle and patient and tries his best to make sure it doesn't happen again. He's also good at just... making that fear or pain vanish. Won't solve the root of the problem, but it helps make the physical ramifications less of an issue to deal with.
Despite his tendency to like to stay put, he does enjoy being outdoors and is glad to go on outings to other AUs for little nature walks. His garden is always open for you to go sit in and enjoy, but be mindful to look and never touch-- everything in it could either kill you, has thorns, stings, or is otherwise unpleasant for a human to handle. You also have good company in 'I don't like it if it's too hot' because he's solid black. He gets grumpy in high temperatures.
Humans are demanding and generally terrible at communicating their needs, on the whole. You don't have to worry about that with Nightmare, he makes his displeasure (and pleasure) known. A good intrapersonal relationship with him is a hard prerequisite to any romantic relationship, so you get both the bf abbreviations.
...And he might or might not encourage you to jumpscare the boys with him if everyone's watching a horror movie together.
Cross is a good runner up here, he's great with trauma, enjoys your hobbies (even if he's not as bookish,) and likes being outdoors, too. He's... just kind of standoffish and doesn't communicate well, which might well be a cause of frustration.
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Diary Entry 04212024
8:15 pm
Dear diary,
I can't believe that we are already so close to may. I have yet to take my graduation photos and I have yet to ask my bf if he is still going ot take them. I don't know why I am so afraid to ask. I think it comes from my fear of being a burden and not wanting to add more to his plate, which is already soooo soo full. I do know that I do need this pictures taken though, and now my mom wants me to take pictures with my brother and I have other ideas for my pictures as well; I just can't even begin to describe how badly I do not want to take these pictures. I am so uninterested and truly have no desire to do any of that, I DONT EVEN WANT TO ATTEND graduation. It's sad how something seen as an accomplishment I do not want to celebrate or commemorate in any capacity. It's a shame. But I feel like my college experience was so far from schooling itself, and also the fact that I really didn't even spend that much time there. I am so self removed from school, so it's just like blehhh you know?
Moving on, I spent this weekend with my boyfriend and it was lovely. It was almost like we were living the life we could have, just living in what it could be for a second and it was lovely. We spent the weekend at my grandmas house, we painted together and did face masks. We just lived together, and it was really beautiful. I showed him around my grandma's neighborhood and the places I used to go to when I was little. We sat on her stoop and just talked, and it was really nice. I loved it. I love how I can just be a human being with him. I shared my music with him, the music I genuinely like and listen to, we watched Tuca and Bertie, which is one of my favorite shows. I've watched it a million times, and he laughed to it. HE laughed to it, because he has the same humor as me. I love that I get to share things with him and he doesn't diminish them, even if they aren't things.
(continued 04222024)
I got interrupted by a phone call last night, but honestly it was a really good conversation and I feel like I am really helping a friend grow. She helps me grow too, we help each other.
I have decided today I am going to bite the bullet and have the chat with my dad tonight. I cannot stand to wait any longer and the changes that I want to make are going to happen TODAY, because I am tired of living a life I do not fully love and enjoy.
xoxo - lux
#dear diary#online diary#secret diary#journaling#journal#secret journal#2024#post grad#post grad life#post grad problems
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Gotham Jervis getting male friend that he really get along well. After some time they both starts to mutually grow feelings and it's surprisly friend who makes first move.
"Jervis, I know that you're looking for Alice and me being guy automatically exclude me but I need to tell you... I really, REALLY like. Just, wanted you to know."
And please don't leave on cliffhanger, I might actually strangle you-
Boyfriend or boy who is a friend
pariring: gotham!jervis tetch x male!reader
a/n: the title's a joke due to the fact that i'm questioning if i'm bisexual leaning torwards women or a lesbian
summary: jervis gets a male friend and he gets the gay sickness (the author has it too and is planning to ask her girl-friend out ), and he has homophobia( not sm but internalized but he yells at the reader some shit) but it gets resolved
=) ok this man? he has never had anything romantic.
=) i just know it.
=) and you? you are his "collegue" in the life of crime, just a pawn to get alice,
=) why is he caring about you?
=) maybe it's that you don't betray him, maybe that you actually show care for him, or maybe you're his friend.
=) it's weird at first, but not used to hanging out or stuff agter heists, he is used to people leaving after getting what they wanted.
=) familiarity hits, and well, he stops thinking it too much, and just enjoying spending time with you, tea time, rhymes! and just sitting rambling. i feel he really like rambling about many things
=) and you would just stare at him with all the attention in the world, starry-eyed.
=) the jokes during heists began occurring more frequently, in one heist you almost died but he hypnotized the person behind the gun, he didn't even have to think about it, it was just jervis' instinct to protect you, suddenly, when you began your teasing about how he saved you so quickly, he just laughed it off and responded with a
"okay fine, i actually have some care for you."
'loosing you scared me to death.' he wanted to scream
=) jervis is confused.
=) suddenly small hugs that felt normal continued to feel normal but the warm rise in his cheeks became evident and he was confused and scared.
=) his mind began wondering if his alice could be you?
=) it could be you, but wouldn't it ruin your friendship?
=) he seemed lost in his thoughts, during tea time, you noticed that, and you asked if anything was wrong, and he just seemed more jumpy that his usual "paranoid" persona.
"No, uh, I'm fine."
"Dammit jervis, you aren't 'fine' you have been acting all weird, and not talking about it, you know you can talk to me if you want to."
and you reached to his shoulder, but he didn't know that , your hand got closer to him and he thought you were going to grab his hand and he quickly pulled his whole body off
"NO!" you flinched at the sound
"What's your problem?" you spat out
"Why were you going to touch my hand?"
"No! Jervis, jeez what's happening?"
"I dont know!" he threw his hands up "I'm not sure, you suddenly seem different every time I look at you! I feel confused about you! complexed!"
"why? what the hell?"
"BECAUSE I LIKE YOU."
=) and just like that, you could hear a pin drop in the room, when he dropped that bomb, he just remained quiet, with his flushed exhausted face, until jervis expected a reaction of you. you just remained stone cold;
'jervis....likes me back?'
=) while you were lost in yout thoughts, jervis left the room, quieter than usual.
=) when you finally became concious of his feelings, you stood up and looked for him everywhere, knowing that you fucked up big time. you found him sitting in the roof.
"Hey Jervis" He looked over to you, as if expecting something "I wanna talk about what happened-"
"I know you don't like me back, it was just-"
"But I do like you back, Jervis, I was scared you didn't."
=) so the cat was out of the bag, and well you both talked it out, and well, now you have a bf!!!
=) so handholding is necesary and also tea parties :)!
#jervis tetch x reader#jervis tetch#batman x reader#batman#mad hatter dc#mad hatter x reader#mad hatter#batman villians#the mad hatter#gotham x reader#gotham fox#gotham rogues#gotham#gotham tv
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hi hi hi can i ask for 4nemo hcs? Like when you fall asleep when theyre not home?
can i be 👀 anon?
hey there 👀 anon!! im sorry this took like days to do, i've been busy with school and yeah i have a bunch of exams so-
but anyway i hope you still enjoy
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Aether ✨
when he comes back to you sleeping he's half happy and half sad
happy because he knows you're having a good rest
sad because he has no one to rant to about his day 😕
also no one to comb through his hair as he falls asleep
so when he does come back to you asleep,
he cleans himself up and then snuggles with you
tries to snuggle with you as quietly and softly as possible so that you don't wake up
he does succeed
but you do wake up sometimes and you just hug him really tight and you sleep with him that way
either way, he loves when he falls asleep with you
after aether had finished all of his commissions and requests, he couldn't wait to get back to you. he was practically running back to where you were and even pushed a few people on the way (he didn't mean it tho).
when aether did get home to you, he cleans himself and then slowly walks to where you are. he stands there for a while, looking at you admiringly. he then walks to you, careful to not wake you. once he did get closer to you, he kissed your forehead and laid down next to you.
you woke up and heard the boy settling in. you turned to him. he looked surprised that you woke up, he thought he was being careful! "aether, dear. how was your day?" you asked him softly, running your fingers through his hair. "it was okay i guess though, a lot of people still kept asking me to do simple things like delivering letters or flowers. to be honest, it's getting quite annoying, [name]" he replies with a sigh.
"aether, i know it's hard but just remember, i'm always here for you." he continues telling you about his day, with you combing his hair with your fingers gently. soon, you fell asleep and aether noticed this. so he stopped talking, held you closer to him, and laid his head above yours.
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Kazuha 🍁
happy and scared when you fall asleep
he looks at your sleeping figure lovingly
also is scared cuz you might be dead so he goes to you and checks your pulse
relieved asf when there's still a pulse
cuddles you like you'll turn into his friend if he lets go or loosens his grip
very protective because he thinks someone's gonna attack you two while sleeping
big spoon or small spoon, doesn't matter
as long as he's with you anything is ok because u always put a smile on his face
Your lover comes home, tired but with a smile on his face. He came back from a journey in Inazuma with the traveler. He was mentally drained, he never wanted to go back there after what happened.
he just wanted to get back to you and hold you tight. now that he was finally here, he went to where you were. he found you sound asleep in on of the Crux's beds. he walks slowly to you, careful not to wake you up.
he lays down with you and with his (fine ass) hands he holds you slowly and pulls you close to him, feeling your soft heartbeat. his hand holds your stomach as he falls asleep with you in his arms.
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Venti 🍷
mf will either let you sleep or wake u up
depends on his mood and your tiredness
if ur super tired even if he rlly wants to wake you up he doesnt
because he can either be the sweetest bf or the most annoying mf in your life
50/50 chance and idk if you'll win
when he comes home to u asleep and ur not that tired he will act like a kid when its Christmas morning
be jumping on the bed and be annoying
but he rlly is sweet tho
cuddles you and makes sure u dont wake up
snuggles his head on ur shoulder
you have to hug him back
venti the drunk ass bard comes home and cant even walk properly and at this point you just dont care anymore cuz you've seen him like this lots of times before. but today you were really tired. people around monstadt were asking you to help them here and there and of course you loved to help but it was too much.
you were sleeping in your bed (which you shared with venti). you were planning to cook his favorite dish but alas, you were too tired. once venti came home, he immediately went to where you were. he was stumbling and couldn’t even stand up straight but as soon as he saw you sleeping, he tried his best not to wake you up. he saw you running around the city helping others earlier and he understood that you were tired.
venti slowly (and drunkenly) walked to you. he tried his best to get in bed with you as softly as possible so that you wouldn’t wake up. he successfully did it (but was 🤏 this close to failing) and put his head on your shoulder. he grabbed your hand and placed it over his own. lets just say tomorrow morning he wont be able to get out of bed after all that drinking 😔
Xiao 📝 (lol its a contract)
at first, he never slept with you
he loved you, he really did but doesnt know how to show it
hes also afraid of you getting hurt because of him
so he distances himself BUT THEN YOUR FINE ASS COMES IN AND CONFRONTS HIM 🎉
“xiao, why are you always staying away from me? i feel like you’re never here and it’s starting to bother me”
after that he tries his best to initiate cuddles and eventually starts “sleeping" with you GET YOUR HEADS OUT OF THE GUTTER BY “sleeping” I MEANT HE DOESNT SLEEP STOP BEING HORNY 🤬
when he comes home and you’re asleep hes extra gentle
holds you tightly and even tho he doesnt sleep he watches over you
occasionally he does fall asleep cuz u have magical powers like that
when xiao arrives back at wangshu inn, he’s tired and just wants to be alone. when he comes back and sees you sleeping tho his bad thoughts just become diluc’s dad ✌️. (haha im evil)
he walks to you and slowly holds your hand, placing it on his cheek. he kisses it (cuz hes f-ing traditional) and goes into bed with you. he holds your waist and brings you closer to him as he stares at you. he gets lost while looking at you. he's grateful to have you as his lover, he's grateful to have someone as kind and caring as you.
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hey omg im sorry it took so long and im sorry i suddenly got lazy but yeah-
#genshin fluff#kazuha x reader#xiao x reader#aether x reader#genshin headcanons#im sorry it took so long#venti x reader
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modern levi ackerman dating headcanons
lowercase intended !
levi ackerman x gn!reader
- firstly, lets get love language out of the way
- i think his love language would be acts of service
- so like, he'll brew your coffee for you and set out your favourite mug when he goes to the kitchen to make his tea (bc we all know he'd wake up earlier than you 🙄)
- or he'll pick up a muffin from your favourite bakery on his way home
- or if you ask him to remind you to do something later, he's immediately writing it out on a sticky note and sticking it somewhere youd notice
- he notices youre getting low on your favourite moisturizer ? or lipbalm ? he's taking a picture of the packaging and getting it the next time he drives past walmart or smth
- he just does little things that help make your day better
- now i feel like a lot of people say this already, but he is NOT very comfortable with public displays of affection
- its not that he doesnt like it when you touch him, or hold his hand, or kiss his cheek, he just gets flustered and feels like everyone is watching you two
- but one thing he does allow is looping your arms together while you walk, especially in crowded streets
- it doesnt mean he doesnt like being close with you, he just hates doing it public. when youre alone ? hes ALL OVER YOU.
- "will you play with my hair ?"
- "levi im working."
- "okay can you multitask ?" motherfucker 😐
- doesnt matter if hes the big spoon or little spoon, just being close to you is enough.
- also would try and get used to your love language
- if your love language is physical touch hes genuinely surprised by how many times you put his hands on him each day (NOT in a sexual way) like even his mother never touched him as much and he's a momma's boy 😳
- when you wake up your coming out to the kitchen to fill your coffee, but not before kissing the top of his head as you walk past
- then youre guzzling down your coffee like its water before putting it in the sink and walking back, petting his head in the process
- you'll hug him while hes cooking, or brushing his teeth. youre giving him kisses before he leaves and when he comes home, just little small acts of love, but it happens so frequently that levi cant help but notice it
- your love language is verbal affirmations ? youre getting your coffee while saying "goodmorning beautiful"
- "i love yous" are thrown at him a lot, they never fail to make him feel better
- youll compliment this man and he short circuits for a second, quickly gets used to it as time goes on
- also too i think he'd be taller in a modern au, but not very very tall like erwin, im talking 5'7" to 5'9"
- and he's fine with his height, it doesn't bother him that much, he's the average height of a man so what's the big deal ?
- also he really doesnt care about height either. youre shorter than him ? cool, that means he can bend down to give you little forehead kisses. around the same height as him ? awesome, that makes it easier for him to give you a peck on the lips. taller than him ? mf he'll climb you like a tree if he has to. really doesn't care.
- also doesn't have a preferences for body type or anything. he thinks that character is way more important than looks 100% and he'll always find different things about you beautiful. your laugh is weird ? k now he's making you two watch a john mulaney special to so youll laugh. hate your belly and wanna lose weight, he's holding you and telling you to only lose weight if you genuinely want to be "healthier" and not so you get skinny. your acne scars bother you ? he's kissing your cheeks a lot more than usual, but you can't complain. literally Loves Every Part of You
- also i think his family would absolutely ADORE YOU and his friends for that matter
- miss kuchel is pulling you into a hug the first time she sees you, and is so accomodating and sweet. shes genuinely interested in your interests and what you do for a living, and will NOT hesitate to get levi's baby pictures out if you ask.
- his uncle ? he probably wont be there for the family dinner, but then kuchel's gonna call him up like "levi's s/o ?? absolutely spectacular !!" and then hes like "huh maybe i gotta come visit to see the runt and his lover"
- also i think in a modern au, kuchel wouldve gotten really sick when levi is a boy, so kenny would have came home to take care of his sister and try and take care of levi. in the end she got better, and he went back to his own home, but now she requests that he come for at least one family holidy so they can all spend it together
- BUT back to mr. ackerman
- idk what he'd do in modern times, i used to think he'd be a good english professor for a university, but then i saw a headcanon that he'd go into law school and become a lawyer, and honestly ?? it makes sense
- after a long day at work he just wants to come home to you, he'll find you on the couch reading or doing some of your own work, so he'll just slip off his coat and blazer and undo his tie while slipping off his shoes by the door. before plopping his head in your lap and requesting you to play with his hair.
- if you don't live with him hes taking a shower and then immediately calling you asking to come over. if you can ?? great he'll be in bed waiting to be spooned. if not, thats fine, but levi would like to facetime and rant.
- also has the absolute WORST road rage
- "that little prick cut me off !"
- "levi he's taking his driver's test !"
- "so ? i hope that instructor doesn't give the idiot a pass 🙄" and then will immediately honk his horn at the poor kid.
- also wouldnt be a clean freak like in canonverse. his whole "everything has to be spotless" stuff stems from trauma, specifically being left in an apartment with his decaying mother for weeks on end, but since kuchel is alive that never happens
- were things a little hectic during the time she was sick ? sure ! but kenny always tried to tidy up a bit when he saw it was getting to levi.
- levi just likes things to be neat and tidy, he doesnt do a deep clean of his apartment every two weeks, but always makes sure to clean up his messes as soon as they happen
- also doesnt like to fight
- his mom raised him with the idea that communication is key, and always encouraged him to "explain why hes upset" so they could work together to come up with a solution
- its something hes taken with him to adulthood, and even though sometimes he sounds like hes talking to a child when hes trying to get you to "use your words" he really doesnt mean to
- if youre yelling at him he'll stand there like 😐 and wait until youre out of breath so he can say "okay lets talk about this"
- is also very handy
- have a hole in your wall ? hes coming over to fix it
- need a lightbulb changed ? hes got u dont worry
- you need to assemble a piece of furniture ? he glances at the step by step guide once before hes putting it together
- hes so great at that stuff, and you only have kenny to thank
- literally when kenny first came to stay with levi and kuchel when she was sick, the kitchen light went out and he asked levi to screw another lightbulb in, the poor kid stood there like 🤨 and when kenny said "what ? you don't know how to change a fucking lightbulb ?" levi shook his head and said "uncle kenny im seven 😐"
- kenny was APPALLED. and immediately made it his mission to make levi as handy as himself.
- also, dates with him are rlly lowkey.
- he likes being in your company, so staying home and ordering take out is AWESOME in his opinion. sometimes he'll dress up and make a fancy meal with you.
- if you like going to carnivals and stuff, he's reluctant but eventually caves. wins you a lot of the prizes.
- "fuck. this shit is rigged y/n"
- "sorry levi, lets go do something else !"
- "what ? no. give me another dollar im getting you that fucking turtle"
- hange always wants to see you. levi makes it his life mission to keep you away from them as much as possible. not because he doesnt want you to get along with his friends, just because he knows that hange will spill some embarassing secrets from his college days.
- erwin ? hes okay but hes on thin fucking ice.
- also is very gentlemanly. will not only hold the door for you but for everyone. hes waiting in line for his order and someone comes up behind him and asks him to scootch so they can get some napkins ? mf its grabbing a handful himself and handing it to the person, wishing them a nice day with a small smile. hes just like,, a genuinely good person
- his singing voice ? immaculate. will he sing for you ? no.
- he also loves playing board games with you. like chess or checkers. you love playing board games with him and his friends, specifically monopoly. hange makes moblit form an alliance with them. mike is a lone wolf, and erwin and levi are always helping each other out until erwin betrays him. lots of trust is ruined between these game nights, but you literally cant bring yourself to care because its so fun to watch it unfold
this is my first headcanon thingy !! im v excited !! hope u all enjoyed 🤩✨ should i do more headcanons like these ???
- all in all, levi is a cool guy, and a cool bf.
#attack on titan#attack on titan fanfiction#levi ackerman x reader#levi ackerman#attack on titan x reader#armin arlert#mikasa ackerman#eren yeager#eren jaeger
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Are there any verses to combat having low self esteem? I've been the ugly sister, the ugly friend, the ugly ___ for a long time. I have a step sister who's just perfect and popular.. guys would only acknowledge me to ask about her. The one guy I could think of as a bf since we just started dating I brought to dinner and she captivated him. Left me to try and date her, she basically ignored him since hes my age and younger than her, then tried to come back to me. Im glad that I rejected him and ignored him too but that whole thing hurt like..wow.. I dont drink either. I'd go along with my friend to a bar and order like..seltzer water while she enjoys all the attention. Shes a model so it's common. Then some random guy would try to entertain me as my friend flirts with his friend or friends that's really into her. but the one that talks to me isnt talking to me because he likes me. Hes a wingman trying to push away the ugly friend from the hot one. Literally it's a real tactic so many guys use. Not just at bars but anywhere. And it happened to me... I just honestly fake feeling sick or just leave. It hurts.
First of all, I am sure you're not ugly anon🙃
But yeah, people aren't equal regarding beauty....and that's okay. Maybe you are very young, but you'll realize soon enough that beauty and attractivity aren't necessary mutual. Beside, it's interesting how people will get insecure over not being "pretty enough", but will never get envious of other qualities they find in other. Hardly anyone today is like "my friend is super generous and it makes me self conscious" 😭 ...like, hun, what you feel is just a consequence of society ridiculous obsession with physical beauty over anything else.
I too knew very pretty girls, and you know what? past a certain time, their features aren't that wow'ing anymore, and they awful personality (when they are awful people) clouds their overall vibe. One in particular was a colleague of mine was very pretty and she was regularly getting asked her number, but all relationships were messy because she didn't have the actual personality to back it up (the fact she was only dating dusties didn't help too). Beauty doesn't buy respect.
So yeah, you girl friend captivating men doesn't men she'll get a better romantic life than you. She might've won the genetic lottery but nothing beats actual character idc. Everyone gets old, your body changes, and having a pretty face at your prime isn't a guarantee of being as much desirable throughout your whole life. #prettyprivilege is entertained both by insecure people who think their romantic shortcomings are only the fault of their looks (and not... personality) AND narcissists who think rando being kind to them bc of their attractiveness give them somehow an overall upper social value in society..
Nobody wins at life for simply being "pretty". Or at least only for a while. Brains and personality will stay forever though so you should rather try to capitalize on it rather than looks and trying to put up with your friend's beauty😏
You dodged a bullet big time with your date who threw you under the bus try his chance with you friend ; and she's definitely a good friend for turning him down💝 (hopefully his age isn't the only thing that stopped her from dating him lol)
The whole wingman strategy is indeed quite common for men experienced in chasing women, but as I said earlier being pretty isn't a guarantee you'll attract high value men. Sorry but this whole plot to seduce a woman whime distracting their friend is corny. A self confident man doesn't do that.
If that situation makes you feel sick maybe the best solution would be to stop hanging around with your friend if there's only the 2 of you? I know this might sound radical but you shouldn't let your friendship hurt you like that. You have to prioritize yourself first.
Beside, and I really don't want to sound shady, but pretty girls too have their own strategy and purposely hang around girls they know her less pretty than them to come off more appealing, so beware... From my experience, I'd advise you to never hang out with people triggering your insecurities. You'll always end up losing :/
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Hello . I follow u bcs you're straight forward and don't fall for any bullsgit whether it be larries or otherwise so i had to ask.. you said it in your tags Louis doesn't know what true love is.. i don't know how one can come to that conclusion from a interviews and without knowing him personally . Isn't it an extreme statement to make about a celebrity who is essentially a stranger and about whom we know nothing except like 0.5% of their lives? Maybe he does or he doesn't , who knows .
Hi, well, first of all thank you for following me. (Sorry I don’t know how to put a read more on mobile so this will be huge.)
Yes, for sure is an extreme statement, but I’m just talking about what I see. When you see them together, even though we only see a little bit, but when you see them together do you see love? Because I sure don’t.
For example: he has maybe 4-5 pictures that are candid pictures of him and Briana and he looks way more interested in Briana in those 5 pictures than he ever looked with demon. Same thing with Danielle. He was super convincing with Danielle.
Here is the thing, this whole story he tells make no sense for someone that have been following him for years. In 2014 he was so over her he could barely look at her face. She was out there posing and posing but they weren’t acting like a couple anymore. You could see in his face he was over it. 2015 came some shenanigans happened and then they broke up. Louis simply started to be alive on stage and in life itself. He was out of the house. He was around with friends. 2014 Louis was like home and 1D only. You would never see him around. There was a big difference between Louis during concerts in 2014 until March 2015 and Louis after the break up. He was alive, I have never seen him that alive, he started to get healthy, you could see he was happy and that something really heavy left his shoulders. He became his best version on stage. I kid you not, in 2014, I thought him and Zayn hated being on stage because they were never engaging with anyone. And then 2015 came and he was completely different, and Zayn too, he was enjoying that experience and life and he was happy.. so so happy. So the conclusion that one comes is.. fuck that demon left his life and that was the best thing it could have happened to him, right? Then 2016 came and because of Louis and Danielle I developed anxiety, don’t ask me why I dont know, but seeing them together acting very together gave me anxiety. Louis never acted into demon like he acted with Danielle. Fuck, the whole Chicagohell, he went to her parents house, walked around the city, sang on snapchat with her.. he was acting very very into her. That was shocking for me because he never ever acted like that with demon. Then he went to Atlanta and then LA.. and pap pictures started and other pictures too. They were always holding hand, always together, not saying they were together, but they were being really really convincing until the bitter end. 2017 came and a switch flipped and Louis went back to be that cold bf, the bf that doesnt care. The bf that doesn’t touch his gf, barely hold hands. They are together only during pap pictures. Look at what Coachella was in 2017? A shit show. They were never together in candid pictures. They were miles away.
So, how in hell am I supposed to believe he missed this girl and she is the one when he can’t spend one moment with her alone? when he doesn’t travel with her alone and he can’t even be close to her for more than a few minutes? How am I supposed to believe he loves her when he doesn’t show an ouce of love for her and she shows -10 ouces of love for him. When “they got back together” and the first thing they did was a pap walk gone wrong? Is that what you do for the one? No, it’s not.
#anon#i could talk about this for days#but I will never believe that there is love between them#i hope he doesnt extremely hate her like I do because being around her would be hard#but I can barely believe he likes her.. but love naaahh there is no love there#no love coming from him and definitely no love coming from her .. i dont even know if she like him.. or herself for that matter#if she loved him she would act differently and he would act differently#we know what he is capable to do and be as a bf and that’s not his best version#let me know if that explains..#sorry for no being able to cut this
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