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skinreflectsthesun Ā· 1 year ago
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#I put my foot down with my mother in law and let me tell you the way she looked at me like I shot her dog was just insane to me#she insisted on my son wearing this giant winter coat that she bought for him#I said no Iā€™ll have him wear this lighter warm onesie because the thick coats arenā€™t safe for their car seats#she says but heā€™ll be cold#and Iā€™m like heā€™s going straight from here into the car thatā€™s still on and warm and then going straight from the car into my house which is#also warm#heā€™ll spend less than 5 minutes actually outside#this coat you got is great for time outside when itā€™s cold but itā€™s not practical for the car seat#but she still got super quiet and when I asked her if she was upset#she said no itā€™s okay you guys know what you want to do I just feel bad for him if heā€™s gonna be cold#and literally#HES NOT#like Iā€™m getting tired of people assuming I donā€™t know what Iā€™m doing#I kept it together though#but I could just tell that she was upset that I didnā€™t just outright listen to her#and look you have advice Iā€™m sure but I donā€™t actually have to listen to you#I donā€™t#I donā€™t actually have to listen to anyone at all#I have that choice#and itā€™s funny how I understand this as a concept#that people donā€™t need to listen to me#even if I feel Iā€™m right so what? they donā€™t and thatā€™s that#Iā€™m not gonna waste time to try and convince anyone of anything#but people who just insist that they must be listened to and their word is the end all be all#like bro why#who are you?#why do you think people HAVE to abide by what you say?#because they always have?#because youā€™re just used to it?#I donno man but I think youā€™ll find yourself a lot happier when you accept that not everyone has to listen to you and itā€™s actually OKAY
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fly-chicken Ā· 26 days ago
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A Pragmatic and surprisingly comforting perspective about the Trump 2nd Presidency from the ACLU
***Apologies if this is how you found out the 2024 election results***
Blacked out part is my name.
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Iā€™m not going to let this make me give up. Itā€™s disheartening, and today I will wallow, probably tomorrow too
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I will continue to do my part in my community to spread the activism and promote change for the world I want to live in. I want to change the world AND help with the dishes.
And I wonā€™t let an orange pit stain be what stops me from trying to be better.
A link to donate to the ACLU if able and inclined. I know I am
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reasonsforhope Ā· 6 months ago
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If you're feeling anxious or depressed about the climate and want to do something to help right now, from your bed, for free...
Start helping with citizen science projects
What's a citizen science project? Basically, it's crowdsourced science. In this case, crowdsourced climate science, that you can help with!
You don't need qualifications or any training besides the slideshow at the start of a project. There are a lot of things that humans can do way better than machines can, even with only minimal training, that are vital to science - especially digitizing records and building searchable databases
Like labeling trees in aerial photos so that scientists have better datasets to use for restoration.
Or counting cells in fossilized plants to track the impacts of climate change.
Or digitizing old atmospheric data to help scientists track the warming effects of El NiƱo.
Or counting penguins to help scientists better protect them.
Those are all on one of the most prominent citizen science platforms, called Zooniverse, but there are a ton of others, too.
Oh, and btw, you don't have to worry about messing up, because several people see each image. Studies show that if you pool the opinions of however many regular people (different by field), it matches the accuracy rate of a trained scientist in the field.
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I spent a lot of time doing this when I was really badly injured and housebound, and it was so good for me to be able to HELP and DO SOMETHING, even when I was in too much pain to leave my bed. So if you are chronically ill/disabled/for whatever reason can't participate or volunteer for things in person, I highly highly recommend.
Next time you wish you could do something - anything - to help
Remember that actually, you can. And help with some science.
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chalkrub Ā· 3 months ago
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autumnal chill....featuring the girl
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inkskinned Ā· 2 months ago
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this is just my opinion but i think any good media needs obsession behind it. it needs passion, the kind of passion that's no longer "gentle scented candle" and is now "oh shit the house caught on fire". it needs a creator that's biting the floorboards and gnawing the story off their skin. creators are supposed to be wild animals. they are supposed to want to tell a story with the ferocity of eating a good stone fruit while standing over the sink. the same protective, strange instinct as being 7 and making mud potions in pink teacups: you gotta get weird with it.
good media needs unhinged, googling-at-midnight kind of energy. it needs "what kind of seams are invented on this planet" energy and "im just gonna trust the audience to roll with me about this" energy. it needs one person (at least) screaming into the void with so much drive and energy that it forces the story to be real.
sometimes people are baffled when fanfic has some stunning jaw-dropping tattoo-it-on-you lines. and i'm like - well, i don't go here, but that makes sense to me. of fucking course people who have this amount of passion are going to create something good. they moved from a place of genuine love and enjoyment.
so yeah, duh! saturday cartoons have banger lines. random street art is sometimes the most precious heart-wrenching shit you've ever seen. someone singing on tiktok ends up creating your next favorite song. youtubers are giving us 5 hours of carefully researched content. all of this is the impossible equation to latestage capitalism. like, you can't force something to be good. AI cannot make it good. no amount of focus-group testing or market research. what makes a story worth listening to is that someone cares so much about telling it - through dance, art, music, whatever it takes - that they are just a little unhinged about it.
one time my friend told me he stayed up all night researching how many ways there are to peel an orange. he wrote me a poem that made me cry on public transportation. the love came through it like pith, you know? the words all came apart in my hands. it tasted like breakfast.
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hinamie Ā· 4 months ago
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I don't want to regret the way I lived
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abd-appleboxdog Ā· 10 months ago
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I love these fools so much. I hope in the end they stay together or keep in touch. I heart them its like the dad who didnā€™t want a cat but loves the cat
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twilight-zoned-out Ā· 1 year ago
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Learning about the Doctor Who specials' expanded budget: oh no, what if they overuse CGI to look more 'professional' and high-budget?
The first scene of the Doctor Who Special:
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gallusrostromegalus Ā· 4 months ago
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Sometimes you need to put the most annoying music known to man on loop because it jiggles some brain wrinkle just right and the words fall out again.
Anyway. RIP to my housemate who could apparently hear me writing to the original mix of The Macarena on loop for the last three hours.
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wainswright Ā· 1 year ago
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i separated from the grocery entourage and tremblingly approached the greens. bogey instantly honed in and i retreated to entourage to shiver resentfully in the aisle instead. i wish i had my trenchcoat so i could be menacing in the chips section.
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kaiju-naut Ā· 4 months ago
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Whoa careful guys I think he has a crush on somebody (itā€™s u)
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screwpinecaprice Ā· 2 months ago
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She's not like other girls
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chinelacanta Ā· 8 months ago
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i like to think that ever since they met it was mutually ON SIGHT bullying <3
theyā€™re both losers (said with love)
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greykolla-art Ā· 1 year ago
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Every day I wake up and think:
ā€œAt some point Izzy realised how out of control things had gotten, and started putting himself in between Ed and the crew, as much as he could. Especially when Ed was too drunk/high to even know what he was doing. Cause Izzy doesnā€™t want the others to suffer more for his mistakes.ā€
ā€œThey are all bonded through shared trauma now.ā€
And every day I cry like a baby.
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lilislegacy Ā· 6 months ago
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i feel like percy is the person that people bring with them when they need to go somewhere or do something potentially dangerous. or more realistically, heā€™s the one who peopleā€™s loved ones tell them to take with. it just makes people feel better knowing percy is there. you know what i mean?
sally has a meeting with someone who sounds a bit weird (and paul canā€™t go)? paul tells her to bring percy.
paul needs to go to a really sketchy part of town? sally asks him to bring percy
piper got a weird anonymous note and needs to go meet them at a location? annabeth tells her to bring percy
leo has to go get some magic machine part from a really shady dealer? piper tells him to bring percy
frank has to go on an unofficial quest to investigate some shady legion history, and hazel has to stay with camp? hazel tells him to bring percy
and itā€™s NOT because any of these people canā€™t take care of themselves. they are all strong and brave and badass, and can handle anything. but for one, percy is intimidating as hell. his ā€œwolf stareā€ sends literal gangs running the other way. you can avoid conflict before it even happens, because no one is messing with percy. and second, percy just makes you feel safe. his presence is comforting. not only has he been through all the demigod-hero-world-saving shit, and is powerful as hell, but he also grew up in new york city. he can handle pretty much any situation. plus heā€™s super sweet and funny, and you can always count on him to make you laugh and decrease your anxiety. and heā€™s always got your back. he takes care of the people he loves.
heā€™s just the best company. for so many reasons.
when in doubt, bring percy
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inkskinned Ā· 6 months ago
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it is hard to explain but there is something so unwell about the cultural fear of ugliness. the strange quiet irradiation of any imperfect sight. the pores and the stomachs and the legs displaced into a digital trashbin. somehow this effect spilling over - the removal of a grinning strangers in the back of a picture. of placing more-photogenic clouds into a frame. of cleaning up and arranging breakfast plates so the final image is of a table overflowing with surplus - while nobody eats, and instead mimes food moving towards their mouth like tantalus.
ever-thinner ever-more-muscled ever-prettier. your landlord's sticky white paint sprayed over every surface. girlchildren with get-ready-with-me accounts and skincare routines. beige walls and beige floors and beige toys in toddler hands. AI-generated "imagined prettier" birds and bugs and bees.
pretty! fuckable! impossible! straighten teeth. use facetune and lightroom and four other products. remove the cars along the street from the video remove the spraypaint from the garden wall remove the native plants from their home, welcome grass. welcome pretty. let the lot that walmart-still-owns lay fallow and rotting. don't touch that, it's ugly! close your eyes.
erect anti-homelessness spikes. erect anti-bird spikes. now it looks defensive, which is better than protective. put the ramp at the back of the building, you don't want to ruin the aesthetic of anything.
you are a single person in this world, and in this photo! don't let the lives of other people ruin what would otherwise be a shared moment! erase each person from in front of the tourist trap. erase your comfortable shoes and AI generate platforms. you weren't smiling perfectly, smile again. no matter if you had been genuinely enjoying a moment. you are not in a meadow with friends, you're in a catalogue of your own life! smile again! you know what, forget it.
we will just edit the right face in.
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