#advice for men

[uncanny-tranny]

Some advice for men and, really, anyone who wants advice: the best thing you can do to make all of your relationships better is just saying "I love you" to the people you care about.

I have a lot of platonic friendships especially with women, and the connection I have with them has been made better when I explicitly make it clear that I love them. As a man, it makes me feel more secure in my manhood, which I think may surprise others. The vulnerability of loving someone and not being afraid to express that has made me feel more comfortable in who I am.

I specify men because it's so normalized to never come close to even thinking about explicitly doing things like this, but I think you deserve to express the full breadth of your human experience. If you're a man, you're a fucking man no matter what you do, and I hope nobody will ever try taking that away from you.

Of course, every relationship by nature is complex and nuanced. However, finding ways to express the love you have (platonic, familial, emotional, sexual, whatever) makes you feel alive. Every form of love deserves to be expressed in ways that make you and everyone around you feel alive

[killabeeblog]

[nullwork]

oh so i threaten to kill myself in front of you and it ruins the function. Great. Well I'm going to make it your problem now.

[bitchywitchymom]

Hey baby,

If your girl hasn't asked you about your day when you come home from work, and actually cared about the answer,

DUMP THAT BITCH

[nooblysblog]

I don't know what men need to hear this but unless you have a micropenis your dick is big enough for most women. Just keep it clean

[thegenxpointofview]

Advice for Men – If you think she is the one, consider this.

Here we are another Wednesday another blog post. Todays post is for the men out there who have been in a relationship for some time and are on the path to marriage. I have been married for decades, I have kids and a good life. Marriage is not for everyone and let me be CRYSTAL clear for you. When you get married you are entering into a legally binding contract. The enforcement of that contract is…

[thecreditsroll]

Women's internal misogyny is well discussed but I don't think I've ever seen men's internal misandry get discussed

Just see how any self help guru or dating advice talks to their male viewers and how the communities influenced by that content treat each other it's a serious problem

[elaytv]

[theambitiouswoman]

Types of relationships that look like love but are not:

Infatuation: This is an intense emotional or sexual attraction to someone that can give the illusion of love. However, infatuation is often based on idealized perceptions rather than a deep emotional connection.

Codependency: Codependent relationships involve one person excessively relying on another for emotional or physical needs. This dependency can mimic love, but it is rooted in the need for validation, control, or a sense of purpose.

Unrequited love: This refers to a situation where one person has romantic feelings for another, but those feelings are not reciprocated. It may involve one-sided affection, longing, or an obsession with someone who does not feel the same way.

Limerence: Limerence is an intense and obsessive form of attraction characterized by intrusive thoughts, longing for reciprocation, and an idealized image of the other person. It can feel like love, but it often lacks a genuine emotional connection.

Conditional love: In relationships based on conditional love, affection and care are only given when certain conditions or expectations are met. This type of relationship lacks unconditional acceptance and can be manipulative or controlling.

Trauma bond: A trauma bond forms when two individuals share intense emotional experiences, often negative or abusive. Despite the harmful dynamics, there may be a strong attachment due to the shared trauma, leading to a mistaken perception of love.

Transactional relationships: These relationships are based on mutual benefit or convenience rather than genuine emotional connection. Partners may stay together for financial security, social status, or other practical reasons, rather than genuine love and affection.

Manipulative relationships: Manipulative relationships involve one person exerting control and power over the other through emotional manipulation, coercion, or gaslighting. The manipulator may feign love and affection to gain control or exploit their partner's vulnerabilities.

Fantasy relationships: In fantasy relationships, one or both partners create an idealized version of the other person, often based on unrealistic expectations or fantasies. The relationship may lack a true emotional connection, as it is based on the person's fantasy rather than the reality of who their partner is.

One-sided relationships: These relationships are characterized by an imbalance of effort, care, or emotional investment. One person may consistently give more while the other takes without reciprocation. It can create an illusion of love, but it lacks equality and mutual respect.

Love addiction: Love addiction refers to a compulsive or obsessive pattern of seeking out relationships and being dependent on the euphoric feeling of being in love. It can lead to a cycle of unhealthy relationships, as the person seeks constant validation and excitement without addressing underlying emotional issues.

[turtleblogatlast]

One of the funniest parts about the whole “Leo not giving Draxum any grace” idea is that Draxum is one of the ONLY notable older men in the show that Leo isn’t willing to give a proper second chance to OR really hear out in the first place.

No seriously it’s genuinely a Thing.

[theereina]

BLACK LOVE

[femininedating]

How to receive Princess Treatment from men:

Raise your standards. Never settle for the bare minimum or less.

Expect the best. Have high expectations.

Act like a princess. Take being called "boujee", "high maintainence" or "gold digger" as a compliment. Not everyone can have access to you or afford you. You are a luxury.

Look the part. Looks matter. You have to look good. The reality is men will treat you better if you look good

Have a PRIZE mindset. Know that you're the prize.

Be Feminine. Feminine Energy is a valuable asset to have. Heal your wounded feminine energy and embody your divine feminine self. (My How to be more Feminine playlist)

Learn how to RECEIVE. Get comfortable with receiving. Say "Thank You" & express gratitude. (Learn to receive)

[justdavina]

One of my favorite gurls! I've seen this amazing transgender woman before and she always dresses so classy! She's one in a million! I wish I knew who she was so I could tell that I love her so much!