#black relationships

[minniegotitall]

💜 Manifesting

Black men who love their wives right always get backlash . It’s a weird phenomenon.

[generatedblacklove]

Generated Black Love

[originalhaffigaza]

[theereina]

IG: melanincouplez

[inmyperfectworld]

𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝚘𝚗𝚕𝚢 𝚝𝚢𝚙𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝙸 𝚜𝚎𝚎𝚔 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚎𝚖𝚋𝚛𝚊𝚌𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚝𝚑𝚢, 𝚐𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚕𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚖𝚊𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚎. ♥️

[blkgirlsreadfanfic2]

for fanfic writers and readers

as a black girl who loves a lot of different movies and shows, fanfic allows me to read stories that put me in the middle of my favorite things. however, fanfic often (unintentionally) excludes girls who look like me.

i am so sick and tired of reading a fanfiction and having to rewrite it in my brain because a character description immediately implies that the reader is white. if you don't know what i mean, here are some examples.

"your skin turned pink" or "you blushed": black girls and women with darker skin tones CANNOT blush. our skin does not just turn pink

"pulled your hair into a messy bun": my 4a hair cannot be pulled into a messy bun at random. i may be able to do a ponytail if i have braids in, and i might be able to tie it up if I have an old twist-out, but a "messy bun" is often not possible.

"he ran his hands through your hair": yeah...unless my hair is in a silk press (and an OLD silk press), that's not happening

there are a plethora of other examples that would make this post insanely long, so let me get to the point. there are very easy ways to make fanfic a bit more inclusive; all you have to do is tweak a few character descriptions. OR, put in your pairing or warnings that the reader is implied to be white.

and finally: please, please stop tagging your DARK fanfictions "xblack!reader." i am tired of searching for fluff under the black reader tag and finding non-con, dark themes, etc., ESPECIALLY when the fic ends up being for a white reader💀.

the goal of my page is to create a safe space for black girls who love reading fanfiction. i am only one person, so if you'd like to help, here are some ways to do that!

send me fics (preferably marvel and stranger things to start) that are with a black reader

comment some other things in fanfics that imply that the reader is white or that make the fic a little less accessible

REBLOG FICS BY BLACK WRITERS

[ktony11]

[free-grandmaa]

"My emptiness is hungry, so baby make me into love.."

[gvldenhourr]

[generatedblacklove]

[originalhaffigaza]

[theereina]

BLACK LOVE

[inmyperfectworld]

I can't wait to grow old with my person. 🥹🥰🤞🏾

[gent-illmatic]

To my Nieces & Nephews:

Cheating is a choice. You don't just fall on it or in it.

The action is tremendously disrespectful and you are sending a clear message to your person that you don't value them (despite what comes out of your mouth). This is in regards to intentional romantic relationships, not arrangements.

No. shit doesn't "just happen"...it's a sequence of disrespectful events that leads to the climax.

Let's paint:

•They notice someone they're physically attracted to and approach

•They decide to converse and eventually flirt

•They test to find a mutual attraction

•They begin to cop cheap feels

• They may or may not disclose whether they're in a relationship

• They decide where to be intimate

• kissing, touching, snatching clothes, talking shit etc.

• switching positions all the way to CLIMAX

At any point they could've stopped to remind themselves , they have someone they claim to care about who would be devastated by this. Mind you, they may go back for 2nd & 3rds! When people claim "it just happened", it is an insult to injury and gaslighting! It was a decision and your feelings and value weren't worth a Nut! Think about that.

They lack loyalty, respect, discipline, and self control.

It's all Gods protection, leave them alone. Nobody can be stolen. They were a willing participant. Let the next POS deal with them, you have standards. Hopefully you realize you two aren't compatible and move on.

Why give 2nd and 3rd chances when someone more compatible is waiting for there first?! Don't help normalize toxicity and then whine when it spins the block!

For my folks who like to cheat...don't force yourself to be in a monogamous relationship because that's what's expected from society. Find your fellow freaks, it's less stressful. You're peeing in the dating pool and karma will send you an Invoice.

Stay blessed yall.