#adoptee stories

[theanonymousadoptee]

Why I'm NOT pro-life as an adoptee:

Because I'm a miserable drug addict who doesn't leave the house, contemplates suicide daily, and I didn't have a fucked up childhood, and if I didn't have a fucked up childhood......

WHY AM I A MISERABLE DRUG ADDICT WHO DOESN’T LEAVE THE HOUSE AND CONTEMPLATES SUICIDE DAILY?!?!

[anghraine]

wind-sage replied to this post:

it is a really fun compare and contrast between Leia I am FULLY an Organa and Luke I am a Skywalker. Neither is Wrong, just important to respect the others choice with it.

Yes, I agree! Their experiences and identities wrt the family members who raised them are often framed as equivalent, but in the OT, they really do seem to relate to each of their families in very different ways.

Leia is not indifferent to her biological parents; she has a tie to Padmé through the Force that lingers with her and matters to her, and it's very upsetting for Leia to find out her natural father is Darth Vader. But the Organas are no less her parents for that. To Leia, "my father" means Bail Organa as much as it invariably means Anakin Skywalker to Luke. She is Bail and Breha's daughter and heir in every way that matters, the princess of Alderaan to her fingertips. Even her blood relationship to Luke only reinforces the close friendship that already exists between them, and would probably matter much less to her without the pre-existing relationship and accompanying Force bond.

But all suggestion in the OT is that Luke was raised as a beloved nephew with his father's and grandmother's name, not a son in the way Leia is a daughter. And it's a potentially dangerous name, at that, which only reinforces the importance in that family situation of honoring Anakin and Shmi in how Luke was brought up to think of himself. Luke's powerful consciousness of himself as Anakin's son doesn't seem just his own thing or conflict at all with how Owen and Beru talk about Luke's tie to Anakin, but rather, reflects it— they say "your father" or "his father" to refer to Anakin and are extremely aware of Luke's legacy from Anakin (and presumably Shmi).

The fostering of a relative's child within the family can often be complex in that way, even IRL, so this isn't even improbable. And given that Owen is Luke's uncle because Owen's father bought and then freed and married Luke's grandmother who died horribly later on, it's not surprising that they would have qualms about erasing the Skywalker history or that the general family dynamic might be a bit more fraught. Luke pretty emphatically does not see Beru as his mother, despite his affection for her; he refers to Padmé as Leia's "real mother" and adds "I have no memory of my mother. I never knew her"—clearly he can only mean Padmé. It seems to me that he's digging for information about Padmé because her absence represents a different kind of loss for him than it does for Leia herself.

And yeah, I could see the disparity in their experiences being something they have to navigate later on, but ultimately the only way to fully reconcile that, IMO, is for them to realize that their family dynamics and sense of legacy were fundamentally not the same and they're not going to relate to their parents the same ways.

[monsterfuckermilligan]

i have a theory that the baby!jack fanaticism in the fandom partly comes from the fact that on june 26th, 2017 (less than two months after jack was introduced as a character) the us supreme court ruled that queer couples were allowed to adopt in all 50 states. so naturally, as kelly died giving birth to jack, dean was in the midst of his widower arc, and the fandom thought that jack was going to be a baby, we had a wave of romanticization of infant adoption for destiel.

[ocellatedpiculet]

i really wanted to like chasca but the way it was constantly hammered that she was adopted felt so alienating. it'd be fine if it was mentioned once as some background, but the fact it happens even when her sister is dying feels sooooo weird. i get the message they're trying to convey is "you may not be related to me but we're still sisters", but to constantly bring it up and even have a conflict over it last patch leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

it's only made worse because genshin has gotten this right before. kaeya and diluc work very well as adoptive siblings and kaeya's story is very believable AND resonates well with the adoptees i've spoken to (myself included).

i get they wanted to try something different. kaeya's character is more about choosing his bio family or his adoptive family (as well as the nations surrounding them), but it's rarely mentioned in character dialogue. as for chasca, it feels like her character revolves around the idea that she was "saved" by adoption and would've been a lost cause, but because she fights with her sister (which is normal sibling behavior), she's suddenly the Adopted one, not actually related, blah blah blah.

[smut-of-fleshandfiction]

Behind the stories...

When I was growing up (late 80s early-to-mid 90s) I had an aunt that was a lesbian. This always did intrigue me that two women were in a relationship and did...well...you know. Although there never has been a physical attraction to either her or her partner, I do believe that later in life their relationship was always in the back of my mind to some degree.

When I would go visit and play with my cousins, we would venture down into the basement to play, and after some time I would come across some boxes of things that were of a very provocative and sexy nature...thank you to snooping lol. I would come to find over time Playboy/Penthouse magazines, sex toys, lingerie, and more throughout their home.

I do believe that in my mind I was thinking of how lucky my cousins are to grow up with 2 moms! And lesbians too! Lucky fucker! (Random thoughts here and there once puberty struck lol).

I have in my time have been fortunate enough to experience for myself female/female/male sexual encounters. And I use those experiences to help shape my stories. I do just add the little twist of My2Moms to make the stories more interesting and sexy...at least in my opinion. So, that is how I arrived at these Tabu Tales of...

Where you will find all lengths and serials involving a mixture of:

Mom/Stepmom

2 Adoptee Moms

Mom/Aunt

The scenarios are always different for the reasoning for the romp...but...I do hope you do enjoy both my #smut stories on this blog and #captions involving this particular Tabu over on @fleshandfiction-captions

I do LOVE to utilize various other k!nks for the dynamics as well ;)

If you are interested in following I will be using the hashtag #TabuTales for the posts

[playerkingsley]

my current veilguard hurdle is that I almost immediately latched onto shadow dragon as my character’s faction but I keep switching on class. like mage my forever beloved but what if I did warrior for the first time ever even though evoker is extremely appealing

[daisymeade]

Grancelor thoughts...

I don't care what the game says. I'm going to make it canon that he redeems her without the romance and dips into witch with her as his patron. 😏

I was planning on using the Call of the Wild mod to get the witch class and even though this isn't a choice of archetype (it's even a 3rd party one), this is what I'm shooting for story-wise:

[amaiguri]

I did the 24hr Novel Challenge last year...

Last year, I did the 24 hr novel challenge over the course of 48 hours (so the novel was written in 24 hours but I did in 48 hours) and it went about as well as you'd expect:

Fine. I did fine.

I didn't exactly FINISH finish but I did complete a solid 0th draft and I wrote like 26 thousand words (16k the first day, 10k the second day). I learned two really big things from doing this:

The first thing I learned was I really method act when I'm writing -- like, in order to describe emotions, I really simulate them in my body. So simulating a whole rollercoaster ride of stress and love and sadness and terror and desire and despair was A LOT and I would get numb to things as the scenes went on.

The thing that restored me was watching snippets of things that inspired me -- the starts of shows, trailers, music, images, etc. These ended up being a sort of palette cleanser in-between scenes for me.

But when I'm not pushing myself, I learned I really need to just. Write when I'm feeling it. Because my writing is higher quality like that.

Secondly, I learned how fragile my hands were: I really destroyed my hands doing it -- something I didn't anticipate was how much I was going to need to stretch my hands and TO THIS DAY, my hands still get more sore than they ever did when I was younger. I'm getting old >_<

The Characters & Story

Heirs to the Tilted City was (to no one's surprise) a fantasy polticial drama about a city in the wake of a disaster that broke apart and almost fell into the Abyss. The Goddess who ruled the city sacrificed herself to protect it, leaving it behind to her baby Heiress, Shiel.

But while the Goddess made the celestial inhabitants of the gorgeous astral whimsigoth city, Shiel's descended from a line of Demons who migrated to the city after a disaster of with their own Goddess. Furthermore, she's so young. Many residents have mixed feelings about her taking control back from the City Chamber -- despite her being born, raised, and educated in the city...

Meanwhile, the former Chamberlain of the Goddess -- removed from power after trying to take power from Shiel when she was a baby -- has a son, Isegael. And in the dregs beneath the city, Isegael, too, has risen to power as his rivals mysteriously vanish. From the head of a crime syndicate to a legitimate local leader, Isegael now has his eyes set on the Chamber too.

And so begins a collision of ambitious young people trying to wrestle power from those who'd maintain a crumbling status quo. Will they overcome their past traumas to become the people the city needs? Or will the Old Guard let the city slide the rest of the way into the Abyss?

...I suck at writing copy. Don't make do it lol

Feel free to take a gander at the writing vlog too -- it's definitely one of my better ones!

[fagoutboy]

another doctor who post anyway non-adoptees are being so annoying about the ruby part of that episode. obviously the "real mom" usage isnt technically correct but like who are you to police the language an adoptee uses in regards to her own family? she clearly values carla as her actual mother, every scene once ruby finds her birth mom depicts carla with pretty equal significance and they show ruby with both of them in equal measure.

sorry but this is not about "found family" vs ""real family"" or like you hating your mom or whatever. this is about adoption. its about an adopted girl who never knew her birth mother, never knew why she was left, never knew a huge part of her ancestry. and that can be super important to someone WHILE THEY ALSO love and respect their adopted parent as well.

ive known my whole life i was adopted and unlike ruby i knew why (similar reasons, in fact) so i didnt have that hardship of it but i never met my birth parent until i was a teenager, and even then i only know one of them. i dont know the other one literally at all. and i love my adopted mother but there is so much i dont know about my own lineage and birth parents that i still wish i knew. THAT is what rubys story is about its not for you to whine about how much you hated it because you "chose your family" and your real one sucks or whatever THATS LITERALLY NOT THE POINT AT ALL YOURE ALL SO ANNOYING

[swagging-back-to]

rewatching the oa so you know what that means!!!!

yep, im gonna be posting a bunch of rants about abuse in the adoption industry and how the oa is a perfect representation of abusive adopters and how society reacts to witnessing abusive adopters and treats to abused adoptees

[robertalaurie]

Shut Up and Listen: Why I Identify As an Adoptee

I hadn’t started to think of myself as an “adoptee” until recently. I was just me. My biological father died before I was born. My biological mother showed varying degrees of interest and disinterest in me at variable intervals throughout my life. My grandparents though, by the time they were legally able to adopt me at 14, were my parents, my only parents. Am I grateful to my adoptive parents…

[theanonymousadoptee]

THE Anonymous Adoptee

Who is the Anonymous Adoptee anyway? If you have found this content, I assume you're an adoptee whose searching either in secret or is currently keeping your dissatisfaction with life a secret because you, as an adoptee, probably feel like you can't talk to those closest to you for fear that the inquiries into where you came from will be misinterpreted. The likelihood that someone gets offended is all but a guarantee. If that's the case, then you are the Anonymous Adoptee.

My name (or at least the one you will come to know me by) is Aria Solena. I've made this blog intending to create a place for adoptees to connect and share our experiences without fear of being judged. Also, a space free of outside influences like adoptive and birth parents can make working through these things even more difficult by adding shame and guilt to the equation where none needs to be.

I'm an adoptee who's half-black with white parents. I grew up in the deeply conservative state of Ohio, with a Republican Super Majority, seeing as both the State House and State Senate of Ohio are run by Republicans. Take it from me when I say I know what you're going through. Even if you found this by accident, and it just so happens that you're an adoptee who has dealt/is dealing with their adoption loss, you can still help someone else who is coping with their adoption loss and grief. Whether through support groups or simply listening, your empathy can make a difference.

In the long term, I hope to fill this blog with personal stories, support groups, discussion boards, political action plans, and resources for those who are dealing with anxiety, depression, and anger; along with book recommendations and resources for your adoptive parents to help them understand who you are and why knowing where you come from is a natural human desire, shouldn't be taken offense to, and why it's healthy for you to help form an identity, sense of self, and find out where it is that you belong.

I know you have been a nomad, wandering from place to place, searching for answers no one wants to give you, and then blaming yourself when you ultimately come up short. That stops with this blog. In the meantime, check out The Anonymous Adoptee (well, what's there) and any article or essay under the pen name "Aria Solena," and stay tuned. I can't wait to see where this blog takes us.

[geminipdf]

[monsterfuckermilligan]

it’s very important to me how my therapist (attachment trauma specialist) who works with a lot of adoptees and ffy is also obsessed with supernatural. and agrees that jack is not adopted, and it’s important to his storyline that he isn’t. it’s so frustrating trying to explain to people that adoption isn’t about ‘what’s in their hearts’ or some other bullshit, because adoption isn’t about love, it’s a legal process that tfw don’t partake in. they never try to to erase his lineage or require it for there to be love. jack keeps his last name! jack has a picture of kelly at his bedside! jack gets the freedom to meet his first family, including lucifer! he gets to make his decisions about that even after he argues with cas about it! he is not adopted y’all just don’t know how else to describe their relationship because of the romanticization of adoption in ‘found family’ media and the fact that most non-adopted people have no idea what adoption actually is.

[stackthedeck]

I finally got my hands on the Voices book and I wanted to ask what you thought about Spider-Friend? I love the Friends shade and the social commentary implicit in that, but it was so weird to see a Peter that's best friends with Tony Stark

I'll be real it didn't land with me, but I think that's because I just don't like sitcoms. Yeah definitely really weird to see Peter so close with Tony, but it didn't really read as the mcu relationship, idk it felt closer to what they had in the avengers comics. hopefully the mcu influence will be limited to W.E.B of Spider-Man. Like Spider-Friend is fine, I don't love Peter Parker variants of spider people I always prefer a new character, but I do like that this one is Korean and that works with the sitcom element, the poc best friend that's never the main character. But like hey if we need a rich playboy with main character energy, I feel like Johnny is the better choice??? Like why make Tony and Harry the stars?? Shouldn't it be Harry and another coffee bean gang member or if you've got to have a super Johnny Storm really seems like the right choice

[smut-of-fleshandfiction]

She became a little Curious...

⚠️Tab0o Romance • Adoptee Male & Adoptee Mother • Age-Gap • Bi-Curious Milf ⚠️

It has been eleven years since I was adopted and have come to live with the Andersons. They are a female/female couple and both have very nice jobs and have always been able to support me in so many ways. I must admit that I consider myself lucky because not only have I not had to worry about food, nice clothing, the newest toys, and other tangibles, these two ladies have shown and given me a love like no other. For all that they have done, I will always be grateful and in their debt.

I was seven when I became a member of this family and at the time both Cassandra and Ellen were just angels in my eyes. Now that I am eighteen, the same applies, but now I look at them both slightly different. Cassandra is in her late 30s, red hair, slim but has a bubbly ass on her, and legs for days. Ellen, my other mother, has dark brown hair, her breasts would be the first thing you would notice from afar, also a nice juicy bottom on her as well.

Growing up as their son, of course I have seen both naked or partially nude on more than one occasion. As always, this starts as a young boy, curious as to why their bodies vary from my own…but the images have never left.

The images of their naked flesh has lingered in the back of my mind for years. As a bidding teenager, those images became more vivid as one would come from the bedroom to the kitchen, only wearing a short robe. All her bottom exposed to me as she bent over into the refrigerator for refreshments, not knowing I was just sitting in a dimly lit living room staring off into space. Or maybe it was the moaning coming from their bedroom that they thought I could not hear?

So yes, they became very vivid in those years as I was already into girls, watched some porn, and knew that I now had a sexual hunger for both of my adopted moms!

All would play into my favor one evening when I thought both gone for the evening as they were having their monthly date night, which usually lasted until eleven p.m. or so. It was on this Friday night, almost four months ago that I learned that Ellen had developed some kind of lust for me as well. Which she claims, you know, being all taboo and she’s into women, and yada yada. She caught me walking through the house naked to my room after drying from a shower. Again, I had another two hours before they were due to arrive, and why not be naked? It’s my house right!?

Ellen has only had a few drinks and left Cassandra at the bar, as date night apparently was ruined because she wouldn’t tell some coworkers to just fuck off and it irritated this mom to the point of just coming home to have a glass of wine alone and angry. Well, she bumped into my naked body in the upstairs hallway around the corner of the main hall. We have bedrooms basically in the middle and both ends have a bathroom and walk-in closets as well.

As I was turning out of my walk-in closet back to my bedroom with a t-shirt and a pair of night pants in my hand, she just happened to look down at my cock, stumbled a step, and smiling said, “oh my, you have grown.” I felt that tingle of an erection brewing from her words as I have masturbated to this woman at least a dozen times. She then grasps my member and gives a small tug, and then another, and another as she looks into my stunned, and in shock eyes staring back at her. Ellen then smirks, “come with me,” and she leads me to my bed by the length of my cock.

She motions for me to lie on my back and I oblige, feeling so many things running through my body. I keep asking myself if this is a fucking dream and if so, my God dumbass don’t fucking wake yet! Kicking out of her heels she crawls in front of me and unbuttons her blouse, exposing her buxom chest. Although housed within a bra, they have never been this close to where I have fantasized so many times!

“I know that this is probably a weird situation I have placed you in son, but to be honest, I am horny as hell, and your other mother just does not have the drive I do.” She takes a hold of my member again and spits onto my cock. “Have you ever played with any of your ex’s vaginas before?” I nodded and she replies, “Fantastic, I cannot take something this size! I need to go buy a toy or something to ease me into taking this!”

“So, how would you like a blowjob tonight?” I nod, telling with ‘oh fuck, this is happening!’ Ellen then comes out of her underwear and drops them to the side and lies on her side with legs open. She then guides my left hand to her wetting pussy and I just begin to rub. Then a little faster, try some pinching of her clitoris, smacking it, and inserting a couple of fingers into this woman I call my mother as she hungrily and sloppily sucks away on her now legal adopted son’s cock.

This surreal experience does not last long as you can imagine how hard it is to hold on as long as I could before my warning. I do swear she had an orgasm from mine erupting onto her breasts, covering the tops that hung out of her bra, and making it’s way in-between. I had stopped touching her as my orgasm began and never seemed to stop. I have never came like that before! So fucking much cum all over this woman, the woman that has raised me and I call mom.

That was four months ago and after only a month or so, she did order an on the larger sized dildo and began letting me fuck her on the regular. Since then I no longer date because why should I? None my age have compared in any way, shape, or form. Is it weird that we do what we do and now basically have a secret sexual relationship? Sure, but it’s something we have gotten over and laugh about sometimes after we are done with another vigorous round and chat. She apparently still does love mom and enjoys their sex because of their intimacy and whatnot, but loves how rough, raw, taboo, and intense our sessions are! Curious she was and she states that she gets the best of both worlds now, which I am happy for, but, I know that mom’s pussy is mine!