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I cannot believe I am at the point wherein I resort to eating paper becuase my emotionally abusive mother won't get food for me. Everything in the house is past it's sell by date or something i cannot eat becuase of my sensory issues. I don't have money, I don't have transport, I rely on her for food. I kinda just want to vent this here aside can't anywhere else, and to remind folks that my commissions are open if you have the means to help me out a little. Also advise from people who've been in similar situations would be SO welcome.
#tw abuse#abuse crisis#emotional abuse tw#abuse help#emotional abuse#help#tw vent#vent post#commission#commissions open
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I’m about to do the most tumbler thing ever (spout some of the most delicious, most tasty, and hardest thing to swallow)
“They didn’t hit me but…” they did hit you, with there words. People say all the time that actions speak louder the words but sometimes the bad words scream, yell, shout, claw at your brain like a parasite so sometimes words do speak louder then actions.
Having someone you love with all you are scream that they hate you hits so much harder then them getting you flowers… going to a concert or sport game. The words sting like jellyfish. Words are kind of like jellyfish, people are to. They have look like something beautiful, a creature of beauty but if you touch it, get it upset with you, it stings.
Just because you weren’t hit, or physically hurt, doesn’t mean you weren’t HURT.
(Also you will never guess what the rest of my account looks like lol go check out my art, I post a bit here)
#mental health#tumbler getting physiological today#Abuse help#abuse#saw a TikTok and wanted to talk about it#you are valid#proud of you internet stranger
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I'm not living in an abuse home but I do live in a household where things aren't bought for me often so this is a tip for school when your not allowed to get things
- THE FLOORS ARE PACKED WITH THINGS. if you need a pencil and are afraid to ask the teacher? check the floor. if you would look weird for doing that, act like your gonna help the teacher clean their room up by sweeping or something and then take the spare school supplies. also notebook paper, you could just take one sheet a day from each class, then cram most work on 1 or 2 pages that way by just a few weeks you hardly have to do that anymore
- I know this was said before but the school nurse will be your friend in medical help (I dont need that stuffs but I dont have any medical things at home so the I recommend going to the school nurse and getting things before hand =])
- in school food as shitty as it is get as much of it as you can, pack that plate UP with each option that has the most of it, even if there may be something you like, the breakfast and lunch could be all you get for the day
- learn what can can from the teachers too, and not just academically like just actually talk to them and you could learn more then you think since while school isnt my safe space, I know for lots it is...
- dont tell your parents but build a strong social group, it will make it all the more bearable for what's happening in your life
- if you have a locker use it to the fullest. hide the supplies your stealing there since I'm pretty sure your parents aren't permitted to snoop through that on school grounds. if not, you could put the papers in different school books and put it in the area where you get it at the start of class, hell, even a binder for some extra class works too.
- speaking of hiding supplies, you can ask a teacher to hold the stash of stolen school stuff and get what you need when you need it, I reccomend at least 3 sheets of notebook paper, and 3-4 pencils since they are very easy to lose if you have no real place to put them
that's uhh, all I can really contribute sorry if it's not much but I think maybe it can really help someone out there...
hey so protip if you have abusive parents and need to get around the house as quietly as possible, stay close to furniture and other heavy stuff because the floor is settled there and it’s less likely to creak
#very important post#tw abuse#child abuse#emotional abuse#fuck abusers#tw abuser mention#hope this helps#help#self help#tips and tricks#advice#abuse help#helping out
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I think so many people are so deeply alienated from themselves that they have no clue how to exercise their free will and autonomy. For some, this alienation runs so deep that they are afraid of their own autonomy and humanity. It is completely understandable why one would have those feelings, but it can be worrisome.
I want to help others who feel this way, so here are small things I have done to exercise my free will:
Add "guilty pleasure" songs to playlists and actually listen to them (I have a ton of late 1990s-early 2000s music I listen to now proudly that I never listened to in the past out of shame)
Getting the décor item, bath set, bed spread, ect. in the patterns you like, even if it's "childish" (I got a dinosaur-themed wastebasket from the kids' décor section and I adore it)
Taking a new route to get to a place you go to often
Eat dessert first
Celebrate well, and often
Collect things that are "odd" or don't seem like an "acceptable" thing to collect (somebody on my "for you" page collects dandelion crayola crayons and it was so cool!!!!!!)
Incorporate one new piece in an outfit you wear frequently (e.g., a new chain, a necklace, ribbons, bracelets, ect.). Challenge yourself to add onto the outfits if you feel up for it.
Sing along to songs without worrying that you sound "good" or your intonation is completely accurate
Read a book from a genre you weren't allowed to read as a kid (comics, thrillers, mysteries, anything!)
Walk without having a specific destination or goal
Pick up a new craft without expecting yourself to master it or to ever be "good" enough. Get your hands messy.
I don't want to shame anybody for not feeling as though they have free will or that they are exempt from exercising it. However, I wanted to give ideas so that you might read this list and find your own ways to express your intrinsic autonomy and will. You deserve to be a person, to feel alive, not just living. That is what our lives are for.
#mental health#mental health support#positivity#if anybody has ideas of their own definitely include them!#i just think being stuck with this feeling that you don't have autonomy and that you ultimately aren't an equal person or a person at all..#...in comparison to other people can be a really troubling and dangerous place to be in...#...and that isn't the person's fault for feeling that way. they didn't pluck those thoughts out of thin air...#...like i have felt that exact way all my LIFE because i have been abused for. probably 2/3s of my life...#...only within these past few years have i even FELT alive. frankly it's going to take a while to repair what i have been left with...#...so i know the feeling and i want to help others feel even a LITTLE bit alive. you deserve it...#...you deserve to take in a deep breath before slowly realizing 'oh my gd this is what it feels like to be alive' and SMILE about it#i want that for you even if it is brief. even if it is small. even if it is a whisper. i want you to feel alive#unironically getting rid of the idea of 'guilty pleasures' has made my life SO much better
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before october 7th this blog was a meme page btw.
#don't you think it's so odd how so many palestinians on tumblr were just minding their own business and having fun#and all of a sudden the genocide started and we started dedicating all our time#to helping and start educating people#only for people to start questioning us and harassing us in the most parasocial ways#and now about half of us are deciding not to share about our personal lives or our interests anymore#because we can't be granted the opportunity to actually have personalities outside of our suffering.#a look into our personal lives is a privilege and all of you abused it#all of this is due to the fact that none of you consider us as actual human beings#even if you're “allies” to the palestinian cause. you still dehumanize us to hell and back#i wish you all could see me as someone who is just like you.
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While Some Celebrate Christmas 🎄
We’re Drowning in Rain and Cold 🥶
Hello everyone,
My name is Mahmoud Naeem Abu Hatab, a young man displaced from Gaza. While many around the world are celebrating Christmas 🎄, enjoying warm meals and cozy gatherings with loved ones, my family and I are struggling to survive under heartbreaking conditions.
The heavy rain has completely flooded our tent, leaving us shivering in the freezing cold ❄️ without proper shelter, food, or warm clothing. This winter feels like it might be our last if we can’t find help soon.
Our Reality vs. the World’s Joy:
• While homes are lit with decorations and people are exchanging gifts 🎁, we’re battling dampness, hunger, and the biting cold.
• We don’t have blankets, jackets, or even enough food to make it through the day.
• My dream of completing my education and creating a better future is slipping away after losing my laptop during the evacuation.
How You Can Make a Difference:
I’ve started a GoFundMe campaign to raise funds for:
1. Finding a warm, safe place for my family to stay.
2. Buying food, warm clothing, and blankets.
3. Replacing my lost laptop so I can continue my university studies in software development.
Donation Link:
[GoFundMe Campaign Link]
Why Your Help Matters:
This season is about giving and spreading joy ✨. By contributing to our campaign, you can bring warmth and hope to a family in desperate need. No donation is too small—it all helps us move closer to safety and dignity. If you can’t donate, please share our story and campaign link with your friends and family.
A Final Message From the Heart:
While others are singing carols and enjoying festive meals 🍗, we’re drowning in cold rain, praying for survival. Please don’t forget families like mine during this season of giving. Your kindness and generosity can be our lifeline.
Thank you for reading, supporting, and sharing our story. May this holiday season bring blessings to all.
Donation Link Again:
[GoFundMe Campaign Link]
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#gaza#palestine#free gaza#free palestine#save gaza#help gaza#save palestine#gaza fundraiser#all eyes on palestine#gaza gofundme#christmas 🎅#christmas 🎄#donate for gaza#winter#cold 🥶#children#save the children#child of paradise#child abuse#like#follow#please help#gaza needs help#stand with gaza#donate for palestine#free palatine#displaced palestinians#help palestine#palestine fundraiser#palestinian genocide
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Dick, after Tim nearly sacrificing himself Again: Tim .... you know we care about you... right?
Tim: That's strange...
Jason, was eavesdropping: What is?
Tim, blandly: The data does Not support that
Dick: Wha..?
Tim, pulling out a PowerPoint full of wacky transitions and clashing colours, titled "Evidence That Tim Drake Does Not Matter": Alright, do you want all the evidence starting with my parents or just what's relevant to the bat clan only?
Jason: Jesus, replacement.... please send this PowerPoint to a therapist and get so much help
Damian: Drake! Why is Richard crying?? What is this trash?
#tw child abuse#tim drake#major depressive disorder#jason todd#dick grayson#damian wayne#tim needs so much help#i'm not projecting you're projecting#my childhood fucked me up#batfam shenanigans#batfam
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Amity Park hates the Justice League but loves Red Hood and sometimes other heroes
A/n: I got this random idea so here it is. Oh, and this is good reveal AU ok?
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Due to the Justice League mocking them and ignoring their villain problems that were also publicly interdimensional problems, everyone hates the JL. It got worst with the GIW coming in, who blatantly went against the meta-laws (which included aliens, demons and so much more that weren't human from the beginning). They started to think the Justice League supported them.
In the Infinite Realms, however, there's a revenant that many adored and others respected. He did not hold back against criminals. Criminals that would rape, kill, traffic, sell drugs, and more to people. He especially didn't like when they brought kids into this. He'd avenge people the way they should've been: by promising that their abuser/killer/whatever wouldn't be able to do it again. And in the place they lived in, the only way for that to be possible was by major injury, heavy social outcasting, and/or death. Most prefer the 3rd.
And after how long the Amitians dealt with the attacks which eventually came to a slow once or twice a week type thing, they started opening their minds to the idea of coexistence. Well, further than they had. So when people started to cross over and start making their small haunts in their side of the veil, the Amitian's began to become aware of the popular hero Red Hood. He was part of the undead community, which was trustworthy in everyone's books.
So Amity Park started making merch. Most of it was for Team Phantom, but there was plenty for Red Hood as well. There were other heroes on the side, like for Superboy 1 (who they renamed to Supernova due to their hatred for Superman for 2 reasons, the obvious and that he rejected a mirror-born), and Raven (the half demon).
And with this coexistence, Team Phantom had noticed the positive feedback about killing in the name of vengeance. So they went on the offensive, and after a good year of that, the GIW lost funding for producing no results and just taking up resources. The acts were still there, but nobody enacted them in Amity, and nobody actually knew or believed them outside of the haunted city.
Then the Justice League find out about the hero group there due to tracking merchandise after they started to sell outside of the city. Superman was the guy everyone liked, so he was sent over. He immediately got thrown out and was now questioning who the heck Supernova was and when he rejected him.
Flash? Outcast. Everyone ignored and walked away from him. they had the police, who never did anything or even had to anymore, kick him out.
Green Lanter? Oh the poor guy. He had his ring taken away and thrown out of the city somehow. It took hours to find it.
Wonder Woman, they had to be ok with her. Not at first, but once Phantom had a talk with her and people learned that they were cousins through Clockwork (Kronos) and Pandora, they were ok. ish. Tolerated was the best word and she got the info back to the league.
The batfamily took a trip there, dragging Red Hood along somehow. And right when Red Hood was noticed, a crowd began to form as everyone practically worshipped him. There were many victims he had avenged and an Ancient (Lady Gotham) came and gave him the gifts she couldn't without scaring the guy.
At one point, the poor guy even cried.
#dc x dp#danny phantom#justice league#red hood#amitians hate the justice league#Amitians do like some non-local heroes#I didn't mention this but I bet Amitians would also know a lot of not very popular heroes/vigilantes/etc. due to the ghosts#so they're probably the most supportive town in all honesty#Red Hood deserves some appreciation though so here it is#I bet he's a celebrity in the realms#and as for Kon#I bet that the public just start calling him Supernova and he eventually adopts the name because everyone's already calling him that#He'd also be pretty happy about it once he finds out that he has fans that support him being a clone (mirror-born)#He is no longer a clone but a mirror-born now#Tim changed his files#Trigon was arrested for abuse by Walker after Raven was made known to him#Raven's mother paid her daughter a visit with Phantom's help#I just want happy moments right now#I probably should've put these tags in the actual post#but I liked how the ending sounded
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try to be gentle while tearing me apart
#depressing shit#tw depressing thoughts#depressing life#sad thoughts#self h@rm#quotes#i'm sad#im sorry#suic1de#trauma#tw self destructive behavior#tw self destruction#tw depressing stuff#tw abuse#toxic love#toxic relationship#heartbroken#please help#im so tired#im not okay#mentally fucked#mentally exhausted#mental health#bpd vent#bpd thoughts#su1cide#su1c1dal#su1c1d3#sexualassault#family issues
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there's something so fascinating about the physicality of Hotch. he's tall, strongly built, and he uses that, he's commanding. he's loud, his voice carries well, but he's rarely violent. he's a clean shot, he's steady. that drops when he's not in charge of a situation. his voice gets the softest of anyone on the team. he moves stiltedly. stands awkwardly, like he's trying to shrink - he makes himself look smaller. he fidgets but it's isolated to areas of his body, the rest of him freezes. when he loses control he tears down to bone. screaming in the face of fire, beating Foyet to death. inherent violence tamped down and down. and you know it's there, when he's physically commanding, but it's not far away even when he's not.
#hotch as a dog hotch as a dog#thomas gibson come back I need you to talk about physical acting choices. hello. help.#aaron hotchner#criminal minds#cm#there's something to say about Hotch being an abused child here but I'm not awake enough for that.
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This is off topic for my account, but I want to help spread this important information.
Korean women are experiencing massive sexual violence by men.
tw : rape, abuse, crime
Secret Man's Telegram rooms were discovered in over 70% of South Korean schools where female students' faces were photoshopped into porn using AI.
A feminist in South Korea has mapped out schools where deepfake child pornography was created by male students using photos of girls on Telegram.
South Korean journalists who wrote articles about telegram deepfake child sex crimes are also being blackmailed with deepfakes by the perpetrators.
They also speak aggressively and disrespectfully about Ukrainian and Japanese women.
updates!
#ukraine#south korea#korean#kpop#feminism#tw assault#korean women#please help#awarness#sexism#misogny#women rights#women#ukraine war#telegram#nth room#japanese#japanese women#tw abuse#anti feminism#crime tw
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*You tell a joke about two kids who played in a muddy flower garden.
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*You tell a joke about a kid who slept in the soil.
#my art#art#digital art#artists on tumblr#undertale#ut#psst its transparent#chara undertale#asriel undertale#chara#asriel#chara dreemurr#asriel dreemurr#utdr#undertale fanart#utdr fanart#fanart#okay some fun little explanations#asriel's arms and legs are restricted because as a flower he cant use them at all. his body is not his own/his to use#which is also why the biggest flower is covering his face. ofc thats flowey i dont have to explain that part probably LOLOL#also it makes his body look more like a stem lol#he also is still holding onto chara with everything he has. the vines as well tie them together.#if u look close its actually an incomplete infinity symbol teehee#theres something to be said about how chara is the one sleeping in the soil and how flowers grow from soil/how asriel idolizes chara and#tries to adopt their mindset (which comes from abuse) and in floweys case it's exacerbated by like. the whole soullessness +#no consequences thing#but i cant articulate that so. if someone else figures it out go ahead HELP . anyways#those blue flowers r forget me nots in case its not clear
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If you follow my main you had to know this was coming… anyway. Enjoy these bloodweave doodles :)
#bloodweave#gale x astarion#astarion x gale#baldur's gate 3#bg3#baldurs gate more like baldurs gay amirite folks?#yeah sorry the themes of hunger abuse and power got to me. I’m not immune to thematically mirrors#I have so many thoughts about the it’s not even funny anymore#oh you mean to tell me that canonically gale would offer up his blood if asked and that astarion can’t even do that bc of the orb ??#tasteful irony that the guy who would want to help can’t do that bc of a mistake he made for love.#especially devastating for someone who measures his self worth in usefulness#oh they are so fucked up and they could understand each other in ways hardly reachable to others#once I start an origin run it’s over for you guys I will be so insufferable. even more than usual
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It runs in the family
#an art#super danganronpa 2#sdr2#fuyuhiko kuzuryu#peko pekoyama#Fuyupeko#Kuzupeko#Thinking about them and their terrible childhood today. Kind of terrible lives in general huh#Neither of them could help each other when things got dicey in the household#Peko because the Kuzuryūs are NOT afraid to 'discipline' her. Fuyuhiko because it literally only makes things worse.#Both of them because if they show off how close they are the agents might rethink keeping Peko around. So they grit their teeth and bear it#I somewhat hc that the parents also aren't above involving the other in a punishment. Like.#Fuyuhiko can take a beating but he hates seeing Peko be hurt. Same for her. So if they REALLY wanna beat a lesson into one of them.... ykno#BUT THATS SAD. SO I ADDED THE NICE PICTURE AFTERWARDS#Child abuse cw#Cw child abuse
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i wanna go back and hug my younger self so bad, that little girl went through so much
#mental health#mentally exhausted#mental abuse#mental illness#autism#pda autism#audhd#self love#self care#self healing#self worth#self help#self awareness#self improvement#self esteem#inner work#inner strength#inner child#inner peace#positivity#positivity blog#spilled heart#spilled words#spilled ink#spilled feelings#spilled thoughts#light academia#classic academia#romantic academia#dark academia
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Hey, so TERRIBLE timing, but I've just had some news dropped on me that something FUCKING AWFUL has happened, and now my status as a housed person is QUESTIONABLE Please, if you can, take a read and support! Even sharing around will help!
Hey there.
I'm Synth, or Harper, I'm an Oregon based Voice Actor who's been slowly making my way into the field professionally. I've been struggling most of my life in poverty, and only recently started to get a foothold on my life, the problem is, just as I'm about to round a corner on things, my father, who's been neglectful for years, didn't pay child support when my family seperated, and then paying practically nothing all, despite my mother raising me and my sister.
My mother finally convinced him to do something for us several years ago, making a place where we could get our grounding and be safe.
He has, JUST today, New years eve. Revealed that he has now, completely changed his mind, lied when he made the commitment to help and is now kicking us out of the home.
This is a terrifying moment in my life, and now I only really have the thought of I need to get the hell out of this terrible situation.
He's demanding a rent I can't possibly pay, kicking my mother out of the house, and leaving my sister and I with no possible chance to figure things out.
I hate to ask for support, I don't like feeling like a leech, but I have no other options I can think of... Please, I'm asking for your help. I'm scared and want to move out of this situation, and 30,000 is the only number I can think of that will let me uproot everything and establish myself somewhere new, with some time to get my barings, even a dollar donation is appreciated.
#PLEASE HELP#welcome home#howdy pillar#barnaby b beagle#gofundme#go fund me#emergancy#abusive neglectful father#i'm terrified#and don't know what to do...#i'm sorry to ask for help but i'm just#I don't know what I can do besides ask for help
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