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nightord kaito is divorced and youre laughing. hes in a screaming match with gakupo and youre LAUGHING
#drawing with fiery#kaito#kaito vocaloid#hatsune miku#kagamine rin#kagamine len#meiko#meiko vocaloid#kamui gakupo#gakukai#project sekai#25ji#how funny would it be if gakupo showed up in the empty sekai#out of NOWHERE and started a screaming match with kaito#about not wanting to pay child support#because he left kaito with all of the kids#wonderland x showtime
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hey btw if you're in the USA at 2:20 p.m. ET on Wednesday, Oct. 4, they're testing the emergency broadcast system. your phone is probably going to make a really loud noise, even if it's on silent. there's a backup date on the 11th if they need to postpone it.
if you're not in a safe situation and have an extra phone, you should turn that phone completely off beforehand.
additionally, if you're like me, and are easily startled; i recommend treating it like a party. have a countdown or something. be surrounded by your loved ones. take the actions you personally need to take to make yourself safe.
i have already seen mockery towards any person who feels nervous about this. for the record, it completely, completely valid to have "emergency broadcast sounds" be an anxiety trigger. do not let other people make fun of you for that. emergency sounds are legitimately engineered to make us take action; those of us with high levels of anxiety and/or neurodivergence are already pre-disposed to have a Bad Time. sometimes it is best to acknowledge that the situation will be triggering for some, and to prepare for that; rather than just saying "well that's stupid, it's just a test."
"loud scary sound time" isn't like, my favorite thing, but we can at least try to prevent some additional anxiety by preparing for it. maybe get yourself a cake? noise cancelling headphones? the new hozier album? whatever helps. love u, hope you're okay. we are gonna ride it out together.
#watching ppl go from being like ''support neurodivergent ppl~~!"#to being like ''if this is going to give u a panic attack ur fuckken stupid''#like..... gets me#yeah man. i know im going to be triggered by it . in the old fashioned term. it is GOING to give me a panic attack. it's pretty much certai#and i shouldn't have to tell u about what i have survived for you to be okay with that.#you can just trust that i ALSO don't want me to react to it. i'm not gonna be having a FUN time.#dismissing that bc you think it's stupid.... like is the whole problem.#these sounds are workshopped by entire teams of people to get you to pay attention and move quickly.#they arent meant to be fun and exciting.#OBVIOUSLY it's gonna set ppl off.#but yeah there's something so fuckken demeaning about ppl being like. well that trigger isn't valid bc u haven't undergone X#dude i have ptsd bc i was abused as a child. like plain and simple. the fact im 30 and afraid of the dark tells you how bad it was.#i shouldn't have to ask u for permission to be mentally ill.#the reason it's a fucking disorder and not a fucking choice is that I DO NOT CONTROL IT.#like how is it any different from when ppl are like ''oh public speaking isn't that scary'' like FOR YOU#for YOU this isn't scary. now if i could fucking eat my own amygdala...
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they really put alicent in bridgerton blue on the reunion and genuinely expected me to think that she didn’t in fact march all the way to dragonstone to get wifed up? bfr
#I am only a girl living in a society#I make connections#she looks so pretty in blue though I want more#also you’re telling me that rhaenyra saw her walk in all cute looking to not completely crumble at the sight of her?#like my girl got all dolled up for you do something#rhaenyra IS a puppy dog when it comes to those bambi eyes shut up#Alicent was like you think you want her? I’m the love of your life you moron#and rhaenyra is like I KNOW#like she’s been trying to get the other woman to realize that very thing for the last 15+ years#and alicent’s all heartbroken like oh so you’re taking her to wife#and rhaenyra is like nO? WHAT?? all dumb and speechless cause jealous alicent was definitely not on her bingo card this year#whilst also having her own mental breakdown#because how on earth is she meant to explain this to her councel#or jace for that matter#that sure was goint to be a fun future conversation to have with her heir#but also Alicent just strutted into the room and started acting like a scorned wife?#which left rhaenyra feeling like the asshole parent who stopped paying for child support after the divorce#but also she never wanted a divorce in the first place?? and alicent doesn’t seem to get this?#like she’s already figuring out how to most efficiently empty daemon’s chambers for the woman to move in permanently#but alicent’s still yapping off about not having a place in court anymore and fleeing across the sea#and rhaenyra can’t help the bitter taste in her mouth as she states how that ship came in a little too late for them and it is messyyyy#hotd leaks#house of the dragon leaks#hotd spoilers#house of the dragon#house of the dragon spoilers#rhaenicent#alicent hightower#rhaenyra targaryen#bridgerton
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Dc x dp idea 60
Vlad is the one who gets Danny help.
He has a realization that he became so fixated on Maddie he lost sight on everything else. Maybe he find Maddie and Jack experimenting on a ghost, maybe a plot to capture and cut open phantom. Something makes him see the light.
Regardless of what he is the one who realizes how dangerous Danny’s home life is. How at risk he is.
So vlad leaves an anonymous tip on the justice league helpline regarding a portal into a different dimension. The location fentonWorks in amity park Illinois.
It would be even better if amity had an info block out so it just didn’t exist online. Maybe when they respond either the GIW have phantom and are ready/doing experiments.
#danny phantom#danny fenton#dp x dc#dc x dp#dp dc crossover#dp x dc crossover#dp x dc prompt#justice league#vlad master redemption#Vlad deserves a chance#he realizes he cares more about Danny. one of the only other halfas then his live life#maybe he tries to make amends with Dani#pay child support#or something#he wants to do better. the first step is getting Danny out#vlad isn’t even going to petition for custody unless Danny consents#he wants to not force it anymore#but an actual acceptance.#John could show up and be like yup#they opened a portal to the infinite realm#the literal afterlife then have a freak out#unlike angst. so Danny has been caught by that point#they have to rescue him from someone. like let him be injured#let him not trust them#maybe he flees to the ghost zone#vlad is the one who gets him to see it’s safe#let the adults handle the problems#deal with the mad scientist and quack jobs.#Danny can ba a scared kid. one who doesn’t trust anymore#maybe in the end. vlad final gets what he wanted. Danny Jazz and Dani
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Honestly as someone who is partially adopted,
The fact that the doctor didn't go to the biological mother, let her walk away, didn't need to find that information, is so...
My mom was a single mother for a few years, because my bio father didn't stick around. My dad is the one she married, the one who raised me, the one who celebrates adoption day with me.
Ruby has her family. I get wanting to know, wanting to understand, and it's clear she does want that, but she doesn't need that. Her mom makes the point of being glad she didn't find anyone because she's ruby's mom
And there's not enough stories out there where that's just accepted. My biological father tried to get in touch with me when I turned 19 and I told him to fuck off (well, i didn't respond so my mom did with my permission), because he's not my dad. I don't have an interest in seeing him, in getting to know him.
"Aren't you curious?" No, not really!
I get the idea of wanting Ruby to secretly be alien-ish since we dont know her genetics but... there's something special to me, for her to be an ordinary girl. A foundling, adopted. Her biological relations not mattering because her family is the one she HAS
That means a lot to me
#egg speaks#doctor who#ruby sunday#also if my sperm donor wants to know me he should pay my mom and i the 40k child support he owes#moved to texas and joined the military fo avoid paying#has 2 kids and a wife now or smth#my mom checked his fb when he tried to contact me#which i just went *hey mom look at what i got lmao*#but yeah idk adopted ruby important to me ig#i get the people who do want to know#but to me it just. never appealed#and maybe its because i do have the answers#but theres something to be said about not needing those answers to know your family
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When the dude was 32 he got a 21 year old pregnant, left her leaving her homeless, doesn't pay child support, only sees the kid when she calls him about and now he wants to use her to provide his other kid with an international trip to Disneyland.
#Reddit#Aita#You know a reddit post is about a garbage man when it starts off with such an age gap#Loser men going after young women#Men expecting others to raise and provide for their kids#The family court system being slow to hold men accountable#She doesn't even have custody of L and this guy wants her to take an international trip with him?#The audacity of men#The dudes 39 and doesn't pay child support for one of his kids. No reason he shouldn't have the money to take the other kid
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#rant#my mom got a new thing to pester me about#this time she wants me to go back to school#but not any kind of school#she asks me to go somewhere in the western hemisphere#america canada europe ykw#im already on my late 20s??? what the fuck is that supposed to mean#and whos gonna pay?? if my job doesnt want to provide scholarship then im supposed to pay for it????#for what? so you can have bragging rights that you have another kid living abroad???#its so fucking annoying#i already have a good job good pay have my own house and able to support fixing this house#i just wanna live like this i dont wanna go back getting education again#and even if i go back on education and pick what i wanna do she would definitely intervene and be like can you not pick what you want and#pick what your parents want instead?#because apparently not following your parents stupid decision is selfish#if you dont sacrifice your whole life and goals so your parents can brag about you to their neighbors then whats the fucking point of having#a child#so tired
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#gonna start d20 soon and i'll be live blogging that but i just got home and was hit with such a wave of grief about today.#thinking about my young brother and his young wife and knowing who they likely voted for. who her dad and my other brothers voted for.#knowing that this pregnancy she just had was high risk and if she gets pregnant again in the next few years and has an emergency#if she will be able to get treatment that saves her life or her her husband and father and brother-in-law that live with her#and maybe she herself signed her death warrant#thinking about my other sister-in-law who works as a surgical tec and does emergency deliveries#and wondering what side of the line she falls on. what side my brother falls on.#thinking about growing up in church and being a person filled with empathy and compassion for others#and watching people i respected and people i grew up with side with some of the most hateful ideals#out of what is ultimately fucking selfishness and wanting to scream and rail at them but knowing it makes no difference#because they just do not fucking care#thinking about the upcoming holidays and the casual homophobia thrown about as jokes#by white men who have never had to face down even the most basic of oppressions#knowing that any attempt to speak out means getting ganged up on by at least 5 people who just loooove being the calm whip smart debaters#because they don't have a dog in the fight and love 'winning' while i get so easily flustered and lose my train of thought#thinking about the fact my mom would rather allow a narcissist and t*ump supporter to live in our home#(that i pay the majority of the bills for) rather than put her foot down about him getting his own place#because i am and always have had to be the 'good' child who didn't make a fuss so the boys could be kept happy#otherwise nothing could ever get done and she cares more about making sure HE is doing okay and not struggling#than if i feel safe and comfortable in my own fucking home#ANYWAY#gonna eat and get in comfy clothes and watch something that reminds me there are normal people out there in the world
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Bro I beg you, draw Romano heh (we are marrief)
#localgardenweed#the weed is rambling#hetalia#hws#hetalia romano#hws romano#me and my bf were talking in class while I drew this and for context we have many fake children#and we play fight about how he’s a dead beat dad and doesn’t wanna pit effort into seeing the kids and whatever#and I looked down ag Romano and just went#‘ he avoids paying his child support ‘#thats it thats all I wanted to add
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Shipping Blossom with dudes is overrated. I think Blossom should be a single mom like the Professor is a single dad
Gee, I wonder who sent me this ask? 😆 That’s an interesting one! I have actually had a weird offshoot AU… idea… that I’ve kicked around in my head from time to time of Blossom recreating the whole perfect little girl experiment, or at least tinkering with the idea of scientifically creating life for the means of making the world a better place and continuing the Prof’s initial dream… it’s an idea that’s a little more involved than that but that’s soooort of the gist of it. So I could totally be on board with your idea, anon.
#blossom goes a little too hard with the experimentation and accidentally pulls a reverse Dick Hardly#like she tries to engineer the perfect kid and she makes way too many in her hubris#TOO MANY PERFECT BABIES OH NOOOOO#the father is science and he is a deadbeat who physically cannot pay child support#to the point of all the shipping though#I still just… canonically don’t want to see the girls dating and stuff but like#fanonically I would not mind it if only people would just keep Blossom IC (and her beaus IC) and not be so dang weird about it 😩#this is a unique one though I’ll grant that!
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percy and annabeth should've moved to Alaska send tweet
Other than the whole out of the gods focus thing, I honestly don't see them having a reason they'd want to?
Its too far from anything familiar. I don't see Percy wanting to be too far from his mom and Estelle(i mean, California is already pretty far. Of course he can use Mrs.O'Leary, but still. Long distances still effect her.)
And, why he definitely wants to stop getting drag into things by the gods, camp half blood still holds importance to him. I'd think he'd want to at least stay somewhat in the loop with other demigods and there if something really bad happens.
We see in Tlo that New York/Manhattan is pretty special to him to. Of course he's going to school on California for New Rome, but I see him moving back to New York after. I mean the guy literally shoved Michael out of the way than got actually angry seeing Manhattan put to sleep. I actually don't think it's talked about how Percy's loyalty also kinda includes Manhattan. Like that's his home. Where he was raised, where Camp is close by. He feels comfortable in Manhattan. I just don't see him really wanting to move. I mean, again yeah New Rome exists. But i think that mainly would be the exception because of the safety of it being for demigods and legacies. Even then I see him feeling wierd there considering what we do know about how they are with elite and old money family that lives there.
Alaska is also more dangerous because of it being out of relm of the gods. Percy wants a peaceful life, I don't think he'd want to risk living where he knows monster can still get to them and be more comfortable doing so. Especially if they plan to start a family at some point.
Its fun thought, but definitely don't think it work out well ^^'
#mine#pjo#percy jackon and the olympians#percy jackson and the olympians#pain rambles#pain answers#percy jackson#asks#i live just to remind people that Percy just showed poor Michael out of the way like that#its so funny to me#Anyway#i could be misremembering some things we know about Alaska#but from what i remember its specifically more dangerous for demigods cause it's out of reach of the gods#and monsters likely feel more comfortable there due to that#percy wants a break from all that#also#for some reason this made me think#there really wasn't that much celebration and thanks from the gods for saving them from gaea compared to Kronos#like there was a whole thing in tlo#but there's no mention of the gods offering even something small in return for everything iirc#guess that learned from last time when Percy made them pay their child support hdhdg#maybe Leo being aloud back was just considered under that#but then that was nulled later with Jason and-#this rant for another time hsgd
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if i ever say “i want to make babies with him” it should always be understood that i want the him in question to get pregnant
#this is about no one in particular#except actually it’s about exactly someone in particular#i’m just saying if god didn’t want me listening to this cringe asmr dude he would have never shown me this vile wretched thing#anywho i need this man to get pregnant :/#i'll pay child support but AHHHH the fucking ahhhhh the the t h e and then !!!!!!#listen he's doing too much#the birthday Dracula one almost put me in a coma#i dont even like asmr ... just his videos man i just the sounds are SOUNDS#if you read these tag; no you didn't.#noodle posting#jic i need to delete this before the FBI raid my home for my crimes against the state
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hmmmmmm.................vent post under tags...... feel free to give advice or dont¯\_(ツ)_/¯
#i think this is an autism related thing#but i genuinely feel like i wasnt made right for the world we live in#like something is just missing from me that ive never seen ppl talk about#and i know this is going to sound entitled and privileged and i KNOW i know i promise and im so lucky i can even be thinking about this but#it feels weird to have the privilege to be scared#this is specifically in regards to working#like having a job. like going to work#i feel like im missing an extremely important part of my brain or my BEING that is capable ot going through the motions of participating#in society. i never felt that switch of wanting to get a job in high school to make money for myself and get that experience#i feel like there's something i MISSED where everyone took a class on how to apply and go to interviews and write resumes and not be scared#like i NEED to be walked through every SINGLE step because i dont know HOW#and i see my peers and the literal entire world around me participating in this atmosphere and i dont know where to start#im fucking twenty three years old and ive only ever been an intern and an assistant#not even a full year of working#i cant drive and i probably wont ever because thats a whole other can of worms#and that means i have to rely on other people to even get to wherever it was i needed to go#i feel like a fucking child because im missing this knowledge that everyone else seems to have#ive tried i really have but none of it seems simple and its all so much and there arent steps to follow#i mean there ARE but its like 1) look up job 2) apply 3) interview 4) yay you're employed#and im talking about each micro step inbetween#what am i missing#and then theres the fucking demand avoidance that slaps me across the face whenever my mom brings it up to me like i KNOW youre being#supportive and encouraging and its not your fault my brain turns off and decides im full of shame bc i cant CONFRONT ANYTHING#jesus christ#manf i know u can see this maybe dont bring it up to mom i can do that on my own maybe#i WANT to help i just want to help at my own pace but unfortunately the world isnt built around individual paces and nothing revolves#around me. i know this#i want to help my mom i want her to never be stressed about money and to retire and never work or help me pay my student loans but i#genuinely feel like theres a switch that never turned on in my head and im being left behind and i genuinely dont know how to. like be alive
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revokes his luffy rights.
ლ. throws a cannonball at him throws a cannonball at him throws a cannonball at him throws a cannonball at him throws a cannonball at him —
#akagamiko#tbt.#[ SDLKS#[ garp vc: pay child support if you want to even think about it you little shit--#[ 😔 no one here is responsible </3
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#I remember there was no hesitation with ignoring dwd and not paying for that shit so I’m just genuinely curious why people are willing#to pay for seeing Louis hugging a child who gave absolutely zero consent and looked extremely uncomfortable about the whole thing#like genuine question#why do people want to support that
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Grimm in silksong theories are stupid the only boss from hk that deserves to be in the sequel is one we all know and love, one that has fans begging for more, the best boss fight of all time, the beautiful, the stunning, the alluring fl
#(sound of gunshots)#joking about flukemarm but the grimm in ss theories ARE stupid. hornet uses 1 (one) drill ability that’s not evidence!! it’s not!!!#i don’t want to see grimm again unless he’s paying child support.#is NKG a top tier boss fight? yes. do I think he needs to show up again to do the exact same song and dance again? no. bc it’s stupid.
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