#about loneliness

[autumn-sol]

i can't help but wonder why not me? why does everyone else except me seem to be doing well in love? why do other people get to fall in love with people who love them back and in the right way? why not me? is it because i want it so desperately? is wanting it so much that bad? why am i getting punished for wanting what everybody else has? how is that fair? have i been cursed with always wanting what i can't have?

[pharaohgargamel]

Стадии и уровни одиночества:

Stages and levels of loneliness:

1. Есть друзья и питомцы, но всё равно грустно будто никому нет дела до вас.

You have friends and pets, but it's still sad, like everyone doesn't pay attention to you and ignores you

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2. Друзей нет, но есть домашние животные. Грустный.

No friends but have pets. Sad.

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3. Есть домашнее животное. Нет друзей. Грустный. Ты плачешь и желаешь, чтобы появились друзья.

Have a pet. No friends. Sad. You cry and wish for friends to appear.

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4. Нет домашнего животного. Нет друзей. Очень грустный. Ты плачешь и очень желаешь друзей.

No pet. No friends. Very sad. You cry and really wish for friends.

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5. Нет домашнего животного. Нет друзей. У тебя есть любимая плюшевая игрушка, и ты представляешь, что она живая, но тогда становится еще грустнее. У вас есть воображаемые друзья.

No pet. No friends. You have your favorite plush toy and imagine that it is alive, but then it becomes even sadder. you have imaginary friends.

[blurred-cat]

been feeling a lot of physical loneliness lately. i really just want to hug and cuddle very badly. it'll pass. comes up every now and then. usually flooding into the space that my horny phase left open. luckily this time i got a nice plushie to squeeze the hell out of.

[mobius-m-mobius]

The difficulty is to convince someone else he is really part of you.

DANIEL CRAIG and DREW STARKEY in QUEER (2024), dir. Luca Guadagnino

[lostdeepindarkthoughts]

[asoftepiloguemylove]

LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME / BECAUSE I EXIST, I EXIST, I EXIST

Franz Kafka Letters to Felice // リリイ・シュシュのすべて All About Lily Chou-Chou (2001) dir. 岩井 俊二 Shunji Iwai / Phoebe Bridgers Funeral // Emily Palermo // Ocean Vuong Someday I'll Love Ocean Vuong // 堕落天使 Fallen Angels (1995) dir. Wong Kar-wai // Margaret Atwood // Bell Hooks All About Love // @mango-season // Mitski Nobody

[nothingbizzare]

Some lonely guy and a ghost

[mizandria]

so the occurrence that almost every woman was sexually harrassed by a man at some point in her life is just a cluster of a few individual experiences that you cannot formulate any general conclusions based on BUT a few reddit porn addicted losers not having a girlfriend assigned to them as soon as they're born or being rejected by three girls in middle school is a world scale epidemic that gets its own name, psychologists and media and useless video essayists devoted to finding out what its causes are and to figuring out how to solve it, and every woman is now responsible for solving it. i love living in this world i am totally not chewing on my arm right now!

[shadowhaert]

missing someone bad for you

trista mateer / trista mateer / sue zhao / u.k / u.k / clementine von radics / trista mateer

[incognitopolls]

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[rakkuntoast]

someday, somewhere, somehow

i'm gonna feel found

[dungeondykes]

night watch keeps throwing absolutely mean right hooks then kicking me while i’m down like. we’ve got this intensely topical political drama unfolding in the foreground, one where the guy in charge is hiring his buddies into office and the poor are getting poorer while their friends are arrested and killed in the streets, and they’re all so desperate they’d gladly put the lesser of two evils into office, not knowing what that future holds. and while vimes knows the outcome /we/ don’t, we just know it’s in history books and it absolutely ends with the death of john keel. beyond that there’s all the time shit with lu-tze and closed loops and historical imperative and then vimes finally getting his wish of going back to simpler times but simpler does not mean easier, don’t you remember how horrible it all was? have you become so used to comfort that you forgot what it was like in the gutter? and now vimes is running around in a divergent timeline he created (again 🙄) because he’s incapable of staying in his lane. all this is happening and then terry’s like. hey so i know you were wondering what vetinari was up to 30 years ago. i’ve also canonized him as a dog person

[flowersandfashion]

The opposite of a haunting is something very lonely, Katie Maria /// there's a little girl in my head, @heavensickness /// Little Girl Looking Downstairs at Christmas Party (1964) by Norman Rockwell /// Changing, Liv Ullmann /// found photograph with my words /// what they don't tell you, @tryworks /// Anne with an E, A Strong Effort of the Spirit of Good (3x07) /// Time Travel by Emhahee /// Second Wave (2023) by Amy Dury /// Katie Maria

[wickedcriminal]

Last Unicorn quote stuck out to me so I gave it to Spider-Fox

(the only person willing to be your friend and he didn't show up until long after you already lost all trust in other people)

[podcastwizard]

anyone else with me on this temperate wednesday evening

[accio-victuuri]

wang yibo on loneliness // exploring the unknown episode 4