#Support network

[m0tiv8me]

MAYbe I CAN!- 15 minutes a day challenge.

DAY 01/30

Time to turn one day into day one!🙌

@thoughts-sex-desires @definitely-grown @perspective24 @joshuamusclefan @52fit @runningfromthecuccos @athousandmorningss @marine-corps-strong @healthymist @integrationslady @lucky-jewels @tenacioustam @the-curvy-crossfitter @poh-fitblr @thepersonalhermit @wildgypsywind2 @echolaunch @robertbecomes

[queermystic]

Well. July 1st. Back to the Motel 6. We've got a Roof over our heads and all necessary medications secured. But We only have $5 left on our Food stamps Which dont reup until the 9th.

Anything helps.

PayPal | Ko-Fi

[moonhedgegarden]

As you look up at the stars above, ponder the origins of the cosmos. How did it all begin? Was there that moment of creation, a big bang that set everything into motion? Or perhaps the universe has always existed in some form, an eternal collaboration of energy and matter. And then there��s the question of our own existence. Why are we here? What is our purpose in this massive cosmic space? Some might say it’s all just an accident, a fluke. But is it? Or is there’s something more to it, something deeper and more meaningful.

No matter what though, remember that we are not separate from the cosmos. We are the cosmos, forged in the hearts of dying stars billions of years ago. We are connected to every atom, every molecule, every living thing in the universe!

In this realization of interconnection, we find community. We are not alone in our journey through the cosmos, through ourselves; we are part of something greater than ourselves. And it's in recognizing this connection that we can truly come together, supporting and uplifting one another along the way!

Embrace the mystery of existence!

Revel in the beauty of the night sky and the wonder of our own existence. And remember that, no matter how vast and unknowable the universe may seem, we are all in this together.✨

[randomreasonstolive]

Reason to Live #9130

 Connecting to other queer people. – Guest Submission

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[7h1ef0fr05e]

what are cool, sexy alternatives to a support network ?

[labelleizzy]

Hey, USians: Make a plan to vote.

The GOP and MAGAts are.

Talk to your friends and plan for rides to the polls for whoever needs it

Make sure you are registered to vote, and check AGAIN two months before the election (early September) because some states are already purging voting rolls

Check to see if the state you are registered to vote in (like mine) has mail in ballots. They are so convenient!

Only give your filled out ballot to a pollworker 🗳️, your mail person 📬, or someone you know and trust to turn it in for you. My state requires both the voter and the person delivering the ballot for them to sign the envelope, yours might be different

Have coffee ☕ lunch or dinner with someone who's interested in issues or people down ballot (the non presidential races, local elections, and state initiatives). My mom's a politics junkie and I always learn so much from her

If you have energy and time, maybe apply to be a pollworker. I've enjoyed and been frustrated working five different elections, and yet Do Recommend . It feels good to contribute like that, and see people who are excited to vote. I met first time voters and people who have voted for over 60 years.

Fight the despair, and put your fury to use: building your social networks and your mutual aid circles. Feed the hungry, look after children, help people register to vote?

I'll be back with more ideas later. I gotta keep working on this UNPRECEDENTED and horrible timeline and since I don't have a Time Stone to fix it or change it, I have to figure out how to help make things better NOW with CONCRETE ACTIONS AND PLANS. Things I can actually DO.

[leavingthepcg]

Lifton's Eight Criteria helps to identify high control groups, or cults. The eight criteria include:

Milieu Control Perhaps the most important aspect of what makes a "high-demand group" is information and communication control. Members are often isolated from "outsiders", including outside sources not approved by leaders within the group, and family or friends that are not part of the group. Members are often made to "cut off" family and friends that are considered hostile toward the group.

Mystical Manipulation High-demand groups, particularly religious ones, will often use or manipulate events in order to further their message and bolster their doctrine. Examples of this are making prophecies or predictions that get repeatedly altered or forgotten about, or pointing to past predictions as being confirmed by a current event.

Demand for Purity Humans are flawed, and high demand groups exploit this fact by demanding perfection of their members. Sometimes, groups will even acknowledge that perfection is unachievable, but that individuals are perpetually at fault for being the only reason they cannot achieve it. This enhances feelings of guilt and shame, leading the member to feel as if the only way to improve themselves is to seek help from the group.

Confession High control groups exploit their members emotionally by having them "confess" supposed wrongdoings to another member or members. This makes the member vulnerable and constantly alert to their own and others' "sins". It is the promotion of hyper-policing of self and peers.

Sacred Science The group's ideology is held as the ultimate, capital-T "Truth"; it is the one standard by which all aspects of life must be measured. This often leads to science-denial, conspiracy-minded thinking, and isolating oneself based on the belief that others are unenlightened.

Loaded Language Members of cults will often reveal that they are a member of an in-group in the use of language. The group creates unique vocabulary, or changes/enhances the use of a term in order to create a doctrine of thought. This tactic helps to reform the member's thought process by embedding concepts into their minds that can be easily repeated and recognized through the repeated use of a simple phrase or word.

Doctrine Over Person Group belief is held as the ultimate "truth", trumping personal experience, beliefs, values, or reasoning. If the member feels or believes that something about the group is "off" or "untrue", they are taught to dismiss those thoughts and to internalize guilt about having "doubts".

Dispensing of Existence This describes the portion of thought control that creates an "us vs. them" attitude in the member. The member may be convinced that those outside the group are "sinful", "damned", "unenlightened", "ignorant", etc.

[weatherwaxironboots]

I'm combing through the palestine tags looking for you, if you post often, if you care deeply, if you have the time. Message me, I'm building a network of people like you.

We can make bigger waves when we move together

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[hello-patricks]

Family silence

I suspect my father was autistic.

When I was 9 years old, a summer, he found me reading atop a small brick fence – it was cool, I could read my book, and I was utterly unaware of anyone around me. He said “you are autistic” and I remember thinking “how does he know what that means?”

Meny years later, upon seeing my 2 year old child, he bursts into the apartment and the first thing he says is “your child is autistic”; again, my first question is “how he does know that word, utterly away from his world”, and two, “what diagnostic criteria does he have for a kid so young, and one he hasn’t seen but a few hours in the last couple of years?”

My wife pitched a fit and kicked him out, and that was it. But thinking about that second question, “what diagnostic criteria”, makes sense because autism is hereditary, one, and he was a very weird individual that managed to turn his job into his special interest and dedicate his whole life, everything, to it. Everything he bought, everywhere he traveled, the movies he watched, all revolved around his career interest. Also, a bunch of other typical autistic behavior in childhood.

His criteria was that autism is hereditary. He knew! But he never told me, and never allowed me to see a psychologist, or a shrink.

The thing is important, because knowing would have allowed the whole family to understand the challenges that were in my way, the obsessions that I had, and how the intelligent kid was also the frail one.

If you have a support network, stay close to them. Mine went away, it all disappeared, and the challenges have skyrocketed. If you have a support network, protect it.

[victusinveritas]

[genderqueerdykes]

Sometimes i feel like i don't quite fit in with the community because i was raised by very supportive parents in a very supportive community and i dont have enough trama to be queer, but also shout out to my dad for being an ally to all bottoms, he payed for my first maid dress

it's alright, i've actually gotten an ask like this before, and the thing is that we all have a unique experience, so while it is often times more common for us to get kicked out for xyz reason, it's also very common that a parent is supportive or ambivalent as well!

some folks have queer parents, which can make things easier- i met a trans guy recently with lesbian moms and it made it a lot easier for him to come out, as he helped her come out of the closet years prior. sometimes, a parent is just supportive, and that's great, it's alright. you're not alone, for sure, there are other people with parents and family who support them for whatever their reasons, be it that they're also queer or that they just care

i get feeling alienated. the reason why the queer community is so tight knit is because a lot of us lack good families and support groups, but if you are able contribute the same support and loving energy to the community, it goes a long, long way! you having support means that you are able to grow into who you're meant to be a lot easier, and that means that you can show people what supportive and loving homes should look like, and the outcomes they produce. you have a chance to be a very important part of the queer experience as well, because you are living proof of what good support does for queer folks

hope that makes sense! take care, you're not totally alone, i promise, and i think you have a valuable experience to share. just because your situation isn't dramatic doesn't mean it doesn't have to be shared. take care of yourself, good luck in your journey!

[phoenixsavant]

TopSkills Thursday: Part 4

This week, in the executive dysfunction series, we’ll look more closely at an important area, managing finances. As always, these are ideas, and they may not work for you. Hopefully, they’ll spark some thoughts of your own. Whichever is the case, I hope you’ll at least be inspired to continue your search for solutions. Financial management is a hard topic to write about. Lest anyone think I…

[lathifertility]

What is IVF?

In recent decades, advancements in medical science have revolutionized the field of reproductive medicine, providing hope and opportunities for couples struggling with infertility. One such groundbreaking technique is In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). In this blog post, we will delve into the intricacies of IVF treatment, exploring what it is, how it works, and the potential it holds for those seeking to build a family.

What is IVF?

In Vitro Fertilization, commonly known as IVF, is a fertility treatment that involves the fertilization of an egg with sperm outside the human body. The process begins by extracting eggs from a woman's ovaries and fertilizing them with sperm in a laboratory dish. Once fertilization occurs, the resulting embryos are then implanted in the woman's uterus with the hope of establishing a successful pregnancy.

Understanding the IVF Process

Ovulation Induction: The first step in IVF involves stimulating the ovaries to produce multiple eggs. Fertility medications are administered to enhance egg production, monitored through ultrasound and blood tests.

Egg Retrieval: Once the eggs are mature, a minor surgical procedure known as egg retrieval is performed. A thin needle is inserted through the vaginal wall to collect the eggs from the ovaries.

Fertilization: The collected eggs are then combined with sperm in a controlled environment, allowing fertilization to occur. This step is closely monitored to ensure the formation of healthy embryos.

Embryo Culture: The fertilized eggs, now embryos, are cultured and monitored for several days. The healthcare team assesses their quality before selecting the most viable embryos for transfer.

Embryo Transfer: In the final step, one or more selected embryos are transferred into the woman's uterus. This is a relatively simple and painless procedure that aims to establish a successful pregnancy.

Success Rates and Considerations

IVF success rates vary depending on several factors, including the age of the woman, the cause of infertility, and the quality of the embryos. While some individuals achieve pregnancy in the first cycle, others may require multiple attempts. It's essential to approach IVF with realistic expectations and to consult with healthcare professionals to understand individual circumstances.

Challenges and Emotional Aspects

Embarking on an IVF journey can be emotionally challenging for couples. The process involves physical, emotional, and financial commitments, and individuals may experience a range of emotions, from hope and excitement to disappointment and stress. Support from loved ones and mental health professionals can play a crucial role in helping individuals navigate these challenges.

Conclusion

In Vitro Fertilization has emerged as a beacon of hope for many couples facing infertility challenges.

Schedule a Consultation with Dr. Sonal Lathi Today If you are considering IVF treatment, Dr. Sonal Lathi is the perfect choice for you. She is a leading expert in IVF, and she is committed to helping couples achieve their parenthood dreams.

[katruna]

[randomreasonstolive]

Reason to Live #9324

  Leaning on a friend and having them be there for you. – Guest Submission

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