#Relationship Self Help Book

[hanzajesthanza]

geralt "i will NEVER deadname my best friend" of rivia

"he will ALWAYS be dandelion to ME"

[histhoughtslately]

Tell me about every bandage, every wound, pain, scar; and let me love you anyway.

#gentlelove

[non-conventionnel]

“Don’t walk in front of me… I may not follow Don’t walk behind me… I may not lead Walk beside me… just be my friend”

― Albert Camus

[nielaraxdigitals]

[femmefatalevibe]

What are your favorite self help books? :)

Hi love! Sharing some of my favorite self-help books below:

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck

The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz

Atomic Habits by James Clear

You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay

Don’t Believe Everything You Think by Joseph Nguyen

The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery by Brianna Wiest

Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free by Terri Cole

The Confidence Formula: May Cause: Lower Self-Doubt, Higher Self-Esteem, and Comfort In Your Own Skin by Patrick King

The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson

Choose Your Story, Change Your Life: Silence Your Inner Critic and Rewrite Your Life from the Inside Out by Kindra Hall

When You’re Ready, This Is How To Heal  by Brianna Wiest

Hunting Discomfort: How to Get Breakthrough Results in Life and Business No Matter What by Sterling Hawkins

The Four Pivots: Reimagining Justice, Reimagining Ourselves by Shawn Ginwright

The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose by Eckhart Tolle

The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

Unbound: A Woman’s Guide To Power by Kasia Urbaniak 

Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer 

Becoming The One by Sheleana Aiyana  

Attached by Amir Levine 

Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns 

Whole Again by Jackson MacKenzie 

Take Your Lunch Break by Massoma Alam Chohan

Stop Overthinking by Nick Trenton 

Codependent No More by Melody Beattie

Designing the Mind: The Principles of Psychitecture by Ryan A. Bush 

Radical Acceptance: Awakening The Love That Heals Fear and Shame by Tara Brach 

Recovery from Gaslighting & Narcissistic Abuse, Codependency & Complex PTSD by Don Barlow 

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson 

Inner Child Recovery Work with Radical Self-Compassion by Don Barlow 

What Happened To You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Bruce D. Perry & Oprah Winfrey 

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown 

Hope this helps xx

[usefulquotes7]

Tell me about every bandage, every wound, pain, scar; and let me love you anyway.

[soulwriterblogsstuff]

Everything is a miracle!

No risk, no fun

Everything happens out of reason

Because as long as there is love, there will always be hope 🩶🫧🌟

[itimetraveller]

Meditating under a full moon, known as moon gazing, helps you clear your mind and gain full control of your thoughts. Doing moon gazing meditations 10 minutes every day, will help you improve your communication skills and will wipe out all of your negative thoughts.

11:11

[simcardiac-arrested]

noooo little iterator boy don't search up communication on the Internet you might find something bad

stop acting like they’re a sheltered catholic middle schooler

[anelegaicmind]

Stir me to life. Bring me to love.

[hissecretobsessionsthings]

This image illustrates a sequence that represents the progression of a romantic relationship leading to a marriage proposal, along with the text "Become His Secret Obsession."

1. **Holding Hands**: The first panel shows a couple walking hand in hand, symbolizing the early stages of a relationship where a bond is formed.

2. **Kissing**: The second panel depicts the couple sharing a kiss, indicating a deepening of the emotional and physical connection.

3. **Marriage Proposal**: The third panel shows the man on one knee, proposing with a ring, while the woman is visibly emotional, symbolizing a commitment or engagement.

The phrase "Become His Secret Obsession" suggests that the images are meant to convey how a woman can captivate and secure a deep emotional connection with her partner, eventually leading to a marriage proposal. The overall motive of the picture seems to be about guiding or influencing women on how to strengthen their romantic relationships to achieve commitment.

[godspraymessage]

Jesus Says; Watch This My Child Before It's To Late‼️|

[don-quixotine]

Publishing a novel!

Hey guys! So. I'm on the road to publishing my debut novel, titled The Gifted, which takes place in post-apocalyptic Mexico and follows three bisexual slave soldiers who get caught in the middle of a conflict between the army they serve and a militia whose objective is to emancipate them. They stumble upon a terrible weapon while fleeing to safety which, if unleashed, could mean the end of what survived of humanity. Now, chased by absolutely everyone, they must make up their minds about whether they want to serve justice, revenge, or neither. I've been querying for an agent for half a year, but with the state of the entertainment industry as it is in this, the sag-afra strike era, I am keeping my options open by looking into self-publishing because let's be honest the publishing industry ain't that far off. I'm currently doing some market research and it would mean the world to me if you could help me out by answering this poll and/or sharing it with other likeminded readers. Also. I am holding a focus group with about 10 volunteer readers in December so I would be super excited to hear from you (in the poll or via DM) if you'd like to take part. I sadly cannot pay the readers because I am hella broke haha but I'll try my best to get some sort of gift card or something, as a symbolic thank you.

Tropes are:

found family

a real love triangle is when everybody holds hands and kisses on the mouth

dystopia but not told by white people

climate change core

the future may be dire but at least it's gay af

enemies to rivals to allies to friends to lovers

can we stop colonizing Latin America for like 3 seconds?

bastard meow meow meets sadboy babygirl meets angry dumbass

The Hunger Games, Iron Widow, and Mad Max had a lovechild.

so yea ��😬 also, here is Them™

[inconsistently--consistent]

Tuesday June 11th 2024

Book review Attached

If you're looking for further reading on attachment styles or self help in dating then you might enjoy this. I was looking to understand attachment styles better and I feel like I do understand it a little better.

Honestly I wouldn't really recommend. At times it felt a little bit victim blaming and abuse apologist. But that's just my interpretation.

[usefulquotes7]

The tension of the future is unbearable in us. It must break through narrow cracks, it must force new ways. You want to cast off the burden, you want to escape the inescapable. Running away is deception and detour. Shut your eyes so that you do not see the manifold, the outwardly plural, the tearing away and the tempting. There is only one way and that is your way; there is only one salvation and that is your salvation. Why are you looking around for help? Do you believe that help will come from outside? What is to come is created in you and from you. Hence look into yourself. Do not compare, do not measure. No other way is like yours. All other ways deceive and tempt you. You must fulfill the way that is in you. C.G. Jung, The Red Book: Liber Novus, edited and introduced by Sonu Shamdasani

[sexwithamanda]

Let that shit go!!!!

Episode #8924

Now that I've had the chance to read this book, I highly recommend that anyone and everyone take the time to read a self-help book.

After reading a book that makes me feel good inside, I always feel that we tend to overanalyze what we actually feel, so here I am to tell you my take.

This book was quite eye-opening, as of the aftermath of reading I now can notice right away when my mind will wander or not be focused as much as it could be.

I do have ADHD but it's liveable now I have been taught how to observe my chatty mind, my thoughts, what matters, and the bullshit we can just throw away.

This year has led me to beautiful reads, and beautiful relationships with my friends, significant other, and so much more, and being present with them is what it helps teach me.

I was taking a ride with my boyfriend and he was like are you good, I didn't tell him but I was fixated on the fact that I saw a girl message him because I needed to soothe myself.

He has friends that have girls and I have friends that are guys. I just think about how lucky they are to be friends with us. I know that he loves me but sometimes I have to remind myself that this thought of jealousy needs to blow over, I feel it and then I let that shit go.

My boyfriend loves me and then I get myself to a happy place, I know that it can be difficult, especially with the type of social media we are consuming daily of.

But it needs to be a good little breather to get away from your person and have a life beyond them.

Just like friends, recently one of my good friends was being very negative. I've read those people who are continuously negative/sad around you can drain your energy.

I would spend hours just listening to them rant, and I thought it was helping them but in reality, it wasn't. Studies show that ruminating with negative feelings for a long time is bad for your health and bad for your attraction to friends.

I understand that it can be difficult sometimes to go through things and who better than your friends to lean on when things get hard. I think the problem was, is that sometimes we have a hard time telling our friends that their problems are too much for their mental capacity. In that instance, I always ask before I dump a load of feelings I have to my friends. But, this friend is sad all the time, and it's not because of me but I can't help them.

I am not a licensed therapist yet.

The problem is that I had a conversation with them over the phone about it because I said that money is the problem as well and then they tried to get me another job. I thought about it, and I felt bad because it wasn't my intention to make it about that.

(that friend and i are still close)

I actually just don't like my energy being drained by sadness when I tend to always be happy. I just don't have the energy to be sad, there is too much to be grateful, happy for, and blessed in every chance of my life I have.

I can't transfer that to someone else, if they don't want to be happy, or don't actively do things that make them happy I can't put that burden on myself. It's good to be there for your friends but not to the point where it makes you feel like you are negative and sad all the time too.

Back to the book, anyway what I am really getting at is that you, yes YOU are the only person who can change yourself, and get you to where you want to be.

My favorite thing about this book explains how you need to take care of yourself, you are the most important and if you've been a people pleaser so much of your life, you need to unlearn this because you deserve a life where you are taken care of by the ones you call friends and family too.

Take care of your needs and let them be known, life is too short not to care for the most important person in your life, YOU.

I felt relieved reading this book because it made me understand that all I've been doing or striving to do is okay, and failing is a part of life so embrace it, and sometimes you need to embrace people for who they are, let it go. Do things that make you happy, understand your people, and love them unconditionally.

Thank you for reading this far, if you have and I send you lots of love and happiness this week, this day, this year, this month, and forevermore.

Mahal Kita,

Amanda