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After all these months of trying, I finally realized something life-changing: you cannot change another person. No matter how much you love them or how hard you try, their growth and choices are their own. But what you can change is yourself—your mindset, your reactions, and your boundaries. And in doing so, you reclaim your power.
True peace comes when you stop trying to control others and focus on your own growth. When you let go of that need, you will find freedom, strength, and a deeper sense of self-worth.
#LetGoAndGrow#FocusOnYourself#ReclaimYourPower#SelfGrowthJourney#InnerPeace#SetBoundaries#SelfEmpowerment#PersonalGrowth#StrengthWithin#SelfWorth#ChooseYourself#LettingGo#FreedomThroughGrowth#MindsetShift#EmbraceChange#GrowthMindset#HealYourself#ControlYourReactions#InnerStrength#PeaceWithin#self care#positivity#quotes
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I regret letting you in
It feels like no matter what you win
I’m left crying late at night
With no light left in sight
You got to see the vulnerability
A side I never let anyone see of me
Crying in your arms felt safe
But little did I know I was misplaced
In yet anothers arms that lacks care
For the genuine feelings I share
You see me as broken and needing help
Treated me like I was bottom shelf
Forgive and forget
Starting to make me live with regret
That I didn’t speak my mind
I thought you were the best I’d find
You are not a man
I’ll be whole someday I know I can
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holding on hurts, so I let go :)
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Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back
This entry is from an old relationship
Have you ever felt like you're the only one trying in a relationship? Like you're pouring your entire heart into something while they're just... there?
I'm sitting in my car right now, typing this on my phone because I can't be in my apartment. Because he's there, probably not even noticing that I left an hour ago. Probably hasn't even looked up from his game to realize I'm gone. And the worst part? I already know when I go back, I'll act like everything's fine.
It's such a specific type of heartbreak - loving someone who doesn't love you back but stays anyway. Because that's the thing: he stays. He's still here. Still says "goodnight." Still goes through the motions. But that's all they are - motions.
I keep a list in my notes app of all the signs I try to ignore:
How he takes hours to reply to my texts but I can see him active online.
The fact that he hasn't said "I love you" in months, just replies "you too" when I say it.
How he only wants to see me when it's convenient for him.
The way he talks about his future without mentioning me in it.
You know what the worst part is? I'm not even angry at him. I'm angry at myself. For staying. For making excuses. For thinking maybe if I love him hard enough, he'll start loving me back. For becoming the kind of person who checks their boyfriend's likes on Instagram at 3am, looking for signs of what I already know.
Tonight he asked what I wanted for dinner like everything was normal. Like I hadn't spent the whole day crying in my car because he forgot my birthday. Like he hadn't introduced me as his "friend" at last week's party. Like I haven't been dying inside every time he pulls away when I try to hold his hand in public.
My best friend keeps asking why I stay. I wish I had a better answer than "because I love him." But that's the whole stupid truth. I love him. I love him so much it physically hurts. I love him even though I know - I KNOW - he doesn't love me back.
Do you know how pathetic it feels to plan your whole day around someone who probably doesn't think about you at all? To get excited when they text you first, only to realize they just need something? To lie awake at night wondering what she has that you don't? (Because there's always a "she" - the one they like on every post, the one they talk about a little too much, the one they light up around in a way they never do with you.)
The dumbest part is that I keep waiting for some big dramatic moment. Like maybe one day it'll get so bad that leaving will feel like the only option. But it's not big dramatic moments. It's small things. It's a thousand paper cuts of indifference.
It's the way he doesn't ask about my day.
It's the half-hearted hugs.
It's the "maybe next time" when I suggest doing something together.
It's the way he can go weeks without seeing me and it doesn't bother him at all.
It's how he never puts his phone down when we're together.
It's the fact that I can't remember the last time he was excited to see me.
My mom always said you should be with someone who loves you as much as you love them. I used to think that was just something people say. Now I understand. Now I know exactly what she meant. Because this? This isn't it.
But here's the really messed up part - I'm still hoping things will change. Still analyzing every tiny gesture for signs that maybe he's starting to feel something real. Still trying to be the perfect girlfriend, like if I just try hard enough, he'll suddenly realize he loves me too.
I know how this ends. I've read this story before. I'm not stupid. I know he's never going to wake up one day and suddenly love me the way I love him. I know I deserve better than someone who makes me feel like an option.
But knowing you deserve better and actually leaving are two very different things.
So here I am, sitting in my car, writing this post. And in a few minutes, I'll go back upstairs. He won't ask where I've been. I won't tell him I've been crying. We'll go to sleep on opposite sides of the bed, and tomorrow we'll wake up and do it all again.
Because sometimes the hardest part isn't loving someone who doesn't love you back.
It's knowing they don't love you back and staying anyway.
#UnrequitedLove#LoveYourselfFirst#MovingOn#ToxicRelationship#SelfWorth#HealingJourney#DatingTrauma#LessonLearned#GrowthAfterPain#RelationshipRealness#KnowYourWorth#TrustYourGut#OneWayLove#HonestWriting#RawThoughts#YoungLove#RelationshipLessons#SelfLove#LetGoAndGrow#RealityCheck
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Detachment from Worldly Pleasures
Sant Paltu’s teachings highlight the critical need for detachment from worldly pleasures in the pursuit of spiritual enlightenment. His message revolves around renouncing attachment to material desires, recognizing them as fleeting distractions that bind the soul to the physical world. True fulfillment, Sant Paltu asserts, lies not in the accumulation of worldly wealth, sensory pleasures, or status, but in transcending these to realize the soul’s divine nature.
In modern life, we are constantly encouraged to seek happiness through external means. We chase after wealth, power, recognition, and material possessions, believing these will provide us with lasting joy. However, Sant Paltu offers a divergent perspective that calls us to see these pleasures for what they truly are—temporary and deceptive. They give the illusion of happiness but fail to provide the deep spiritual fulfillment our souls crave. By placing our identity in these fleeting pleasures, we risk losing sight of our true spiritual purpose.
According to Sant Paltu, the path to spiritual enlightenment begins with detachment from these worldly enticements. Detachment, however, does not mean abandoning life or renouncing the material world altogether. Instead, it means cultivating a state of inner freedom where one is no longer emotionally or mentally bound by material desires. It is about shifting the source of happiness from external possessions to an internal connection with the Divine.
This principle of detachment is a profound yet simple truth—when we let go of our attachment to fleeting pleasures, we create space for the Divine to enter our lives. In doing so, we open ourselves up to spiritual experiences that transcend the temporary highs of worldly success and sensual indulgence. The soul, no longer trapped in the web of desires, begins to experience the eternal peace, joy, and fulfillment that comes from communion with the Divine.
One of the most inspirational aspects of Sant Paltu’s guidance is his unwavering belief that spiritual liberation is available to everyone, regardless of their external circumstances. You don’t need to leave behind your responsibilities or reject the world entirely to achieve enlightenment. Instead, it’s about cultivating a mindset of detachment while still living in the world. You can continue to work, have relationships, and pursue goals, but the key is not to let your happiness or self-worth be defined by these things. The world becomes a stage for your soul’s growth, not the source of your joy.
Detachment, as taught by Sant Paltu, also encourages us to live more consciously. When we are no longer enslaved by our desires, we can act from a place of divine purpose rather than from ego-driven wants. This frees us from the endless cycle of dissatisfaction, where each new possession or experience eventually loses its appeal and leaves us searching for the next thing. Through detachment, we find that our real fulfillment comes from within, from aligning with the divine flow of life.
Practical Toolkit for Practicing Detachment from Worldly Pleasures
Daily Reflection on Impermanence: Spend a few minutes each morning reflecting on the impermanence of material things. Whether it’s wealth, beauty, or success, remind yourself that these are all temporary. This practice helps loosen attachment.
Mindful Consumption: Before making purchases or indulging in pleasures, pause and ask yourself if this will bring lasting happiness or if it’s just a fleeting satisfaction. Shift your focus from consuming to experiencing presence and gratitude for what you already have.
Detachment Meditation: Dedicate time each day to meditate on letting go of attachment. Visualize the things you hold onto most—whether it’s money, recognition, or relationships—and practice releasing your emotional grip on them, trusting that your true fulfillment comes from within.
Self-Inquiry on Desires: Throughout the day, whenever you feel a strong desire for something material, ask yourself why you want it. Are you seeking comfort, validation, or happiness from this object or experience? Then remind yourself that these feelings are found within, not outside of you.
Acts of Generosity: Practice giving without expecting anything in return. Whether it’s your time, resources, or kindness, generosity is a powerful way to cultivate detachment from material possessions and ego-driven desires.
Simplify Your Life: Make a conscious effort to simplify your surroundings and your lifestyle. This doesn’t mean living in austerity but removing clutter and excess that serve no real purpose in your spiritual journey.
Gratitude for the Divine: At the end of each day, take a moment to express gratitude—not for the material pleasures but for the spiritual insights, lessons, and experiences that brought you closer to the Divine. This shifts your focus away from external rewards and toward your internal spiritual growth.
Mindful Relationships: In relationships, practice detachment by not being overly dependent on others for your happiness. Love and connect deeply, but let go of the need to control or possess. Recognize that true love is rooted in the soul, not in the material or physical aspects of relationships.
Weekly Digital Detox: Set aside time each week to disconnect from social media, shopping, or entertainment that feeds attachment to worldly pleasures. Use this time to reconnect with nature, meditate, or engage in spiritual practice.
Surrender to the Divine Will: Cultivate a habit of surrendering your desires and goals to the Divine. Trust that whatever comes into your life is for your highest good, and practice detachment from specific outcomes.
By incorporating these practices into your daily life, you can begin to detach from the grip of worldly pleasures and create space for spiritual enlightenment. Sant Paltu’s teachings offer not just a path to freedom from material desires but a doorway to the deepest joy and fulfillment that comes from living in alignment with the Divine. This detachment is not a loss but a gain—an entry into a life of spiritual abundance, peace, and eternal bliss.
#SpiritualAwakening#DetachFromDesires#InnerPeace#SpiritualLiberation#SantPaltuTeachings#MindfulLiving#LetGoAndGrow#SoulFulfillment#TranscendMaterialism#SpiritualWisdom#PathToEnlightenment#LiveWithPurpose#SpiritualJourney#ConsciousLiving#DivineConnection
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Let go for a better you ❤️
#self love#self care#healingjourney#self healing#loveyourself#self compassion#love#i am worthy#worth it#confidence#letgoandgrow#let go of the past#letgoandletgod#let goooo#learn and grow#lessons learned#learning#free your mind#mindshift#dnd character#isolation#give yourself time#for the better#experience#breakthrough#dont look back#strong#you matter#you are strong#newstart
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Let them
Let them mess it up with u, jugle u, cheat on u, lie, lack effort, twist, slime, disrespect, not showing up..
Let them
Really, it is not your responsability to let them know: 'Hey you got a person like me.
It is not your task to prevent them from ruining and destroying u.
It is not up to u to make sure they wont hurt u.
You know why?
Because it is theirs, they will have to live with the fact they did this to u and lost u, they'll have to live on with it and the mess
So, let them mess up, piss u off, ..
Just let them
Lose u
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I know it's hard but you just have to let go
"If you continue to carry the bricks from your past you'll end up building the same house"
- Unknown
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❤️Learning to Support Without Losing Yourself❤️
Ever been caught in that place where you want to be there for someone but feel yourself slowly sinking under the weight of their problems? You see their struggle, maybe even relate to it, and part of you just wants to help—really help. But the other part knows that you’re edging closer and closer to emotional exhaustion.
I know this struggle too well. Ever since I was young, I’ve been a nurturer. If someone’s hurting, I instinctively want to help ease their pain, to be the person who shows up, listens, and supports them. Especially if they’ve faced hardships that mirror my own. It feels impossible to stand by and watch anyone struggle. I relate so deeply to the feeling of powerlessness, the desire for relief, the need for someone to just get it.
But that’s where the struggle is—because not everyone who needs support is ready for change. As someone who’s clawed through my own healing process, I know firsthand how easy it is to get stuck in the role of “the victim.” And it’s hard when you’re pouring everything into supporting someone who isn’t ready to take the steps forward, no matter how much they need it.
So, how do you stay kind, compassionate, and helpful, without draining your own energy? How do you stand beside someone without standing in their emotional storm?
For me, it's been about understanding my limits. I’ve realized that just because I can empathize doesn’t mean I have to carry their burdens. I ask myself, “Is my need to help them going to compromise my own peace? Am I sacrificing my own stability to lift theirs?” It’s tough, but it’s become clear that I can’t fully be there for others if I’m running on empty.
It’s also been a journey of learning to set boundaries—not easy for someone who wants to help, but essential. I’ve started to remind myself that it’s okay to say, “I’m here for you, but I don’t have the emotional space for this conversation right now.” Because no one should feel obligated to be a martyr for someone else’s healing, and we can only pour from a cup that’s full.
Supporting others can mean sometimes stepping back to protect our own emotional health. It’s possible to love people while respecting your own capacity. After all, it’s about walking with them, not carrying them. And sometimes, our strength as supporters is in knowing when to let others walk forward on their own.
#MentalHealthMatters#SelfCareTips#BoundariesAreHealthy#EmotionalWellness#PersonalGrowth#HealingJourney#MindsetShift#MentalHealthSupport#TraumaHealing#SelfCompassion#InnerStrength#EmotionalIntelligence#LetGoAndGrow#EmpathyAndBoundaries#SurvivingAndThriving#HealingTogether#SupportWithoutSacrifice#GrowthMindset#OvercomingObstacles#ChooseYourselfFirst
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Sometimes it's better to let go.. It hurts less.
#let go#let go of negativity#let go of the past#letgoandgrow#everything will be okay#dont stop believing#be love#healing#love yourself#itll be okay
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I’ll let go the moment someone claims the space I can’t have.
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Hitting the Wall: How to Break Down, Let Go, and Rise Again
Life has this funny way of pushing us until we’re stretched to our absolute limit. You know the feeling—you’re juggling a thousand things, handling everything like a pro, and then, one day, you hit that wall. It’s not a gentle nudge, it’s a full-body slam. You’re overwhelmed, exhausted, and suddenly, everything you’ve been keeping inside comes flooding out. It’s that moment where you just need to break down, cry, mourn, and process all the emotions you’ve been holding back. But here’s the thing: that breakdown isn’t the end. It’s the beginning of something important.
The Weight You Carry
For months, you’ve been handling it all. Maybe it’s the job, maybe it’s family responsibilities, or maybe it’s just life piling up in unexpected ways. You hold it together because that’s what you do—you manage, you solve problems, you push through. But there’s only so much you can handle before the weight becomes too much, and eventually, your body and mind start screaming, Enough!
That’s when you hit the wall. It doesn’t matter how strong you are; it happens to everyone. For some, it’s sudden—one bad day, one unexpected moment—and for others, it’s a slow build-up of pressure that finally cracks. But the breakdown comes, and it’s brutal.
Breaking Down: Why It’s Okay
In those moments, when you’re at your lowest, it can feel like you’ve failed somehow. Like you couldn’t keep it together, and you should’ve been able to handle more. But that’s not true. Breaking down is human. It’s your mind’s way of forcing you to pause, to stop pushing so hard, to take stock of everything you’ve been carrying.
So, if you find yourself in tears, feeling like you’ve hit rock bottom, understand this: those emotions you’ve been stuffing away need to be felt. Let yourself cry, mourn, and scream into a pillow if you have to. You’ve been so busy being strong that you’ve forgotten you’re allowed to fall apart. The release is necessary. It’s not weakness—it’s part of healing.
Mourning What You’ve Lost
Sometimes, when you hit that wall, it’s because you’ve lost something along the way. Maybe it’s a relationship, an opportunity, or even just a sense of who you are. When you’re constantly on the go, you don’t always have time to process those losses, so they sit in the back of your mind, weighing you down.
When you finally break down, it’s also a chance to mourn. And I don’t just mean grieving for things that are gone—I’m talking about mourning the version of yourself you’ve had to let go of to survive. Life changes us. It pulls us in directions we didn’t plan, and sometimes, that means leaving behind pieces of ourselves that we once held dear.
Give yourself the space to mourn that. To acknowledge the pain, the exhaustion, the frustration. You deserve that moment of reflection.
The Bounce-Back
Here’s the good part: once you’ve let it all out, once you’ve cried until you can’t cry anymore, something shifts. It doesn’t happen right away, but it happens. After the breakdown comes clarity. You start to see things for what they are—what’s truly important, what you can let go of, and what you can change.
And then, slowly but surely, you start to come back up. You get up off the floor, you wipe your face, and you take that first step forward. The weight starts to lift, and you realize that, yes, you’re still capable. You’re still strong. In fact, you’re stronger because you’ve allowed yourself to feel everything instead of pretending it’s not there.
Taking Care of Yourself Through It All
One thing I’ve learned is that self-care isn’t just about bubble baths and face masks. Sometimes, self-care is ugly. It’s allowing yourself to break down, to sit in the dark, to feel completely lost for a little while. And then, it’s making the decision to rise again.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help during those tough times, either. Whether it’s a friend, a therapist, or just someone who can listen, you don’t have to go through it alone. We all hit the wall eventually, and we all need someone to remind us that we can come back from it.
Moving Forward
So, if you’ve hit your wall, if you’ve broken down, and you’re wondering how to move forward, just know that you’re already doing it. The fact that you’ve acknowledged it, that you’ve let yourself release those emotions, is the first step in healing. You’ll come back up. You always do.
#HittingTheWall#BreakDownRiseUp#EmotionalHealing#LetGoAndGrow#BounceBackStronger#StrengthInVulnerability#OvercomeObstacles#EmbraceTheBreakdown#MentalHealthMatters#ResilienceJourney#FeelToHeal#ComeBackStronger#EmotionalRelease#GrowthThroughPain#SelfCareFirst
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🌟 The Journey of Forgiveness 🌟
Forgiveness is not always easy, but it’s one of the most beautiful gifts we can give ourselves and others. 🌱✨ It takes courage to let go of pain, hurt, and resentment. But when we do, we make room for peace, healing, and growth. 🌿💖
Whether it’s forgiving someone else or ourselves, remember that forgiveness is not about forgetting—it’s about finding freedom in your heart. 🕊️
Every step forward, no matter how small, is a step towards a lighter, brighter life. 🌻🌼 Let go of what weighs you down and open your heart to new possibilities. 💫💕
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Give yourself a chance to meet someone else. Don’t go back to someone who was already lucky enough to have you but didn’t value you.
#ChooseYourself#HealthyRelationships#KnowYourWorth#LetGoAndGrow#MoveForward#newbeginnings#NoLookingBack#SelfRespect#TheLoulouge#ValueYourself
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Abandon the Show of Actions: Seek Refuge in the Saints
Exploring Sant Ramdas' Doha
"Karmachi Cheshtha Sodoon, Sant Sharanagat Ho" (Abandon the show of actions; seek refuge in the saints) invites us to transcend the surface level of life and delve into the deeper essence of true spirituality. This profound doha by Sant Ramdas sheds light on the emptiness of actions performed solely for appearances and underscores the transformative power of surrendering to the wisdom of saints.
In today's hyper-competitive world, actions are often driven by external validation. Whether it's showcasing achievements on social media or striving for accolades, the focus often shifts to how things look rather than their intrinsic value. This doha challenges us to reconsider the intent behind our actions and encourages us to align them with deeper spiritual truths.
The Illusion of Performative Actions
The “show of actions” refers to acts driven by ego, pride, or societal expectations rather than genuine intent. These actions might look virtuous externally, but they lack authenticity and fail to nurture the soul.
Consider a scenario where someone donates to charity solely for public praise. Though the act itself may help others, its spiritual essence is diluted. The doha suggests that such actions are like mirages—they seem substantial but lack depth.
Saints, in contrast, embody purity and simplicity. They act selflessly, reflecting an inner harmony that resonates with truth. By seeking their refuge, one learns to act from a place of love, humility, and authenticity, shedding the need for validation.
The Refuge of Saints
Seeking refuge in saints does not imply physical proximity alone. It involves imbibing their teachings, values, and essence. Saints live as examples of spiritual principles in action. Their wisdom cuts through the noise of superficiality and directs us inward, where true fulfillment resides.
The doha subtly hints that aligning with the saints' way of life helps us discard the need for pretense. We learn to connect with actions as an expression of our higher self, turning everyday life into a spiritual practice.
Relating to Personal Struggles
Modern life often forces us into the performance trap. From careers to relationships, there is constant pressure to "show up" in ways that meet external expectations. This disconnects us from our true nature and leaves us feeling hollow.
This doha offers a way out: stop playing roles dictated by societal norms and instead focus on genuine living. Saints teach that fulfillment comes not from doing more but from being aligned with who you are at the core. By reflecting on their lives, one can find inspiration to live with integrity and inner peace.
A Practical Toolkit
Here’s how you can incorporate the essence of this doha into your daily life:
1. Self-Reflection
Begin your day by asking: Am I acting out of love or for recognition?
Journal your thoughts to identify patterns of performative actions.
2. Meditate on Surrender
Dedicate 10 minutes daily to a meditation focused on letting go.
Visualize surrendering your ego-driven actions to a higher power.
3. Seek Spiritual Guidance
Read the lives and teachings of saints who inspire you.
Reflect on how their principles can be applied in your life.
4. Authenticity Practice
Before performing any task, pause and ask: Why am I doing this?
Ensure your actions align with your inner values rather than external pressures.
5. Service Without Recognition
Engage in acts of kindness anonymously.
This helps cultivate humility and genuine joy.
6. Stay Grounded in Gratitude
Conclude your day by expressing gratitude for authentic moments.
Acknowledge the shift you feel when you act without pretense.
The Inspirational Takeaway
Sant Ramdas’ doha reminds us that life is not a stage where we play roles to impress others. Instead, it is a sacred opportunity to express our true selves through meaningful actions. By seeking refuge in saints—both their wisdom and way of life—we find the courage to abandon the show and embrace authenticity.
When actions stem from sincerity, they carry transformative power. This path leads to peace, fulfillment, and a profound connection with the divine essence within and around us. Let this doha inspire you to move beyond the facade and live a life rooted in truth and love.
#SpiritualAwakening#InnerPeaceJourney#SeekTheTruth#WisdomOfSaints#LifeLessons#MindfulLiving#SoulfulConnections#SpiritualGrowth#AuthenticLiving#PeacefulLife#DivineGuidance#LetGoAndGrow#PathToSerenity#InspiredLiving#KarmaAndDharma
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