#SelfGrowthJourney

[moonshadowmystique]

After all these months of trying, I finally realized something life-changing: you cannot change another person. No matter how much you love them or how hard you try, their growth and choices are their own. But what you can change is yourself—your mindset, your reactions, and your boundaries. And in doing so, you reclaim your power.

True peace comes when you stop trying to control others and focus on your own growth. When you let go of that need, you will find freedom, strength, and a deeper sense of self-worth.

[butterflybaby98]

Life Lessons You've Taught Me

Stay loyal and true to your heart. If you do something wrong, you betray yourself more than you do for others, as you’ll carry the guilt in your conscience for a lifetime.

Seeking validation from others won’t help if you don’t value yourself. Women who need attention from other people often have weak souls and low self-esteem. You don’t need anyone’s attention if you truly find self-love within.

There are no guys here to help you unless they want something from you. Many intend to use you like a toy. Stop being available to people who see you as something to use.

Understand the difference between needing someone and wanting someone. Needs come from a lack, as if you need someone to complete you. Wanting someone means you desire them in your life without any expectation.

Forgive yourself, but never forget. Learn from your mistakes, correct them, and never make the same mistake again. Keep your soul pure and find peace.

Being insecure and stuck in your comfort zone doesn’t help you grow. You won’t gain anything but depression and self-hatred. Instead, try to overcome your insecurities by turning them into motivation and building yourself into a stronger person.

Don’t blame the past. Though you’ve had many empty days, blaming childhood trauma won’t help you move forward now. Use your time to heal and grow.

Seek peace and calm with God. Believe in God, pray daily, and trust that God has a plan for your life. Letting God into your heart can give you a pure conscience.

Be someone who stays close to your partner only. Cheating isn’t just physical intimacy, it includes texting others with different intentions, sharing things with other men, or thinking they’re attractive. Loyalty is keeping your head high, showing less emotions to other men, and giving your whole heart to your loved one without limitation.

Be invisible to others and available only to your loved one.

Connect with nature.

Attract positivity, and ignore negativity.

Love isn’t just a spark or attraction. Love is selfless, it’s finding one reason to stay when there are a thousand reasons to leave. Love is loyalty, respect, care, sharing, and living for each other until the end, facing challenges together as one.

Your body is like the church. You should maintain it. Take care of it and love it. Also it belongs to only one son of god.

Pray daily and go to church on Sunday

[adiyo]

Discernment is Key: Protecting Your Peace

After a few failed attempts at getting back into the dating scene, this year, following my birthday, I decided to stop searching. Instead, I’ve been taking the time to heal, focus on my ambitions, and develop myself. There’s a power in that—stepping away from the noise, and really learning about who you are and what you need.

What’s funny (or ironic, really) is how, after doing that inner work—after knowing yourself more deeply, understanding your blind spots, triggers, and insecurities—people who once hurt you try to reenter your life. It’s almost like the universe is testing you to see if you've really grown.

Where I am now, I don’t see these moments as temptations to fall back into old patterns. Instead, they’re opportunities. Learning moments. They’re a mirror, reflecting how much you’ve changed, how much stronger and wiser you’ve become. And more importantly, they unmask the true intentions of those around you.

Some people aren’t interested in you—they’re interested in what you can do for them. They’re not returning because they’ve changed or because they genuinely want to be a part of your life. They’re returning because they see what they can gain from your growth, your energy, or your attention.

Discernment becomes your strongest tool here. It’s through that lens that you begin to understand who deserves a place in your life. Not everyone who asks for forgiveness, friendship, or love should receive it. Respect, trust, love, friendship, and forgiveness—these things are earned through consistent actions, not words alone.

When you’ve spent time understanding yourself, your attachment styles, and your pain, you realize the power of boundaries. You realize that the rose-colored glasses you used to wear only led to hurt. Growth comes from recognizing when to say no, when to protect your peace, and when to stand firm in your worth.

So here’s to seeing people for who they really are, to honouring our growth, and to protecting the peace we’ve fought so hard to find. Because not everyone deserves a seat at your table.

[divinefem333]

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[definitelynotemi]

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[mylovemygy]

I just cried for the first time over my decision of learning and teaching my something new #coding and it’s a scary journey and I really want to stick to it and see the end result of growth in my skill set in my self journey

[tech-mermaid]

Self-correction is key for growth. Learn from mistakes and commit to self-improvement!

[30daysofaffirmations]

This is the short version of the Embrace Knowledge affirmations. The long version can be found on the 30 Days of Affirmations website, https://30daysofaffirmations.com/2024-day-18-embrace-knowledge/.

[realtalkwithmattycom]

A hero's Mentality

#realtalkwithmatty #beyourownsuperhero  #healthyboundaries #selfgrowthjourney #chooseyourself #nodramazone #selfworth Today I woke up with a hero’s mentality. I realized that it’s not my responsibility to save everybody else but rather to focus on saving myself from negativity, drama, and miserable people. I made a conscious decision to prioritize my well-being and ensure that my mental state…

[gmworking]

Believing is SEEING How to Rewire Limiting Beliefs and Misperceptions

🌟 Explore the fascinating world of transforming your reality through the power of belief! 🧠✨ In this eye-opening video, discover the secrets to rewiring your mind's limitations and breaking free from misperceptions that hold you back. 🚀🔓 Join us on a journey of self-discovery as we delve into practical techniques and mindset shifts that turn the saying "Believing is Seeing" into a life-changing mantra. 🌈🔍 Get ready to unlock a new perspective and pave the way for personal growth and empowerment! 🌱🌟

[mikewangcoaching]

How our emotions affect our behavior

In the video, we explore how emotional and cognitive patterns can hinder our life trajectories and self-fulfillment. By understanding and reshaping these patterns, we can align our behaviors with our true desires and aspirations.

[divinefem333]

10 SIGNS OF GROWTH #reminderoftheday #10signs #quotesandthoughts #growth...

HERE ARE SIGNS THAT YOU'VE GROWN MORE THAN YOU REALIZE. WATCH AND SEE

[tonyfahkry]

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