#LESBOYS

[bigsharter666]

while yall r busy fighting about he/him lesbians and trans girls, im busy fucking them. u r so busy trying to define a word u have missed the whole point. noone is free from my lesbian lust all of yall r sexy and im omw to ur mouth as we speak.

[redtail-lol]

Shoutout to lesboys who aren't actually men or boys. I'm sorry you have to be misgendered by exclusionists when they scream about how men can't be lesbians to invalidate your identity and you're not even men. This one's for the butches that like the word lesboy as validation for their masculinity. This one's for transmasc enbies who don't fully ID as men but they do (partially) connect with masculinity and manhood and so they use lesboy. This one's for gender variant lesboys who aren't men but use lesboy to make sure everyone knows they're not a woman, who are more comfortable being perceived as "more boyish" than as a girl. This one's for all the lesboys who aren't men or boys but still identify with being a lesboy. Stop misgendering them because the only argument against their identity that you can think of is "men can't be lesbians."

Obligatory "I support lesboys who are men and/or boys as well, I'm just specifically focusing on those who aren't right now"

[auggator]

reminder that mspec lesbians and male lesbians and he/him lesbians and trans(masc/neu/fem) lesbians have existed for decades and are fucking amazing lesbians that deserve space in the lesbian community

[fixing-bad-posts]

[Image description: A tumblr post, edited blackout-poetry style to read, “lesbian is an umbrella term! Lesbians like women. you can be a guy and a lesbian. you can use he/him pronouns and be a lesbian, be nice”]

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lesbian 👏🏻 is 👏🏻👏🏻 an 👏🏻 umbrella 👏🏻 term! 👏🏻

Submitted by @lordchiefinjustice

[pickledsodapop]

MORE QUEER ART!!!

[auti-starshine]

I love you he/him lesbians

I love you transmasc lesbians

I love you trans men lesbians

I love you butch lesbians

I love you masc lesbians

I love you lesboys

I love you GNC lesbians

I love you nonbinary lesbians

I love you intersex lesbians

I love you transfem lesbians

I love you trans women lesbians

I love you genderqueer lesbians

I love you asexual lesbians

I love you aromantic lesbians

I love you disabled lesbians

I love lesbians <3

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

Things that can co-exist

Straight trans men, who hate when transphobes say they're a lesbian. & Lesbian trans men who hate people pushing them out of the label.

Lesbians talking about how bad comphet is. & Lesboys. Just like ..existing. (maybe surprising to you but lesboys can complain about comphet)

Lesbians talking about gross men who are trying to flirt with them by insisting that lesbians don't exist and insist they're bi or multisexual in general because they can't accept lesbians exist & Mspec lesbians.

[enemywasp]

QUEER ACCEPTENCE IS ABOUT BEING ACCEPTED AS WE ARE NOT FORCING OURSELVES TO BE WHAT OTHERS DECIDE IS ACCEPTABLE.

YES THIS INCLUDES KINK

YES THIS INCLUDES MICROLABELS

YES THIS INCLUDES CONTRADICTORY LABELS

[isabellascarlett1]

You don’t support all Non-binary Lesbians if you don’t support Lesboys/Lesbois/Lesbian men.

Multigender men exist.

Genderfluid men exist.

[smilepilled]

big fan of lesboys and turigirls. i hope yall have a lovely day. stay strong and stay true to yourselves. dont let patriarqueers [exclusionists] being you down 🫶

[virovirokun-has-adhd]

Art i did on the worlds worst drawing ui to ever fucking exist (flipanim) using only my mouse (because its pretty much the only way)

Uh yeah uhm so Flipanim went ballistic over me having put the lesboy flag in the background so i wanna post it here to spite them

tagging my pookie <3 @mayday-mayd4y

my Flipanim is CreatorSans btw if anyone here has an account :]

[mr-payjay]

I LOVE LESBOYS AND GAYGIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[discoursecallie]

"oh this persons identity doesn't make sense to me so they must be invalid" you could be jacking off rn. i could be jacking off rn, but instead im taking time out of my busy jacking off schedule to explain to you that it's good to be nice to people

[auggator]

I'm a trans man and I'm having a hard time understanding one of your posts.

How can trans Men be lesbian? The definition of lesbian is non-man loving non-man.

I understand he/him lesbians, because pronouns don't equal gender.

But to me calling a trans man a lesbian for liking women seems... against the whole point. Wouldn't that be against their gender identity, since lesbian is non men loving non men?

I am genuinely trying to understand this and don't mean to come off as rude. I am also in the lgbtq community, I'm bisexual and transgender. I try to get your points.

Also if I understood the entire post wrong, MB. I'm just trying to make sure i can accept everyone.

Trans men have had a connection to the lesbian community for decades. The line between butch and transmasc "non-man" lesbian and male lesbian is blurry sometimes. If you want historical evidence, Alison Bechdel has some comic strips from the 1980s and 1990s where male lesbians are present. Trans men who like women often identify as lesbians before they realize they're trans, and so they have an established connection to the lesbian community and continue to identify with it as they transition. Some also feel that their attraction to women is inherently queer and don't really feel like their attraction is "straight". Not all straight men identify as lesbians or lesboys, obviously, but it's an option for those who feel like it applies to them.

Also, "non-man" and "non-woman" just create a new binary that's exorsexist and based in racist ideology if applied generally. Not everyone fits neatly into the "non-man" or "non-woman" categories. Multigender people, for example, may be both man and woman, and don't fit into "non-man" or "non-woman" neatly. To say a multigender person who is both man and woman is "non-man" or "non-woman" erases at least half of their identity. Or demigender people who identify with a binary gender can be both not that binary gender and that binary gender. So saying a demiman is "non-man" is to erase their identity as a man and to say they're exclusively "non-man" is to erase their identity as nonbinary. This is also true for genderfluid and genderflux people who are sometimes completely binary men. To say they're exclusively "non-man" is to erase their identity as a man and to say they're exclusively "man" is to erase their identity as nonbinary.

Post by @this-is-exorsexism and @our-lesboy-experience found here

I'm white so I'm mostly going to point to this post by @moonshinedyke to explain the racism surrounding "nonman" and "nonwoman" as terms. Historically, "nonman" and "nonwoman" have been used to degender Black people and the term also degenders Two-Spirit people. As he points out in the post, it's fine to use the definitions for your own attraction, but using them to define the label as a whole is antiblack.

This isn't to like shame you or anything, just to give explanations and resources as to some things. I would recommend checking out the @/our-lesboy-experience blog to learn more about lesboys in general. This Carrd also has a good amount of information.

As for my own experiences, lesbian was the first queer identity I had. I started identifying as a lesbian since I was about 12. I realized I was trans when I was about 15. I've strayed away from the lesbian label because I felt it was "too gendered" both in definition and in the association. As I've gotten older, I've started to connect with the lesbian community again and feel comfortable identifying as a butch lesbian alongside being a trans man. My girlfriend identifies as a bi lesbian, and we consider our relationship both to be a lesbian one and to be a straight one. My attraction to women is both lesbian and straight and it fluctuates between what it is from day to day. I also identify as bigender and have some connection to lesbian identity because of my gender identity being a little funky.

A better definition of lesbian would be queer attraction to women. It includes people of all gender identities and is generally a good faith way to understand lesbianism.

[pink-pony-club-president]

[bizarreaizen]

i've seen many individuals [ mainly on tiktok ] talk about how they don't like lesboys and let me just make this clear, trans men over the years have done a lot for the lesbian community in terms of being an ally and for their rights, they don't necessarily identify as a lesbian as a sexuality but rather a connection to what they've done for the lesbian community ヾ(＾-＾)ノ

i would also like to say that bigender, trigender, genderfluid, pangender [ and other multi gender identities ] can freely identify as a lesboys and let's not forget transmasc lesbians, nonbinary lesbians etc (´^ω^`) /gen