#I wish I was cis ngl

[bayfuzzball7050]

God cursed me with the body that no man would ever want and now I have to pay thousands of dollars on medicine that my mates produce for free

[kotsuri]

everything I have today, I fought for myself, I will fight for what I don't have. I will change the fate I don't possess. my fate is up to me and not the heavens!

[soviet-siscon]

ok this is a loaded one and gets into my occasional sadistic tendencies but there's something revolving in my brain about having a girl who's rich and better than you and A) having her be obsessed with you and basically your pet and B) selfishly wanting to make her worse and make her cry.

maybe I'm projecting something about my ex here combined with that manga about the girl buying her female classmate after school but idk. there's a specific look i can very vividly imagine being given by a girl (and the fact that she's a cis girl is really important to the fantasy of it) who's sorta given up on thinking about other things.

I'm gonna try my best to write something proper about it but the vibes kinda come and go unfortunately.

[seilon]

hm

[chamaleonsoul]

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[wof-reworked]

ok I can't stop thinking about the jade winglet, here's my gender hcs for all of them

Moonwatcher - she/they (nonbinary)

I feel like this is fun bc rn (in canon) her gender is just "anxiety" but like,,, one day in the future she gets to actually play around with it

like she captures a very specific type of person I've met who you go "oh I mean I know she's gay but she's probably cis..." and then you have like one real convo and find out they're like not only nonbinary but better at it then you

I think she should get to be butch when she's older. I think she deserves being a) massive compared to her two twink boyfriends and b) gnc as shit

Kinkajou- any/all (genderfluid +transfem)

Kinkajou strikes me as being like. totally ambivalent to gender. Kinkajou changes her pronouns based on how the fruit he ate for breakfast makes him feel. Kinkajou is better than you

I think she was like staunchly using she/her for a while bc it just felt right and like changes pronouns situationally- Rainwing village is she/her, Jade Academy is any/all, close friends it varies, etc etc

Qibli- he/they (transmasc)

Qibli's just always kind of known who he is, and has been like. pretty contentedly in his corner for a while. I think it's like- a pillar of stability for him of like "at least I know I'm (x)"

Proximity to Moonwatcher puts the they/them in there bc I think it's nice when ppl get more comfortable so they start branching out a lil bit :> Qibli has like. guy who says "he/they" because he doesn't mind they/them and wants his friends to feel supported y'know

Winter- he/him (cis + gnc)

Look I feel bad making him one of like. two cis ppl at JMA but like I think it's funny if he's cis but inflicts a status effect of gender envy on every trans person in his proximity

guy who does makeup flawlessly because "it's fun" and decimates your sense of identity as you wonder why the fuck god gave these gifts to a man

extra funny for the fact that as a dragonet he gets offended by the implication he's pretty. he gets over it eventually I think

Turtle- she/her or he/she/they (transwoman/trans)

See here. Otherwise I think she's like trans and this could go in like. any fucking direction ngl

transmasc turtle??? hell yeah !!! transfem turtle??? hell yeah !!! gender is whatever Turtle has going on and god knows if she knows it

last egg to crack bc Turtle is immune to self reflection that isn't anxiety and self loathing

"Haha everyone hates how other people refer to them and their gender what do you mean? :)" (entire jade winglet: cringing with worry)

Umber- he/him (cis)

cis and a lil insecure about it but like. he's just nice :)

he's like experimented with pronouns and gender and found none of them really stuck so like. cis+. cis (extended dlc). you know what I mean I hope

gonna be honest I'm lost for him bc I genuinely forget he was there bc he peaced out so fast. justice for my boy I want to know more !!!!!

I could be persuaded for transman Umber ngl,,, it tempts me,,,,,,

Peril- she/her (trans woman)

On one hand I'm torn bc I think it almost doesn't make sense for her backstory BUT ON THE OTHER HAND the idea of Scarlet being supportive of Peril's identity and LITERALLY NOTHING ELSE is hysterical to me

though actually if we wanna get sad,,,, that 100% could be a manipulation tactic of Scarlet. "see I love you I even accept you" etc etc. now I just feel bad man

Peril's also in the same camp of Qibli of knowing this abt herself since she could think and being happy in it. She knows what she's about

BONUS:

Carnelian- she/they/he (transmasc)

Look butch can be a gender and sometimes you're a mean butch skywing idk what to tell you

wish she stayed alive bc her and Moon could've been legendary together. girl who will kill for you vs girl who desperately wants you to do anything else please we talked about this you can't solve your problems with murder

I think Carnelian's true gender is Skywing Patriot and idk how to put that in hc form but this is as best I've got

[nathaaaan]

do you ever just… want to be the opposite gender?

do you ever look at the them and think;

“I wish I could look like that.”

“I wish I could sound like that.”

“I wish I could be like that.”

I hate this feeling.

This feeling of dysphoria. Dysmorphia. Gender dysphoria. Body dysmorphia. It just seems to get worse and worse every day. I genuinely don’t know how to make it go away.

I’ve been told “You are a [gender].” and “Stop trying to dress/act like a [gender].” so many times. So many times. Sometimes I feel like the world is trying to taunt me. That I can’t be that and I know it, because that’s what I was taught.

You can’t change your biology.

These thoughts plague my mind throughout the day, just randomly when I’m looking in the general direction of other people.

I don’t know if anyone who is trans, or is thinking about transitioning, or just… not trans and thought about it once/haven’t thought about it once is reading this (I don’t wanna call you cis gender ngl), but could you like… explain this to me?

How do you get rid of this feeling?

[shapelytimber]

Just saw your Star Wars sapphic AU, and,,,,, PLEASE tell me they're all actual sapphics/lesbians and not manlikers 😭 Just one sapphic AU without bihets and switch hitters in it PLEAAASEEE I can't handle any more of their cis man worship in this fandom

Ok so this message is disgusting ngl, but I will *try* (and fail) to take your message in good faith, and assume the weirder parts of it are born from ignorance and not a wish to other and harm members of the queer *community*, especially bi and trans people.... Right ?

No, not everyone in my sw au is a lesbian, or cis, that's why it's called a sapphic au and not a lesbian au. I started listing specific orientations in my recap, even if I usually like keaping it ambiguous.

But your message kinda rubbed me the wrong way :) so just for you anon, let me share the most bi aspects of my au !

- Padmé had multiple relationships before Anakin, Palo and Rush Clovis, both men.

- I ship Vader and Boba Fett, and in my au Vader uses he/him (contrary to Anakin who uses she/her, link to a previous ask were I explain it further) and Boba she/her, making it *technically* a het adjacent ship, and Boba bisexual.

- Obi wan and Lando are bisexual because obviously.

- I really like the idea of Luke being asexual bi romantic, and I like both the Luke/Biggs Darklighter and Luke/Zevulon Veers ships, both men (rip the Han/Luke shippers kdidkdk I respect it, but I prefer Hanleia-)

- And while I'm at it, Luke Lando and Han are all different flavors of non binary, so not women. (As a lesbian I do find non binary people attractive, and know non binary lesbians. But seeing how this ask is formulated, I just felt the need to reinstate that <3)

To sum it up, in my sapphic au I concider Obi wan, Padmé, Boba Fett, Lando, Leia and Luke bisexuals :)

Frankly, from a lesbian to another, in your message you sound like a huge loser who doesn't have male friends and experiences the queer community only through tumblr. Go outside bro, "manlikers" are awesome.

PS : English isn't my first language, so I had to google what "switch hitters" meant. I don't know if it's a slur, but what definition I could find said it implies a bi person is indecisive about their sexuality. And that sounds biphobic to me ngl- I could be wrong, but seing the dog shit message it's attached to....

[winedarkgod]

finished watching the first season of kaos, and as a show I thought it was pretty fun, tho I do wish a few things would've been different

I love that they show Dionysus is at least queer but ngl I'm so tired of seeing cis guy Dionysus... and like the loser party boy thing like...idk I'm just not a fan of that stereotype for them

like I just want to see an androgynous/femme Dionysus in something at least once before I die lol

as a precaution: this is not a fandom blog, this is a religious one

[olderthannetfic]

Can I get a row of opinions of Brandon Sanderson's writing? Finding out he's Mormon has put me off it a tiny bit ngl. But I keep hearing So. Damn. Much. About him.

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I tried out one of his audiobooks because it's long as fuck and I needed something to distract me while cleaning. I listened to maybe half of it and it was pretty good.

I like his writing advice on youtube. He seems like a nice guy with reasonable social opinions given that he's a devout Mormon.

But yes, lots of people promote his books because they're ~clean~. Sanderson fandom is pretty annoying.

On average, I'd pick a lot of types of AO3-y book over Sanderson, but I'd pick Sanderson over someone writing in the present tense or writing those contemporary romances where nothing happens and it was only interesting before the serial numbers were filed off.

I'd also pick him over a lot of other cis dude fantasy novelists. Him being a prude means he's not prey to "But it's reeeeeeealiiiiiiistic to have 4254145141 rape scenes of ladies!!!" nonsense.

He's an enjoyable read, but I wish my kind of person would stop kissing his ass just because he's not a bigot.

[no-psi-nan]

The Psychickers' opinions on boobs (canon) (real)

Toritsuka: I need to see titties every day or I'll die

Aiura: I'm a big fan of boobs ngl! I like em in all shapes n sizes! 💜 All titties good titties!

Saiki: [I don't care about boobs, stop talking about boobs.]

Akechi: I must admit that I very much appreciate breasts, so much so that I am considering growing a pair of my own!

From the mobile game:

He's either politely hitting on Kuriko, wishing he could also transform (non-binary / trans vibes), or BOTH!

"A male high schooler's 'dream'" <- these are not the words of a cis man, bless. He's non-binary to me 🙏🏾

[teruthecreator]

Mingus.

AND IIIII GET A LITTLE BIT MINGUS KHAN DONT WANT YOU TO GET IT ON WITH NOBODY ELSE BUT MINGUS. WITH NOBODY ELSE BUT MINGUS KINGUS

Sexuality Headcanon:

i dont really think about this too much but she has a bit of bisexual slay i think

Gender Headcanon:

cis woman for sure tho she could have a bit of agender slay if she wanted

A ship I have with said character:

now this is gonna seem like a big surprise to everyone, I Know, but i REALLY like normingus. i think about these two CONSTANTLY like something well and truly sinister has taken over my brain and reduced me down to a child slamming two barbies together like “theyre kissing theyre kissing” like its bad for me. god just like. the flavors of normingus you can have. the bitter rivals/enemies to reluctant friends to lovers pipeline is real and it lives in my heart. truly and honestly i think they are an untapped well of potential EVEN OUTSIDE OF JUST STRAIGHT UP SHIPPING THEM. i think their dynamics of being like two sides of the same coin when it comes to callum is super interesting, and theorizing on how they both could grow and change as people post ch3 is super fun to do bc like. they both have been given a second chance at life, how will they use it? also there’s the fact that mingus hires norm on and finally has a reliant employee other than tango. the kind of bond these two could forge even outside of a romantic sense is really cool and i wish more people touched on it!!!! tho of course i Do still rlly like them in a romantic context im ngl, and i Also wish people explored this dynamic more. but In General i think norm and mingus are an untapped well of potential!!!!!!!!!!! and i have literally TOO MANY fic ideas revolving them it’s actual insanity

A BROTP I have with said character:

mingus and tango have a dynamic that im EXTREMELY fond of, partially by my own doing. i think the like begrudging (on mingus’ end) friendship they have is so special. like tango is just an employee but he’s also been at mingus’ side for the longest time and is probably the one person she can trust to back her up if shit goes awry. but GOD FORBID if you ever told tango that he would start giggling and kicking his feet like fucking spongebob and you’d never hear the end of it. so mingus has to keep him at arms length even though i think she genuinely sees some parts of herself in him and wants to encourage him to thrive. in a suuuuuuper post canon world, when mingus eventually steps down as mayor, i think she fully endorses and encourages tango to run in her stead. a passing of the torch, in a way, and tango takes the endorsement VERY personally like i think he’d start bawling and hug her so tight and mingus would reluctantly return the embrace. god they’re just so silly you guys

A NOTP I have with said character:

i have yet to see a ship with mingus that has genuinely made me scratch my head so uh. nothing for here!

A random headcanon:

this is kind of random and i touch on it in tryt, but i think she collects knickknacks (specifically novelty snowglobes but also other things). i think her office in town hall is very deliberately kept very sterile and like. devoid of personal affectations because she is trying to maintain an Image there. but her house is a different fuckin story. i think callum probably started collecting novelty snowglobes and mingus just noticed how her house growing up was full of them, and eventually when her dad died and she was given the house back she just. continued callums collection. started bidding for super expensive ones on ebay and going out of her way to find antique stores with little knickknacks from her pawpaws time. i think it would be a kind of private joy for her, to have this ongoing collection of Things some of which connect her with her pawpaw, and something she would NEVER dare show another soul. that is, until she starts making friends and having people over and everyone can realize how much of an oddball she truly is <3

General Opinion over said character:

guys i really fucking like mingus. mingus is FASCINATING as a character like she takes herself so seriously and yet is So Ridiculous it’s really funny. and just her whole motivations and her perspective on life and her grandfather it all just makes me wanna tear at the walls and scream and cry. genuinely the first time i played through chapter 3, mingus’ monologue at the end brought tears to my eyes bc i resonated with her longing on such a level it like. it really put her into perspective for me. and since then i’ve just become more and more fond of her like ohhhhhhhhhhh i love her guys. i really do. mingus kingus forevar and evar

[natsmagi]

ngl I kinda wish happyele would give Arashi a dress or a skirt but same with other characters (I just want more outfits) but I agree that the fandom's fixation on hyperfeminize Arashi is, weird, it doesn't go well with how much she's reduced to "slay queen girlboss best girl" most of the time. You can express your wish for her to wear a skirt or a dress without being mad at every other androgynous character wearing those clothes and praying on happyele's downfall for making Arashi pants in her new casual, like she looks pretty what are you on??

personally I keep forgetting that Arashi, according to gender norms, wouldn't pass as a cis woman, like I just look at her and think "pretty girl" and some people seem to try too hard to remind themselves that she's a woman.

YEA NO I GET THAT! honestly i think its perfectly fine to wanna see arashi in a pretty dress or wearing a skirt or something similar, and i also think its perfectly fine to draw art of her in outfits like that all you want! (though giving her longer hair will always be a bit of an ick of mine but thats just me)

but, just like u said, the issue comes in getting genuinely MAD when she doesnt wear these things and getting mad that other androgynous characters got to wear one before her. the issue comes in constantly screaming about how happyele isnt doing enough because we dont have her dressed in skirts and frills with bows. there are so many trans and cis women out there who look just like arashi, who enjoy a more "handsome" style of femininity. Can we drop the gender essentialism and let arashi be her own person with her own tastes in clothing Thank you

[animefem]

ways of describing your gender that might come from painful dysphoria but are also very sexist/misogynistic (and often cissexist) and worth actively confronting in yourself, since you might very well be reinforcing gender roles in yourself and others:

joking is 100% fine obviously, but sooo many of these i've seen completely unironically within the lgbtq community (terfs dni)

#1 - i'm not a woman or i don't feel like a woman because... i'm too masculine, hairy, loud, snarky, confident, wish i was tall and buff, want to be the one in charge, don't care if i'm pretty, do unwomanly things, don't like fashion, don't like makeup, don't know how to do small talk, don't understand social cues, enjoy stereotypically masculine interests, like to be the one penetrating during sex, like being rough during sex, like dominating, like being tough, all things that obviously contradict womanhood

#2 - i'm not a man or i don't feel like a man because... i'm too feminine, don't like body hair, have a more feminine or high pitched voice, talk or dress in a stereotypically girly way, enjoy dresses and skirts and dolls and makeup, enjoy stereotypically feminine interests, like being the submissive one and being penetrated (which i see as a "womanly thing" especially if it's in a rough way), like being polite and docile and dainty or being promiscuous and wearing revealing outfits, or even being a sex worker, all things that are girl things to me and make me feel like a woman and aren't something a real man would ever be

#3 - OBVIOUSLY i'm not a man/woman... look how androgynous i look!!! how did that cis person even think i was cis lmao???? i'm too gender nonconforming to actually be a cis man/woman, obviously even i will assume a gender conforming person is cis but a VISIBLY ANDROGYNOUS person like ME??? extra hilarious!!!! (there isn't a specific "trans look" bc trans/nonbinary can look like anything and gnc people exist so this is sexist and transphobic af)

#4 - [anything that implies that being trans/nonbinary is a political statement for the person or a choice to say fuck you to cissexist heteropatriarchal society instead of a very personal identity like being gay or bisexual, it's just a political subculture]

#5 - i'm gay/bi/etc and i believe that my lgbtq identity inherently contradicts me being a cis man/woman

fyi, #5 is said not in the respectful way someone will describe their own personal identity, but rather trying to literally state that being gay/bi/etc inherently means not feeling like a man/woman despite MANY lgbtq men & women being totally connected to their binary gender, feeling a special connection to it through their gayness. this includes binary trans people who have a very unique connection to manhood or womanhood. it's not cool to label gayness or transness as inherently nonbinary. radical sure, but binary lgbtq people have fought FOREVER to be seen as no less of a man/woman than anyone cishet, an obviously homophobic af belief that is pushed by bigots everywhere, to the point where some countries have transition legalized but not homosexuality bc they think that being gay makes you not a real man/woman, so you might as well become a "normal" straight person by transitioning. this shit should be called tf out

#6 - i don't agree with misogyny and i want to distance myself from it politically despite being 100% comfortable with being male and living as male and not having any social or physical dysphoria, or even euphoria, so i use the term nonbinary to show support to women. this is a take i've actually seen passed around lmao, both from transmasc and transfem people

#7 - i just want to make cishet people uncomfortable. it's funny as a joke obviously, i've said i'm gay to make men mad wayyy too many times i get it. but some people when prompted will deadass say that's their only reason to identify as nonbinary. and ngl that sounds like treating transness as a political accessory instead of just a personal identity. which means they think being trans is a choice, like political lesbianism back in the day

there's so many hilarious jokes to make about gender that i love seeing around. so many fun ways to describe gender identity. but let's not feed cishet people's sexism and reinforce the bullshit we've learned growing up, excusing it by giving it a fresh rainbow coat of paint. the last thing the community needs is tighter gender roles. we need to EXPAND not only what it means to be nonbinary, but ALSO what it means to be a binary man or woman!!! it's okay if some of these were signs for you, but the way you speak about it matters

[determinate-negation]

I see you as someone who's educated and perceptive so I feel disappointed that you gave me a vague answer about my question of how to fight back against increasing misogyny from an increasing modern day fascist anti-human movement who quite literally, openly are currently spreading propaganda that reduces "women as a class" to a subhuman breeding stock walking womb factory parts. We need to be able to respond with a socialist-communist feminism to this stuff instead of "I'm not sure what you mean because my analysis of feminist topics is still stuck on the what is a woman debate." I don't care about the "what is a woman" pointless linguistic debate happening on twitter. All of that is a distraction because all it's doing is enforcing "trans women and cis women are inherently opposed." They're not. Your opposition knows they're not- that's why your opposition is so devoted to fixating on all the transphobic "trans women are predators, cis women are vulnerable saints" propaganda. All that is doing is dividing people that should be supporting each other against a clear common enemy. Is speaking of the socio-historical structural topic of "women as a class" automatically or inherently implying bioessentialism? I don't believe it is and it would be stupid to roll over and believe it is, because that's what your opposition believes. Any socialist-communist feminism inherently rejects bioessentialism. Either "women as a class" exists as a topic worthy of marxist analysis or it doesn't. I believe it does- especially when books like "selective breeding and the birth of philosophy" are becoming rapid bestsellers. What does it mean to "reject bioessentialism completely" as a method of socialist-communist feminist response when faced with this kind of enemy? I apologize for heavy handed speech, wont ask anymore questions, and wish you the best.

are you good? ngl people often send weird shit trying to get non transphobic marxists to argue with them or like allegedly contradict themselves with vague messages that resemble the one you anonymously sent me so i dont think its that crazy for me to wonder if thats the intent while giving you my legit answer. this message already lowkey makes a lot of assumptions about my beliefs since i dont really even post about this topic and for better or worse socialist feminist theory is not something i read or talk much about, and the most i can speak to is psychoanalysis and feminism and gender

[sewers-headmates]

Howdy hey, first time requesting from your blog! I was wondering if I could get a Fictive of Tsunami from Wings Of Fire- sort of between books 6 and 10 chronologically- with all the fixings that you offer.

Custom Android: Tsunami

developer note: why of course! we just finished the second book so perfect time to make this! i don’t fully know those books ngl so kinda went off what i know + wiki

Name: Tsunami

Nickname: Tsu, Nami

Age: 7

Gender: cis female

Pronouns: she/her

Sexuality: bisexual, transLesbian

Species: seawing, dragon

Source: wings of fire

Roles: protector, anger holder

cisIDs: seawing, dragon, blue scales, green eyes, royalty, BPD, anger issues, destructive, older sister figure, glowing scales, PTSD

transIDs: transOCD, nullPrincess, transTeacher, permaSummer, transHyperfem, transLesbian, transYandere

trisIDs: trisHarmed, trisAbused

Other Labels: ambi, has source memories of dating Riptide, Glory, and Deathbringer

Appearance:

here you go my dear, feel free to change or replace anything you wish

-mod gluttony

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