#I hope i explained this well

[the-sun-is-also-a-star]

I just saw someone post really cool fanart that they made of dorlily (which is dorcas and lily if you didn't know) and someone in the comments said "when did we start shipping dorcas and lily? I'm lost" and it made me really think about how this fandom, the marauders fandom spesifically, has this sort of hive mindset. It's like every opinion must be collective or favoured by a large majority. "when did WE start shipping" someone posted a fanart of a ship they like. it is not a WE matter. it is a them matter and has nothing to do with you, so what does that even mean. And I think this hive mentality really contributes to how toxic this fandom has become, why its so hard for people to accept headcanons without criticizing the creators for having those headcanons, why there's constant unnecessary ship wars. we all do not need to agree. we all do not need to have the same opinions in this fandom, in fact its making the situation worse. i am begging you all to start thinking about how to behave in fandom spaces.

[fancifulrealist]

I love how Taylor Swift's music is just so timeless (no pun intended) like what do you mean her debut album was released almost 20 years ago? Her discography is just so relevant and timely that even the songs she wrote from the first few years of her career still feels so fresh and new. They don't even sound like time has passed. They are just there, existing, and making us happy regardless of how long ago a certain Taylor era has been. But despite this, some of her songs still make me feel nostalgic. That's her magic.

[sharpsuite]

[MENTAL CHATTER] and [STUDENT] for chishiya i need to know how this man's mind works

↳ INTELLECT HEADCANONS MEME good luck trying to understand how his mind works

[MENTAL CHATTER] Does your character have an ongoing inner monologue, or do they more frequently think wordlessly/in abstract?

Chishiya can have inner monologues BUT not in the typical (?) way. Not in the sense that he has any inner audio narration going on. No reading voice, nothing like that. He can run through a mental dialogues just fine, but it's less hearing and more just knowing. Knowing how someone would say something, knowing their speech speed and word choices, knowing these details rather than actually hearing it. It's a lot of just knowing without hearing or speaking in his own head. But they are full thoughts and sentences rather than just concept words or key facts. I believe this is called worded thinking from my own personal research. Which is different than the inner speech that most people have. It's not abstract, but it's also not the traditional 'hearing your own voice or your reading voice'. It's just there. Sometimes he has visuals with it but most of the time he doesn't unless he's actively planning or solving something (i.e. in the King of Diamonds game where we saw the numbers. )

[STUDENT] Does your character enjoy learning for learning’s sake, or do they only seek out knowledge when they specifically need to?

It's a bit SUBJECT DEPENDENT. Chishiya does like learning about things. He likes understanding how things operate. One, it might be useful later. Two, it interests him. He has a hard time finding something that retains his interest, but the process of learning gives him something to focus on and be intrigued by. Now he DOESN'T if it's something he's not interested in. Like anything regarding coding? No. Absolutely not, no thank you. He'll learn it if he needs to, but he would not enjoy learning it no matter how easy it might be to him. It doesn't matter that there's a lot to learn. He thinks it would be boring and thus possesses no desire to 'learn for learnings sake' in that field. Now bring up something with psychology, and he is likely to be interested and engaged in learning despite the fact that it likely will not offer anything to him in day-to-day life or having any 'need' for that knowledge. Psychology might have been a bad example given Chishiya's manipulation, but you get the point of it. Ancient history, he likes learning about some of those despite it not being beneficial outside of school. So yes, he does enjoy learning to just learn. UNLESS he has no interest in the topic, in which case he would only learn because he needs to for some reason. / @cartelheir

[yardsards]

Hi, I saw your post about qprs- I assumed with context you meant queerplantonic relationships- could you please explain what those are because I have seen the term before but have no clue what it means. If you do then thank you :)

a queerplatonic relationship is a relationship that falls outside the bounds of "friendship" and "romantic relationship"

and much like a romantic partnership it's something that's generally gotta be discussed (like you usually have to ask someone to be your girlfriend but you don't have to ask her to be your friend). but much like a friendship, the feelings are generally considered to be platonic in nature

it often looks like a relationship with all the devotion that society typically expects from a romantic partnership (ie plans to move in together, get married, maybe even raise children together) but without the sort of romantic passion and kissing and whatnot

HOWEVER not all queerplatonic relationships look like this. they can vary quite a bit! this is just one common example of how they CAN look/work

this is because

1: there's no universal standard for what a romantic relationship looks like vs what a platonic relationship looks like. like, many consider monogamy to be a defining factor of a romantic relationship, but polyamorous people exist. some people say that a romantic relationship is a more serious relationship than friendship, but some people have casual romantic flings or treat their friendships extremely seriously. some say that kissing makes a relationship romantic, but some people kiss their friends. etc

2: different queerplatonic relationships can fall at different points on the spectrum. some look indistinguishable from traditional friendships, some look very romantic to outsiders, some are smack dab in the middle, some take some elements from one and some elements from the other. etc

someone once likened it to how there's no single way to be nonbinary because 1: men and women can experience and express their genders in all sorts of different ways 2: nonbinary people don't all have the same gender, they can fall at all points on the spectrum.

so ultimately it's just defined by how the people in that relationship see it and want to describe it

[achilles-rage]

little update<33

i was supposed to post a request today but i didn’t have time to edit so hopefully i will post it tomorrow

also, i’ve gotten a few requests lately, but i wanna remind people that my requests are currently closed! if i’ve responded to your ask it’s on the list, and if i haven’t, i will after i reopen my requests, so no need to re-request!

i have a really busy few weeks so i’m not sure how much i’ll be able to write :(( but i have the next 2 chapters of good luck charm completely written and half of the next one done so those will definitely be out soon!

[1overbaby]

Admit you already are.

If you are trying to become someone, because you understand that means you will be the person who has your desire, then guess what. You already are admitting you are the one who has their desire. Think about it. To try to get, means you secretly, implicitly know that you are capable of being the person who has it. Otherwise, why put in the hard work and the effort to try and attain it? If you truly did not think you were capable of being that person, you simply would not even try. You know you can become it. Let’s accept this first.

Let’s take this a step further. That means you already are it. You already are that person. You’re making the mistake of trying to become it instead of realising you already ARE it. It is about self realisation. It is simply that easy! You realise you already are that person - that is how you change self. You gently accept you already are it.

Example: I understand, with loa, that I can be with sp. I accept that and try to become the person who has that sp. This hard work and effort indicates to me that I know I can become that person, I have the potential within me to become irresistible, loved, chosen, valued. That’s why I am trying, no? Otherwise if I truly believed i cannot be chosen or valued, why would i even try?

INSTEAD -> i understand, with loa, that i already have sp, because creation is finished. If i already have sp, that means i already am the person who is irresistible, loved, chosen and valued. All i must do is realise that and accept that i am. That is all you have to do. And continue living, with that acceptance (being).

Example: i understand, perhaps not even with loa, but in general, that i can go to my dream university. I try and work hard to become the person that the university would accept.

INSTEAD -> why not just skip the trying? If i know that with hard work i can become the intelligent, chosen student - then i must accept that i already know that i am that person. I just haven’t embodied them yet. If i know i can be chosen and intelligent and smart, it means i have critical thinking skills, i work smart, i am good at writing essays, all the stuff, already! I just need to realise this, and tap into that.

Having it indicates who you are. You do not become to have.

Say my mother walks into my room right now and says she bought me a new iPhone, and it’s waiting for me downstairs (i now have an iPhone). At first instinct, what do i do? I accept i have a new iPhone. Then, questions may arise such as: why? Since when? How? What for?

All of these questions, i first answer internally (without realising, sometimes) and the answers depend on my self concept. ‘Oh, because i am cherished and my mother loves spoiling me! Awh it doesn’t matter when, i am grateful she went out of her way to surprise me. I am so loved and spoiled, that’s what for!’ Something along the lines of that in whatever way you think. I don’t literally say these in my head. Not all the time at least. Sometimes i just feel that about myself.

The how, when and why does not matter since i already now have this iPhone. I just quickly feel whatever i feel about those questions, and then in imagination enjoy the feeling of having an iPhone. I may begin to imagine using it, what my friends will say about it, what lockscreen I’m gonna use, how fancy I’d feel with it! I’m already onto the next, while feeling gratitude for my mother for gifting me it.

How to apply this in daily life? -> gentle acceptance.

If i say to myself that i have my sp. It means i already have it. Say my sp walks into the room right now and says ‘I love you. Dinner tonight at 8?’ At first instance I’d just accept that i have my sp in love with me, and i am going on a date with him, because he wants to be with me! Then, questions may arise. And I’d feel the answers within based on my self concept. ‘If I’ve been asked on a date, and i am with my sp now, then it simply must mean i am irresistible! I am wanted, valued and chosen.’ I do not fight them, do i? Because it has happened - sp is mine. It would be silly to contradict myself. Instead, i gently accept these about me.

NOW. The example of my mother walking into the room, and my sp asking me out: YOU DO THIS IN THE 4D! This is what going to the end mean, and accepting you have your end, IN THE 4D. Then, accept that this already means you must be loved, chosen and valued ALREADY. IT ALREADY IS SO. I do not first BECOME loved to be asked out or spoiled. I simple AM loved and spoiled already within, which is why i have these things! Once i accept it already has HAPPENED - I live enjoying it with gratitude.

GO TO THE END, IF U HAVE A DESIRE - THAT MEANS YOU ALREADY HAVE IT. AND IF YOU ALREADY HAVE IT, GENTLY ACCEPT THAT YOU ALREADY ARE THE PERSON WHO HAS IT. YOU ALREADY ARE.

[nok-joke]

Hi may I ask what hyper light drifter is about? I could obviously just search it up but it's more fun to ask the mutual who's obsessed with it

Ooghh YEAH!!!

Hyper Light Drifter is a visually STUNNING top down pixel art game, I like to joke about it being a bullet hell, I've seen some people call it a hack and slash? I'm not sure what categories it falls into but it has fun, pretty fast, but challenging combat

The story is told through the environment, and characters only ever speak to you through images, meaning the only two "readable" texts there really are happen to be monoliths you can find, but have to translate using a cypher thing, or the instructions in the beginning

Essentially you play as a drifter, a type of person in this world who tends to wander and therefore be subjected to the dangers that live in this seemingly post apocalyptic but regrowing landscape, most people call the protagonist The Drifter, but there are other drifters too

The Drifter is plagued by a chronic illness, causing them to cough up blood, which seems to be caused by this looming shadow figured called judgement that appears in either visions or hallucinations

Your goal as the drifter is to explore this land and eventually find the thing that has been tormenting you, and face judgement

Along the way you find remnants of the people that used to live in the north, south, east, and west, and learn what happened to those people. The tragedies that befell them

[transingthoseformers]

Hi, I saw your post while browsing the tags. Can you elaborate on what the "Starscream Problem" is? I'm new to the fandom, sorry

Don't worry, it's a term i made up on this blog

What I refer to as the "Starscream Problem" is how both canon and fanon have preference for putting him through abuse over many other characters.

Starscream is often the subject of homophobia and transmisogeny thanks to him being queer coded since the beginning, and of all the things in g1 that canon stuck to its Megatron mistreating Starscream (often framed in a joking manner). This is why many people heavily dislike the Megastar ship, as it's primarily seen as an abuser/victim ship. I am sure I am not the only person to have noticed this, but because of the canonical abuse people seem more willing to add more and more onto this. The fandom can get really mean towards Starscream in an almost casual way, and while it's gotten much better in the last few years you can definitely tell it's still here.

[hypershocked]

hi i hate to bring up the riptide thing but im more of a casual battlebots enjoyer and im not very caught up, it looks like they broke the rules in some way? but i dont see anyone explaining how. i mean, im not suprised, i never really liked those guys, but would you mind explaining what they did specifically? im not at all worried about spoliers or anything, i just want to know whats happening yknow? tysmm<3

I can try to explain the best I know how to, but there's always going to be some information missing as I was not there to witness any of this first hand.

It is not confirmed that they were actually cheating or maliciously changing their robot to be more competitive. What they did do, is do something to their robot, that made them look very suspicious. What they claim is that they were just adding a decoration to their robot, which many teams do as a fun thing when they exit in the tunnel. What is not clear is whether they informed production of this. Most teams will tell you that they have to clear any modifications made to their bots with staff, even something as small as a decoration. Of course, Riptide claims that they went through all the right channels, but other teams have claimed that they were doing this without telling production.

And then there's the scales issue. I hate to take Riptide's side here, but many teams have vouched for the fact that one of the scales is funky and gives different readings depending on where the bot is on the scale, etc. So a 1-2 pound difference in reweighing isn't uncommon. I would assume that Riptide just got unlucky here with a different reading, and they didn't have any weird modifications on at the time, especially considering that the later scale-in weighed less than their initial one.

The big problem with all of this is not necessarily what they did to their robot, especially if it's true and it was just a silly decor thing. The issue is their whole attitude surrounding this issue. They were super defensive both at the time, and recently on socials about being asked to be reweighed/tested. It made their team look much more suspicious because most people would be maybe mildly annoyed, but reweigh with no issues because they care about the safety of the sport.

[stiffyck]

Good luck during pride month to all the aroaces who are gonna be blasted with "love is love" everywhere

Edit:

This post includes aplatonic people, loveless aros and any other people who fall anywhere on the aro and ace spectrum.

Stop saying "but theres platonic love and familial love-"

[destiel-news-channel]

A win for trans rights!!!!!! 🏳️‍⚧️

The Selbstbestimmungsgesetz (self-identify law) allows trans and intersex people to change their name and gender in the civil registry much more easily than before by submitting a self-disclosure form. This will be possible starting on the 1. November 2024 while the self-disclosure forms can be submitted as early as 1. August 2024 because of the 3 month waiting period in the law. After a name and gender change the person will be barred from changing it again for one year. People of ages 14-17 will need the approval of a legal guardian to change their gender and name while for children under 14 the legal guardians can submit a form for the change.

[Image ID: The Destiel confession meme edited so that Dean answers 'The Selbstbestimmungsgesetz has passed in the German Bundestag' to Cas' 'I love you'. /End ID]

[sirompp]

one of my favourite things is when a story shows a character or two who is very clearly part of A Group but doesnt show or even really acknowledge that there IS a rest of the group until much later, if at all

[the-mogai-archives]

what the scallop does 'has pt' mean!!!

Has plain text! basically means if the original text has fonts/colours/etc there is a translation of the text that has none of that, it’s helpful for screenreaders + people who have issues reading things like that!

[inkskinned]

one of the things that's the most fucking frustrating for me about arguing with climate change deniers is the sheer fucking scope of how much it matters. sweating in my father's car, thinking about how it's the "hottest summer so far," every summer. and there's this deep, roiling rage that comes over me, every time.

the stakes are wrong, is the thing. that's part of what makes it not an actual debate: the other side isn't coming to the table with anything to fucking lose.

like okay. i am obviously pro gun control. but there is a basic human part of me that can understand and empathize with someone who says, "i'm worried that would lead to the law-abiding citizens being punished while criminals now essentially have a superpower." i don't agree, but i can tell the stakes for them are also very high.

but let's say the science is wrong and i'm wrong and the visible reality is wrong and every climate disaster refugee is wrong. let's say you're right, humans aren't causing it or it's not happening or whatever else. let's just say that, for fun.

so we spend hundreds of millions of dollars making the earth cleaner, and then it turns out we didn't need to do that. oops! we cleaned the earth. our children grow up with skies full of more butterflies and bees. lawns are taken over with rich local biodiversity. we don't cry over our electric bills anymore. and, if you're staunchly capitalist and i need to speak ROI with you - we've created so many jobs in developing sectors and we have exciting new investment opportunities.

i am reminded of kodak, and how they did not make "the switch" to digital photography; how within 20 years kodak was no longer a household brand. do we, as a nation, feel comfortable watching as the world makes "the switch" while we ride the laurels of oil? this boggles me. i have heard so much propaganda about how america cannot "fall behind" other countries, but in this crucial sector - the one that could actually influence our own monopolies - suddenly we turn the other cheek. but maybe you're right! maybe it will collapse like just another silicone valley dream. but isn't that the crux of capitalism? that some economies will peter out eventually?

but let's say you're right, and i'm wrong, and we stopped fracking for no good reason. that they re-seed quarries. that we tear down unused corporate-owned buildings or at least repurpose them for communities. that we make an effort, and that effort doesn't really help. what happens then? what are the stakes. what have we lost, and what have we gained?

sometimes we take our cars through a car wash and then later, it rains. "oh," we laugh to ourselves. we gripe about it over coffee with our coworkers. what a shame! but we are also aware: the car is cleaner. is that what you are worried about? that you'll make the effort but things will resolve naturally? that it will just be "a waste"?

and what i'm right. what if we're already seeing people lose their houses and their lives. what if it is happening everywhere, not just in coastal towns or equatorial countries you don't care about. what if i'm right and you're wrong but you're yelling and rich and powerful. so we ignore all of the bellwethers and all of the indicators and all of the sirens. what if we say - well, if it happens, it's fate.

nevermind. you wouldn't even wear a mask, anyway. i know what happens when you see disaster. you think the disaster will flinch if you just shout louder. that you can toss enough lives into the storm for the storm to recognize your sacrifice and balk. you argue because it feels good to stand up against "the liberals" even when the situation should not be political. you are busy crying for jesus with a bullhorn while i am trying to usher people into a shelter. you've already locked the doors, even on the church.

the stakes are skewed. you think this is some intellectual "debate" to win, some funny banter. you fuel up your huge unmuddied truck and say suck it to every citizen of that shitbird state california. serves them right for voting blue!

and the rest of us are terrified of the entire fucking environment collapsing.

[gremlingirlsmell]

hey just so y'all know, rhetoric like this:

is anti-transfeminist dogwhistling.

the "radfems" they're talking about are transfems trying to define and use language about our own opression like "transmisogyny" and who is targeted by it.

"gender essentialism" is used to mean different things. for one it's meant to denounce tme/tma language, saying that everyone is targeted by transmisogyny the same, and depraving us of standpoint epistemology. a second meaning i often see is: it's "gender essentialism" to say "we live in a patriarchy that benefits men over women"

this tactic is used mainly to paint transfeminists as dangerous and transmasc-hating, for applying intersectionality and materialism to feminist theory. it's to shun us by calling us terfs (a hate group primarily centered against transfems) which will immediately mark us as unsafe for other transfems and trans people in general. this is done instead of calling us baeddels, because calling us medieval slurs has fallen out of fashion and has become too obviously transmisogynistic

[sainz100]

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