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Really Long Tag Game - 2 Fun Facts!
Thanks for the tag: @ceciturtle!
Tell me two things that sound pretty ordinary about you, but you think are pretty cool. Tag 3 people afterwards.
I’m an overthinker! (Sounds basic, but it has depth in tags)
I never want to play any sports, but I have yet to find one that I’m “bad at” in a literal sense. [Usually my brain is just mean and stops me from trying. But I can be ruthless on the field >:)]
Tagged: @greenlovescats @fluffyslug @tmntforeverinmyheart
#Once I was assigned to preform a musical based off a movie with a group of people AND BOY DID I SET ONE UP!#They helped some but they weren’t really interested in the boring parts (group projects amiright?)#so I spent days writing the play#working on songs#arranging parts#gathering props#CREATING PROPS#specifically for this musical#not to mention memorizing my own lines and helping my brother with his separate play- I PUT WAY TO MUCH THOUGHT INTO IT!#BUT MY TEAM THOUGHT IT WAS GREAT! AND IT WAS! So much overthinking and it was worth it!!! 🥰🥰#Sad ending to the story tho#Teachers ended up canceling most of the plays which.#I had a good state of mind about that trust me my overthinking definitely doesn’t apply to this 👍#But seriously when I start thinking about things I go overboard in the best way!!#I can do amazing things with such powers#tag game
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Ohhhh.
I massively hate myself for putting this out into the universe, but what if Tim talking about a tree falling in relation to Eddie is actually a reference to Abuela dying? 😭😭😭
That this pillar of his life - someone who has supported him and loved him - the matriarch of the family - is going to die and leave him feeling uprooted and lost.
Narratively it would make sense as it can help Eddie and Chris reconnect and also play into the Shannon of it all at the same time - as well as helping build into queer Eddie and buddie!
#please don’t come at me for this#because I have thoughts about Abuela and her connection into a queer Eddie arc#I feel like she had a scene with Eddie in s7 that was cut that would’ve played into to universe is screaming at you of it all#because I have a feeling that we were originally going to see more of Eddie’s queer arc in s7 - but then Gavin wasn’t going to be available#so they had to make a few changes - so they extended the bt relationship and kept Marisol for longer#and changed up the purpose and fallout of Kim#and if so - then it would make sense for there to be an Eddie-Abuela scene in 8b#and for it to be about Eddie needing to look at things in his life and realise what he has etc#I can very much see a sort of death bed confession of some sort#playing into an Eddie missing buck - realising what he and buck have built - feelings realisation arc#in fact it would be rather amazing and whilst I would cry at losing Abuela and the positive force she represents in Eddie’s life#I would accept it as part of getting buddie together#it’s a play on the family tree concept#and it would be a massively powerful thing too#plus it gives us emotional Eddie in a different way#and it would be a way of reconnecting Eddie and Chris - through grief - and having a conversation about Shannon and moving forward#there are many ways it could be played out that build into Eddie and Chris reconnecting and into buddie as well#and I think Eddie having something akin to Abuela blessing would potentially unlock a big chunk of his repression#like I don’t want to kill off Abuela - but it makes narrative sense to do so#911 spoilers#eddie diaz#911 abc#buddie#911 speculation
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The type of Christian who asks atheists how they don't like, murder people on the reg are so funny to me because they seem to think their religion makes them the Peak of Morality when statements like "if you don't believe in God how comes you don't do X thing" all but outright state they have no idea why shit like murder and rape is bad except that God doesn't like it lmao. Like way to admit you have no intrinsic sense of morality and need to be afraid of a higher power to be a decent person, but I promise if you're not a piece of shit it's actually very natural not to want to do heinous evil shit all the time potential punishment from a higher power or not 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
#winters ramblings#seriously its SO funny when that happens because every time its like ??? the FUCK kind of thoughts do you have#to ask HOW i resist doing evil shit all the time because i dont fear god because i dont believe in God??#what kind of fucked up person do you haveto be to only resist killing people because of fear of a higher power??#these are people to avoid because typically they also come with the issue of using their religion to make any action they want#perfectly Good and Moral because GOD said it its in the BIBLE whether thats true or not and like bible or no#if you have no intrinsic sense of morality i dont want to hear about atheist morality from you lmao#not that athiests lack issues i swear to god white dudes who evangelize atheism like its their new religion#have WILDLY missed the point and often suffer the same problem as the aforementioned Christians#wherein the onky thing thats ever given them any kind of pushback is the church so they decide RELIGION is horrible and bad as a whole#which isnt true religion can be a perfectly lovely amazing thing for people but that brand of atheist#doesnt seem to understand that people turned away from the church because of wide spread abuse and discrimination not because#believing in god makes you literally mentally ill like some of these fuckos act like. abelist AND shite to religious folks in one fowl swoop#so you know atheists have problems too but like they arent making laws in their beliefs images across the world so you know#temper the criticism with how influential the group actually is although richard dawkins types DID get a lot of space to spew their idiocy#like dawkims if you think youre SOOOO much smarter than christians how come you have ALL the same misogyny problems??#youre not that smart and logical if youve decided a whole kind of person is inherently less than you buddy. in fact thats very Christian#of him actually. funny when that happens but again if you dont actually know WHY something is a problem#its very easy to say Thats Bad and then literally do the exact same thing you just condemned because when YOU do it its no longer bad#because its got YOUR flavor of fucked up morality on it now instead of being like hmm maybe Christianity isnt a problem#because it EXISTS but because a lot of people use their religion as a pointed barb to discriminate against huge swaths of people#and often the intolerance becomes a legal issue when Christians and other religious majorities shove through laws based on EXCLUSIVELY their#religions and opinions and that doesnt mean religion should be dismantled it means we ahould tell religious folk who would know what#morality was if it fucked them up the ass to shut up and figure out what morality is outside of rekigion before they start legislating about#it and whatnot. also i wish extreme opinions werent ALL the news focused on exclusively on the political right#can we platform some NORMAL well adjusted christians who are god loving AND not a bunch of wingnuts#who are two steps away from arguing thou shall not kill only applies to people they LIKE because they dont seem to understand#maybe murder is bad when EVERYONE does it not just The Bad People??!?!
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BTAS Batman feels like a normal human who's really trained and skilled and manages to pull off amazing feats
Comics Batman just feels like a superpowered human
#my dc posting#btas#batman#the moment 2 big guys with weapons stop being actual threats is the moment he's no longer realistically human to me#like it doesn't matter how skilled or trained you are. a guy w a weapon is always a threat!!#yes it's fiction this isn't an actual complaint#but the point is when BTAS batman succeeds and does something impressive i go wow! amazing! just a regular human w lots of training#doing cool fucking shit!#but when i see any otherbatman do anything ever i just go -_- bc he's not actually limited in any way or grounded in real human capabilitie#this is why i enjoy the action of BTAS so much bc it actually makes me ROOT for the hero#bc he CAN fail and get captured and all that and it doesn't feel unrealistic and when he gets out of it i actually feel#excited abt it yknow??#is it a crime to wanna watch something that actually manages to make you root for the hero instead of just sitting there like this -_- cus#y'know he's gonna succeed anyway and whatever Amazing Super Cool Shit he pulls off doesn't actually feel all that#...kinda reminds me of doctor who when it's done right#like idc how much i get told abt Wow he's just a non-powered human pulling off all these amazing things! he's just so strong and smart!#when there's nothing abt him that makes me actually believe these are normal non-powered human things#like i'm not gonna cheer when a superpowered guy can fly. they have superpowers. and batman FEELS like that no matter what i'm told by word#idk honestly i'm just complaining at this point. but i like doing that especially abt something so low-stakes as this so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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I'm thinking about love in malevolent
Arthur and John love each other. Obviously. And that's what makes them so powerful. It's how they've survived this far. Exactly how Arthur says in ep 30.
But at the same time, it's what led to the events of ep 20. they didn't want the king to win, but the fear wasnt about the king getting more powerful, it was about losing each other.
And then there's all the examples of people clinging to or becoming horrific things because they remind them of their loved ones. Kellan and the vanguard. The widow on the island. The wraith, even. If popular theories are correct, Marie and whatever's in that secret room.
(I'm not getting into Larson and his family. I don't think he ever loved them. If he did, he would never have done that)
I don't fully know what I'm getting at here. Love is powerful, I guess. With the capacity to cause great and/or terrible things. It's such a human thing.
#malevolent#malevolent spoilers#im very normal about this podcast#but seriously john and arthur are my favourite relationship of all time#especially as an aro person#its amazing to see love being presented as such a Powerful force while being 0% romantic#like romantic fan content is fun#but this means so fucking much to me#the flood of people telling harlan this got it on my mind#im so happy this story exists#i should clarify that by 'love is a human thing' i do NOT mean that love is what makes us human#i mean it can be really good AND really terrible just like people!#which is something i need to talk about later. the messiness of humanity. the constant struggle to do good. augh
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i saw a post (that was part of a larger thing) that said “anger feels good” and no it doesn’t! I hate how anger makes me feel i hate how it sinks into you and sticks and makes everything and everyone an enemy, everything and everyone someone to hurt and to blame. Anger doesn’t feel good it feels easy and its so easy to sit in it and let it control you and having to claw at your own ribcage to get it out it is so hard, its so fucking hard, and sometimes you’re so tired and you just want it to be easy, just once, just let that anger sit and let it be easy
I don’t have a point here, i just. Anger is easy. Easy doesn’t get shit done around here.
#anger maked me physically feel sick and like slitting my wrists would be a better option then dealing with whatever made me angry#snd this isn’t some self righteous thing im sure there are normal well adjusted people who do have that response to anger#where is makes you feel good and powerful and like your feelings can do something#god that experience sounds fucking amazing where can i get that anger#probably comes free with your mental health#(<- a joke.)#i really done have a point here i just saw that ‘anger feels good’ while scrolling and almost laughed#because ive felt nauseous the last hour after being angry and I cannot relate#anyways fucking vote either way#and smile at your cashier everyone is feeling like shit i promise you
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I’ve had this clip of this Uncharted 2 mocap BTS in my head for WEEKS, I just had to share it.
Steve Valentine, the man that you are. 😩 The way he totally cuts Nolan off and excitedly goes up and down like that, I— 😭 He’s just like me, for real for real. 😭💕
Literally though, not a day goes by where I don’t have Steve going “Jump down like this! Then come back up! And then go like this!” in my head. (That’s basically me at work when I’m shelving. Very very relatable except more like for an hour or two.)
#steve valentine#nolan north#steve valentine video#nolan north video#uncharted 2#harry flynn#nathan drake#RAAAAH!!!!#Steve Valentine makes me feel so many dang things bro#he’s everything actually#that shirtttt that pants chain and those necklaces—#I’m sat#I am so sat#the power he holds#he’s so cute 😭#this video made me so happy#it lives rent free in my head#I love both Steve Valentine and Nolan North so playing Uncharted 2 is a DREAMMMM#they’re my pookie old men 🥺💕#like literally how do they both look and sound that amazing???#I love them both#hehe though Steve is so valid for interrupting Nolan like that#he sounded so excited plus he himself had been getting interrupted the entire video#(I also just can NOT with this clip cuz idk man maybe it’s the blue shirt or something but Steve’s voice here is SO Minister of Spring#AND I LOVE THAT)#I’m sorry I’m such a mess in these tags
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i am so glad this week is finally (almost) over
i had an appointment with my pcp on monday to see about this possible kidney stone situation
they did a urinalysis on me and sure enough i do have some blood in my urine so that plus the pain means it's likely there's a stone, but i'm in a situation again where i haven't had any pain for days so it's like...that's not good !! (especially since this has been going on for a few months at this point !)
they ordered me a ct scan which i had today so i'm hoping maybe sometime tomorrow i'll get the results of that and we can maybe figure out what's going on
i also had a dentist appointment on wednesday but it was just a cleaning and my dentist said everything looks good. it is kinda funny because i was actually supposed to have this appointment months ago but decided to reschedule because i had too much going on that week and so it got pushed out until now and then i end up having even more shit to do this week than i did back then so...oh well !! it's finally done
and tomorrow i've gotta do some of my usual errands (mostly taking the garbage off and getting a few things from the grocery store) and then i think i'll finally be done !! hopefully !!
hope you have a good, restful weekend coming up if you're reading this !! <3
#i'm just hoping and praying at this point that i've passed the stone if that is what it is#and that i don't get a call about this ct and it's like#uh hey you're gonna need a procedure to get this thing out before you start to go septic again#just....please god not again#but i guess if that is the situation then we'll just deal with it#anyway#in any case i at least got all my work done for the week so that's something#i've had to work later to make up for all the time i've been out at these appointments but i did it !!#and now hopefully this weekend i can just......rest#please god#i do have a lot of stuff i need to look over for school because i have a meeting with my student advisor next week#and although i appreciate him sending me all this information it's.....a lot#and i'm kind of starting to panic now like 'uh-oh!! uh-oh what have i gotten myself into ?!'#but i'm gonna just...power through it and keep going#because i really want this now and it's probably gonna add a bunch of stress to my life#when i already don't really have a lot of room for that but#i think in the end it'll be worth it#so that's what we're holding out for#and in the mean time if my body could just.....not have any more health problems#that would be fucking amazing thank you#anyhow#i didn't get a lot of sleep last night so i'm gonna go to bed now#it's just gonna be me here this weekend because mom's off with her boyfriend#which is fine i like having the place to myself#but i also have to take care of our dog by myself and he's way more attached to her than me#so he tends to be super anxious when she's not here#and so we're gonna do our best with that as well#but part of that also means i gotta get up ass early to let him out to go potty#so i'm gonna go get a few hours in before it's time for that#and then once i run my errands tomorrow i can maybe hopefully finally unwind a little
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the more i think about it the more i realize amethyst and lincoln were never meant to be a "stay together forever" type couple
#lincoln? yeah he can do that if he finds the right person#but amethyst is *not* the right person for that#the twin flame-y romance they have is amazing while it lasts. mutual understanding AND great chemistry#(romantically sexually and as friends)#but they can't give the other what they need long term because they're far too similar to one another#they're both the type to need someone that can complement and contrast them at the same time#but a flame can't soothe another flame#*and* ame's flame is much brighter. they'd be too much for linc who in turn is too little for them#+ ame feels like they're too much and too demanding for *anyone* even for life itself#which of course comes crashing down once the power thing gets revealed#and *of course* the first thing ame's unstable ass does is sacrifice themself so there can finally be peace#and let's not talk about how much this absolutely devastates linc. even though they both knew they're not the best for each other already#because they genuinely do want to shine together even if it's just for a while#i haven't spoke a word about mcgrimes in a long while and when i do it's this chaotic ramble... sigh#it lives within#ilw#mc: amethyst grimes#lincoln mcquoid#amethyst x lincoln#lincoln x mc#wind speaks
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so if you romance and ascend astarion you can kick him in the balls when he tries to turn you and it’s just very funny, he’s so pissy about it. so much for the most powerful vampire of all time or whatever, he stamps around like a toddler and then leaves forever
#i’m glad i saved before that choice so i can go through all the scenes i wouldn’t have got otherwise#(‘that choice’ meaning ascension)#im Fascinated by a whole bunch of stuff if you ascend him#like if you succeed on the detect thoughts (or maybe insight i forget) before he turns you to see what he think of you#it says something like ‘he will always see you as degrading yourself while you choose to be with him’ which is just BONKERS INSANE#like not confusing or anything. just wild to include. in a good way; like yeah of course that’s how he feels#and then the narrator follows it up with something like ‘but isn’t that what you want?’#like i’m glad they do actually try to impress upon you how fucked this dynamic is. they’re not trying to make you think it’s a good outcome#(i know there’s discourse about this and it’s very annoying)#(people who are like ‘actually it’s romantic and kinky’ uhh 😬)#(but then people who are like ‘how can anyone think this is ok’ and direct that towards anyone who enjoys playing it)#(like no it’s fun and genuinely interesting and i can see the appeal. just not when it comes to analysing the relationship)#(most people are aware that this is a bad dynamic they’re just playing a game chill out)#(like when i said 😬 about it being romantic/kinky i mean that from the perspective of analysing the story not personal enjoyment)#(anyway. moving on)#like i did that specific bit of dialogue probably a month or more ago and only once (because the test was really hard)#and it’s been creeping around in my head ever since. i love it lmao#i saw a video of that kiss where he makes you kneel a while ago and didn’t quite believe it was a real thing#but no it’s one of his actual default kisses. amazing#like i’m definitely gonna do a playthrough where i get everyone to make the power-hungry soul-destroying choices#and i might have to romance astarion again for that one because he definitely seems to have the most bad-decision relationship content#although he has the most relationship content full stop so it’s not surprising#but i think that’s the only one that notably changes your character during the playthrough rather than just the epilogue#personal#ash plays bg3
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I will not get triggered.
#I will actually!#BRUH I usually don’t get pressed over stuff like this too much#Cause at the end of the day it really doesn’t matter and I only care about my own opinion LOLOL#But to the people who are saying that GFriend don’t seem like a unit anymore or Sowon and Yerin aren’t giving it their all is pissing me of#First off Yerin was being mindful of her hair (literally every idol with nice hair will do that) but she still had so much energy and power#Also it’s been a while but I feel like she’s still rebuilding her confidence#It got better in Wavy for sure!#And idk I think she literally looks like she’s performing normally#Same thing for Sowon! She ate! Am I missing something?#And she’s been off the stage for a while too#And all the jazz with Yuju and her vocal regression blah blah#Can we just stop talking about it for a second because she’s improved on so many other fronts#She might not belt as well anymore but other parts of her range have improved#And do y’all hear her vocals on their new song?#I don’t know maybe I’m looking at them through rose tinted glasses and am being biased and an annoying fan who defends their idols a lot#But idk I think they did amazing for having such a packed schedule and still being so synchronized and everything#And obviously idols will have days where they don’t have the best stage and that’s okay#Maybe I need to calm down lol#But they still seemed very GFriend to me#And the complaints about the new song but whatever#I’m the CEO of complaining but I just want o enjoy everything that they’ve given us so far :)#Let’s wait for promotions and the concert to see :)#GFriend
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"I can't get everything I want from this politician so obviously the solution is to throw a tantrum and not participate! That'll show them!" - person who is very likely not at personal risk of being murdered or hate crimed by an institution getting pushed further right than it already is.
#sorry but i like being black and trans nd disabled and ALIVE so imma do my due diligence to at least keep things from getting#Worse Than It Already Is :)#for context: i live in California#the government does not always make great decisions#newsom literally just vetoed a bill that would help undocumented immigrants access state college jobs and certain housing grants#hes an asshole and that sucks a lot#but thankfully i live in a state where there are A Lot of smaller offices filled by leftists pushing against this#which means that there is a much higher likelihood if another similar bill being pushed some time in the future#is it perfect#fuck no#and fuck that fucking guy#but election season is coming up and it means i have a chance to put Even More left leaning people in office#i have a chance to vote for a mayor who is pro Palestinian (shes leading in the pools right now!!!!)#i have a chance to look at local politics and decide who gets into office and who is willing to fight#did i say “man newsome is a racist he hates immigrants fuck him im not voting now!” ?#no#because that does nothing#instead i can contact his office and voice my displeasure#i can research political candidates for smaller offices who are pro immigration#i can support them and contact those offices and campaigns and make sure they know their constituents#WANT more protection for immigrants#and when elections are over and theyre in office#I CAN KEEP DOING IT#I WILL KEEP FIGHTING FOR IMMIGRATION REFORM UNTIL ANOTHER BILL CROSSES NEWSOMS DESK#i can support the smaller offices with the power to exert pressure on the larger ones#and since California is such a huge economy and such a model for other states#theres the potential for that wave to spread!#you wanna talk Palestine?#i get to support a mayoral candidate openly calling for a ceasefire!#thats amazing! imgine the pressure she could exert in office!! and i haven't even STARTED in on the senate!
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my (renewed) obsession with crowley and aziraphale and the emotional mess i become every time ofmd is barely mentioned made me realize one thing. that i wouldn’t just be thrilled by a tsc series about the tlh cast’s children, but i’d instantly pass out at the mere mention of thomas and alastair in their 40s.
#middle-aged queer people have such a power on me#it’s almost embarrassing#and yes of course it would be amazing to learn more about the tlh cast’s children and follow them through their adventures#+ i already have a soft spot for zachary (i know. an actual infant. but can you blame me!?)#but guys.#G U Y S.#middle-aged thomas and alastair.#middle-aged thomas and alastair would do certain things to me….you all can’t understand i don’t think i’d survive#cc could just mention them once….i swear#just one time and i’ll be gone#bang. fatal blow. gone forever.#thomastair#alastair carstairs#thomas lightwood
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WE STILL GOT ARCANEEEEE
#ambessa saying mel is safer as their enemy..... OOF we are going to get her side of the story this season#one thing i dont like is that they are really hauling ass in the first episode like damn. cait and vi are too quickly on the way to raid imo#i cannot velieve my fucking eyes..... vi dropping her gauntlets to keep kissing akdhaksjsk and OF COURSE cait is the one to do it OF COURSE!#were is thay gif of the butch watching football and raising her fist bc they scored that is me right now aldjsksnsl#vi saying please dont change bc she is seeing the signs is so AJDHAKSJK the break up will end lives..... i see why vi becomes an alcoholic#salo and cait wlw mlm hostility for reals#ambessa seeing cait as a rival the second she does her job and uses her military power.... yeah bc she has a real goal not just power grab#jayce fucking up vi and cait by messing with the arcane omg they are IN DANGER!!! JAYCE STOP FUCKING UUUP!!!!#OH MY GOD CAITLYN!!!!! HITTING VI ENOUGH FOR HER TO CRY OH MY GOOOOOD!!!#THERE IS JUST SO MUCH AKDJSKSKAL THE CHILD!!!! JINX GOT A NEW SISTER NOW VI GOODBYE#also vi wasnt going to kill her and jinx told the child to stop.... the only person there willing was cait and look at her.....#also sevika vs cait.... oof.... and jinx fighting vi BARE FISTED!!! GIRL!!!!#what can i fucking say like god.... “is her blood through your veins” “i thought you were different”#jinx is right i hope they got to you know before all of this akdjaksjsk.... christ#also amazing how vi told cait to don't change and she did it 10 minutes later.... girl you are in for it...#i think they just dont understand each other yet but they are in such a situation that they keep changing every 2 minutes so they never do#does that make sense loke ofc cait changed when her mother died and vi did too bc she accepted that her sister was gone#so in a way cait changed and vi stayed the same.... cait liked her “change” but vi did not like cait#ambessa bringing caitlyn to.be a general oh my gooooood her stress is going to get thru the roof like she doesn't have enough to deal with#its bc she knows she can control her... of course she offered her army to her.... and she doesn't mind putting her in danger#AND SHE DID ORCHESTRATE THE ATTACK!!!! OOOF#MEL PLEASEEEE TALK TO CAITLYN PLEASEEEE#like of course she disappears RIGHT NOW!!!#my god... also vis drinking buddy has left too.... of course.... you're good man....#talking tag#watching arcane#watching arcane season 2
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10/10 🌅🌆
#after a whole year my girls delivered (as expected) 💯#another great album (mini… I want a full one so badly but I know how busy they’ve been)#they truly have such an amazing diverse discography already#their music has been incredibly well produced since debut and really highlights their vocals well#I love how they are 10 years into their careers but still constantly trying new things and showing artistic growth#you can tell how much they love what they do#SinB’s rap in Cliché I was gagged that’s a whole new tone for her I love it#I NEED to see Cliché’s choreo it’s so powerful and cunty… hopefully they pull an Untie with this one!#but Shhh! was the right choice for title track it’s so catchy and danceable#Full Moon could be my number 1 and one of my favorite VIVIZ songs ever & songs this year but it’s criminally short and missing a bridge :(#still LOVE it!! Cosmic girls VIVIZ 🙌🏼 again something they’ve never tried before#I really like Hypnotize! I love their jazzy rnb tracks so much (like Overflow) suits their voice so much#this one also has a cosmic/ spacey vibe 🌌 fits with the Voyage (so many French titles I’m proud) concept 🚀#Love & Tears is so special & emotional (written AND composed by our Umji 🥹) tho it’s not something I would listen to often I still#appreciate it a lot (the production and their vocals are so good once again)#very very very proud of these girls 🥰🥰🥰#viviz#voyage#kpop#girl groups#ggs#EP#album#mini#2024#music#eunha#SinB#Umji
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if your fave says that someone makes them happy btw. the least you can do is believe them. if they say that they feel safe and a bit calmer and they’re getting a chance to heal. you gotta respect that. even if you have your own concerns and reasons not to be happy about it, in the end it’s their well-being and they have a right to live and to tell their own story however they choose. and if you refuse to believe basic evidence that’s right in front of you, you don’t deserve to scrutinise their life or who they have in it.
#there’s few things that I think are worth policing. but imo this is disrespectful and invalidating and if you don’t like someone#you can acknowledge the bad parts of them without twisting obvious information. say you’re concerned without assuming you know#everything. and I beg people to learn what the signs of abuse are before you start inventing things that just. aren’t there. or aren’t abus#please please please stop conflating symptoms of mental illness or neurodivergence with abuse! we get ostracised and villainised enough#like of course it CAN turn toxic and abusive if it’s not managed. but you can’t assume that when there’s no evidence of it but evidence to#the contrary. someone having a relationship where they can be themselves match my freak style and unmask. that’s healing. and maybe#we don’t know that it hasn’t turned bad if they don’t say and any time it could!! but as fans we have power with the words we say en masse#to trigger things like paranoia in people who are already vulnerable!! and they would be wouldnt they? is it so hard to leave them alone?#just be careful in the culture you create around these things. that’s all I ask. I know tumblr is the best place for rants. let’s keep it i#the fringes of the fandom though. and also stop using ablest terms. and we’re doing amazing. for the most part. sorry for the long rant#hope someone relates to the tags I guess. and in the meantime I’ve gotta find the courage to use the block button. I never have before#props to you if you guess who I’m talking about or maybe it was a generalisation. you might never know
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