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So I just found this cool site called "Vingler's Mirror," and had that one spiderman meme moment
It's a really nice site for resonance stuff though, please go check it out! And it also has guides for the new resonance pattern system:
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what you need to know about yourself and your spiritual journey
pile 1
leaving a dark path, a cloud that followed you in your life will go away for now, you will discover something new that will give you a boost in your life, something will blossom, but it will not be alone. You see, you need to meet new people, get out of your bubble, meet different people from countless different realities than yours, I usually say that there are several worlds in the same world, a person who lives on the other side of the world can have a life completely different from mine in countless aspects, you understand? You just need to mix, meet the maximum level of people, this will make you grow a lot spiritually and even financially, through this a definitive union will be formed, it can be romantic or a partnership that you will make that is related to your profession. your change in the world.
pile 2
The answer is yes! Some people chose this pile and were thinking about a specific question and were told yes, some needed to hear this. Things will align in your life, it may even be related to something astrological. you getting to know a place, an environment that will change everything in your life, it will help you blossom, this is a blessed place, it was waiting for you, it is your destiny! It will teach you how to start something and progress, it will start with a flower but in the future it will be a huge garden.
pile 3
Many cycles happening in your life, you have gone through or will go through many cycles, most of the people who chose this reading are older than some here, your past and your future are very connected, intertwined. It reminds me of spring, even nature has its cycles, a connection in your life, it's not something romantic, but it's as if you went to different environments of life, you go through countless metamorphoses, but in the end you come back to something, it's as if the connection follows your cycles, I see an energy of ancestry.
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WWC’s A Beginner’s Guide to Academic Research
We are pleased to present WWC’s A Beginner’s Guide to Academic Research!
This pandemic project has been over 2 years in the making and we hope it will greatly assist any of our readers who are eager to conduct in-depth research but may be at a loss where to start.
Go to the Guide Here
The guide is split into 6 parts:
Introduction and Table of Contents
Part 1: Getting Started
Part 2: Searching for Sources Online
Part 3: Evaluating Sources
Part 4: Navigating Academic Sources
Part 5: Recognizing Your Limits
Each portion of the guide has links to connect to the previous and next sections. While it is possible to view tumblr pages on phones and tablets through the app, we highly recommend viewing this guide via browser on desktop whenever possible. Tumblr page formatting is better suited for browsers and each section is very dense with information, which will make scrolling in the app or on your dashboard difficult.
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PICK A PILE🪽
Based on the angel you choose there’s a deep message from your angels that they’d like to relay on you. Choose one, take what resonates leave what doesn’t!
Pile One.
Your angels want you to know that sometimes if you have to choose peace there’s some people in your life you have to let go of in order to have a better life and that’s okay. Despite losing people, you’ll have better people in your life that will give you peace don’t stress about it.
Pile Two.
Your angels want to let you know that you need to be patient just because something isn’t happening for you right away doesn’t mean it won’t happen at all. You just have to be patient because whatever you want will come to you. It takes time and once you’ve learned to be more patient whatever you need will come to you.
Pile Three.
Your angels want you to know that even if you feel certain things are impossible with your other body parts use your heart. Try with your heart. Nothing is impossible once you follow your heart and try. Nothing is ever impossible if you don’t try. Don’t give up your angels said.
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Tamagotchi Uni Tamaverse Tickets Guides
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I’ve recently started watching F1 Academy and I’ve found it pretty good so far, so here’s a guide I made in hopes it gets more people watching it too. If you can’t tell, yes I’ve got a favourite driver, and yes it’s Doriane Pin 🫶🫶
Note: I made a typo on the last page; F2 win gets 40 points not F4 and the Formula Regional European Championship is FRECA not F3
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various substances and their effects on perception
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"It matters not how fierce the storm, Nor how the tides may crash and churn, For dreams are sails, and courage guides,
I am the helm where fate resides 🌊!".
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#Life#Storm#Sea#Ocean#Sailing#life#downfall#downfalldestiny#حياة#magic destinations#magical world#magic moments#Breathe#Crash#Guides#Fate#Move on#Waves
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Tutorial: How-To Create Striking Gradient Shapes & Waves for Adobe Illustrator for iPad
In this tutorial, we will explore step-by-step instructions and tips to create striking gradient waves and shapes that can enhance any project, from digital illustration to web design and marketing materials.
Starting off you'll want to open Adobe Illustrator on your iPad, and select 'custom size'.
Create a canvas that measures at 3000 x 3000 points.
Set the colour mode as 'RGB'.
Select the 'Pencil' tool, and then select 'Paint Brush'.
Select 'Calligraphic' brushes, and scroll down until you find the 15 pt. 'Round' brush and select it.
Select the 'Fill' option and set the colour value to none.
Select the 'Stroke' option and set the colour value to a colour of your choosing.
Select the 'Smoothness' option and set it to the maximum value (10).
Draw a wavy line.
Select the 'Stroke' tool and choose a new colour.
Draw another wavy line over the top of the previous.
Select the 'Stroke' tool and choose another new colour.
Draw another wavy line over the top of the previous two.
Select the 'Selection' tool.
Select all of the shapes.
Select the 'Repeat' tool.
Within the 'Repeat' tool, select the 'Blend' option.
Tip: If you have a keyboard connected to your iPad, you can use the keyboard shortcut 'Command+Alt+B' when objects are selected to blend them.
Now our gradient wave shape has been created!
Once the shapes have been blended, you can manipulate the spacing of each shape with the three dots in the middle, each one represents each of the lines.
Move each point around until you feel comfortable with their spacing.
We may want to make some alterations to our shape such as changing the rotation, shape, size, order of lines. Here’s how we can do that.
Select the 'Selection' tool.
Drag and select the shape.
Select the 'Object' tool.
Select the 'Release' option.
Now the objects are unblended they can be altered or manipulated to our liking.
To put our gradient wave back in place, first select the 'Repeat' tool.
Then select the 'Blend' option.
Congratulations on completing the tutorial on creating striking gradient waves and shapes in Adobe Illustrator for iPad! You've taken significant steps in enhancing your design skills, learning how to apply gradients effectively, and bringing your digital artwork to life with vibrant colours and dynamic forms.
Keep Practicing - As with any creative skill, practice is key to mastery. Continue experimenting with different gradient combinations, wave patterns, and shapes. Find new ways to enhance your designs.
The more you practice, the more confident and proficient you will become.
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— CHOI SEUNGCHEOL
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— YOON JEONGHAN
𝞋𝞎 𝒪neshots
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title; so what you're not my boyfriend? summary; your roommate ruins your date night and treats you with something better.
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— LEE SEOKMIN
— XU MINGHAO
title; he ain't hitting it like he supposed to hit it summary; at a party you find unexpected intimacy with Minghao making you question your current relationship and discover what you truly need.
— YOON JEONGHAN
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— LEE SEOKMIN
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title; midnight ink summary; a faded tattoo marks your heartbreak. desperate for a fresh start, you visit Jungkook, a trusted tattoo artist and secret confidant you secretly love.
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How To Support People
Sometimes, when someone is struggling, we default to giving or offering what support we would want in that specific situation. We don’t mean to, but it can cause harm to someone who we are trying to help.
So what can we do instead? I would ask people: “How can I support you?” But it was often too open-ended. My loved ones didn’t know what they needed.
Mental, emotional, and physical are support types that can be used to give personalized offers for support! Sometimes, people need specific offers of support, usually a mix of types.
Mental support could be:
Facts
Wisdom
Constructive feedback
Solutions
Advice
Solutions
Resources
Mentoring
Guidance
Pros and cons
Advocacy
Reminders
Logical steps
Planning
Some examples can look like: - “I complied resources for you” - “Let’s make a support plan together” - “When I was in a similar situation, I did…”
Emotional support could be:
Validation
Venting
Commiseration
Solidarity
Affirmation
Listening
Check-ins
Distraction
Space
Comfort
Praise
Motivation
AITA?
Some examples can look like: - “Tell me what’s bothering you” - “I think it’s reasonable that you feel this way” - “You got this!” - “Do you need space?”
Physical support could be:
Housework/chores
Physical touch
Mutual aid funds
Body doubling
Acts of service
Gifts
Flowers
Food
Cards
Transportation
Some examples can look like: - “I finished your to-do list for you” - “I made you your favorite dinner” - “Let’s do this together” - “Can I make a fundraiser for this?”
We all have various needs and capacities, but I hope we can all find creative solutions to help support each other. Keep caring.
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A Careful Balance: Portraying a Black Character's Relationship with their Hair
@writingraccoon said:
My character is black in a dungeons and dragons-like fantasy world. His name is Kazuki Haile (pronounced hay-lee), and his mother is this world's equivalent of Japanese, which is where his first name is from, while his father is this world's equivalent of Ethiopian, which is where his last name is from. He looks much more like his father, and has hair type 4a. I plan to make his character very finnicky about his hair, both enjoying styling it, but also often being unsure how to style it (not in that he doesn't know how to, but has so many options for how to style it, he has trouble choosing). However, I know that there are some very harmful ways to write black hair, especially in regards to how the black character themselves feels about it. Kazuki does not hate his hair, in fact he takes joy in it, and I'm researching black hair and hair styles to be as accurate as possible. But I'm unsure if portraying a black character as occasionally overwhelmed by or vain about his hair is negative. How would you suggest either changing this or making it work? Does it need to be changed in the first place?
Black Character Overwhelmed by Curly Afro Hair
Your Black character wanting his hair to look its best and at times feeling overwhelmed seems reasonable and natural to me. It appears their challenge comes with how to style it. Not so much with struggling how it looks or how hard it is to manage. That is good, as this further helps avoid placing a strong negative focus on Black hair.
Him caring a lot about how it is style should not be deemed vain or frivolous, either. In any case, hair care is self care. There’s nothing wrong with having pride with your hair, especially hair that mainstream society, historically and present, might say is not beautiful. This still matters, even in a fantasy world, since your readers still exist in this reality. It’s empowering and a welcome change to see someone who loves their afro hair, actually.
There are unique factors someone with coily afro hair would experience vs. straight, wavy, or looser curls, but people struggling with their hair (too frizzy, too flat, too limp, too thin, too thick!) is universal.
There is a delicate balance to achieve.
Avoid Writing a Black Hair Journey Experience
An overall negative Afro hair journey might be the reality for many, especially when society deems Afro hair as unacceptable and slaps so many uninvited opinions, laws and policies over its existence and on certain styles (again, historically and very much at present), but that’s the kind of story that is best handled by someone with the background. Someone willing to commit to the research might also be able to pull it off, although it’s truly not the kind of thing an escapism novel needs in my opinion. If the story is not meant to delve into “A Black /Black Hair Experience” then I'd avoid going that route. That is moving a bit towards a struggle narrative, depending on how much it defines your character’s story.
Add positive and neutral hair language and interactions
For your writing, I’d avoid using unchallenged negative language about his hair. Being overwhelmed at times and frustrated is one thing and expected. If his hair is constantly brought up, and is associated with uncontrollable, ugly, or too [insert struggle here], then rethink the direction you’re going.
Add some positive or neutral terms, reactions, and interactions in the narrative towards afro hair, such as describing color and texture.
“His fine coils bounced in the wind.”
“Hair black and shiny”
“She wore her hair in two large, fluffy buns.”
“He admired his fresh, neat braids in the mirror, smiling at his reflection, before turning to leave.”
Another tip: It may have been for research purposes, but leave out any hair number categorizing in the story and rely on description. I’d say this goes for any story, as reading the number would feel off.
“He had coily 4a hair.” Nahh! :P
Also, I would suggest sending all passages that focus on his hair to a Black sensitivity reader for review.
More reading:
~Mod Colette
#asks#black#black hair#hair#afro hair#description#tragedy exploitation#struggle novel#creator responsibility#representation#guides#writeblr
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My personal experience with artemis
Whats artemis like? shes distant, personally shes always been a quite guide in the background. she tries to teach you alot of "stop focusing on everyone, this feels right for you? do that." that doesnt mean shes not there to help! i remember i was dealing with a pestering boy in my class who kept flirting with me, the way i got artemis to help was i had to break down a barrier with my parents on saying "this is happening and this is hurting me". normally i would of cowered and just left it when they gave me bad advice but i perused it in artemis' honor and in return she made the guy drop me (thank you so much lady artemis) How do i see artemis? shes just cool. just super cool. i admire her so much for no apparent reason or a reason i know of i think ill just always keep admiring her. shes always reminded me of a forest in the night and no not the scary kind, the kind where you can always see the moon and hear a river flowing behind you and you can relish in a strange feeling of safety. shes always to me been associated with a form of internal security and peace that is just so nice to experience. what was the biggest shock when working with artemis her STARK difference with apollo, yes they are twins and yes they are seen as opposites but OH MY STARS NO THEY ARE NOT ALIKE. it takes me like 3 minutes to wonder if i just been grazed by artemis's presence whereas with apollo its just "ah yes, there he is." and thers nothing wrong with that! things like this take time and that is a okay! What was the least shocking thing when working with artemis? i only feel her presence at night, or i mostly only think of her during the night. i mean it makes alot of sense but it was slightly terrifying in the beginning when your starting out and really wondering if this is the path for you and hearing people say things about their practice but you just dont experience!
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Date Night Ideas
Are you tired of coffee dates? bing watch dates? dinner-and-a-show dates? Is dating stale to you now? Why not try any of these fresh date ideas to forge a deeper connection with your lover!
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how to fix your mindset ♡
- your mindset is one of the most powerful things in the world . how you depict the world , what you believe , can absolutely change it all . .
001 , respect yourself
- so most of you attend school , right ? whenever you talk to the teacher , you call them by their honorific titles or speak to them with respect . or if you meet a stranger , you greet them and ask how they are. now , forget about teachers or strangers , imagine you are greeting a member of the royal family , you curtsy or bow towards them with a great amount of respect. you are a member of the royal family. every single morning , look in the mirror and tell yourself you deserve a great amount of respect and you deserve the freaking world . don't expect anybody to love you if you don't even like yourself ! look at your room. is it messy ? if so , go clean it right now because having the place where you sleep , study and lounge be messy is extremely disrespectful to yourself. not having the respect or even a frick to clean after yourself is disrespectful to you and you might not even realise it. treat yourself like you're the most precious thing in the world because honey , you are .
002 , stop being lazy + pathetic
- you may be still searching on how to stop being lazy or how to get back up. do it. I don't care if you're tired because whose fault is that ? some people can not afford to be lazy. the financially struggling can not afford to be lazy. the single parents can not afford to be lazy. the workers can not afford to be lazy. you sit around on your butt all day watching tiktok or reading tumblr blogs or whatever to do absolutely nothing. God has given you the gift of life , out of billions , you were the one to be placed on this earth and you spend your life doing nothing ? don't say you're unlucky or your life is terrible. that's absolutely pathetic. let that be your motivation. it's okay to take breaks or rest but please get back on track. only the privileged can afford to be lazy.
003 , don't follow people around - you're not a dog
- have you watched ' mean girls ' ? had you seen gretchen and karen ? did you notice how they follow regina ? don't be like them , don't waste your time , your life on following someone like they own you. don't seek someone's attention like you live off of it ; you don't ! it's also disrespectful to yourself because you're lowering yourself to the position of a dog or any other pet , following it's master to the end of their time. life is only once. use your time on something more important.
004 , idgaf
- please don't care if somebody hates or dislikes you. they are just jealous. no seriously , they spend most of their time obsessing over you and your life just to " hate on it " , they're jealous , hun. also face it , we are all going to die , life is too short to care about it , you are way more important to just worry your pretty little head on some obsessive parasite !
" so and so said this about you - " okay.
" they said this - " okay.
okay. idgaf.
005 , life is survival of the fittest
- your future matters. your teen years go way too fast and before you know it , you're already grown up. get a decent education. get to the top.
my mother always tells me I am pretty , I am smart , I have potential and I actually do. at the age of 10 she would already know what private university she would attend and she would have that as her number one goal. 5 years later , she travelled away from all of her family , her friends , her home to reach her dream ( the uni ) and she did. she knows others who have done the exact same as her who are billionaires and others who haven't who are financially struggling. throughout her parenting ( the first couple years were an extremely tough time for her ) journey , not one person , not even her bestest friends had come to our home offering gifts or money , not even for her kids. everybody else is focusing on their own families and their lifes ! if you have an opportunity , take it , like my mother had + be prepared ! because at the end of the day , in 10 years , your " friend " will not pay your rent.
006 , your mind is blind but not deaf
- your brain has no eyes of some sort that can lookout and know what's happening. whatever you tell your brain is happening , that's what it will believe , e . g ::
♡ " I'm ugly " then you'll be ugly. you'll perceive yourself as ugly.
♡ " I can't achieve anything " then you won't. you'll get nothing done in your life.
instead , tell yourself affirmations in the mirror , remind yourself that you're absolutely stunning ! it will come true !
007 , every setback is a blessing in disguise // see the bright things in everything
- now I do not care how bad something was , or how much it had impacted you , that is a blessing in disguise from God. God has your back. God is with you 24 / 7. He is greater than everything in the entire world. Don't ever erase that from your mind if something as small as not being able to go to your bestie's bday party or having strict parents. When I moved to the other side of the world , I felt like my life was over. 2 months later , I realised how toxic some of my old " friends " were and I got amazing opportunities where I live now. " When a door closes , another one opens " that is one of the most truthful sayings ever.
008 , don't wallow in your own self pity like a pig
- did you lose a competition or your partner broke up with you ? its okay to feel sad and you can cry about it but afterwards , get up. Move on. im sorry but nobody really cares. "oh my life is so unfair" so is everybody else's ? Get over it , please ! you can try another competition and your ex was clearly not for you so move on. nobody will care because they have their own problems to deal with. they may say sorry or give you a pat on the back but that's it. It won't change anything. they will be a whole lot ahead of you whilst you're still in the same spot in life , wallowing in your own self pity. whether you like it or not , life moves on and nobody cares , ml ♡
009 , set boundaries
- do you not like it when someone makes fun of you or touches you in a way you don't like ? you do not have to endure that , honey ! set your boundaries and if someone breaks them , take a break / leave them ! if they cannot respect your boundaries , they don't deserve you ! ♡
010 , drop toxic people
- it doesn't matter if you've been friends with them since kindergarten , or you don't want to seem mean. drop toxic people. this includes "friends" who just talk about themselves and say things like "oh , my life sucks" all the time , put everything in a negative mood. they don't deserve you. don't ruin your mental health over someone else , ml ! ♡
sorry if I sounded mean , I'm just trying to be honest !! ♡
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