#GET THIS GIRL A SUPPORT SYSTEM
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Watching Ada reject the affection of the only person in the clusterfuck that genuinely cares about her, and right after watching Montresor swoop in with his textbook manipulation tactics to successfully get Ada wrapped around his greasy finger makes me want to scream into a pillow
#GET A JOB STAY AWAY FROM HER#ADA…#SHE IS SO DESPERATE FOR LOVE BUT KEEPS ENDING UP LOOKING FOR IT IN THE WRONG PLACES#GET THIS GIRL A SUPPORT SYSTEM#nevermore#nevermore webtoon#webtoon nevermore#ada nevermore#nevermore ada#montresor nevermore#nevermore montresor#morella nevermore#nevermore morella
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i think of every asshole moment mike's had the past 2 seasons but then i remember the reasons beneath it all
#'ur justifyi--' justify my balls#i'm not saying he was right#i'm saying he's a closested gay boy in the 1980s in a smalltown raised by parents with conservative and traditional views#i'm saying he's dealt with severe bullying and it's destroyed his self esteem#i'm saying the girl that finally didn't judge him literally 'died' in front of him at 11 leaving him traumatized#i'm saying because of all that destruction to his self esteem he now feels only useful in life if hes saving others#i'm saying he has no family support system due to its lack of emotional connection#i'm saying his parents have zero respect for his interests or what makes him him#he's complex#and just needs SOMEONE to get him to open up#he doesn't do these things for no reason at all#s5 pls come sooner#the mike wheeler stans need you#mike wheeler#byler
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If there ever is an ATWQ show, I think it should alter one of the major aspects of the books, which is the limited narrative.
Of course, it'll mostly follow Lemony's perspective, but it should also give us insight into other character's lives.
Show me a flashback of Ellington and her father, who is happily making dinner in his socks and making her laugh with his silly animal impressions. Show me an Armstrong Feint who was once seemed like a genuinely kind man.
Show me Moxie Mallahan staring down a nurse who's good with a knife; was she getting scared later, or getting scared right then and there?
Show me Pip and Squeak driving around intriguing individuals who give interesting tips. Show me Jake and Cleo spending time together when the world is still, even if it only lasts for a moment.
Show me Kellar and Sharon Haines receiving a threatening letter demanding they help a treacherous man. Show me Kellar's inner turmoil between doing what is right or doing what will save the person he cares about.
Show me Kit's heist and how it failed, and if maybe Lemony would've been able to change anything had he been there. Show me Ornette crafting two Bombinating Beast statues, unsure of everything but placing her trust into her noble friends. Show me Lizzie finding out too much of the mystery that it made her a problem for the Inhumane Society.
Show me what happens to Stain'd by the Sea after Lemony leaves.
Snicket's version of events have already been explained. Let the others have their chance to share their side of the story.
#lemony snicket#atwq#bonus points: whenever we have a scene following Ellington's perspective we see her more disheveled than usual#to contrast w/ Lemony's idolized perception of her#and make his unreliable narration even more pointed#because in reality she is a girl on the run with a missing father she's worrying sick over#she's homeless and feral and needs a better support system than an almost thirteen year old boy who has a crush on her#also#also we need to see the bowl cut#if we don't get a bowl cut we riot
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bold move honestly to have all the characters yell every argument they knew fans would have at ted for why he should stay, and not have him say they’re wrong, or offer anything to counter it. Because at the end of the day it was his son. It was only his son. His son was the period at the end of the sentence, and always was going to be. Nothing else mattered, he was going home to his boy.
Literally if they were right I'd agree but it's them they know, not me. Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away. I know I have to go.
#ted lasso spoilers#ted lasso#do I like it? NO. does it feel good? NO.#did it have to happen? YES.#and he certainly wasn’t going to rip his son out of HIS home#his country the rest of his family his support system#just to force him to adapt to Ted’s lifestyle and circle in london#I get the escapist fantasy of that and I’m here for it in fic#but I think people are seriously underestimating how hard that is on a kid#moving is one of the most traumatic events a child can go through#so is divorce lmao#like would it be better for ted in england? abso-fucking-lutely#but he’s taking the L for his son#and is saving him some points on his future therapist’s ACE questionnaire lmao#ANYWAYS <-girl who only uses her workplace training about a child’s developing brain#to write hot takes about fictional families
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@katkastrofa, circa 40-ish hours ago: Hey, what if our newest bunch of OCs adopted a baby from one of the other brothel girls who knew she couldn’t afford to raise one? That would make for some fun shenanigans :D
Me, with a notoriously non existent sleep schedule, instinct of self preservation or concern for my poor wrist: Alright, bet. Watch how fast I can make you fall in love with this hypothetical baby >:)
Daneli as a gentle and loving caretaker-turned-adoptive-mother is something that can be So Personal, actually, and originally I was going to leave it at this quick sketch, but then I got carried away thinking about what this child will grow up to be like raised by this little gang of misfits, so…
Here she is!! A little older and so, so beautiful, I need more of her in my life immediately, she’s way too precious
And, because I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t also add a sapphic element to this absolute cinnamon roll, a small crack ship that I’m only half serious about for when she’s a little older still:
All in all, we may be getting impossibly far from canon, but I for one already cannot get enough of sweet darling Kumisai <3
(I fully drew three pieces from scratch in 9 hours I cannot feel my brain or my hands anymore send help)
#my art#artists on tumblr#the legend of korra#original characters#jinora#wow. nia drew a canon character? what is this?? who was I replaced by???#but joking aside. a small explanation for this crack ship#originally it was me editing my timeline and realising that Kumisai would be around 14/15 during book 4. the same age as Jinora#so my mind immediately went 👀👀👀 and I decided to go for it#since in sotrl I sorta implied Jinora had a gay awakening by watching Suiren. so.. why not go all out and make her another baby queer?#no offence to Kai. what they had was rather cute tbh. but it felt kinda out of nowhere and just added for the sake of parental drama#plus she was a young girl meeting someone her age for the first time. of course she got a crush#doesn’t mean she has to stick with it you know?#anyway. as for how they would meet. Midori could introduce them :D#Kumisai is Daneli’s daughter. who’s a friend of Summiya’s. who’s Zaheer’s sister. who’s Midori’s uncle. who’s friends with Jinora#and spirits know Jinora deserves to act her age a little more often. she has way too many responsibilities on her shoulders#so maybe Midori would think that a friend her age would do her some good#and don’t even try to tell me these two wouldn’t be absolutely adorable puppy crushing on each other. look how cute Jinora turned out here#might be the first time I’ve drawn her? not sure. maybe I did before but it was A LONG time ago. 2019 ish#but okay. enough rambling about Jinora. back to Kumisai#I don’t really have too many headcanons about her yet. but she’s probably rather happy and carefree#having a large support system as a result of being raised communally#I think she considers Daneli her mom and the others are her aunties. auntie Shezan in particular is a notoriously bad influence :)#and maybe one day she’d get to meet her bio mom. but only if that’s something both of them want. not sure yet#I feel like she’s rather disconnected from her water tribe heritage since everyone around her is Earth Kingdom. save Phailin who’s half FN#but she still has small hints of blue in her clothing. the colour matching her beautiful eyes. maybe she is curious about her bio dad a bit#since unlike with her bio mom no one knew him and can’t tell her anything. that’s bound to come as a natural curiosity at some point right?#maybe that can be part of her story when she’s an adult. trying to find her bio dad. but ultimately it doesn’t matter that much#because Daneli is her mom and the only parent she needs <3 I’m really just throwing out suggestions here to fill the tag space#kaaatttt come discuss all this stuff with me I waited all night for you to wake up >:) distract me from my grandma’s tv watching
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thinking about them and banging my head against the wall again whats new. they are making me so emo. god. what the fuck
#ann plays fates#theyre like all i can think about rn#its that time of the year#i mean i think about them both constantly separately but its always when september comes#do i get hit with the laslow/nyx rarepair brainrot i think#that just lasts through fall and winter#not that im complaining. i think eventually i will have posted the entire fucking conversation#i cant help it. each part gives me a segment of dialogue to be ill about#i have ‘but with burdens so heavy dont you think we can lean on eachother a bit?’ on my wall#ROMANCE. TO ME (girl who is aroace)#also underrated thing about them i like how nyx flirts back#its more prevalent in their A support but shes so fun with him even beyond the bonding over traumatic pasts#i think with laslow he does a lot of flirting right bc hes laslow but a lot of the time its like#no ones matching his energy#i was gonna say match his freak but i dont think he has any freak if im so real with u#if he does its buried beneath five metric tons of shame and embarrassment#and i like how his… laslow-ness kinda gives nyx space to let loose if that makes sense#like he can match her maturity because he. you know. all of that#but hes still young and so she can find a little bit of reprieve from it all in his attitude and blah blah blah#if that makes sense#they r just so perfect. TO ME#ive only ever written and posted one thing for them but i have like five million (like six) things in my drafts i need to get back#into writing. rarepair hell gotta feed myself#also that was like two years ago it kinda sucks a bit but thats fine its called growth#i just miss them. i dont really have the brainpower to play fates but i have enough to think about them#i mean i played a little but ive mostly just been doing dumb shit with the class system and not rly playing the game#we’ll get to it#im supposed to be sleeping
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#anyone know how to deal with overwhelmingly jealous and envious thoughts?#I just can’t stop comparing my life to other peoples#just went to my sisters new place#I would literally kill for a place like that#but I’m still stuck in my parents basement#not having a safe space to go#I eventually got over it while I was hanging out with family#but when I left I had to bump into a group of girls#all dressed up#looks like they were either going out or getting back from a club or something#and damn#I miss those days#I only got a taste of it very briefly before I was even of age#like 18-19#and now I’m fucking 26 and I don’t have friends to go out and have severe social anxiety#when I see people like that having a good night or whatever#I just get so sad and jealous#I’ve been wasting the past 6 years of my life#literally just trying to survive#and then everyone else around me is actually living and enjoying their lives#obviously it’s not all sunshine and rainbows but they have the support system or a place or something to lean on when something bad happens#I have nothing#I have no support system#not able to heal or really live in my current place#been struggling to just get out of bed#trying ro figure out a job but when I can’t even get out of bed how the fuck am I gonna do that?#struggling A LOT right now#shut up rosie#delete
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man i love the people im surrounded with. how did this happen. youre all so lovely😭
#istg tumblr is the BEST place to find people#all my current online friends who im close asf with are people i found on here#my girl my besties hell even some of my mutuals i dont talk to bruh#almost all of em were found on here#who knew life would turn like this bro. who knew#its grateful hours rn stfu idc#like yall. i cannot put into words how much you mean to me#im finally getting out of a mental rut thats lasted me a few months (school related) (school just ended)#and the fact YALL STAYED BY ME???#its small nd yall r gonna be like dub miguel. friends do that#but i aint never had that#like the past three years around this same time i have lost people important to me and lost core support systems over and over and over#and it feels nice that im better enough/healed enough#and surrounded by people who truly care for me#that thats not the case anymore. its so liberating and god does it make me want to cry tears of gratefulness that this is my life now#i am loved in so many ways that i cannot even recount right now.#sorry maternity classes gang (group chat) im gonna lovedump later on you tonight probably#man. mann.#this is my life#like#/pos#thats so lovely man.#wanna namedrop yall so bad bc people deserve to know you all and deserve to know how beautiful and loving you are#but ik i shouldnt for privacy😭#ily all tho#even if we aint talk much ur presence is always appreciated by me#sorry sorry ill shut up now😭#indigo speaks#yapping
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people who are saying they won't vote are pissing me off. stop with your holier than thou bullshit. "im not supporting a genocide" so you're gonna throw away your vote to risk MORE genocides????? 😭😭😭 be so fr rn yall forgetting trump wants russia to get ukraine AS WELL as israel getting palestine. and you KNOW that if russia gets ukraine theyre gonna try and get the gang back together. trump doesn't give a shit what wars he causes as long as he has power. would you rather war in the middle east or war in the middle east AS WELL AS war in europe? stop being so pretentious and use your fucking vote. unless youre gonna start a revolution or some shit which i welcome but it seems like nobody cares about anything tangible and you all sit behind your computer screens acting like you're so much better than everyone else for abstaining from voting. you're not cool for enabling a fascist power-hungry, warmongering madman.
and no this does not mean you aren't allowed to criticise harris. nobody is saying that. criticise her, vote for her and then criticise her more. call your local members. just do something other than nothing.
#politics#us politics#voting#and NO OF COURSE I DONT SUPPORT ISRAEL have some media literacy#im just saying use your vote now and then apply pressure!!#and don't act surprised when trump gets elected if you're not voting!!#“im in a red state my vote doesn't do anything anyway” girl it'll do even less if you abstain!#maybe this is harsh idk#maybe there's something im missing but idk#i think some of you are trying to act like not voting means there's no blood on your hands#and i understand the hopeless feeling of neither option really being good#but not voting isn't gonna do anything but make things worse#i would love it if the us political system was built in a way where independents were a feasible option#but they just aren't. it's literally not an option#and it's stupid it's set out this way but the only real option to fix this is revolution idk#and we're getting too caught up in semantics to make any actual change#maybe im just too privileged to understand this idfk#but it really seems like you guys are choosing a really bad option over a bad option right now
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the big overlap is intentional and this is directly related to my last post!!!! people who are telling you we're so different are lying to you and the differences between us are not the fault of the trans community but can be exacerbated by the bigotry systemic to the cultures we live in across the world
#rape mention#abuse mention#transphobia#transmisogyny#trans#trans women#trans men#no i wasn't able to cover every lived experience between transfem/trans woman transmasc/trans man non-binary intersex and genderfluid#unfortunately i don't have that much room but this is a general thing here that i see a lot of people have as a point of contention#that we're all too different#im not involved in any trans community so this has been through outside observation and my own extremely rough transition#which i've done mostly entirely alone and haven't had any trans friends or support other than my boyfriend and my niece and thankfully#she's getting the support she deserves. im terrified for her sometimes because she's a trans girl in the south but she's smart and has#a good support system behind her#i dont want to get into the abuse i saw growing up trans but it was. more than just being yelled at and treated shittily.
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right wing propoganda is crazy in india it is downright like india is turning into israel 2.0 and these people are proud of it.
#'caste system is a western concept' KILL YOURSELF#'leftists are americannabes' girl what even is THAT? YOU ARE THE ONE SUPPORTING A US FUNDED GENOCIDE#'hinduism society is so perfect they had british change it' cue adivasi dalit women silence#girl idk what hinduism society even is i thought it was a religion whose term was coined by the british#and y'all call yourself proud hindus while 'embracing' decolonisation like israel embraces itself as a part of eurovision#despite it being the most 'progressive' democracy in middle east 🤓#which btw is in asia#?.#anyways hindutva bridgade brainwashing is just awful#india is gonna be in more danger because of these fucking hacks#i'm scared as a hindu queer woman#i have been attacked by these so called protectors of sanatan dharma#physically#i nearly was hospitalised last year due to a saffron mob in a queer friendly bar during pride month#for ahistorical shit they'll spew their pinkwshing by radfems like hindulivesmatter will end#shameful spineless fucktards using kashmiri pandit genocide to fuel hatred against minorities and alienate them#for a hindu rashtra#i hope you bastards choke on your hatred and fucking perish#like the way y'all cheered on the death of tens thousands of palestinian people#i hope your propoganda and hatred gets to you and bites you in your own ass. hard#just end yourself u genocidal monster of a zionist#israel will be dismantled#and so will savarkar's ideals#from the river to the sea palestine will be free#and we will witness it happen godspeed
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hi!
sorry, I don’t want to be pushy, but I wanna ask.. do you have a baby ? I mean I’ve never met any exol before who is already a mom 🥺
if it’s true I wish you to be always happy and healthy omg ❤️
hi anonie 🥹 aw, dont worry, you're not being pushy at all!! yes, i do have a baby :') hehe well a toddler, lol. he just turned 3 in july!
i know a few exo-l mommies!! (from when i was on exoltwt like 8 years ago and now i keep up w them on ig n stuff hehe) but actually it's so crazy now that i think about it. cus i started stanning exo almost 10 years ago when i was in my late teens!! i was still soooooo immature and i especially couldnt imagine myself married or w a family. but now im like a whole grown up? like i have a big girl job, husband, kid, house, cars, etc. i pay bills and i have to make my own dr appointments 😭 and like its so insane how much has changed in the last decade but the ONLY thing that remained constant in my life is eXO WE ARE ONE SARANGHAJAAAAAAAA
but thank you <3 i wish you’re always happy and healthy, too, lovie! :') <3 <3 <3
#💌#anonie#i remember when i got pregnant at like 24 i was like “wtf im only a teenage girl like i need to be AT THE CLUB"#but like i always wanted to be a mom and it wasn't like my partner and i weren't trying ya kno#sorry tmi but. ya lol#AND AFTER I GAVE BIRTH I WAS LIKE “OMG I GET TO TAKE HIM HOME? LIKE U GUYS TRUST ME W THIS BRAND NEW HUMAN?”#AND WHEN A LACTATION NURSE CAME TO TEACH ME HOW TO BREASTFEED I ALMOST DROPPED HIM LMFAOOOO#i mean it wasnt funny at the moment but now it is lmfao#also im suuuuper lucky i have a great support system that encourages me to go out and have my own my life apart from being a Mom#like it was really important to me that i didn't lose myself#but anyways i love that lil boy so much omg hes my best friend#lisacore
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Oh, I accidentally found quite an innocent post I've written a while ago without any evil intentions but which nevertheless caused a hate wave because people just cannot read without misunderstanding and accept other people's opinions, so I had to mute it. That's what've been causing me "invisible notifications" all this time, lol.
#“my great grandpa suffered from that you evil punk” - so what me and my family are literally going through genocide too you're not unique#I hate hate hate when people start comparing who's suffering more#go get a job#If some Jewish guy believes I'm gonna start supporting hamas just because he made a bullying out of nothing without even listening to me#then fuck him lmao I'm not gonna change my entire moral system out of something so pathetic#I'm a non-Jewish girl who's surrounded mostly by people who use “zionists” as a slur#and yet some people dare to treat me like I'm Netanyahu :/
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life is so funny sometimes
#just got fired because my vibes are off#like that's literally it my boss told me i did nothing wrong and my work is good ut the rest of the team just doesn't really like me#and doesn't feel like i fit in#i mean I've only been there for almost three months and I've noticed that I don't really vibe with the others#no matter how hard i tried#but I didn't know you could get fired for that#honestly i'm kind of relieved because i'm pretty sure my old job will take me back#but goddamn what a blow to my ego#it's like i'm back in highschool trying to not be the weird girl#but thankfully i have a strong support system and i know at the end of the day it has nothing to do with me#man#what a day#girlblogging
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#me @ my youngest sister at 6.30 this morning: yooooooo can u draw me a fishy so i can get it tattooed on me?#i drew her some flowers so i want a paralell tattoo with her initials bc she has my initials on her#but i literally have not spoken to her since like may bc i do not talk to my sisters unless we r in the same room. no hate we just dont hav#a lot in common. it makes me a lil sad tho bc im curious abt them. my youngest sister is at least nice to me 😭#ive been thinking abt asking her for ages and last night i was asked abt my sisters so i was like. the time is now#while im still a bit elevated#which has been to my advantage bc i was able to stay v chatty and energetic while talking to ppl. and i think i made some friends#we bonded over fic reading. so theyre a bit. ya kno. girls gays and theys of science#we make the world go round. but its so interesting to hear them talk abt coming to school here bc they both liked where they were and r#leaving their support systems. and im like bruh if i didn't leave the southwest i was gonna die. im so happy to b here#support system? whats that. i talk to my parents once a month and that's it lol. but im gonna try to establish one here#and try to actually make actual friends. this school is way better abt making grad students interact#my last school was not at all like that. but anyway i had fun#and i mean im only at the start of the semester. and im in a good mood. and i kno things will get stressful#but im just really happy i got accepted here#and the longer im here the more clearly i can see how much i was suffering#the funny thing is tho that i wrote this last night and only hours later i was squirming in frustration bc the fact that im back in therapy#means i feel a greater obligation to not b actively self destructive. evil coping mechanisms my beloved#this is y my mum wanted me back in therapy bc im a goodie 2 shoes and when my counselor is like: did u do X the next time i see her. ill b#honest and itll b annoying >:-[ ugh#its just hard for me to b around ppl a lot bc i get stuck in mental loops bc ocd. which is exhausting. and i want it to stop#and i want to do bad things to make it stop but i wont bc im trying to b better#its just funny to me that ill go from everythings awful to everythings great i shoukd talk to my sisters and make friends and do this and#this and this. to oh god i cant do this anymore in such short time frames with certainty that how im feeling is how ive always felt#ive also noticed that my peaks of high energy do come before stressful events. which does make me worry for future stressful events. like#defending. i mean ive never gone fully off the tracks but its a lil alarming when it feels like the train is going at a million miles an hr#unrelated#meanwhile my other sister is apparently in Colorado but when i saw the pics is was like: YOU BITCH#R U CLOSE TO ME RN??? but no. Colorado is far away
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despite the pacing being as usual, so fucking fast, they do raise interesting points like the fact that kitana is indeed more of shao kahn's daughter at this point than jerrod's. nature/nurture yknow? she does say that she will abandon what she learned growing up in shao's house but it makes me wonder and wish that kitana and shao's relationship was explored more pre-first tournament when kitana was still a child. I wonder if they'll keep kitana's pretty violent way of making threats when her chapter is over or if she really is going to tone herself down to not look like him
#maybe itll be the start of her favoring diplomacy#anyway get my girl in an actual good support system. I miss Jade#tagging later#mortal kombat#kitana
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