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another day another TMI rant
Hmmm it has come to my attention that there is something rather off-putting? confusing? hollow? self-doubt inducing? about people being casual-sexually attracted to you but not showing even a hint of interest to you as a person when it is outside of that casually-sexual context🤔 You'd think that getting complimented on your looks was nice (and it is, don't get me wrong) but when it is the only driving force for multiple interactions with different people... It can be a very objectifying experience :/ Especially once they find out that you're not into anything casual and suddenly you no longer exist.
I mean, I still haven't found myself crushing on/interested in anyone as of now, but y'know... I'm still interested in people and who they are in general. They don't just stop existing to me once they are out of my sight. Like... I don't need to want to have sexy times with someone to want to know who they are?😭 I've said it before but, do people nowadays really only care for others if it somehow benefits them?
I've found that I'm not made for casual relationships (which is obvs completely fine and it also fine if someone is the opposite). But it is tricky and frustrating that there only ever seems to be two reasons people approach me or engage with me: 1) casual-sexual thing 2) they just don't. And I mean this for both romantic and friendly relationships. Either they just see someone they wanna bang or there's no engagement at all (or it's very surface level/impersonal). :(
Like... I'm a personnnn. I like myself just fineeee; can't be that off putting that it's only my looks people want to deal with ?? My brain could be hot too??? asdfhg lmao :')
#TMI part 2345678#friendships and relationships#bleh#these past few months have been interesting lmao#but at least I've learned lots#guess I just shall keep trying like always sdfghjg makin friends is hard workkkk#and maybe I'll also work on somehow not feeling so bad about myself as a person#when the 'inner aspects' of me AKA... me...#or whatever#don't seem to interest people#ehhh#their loss#but also... confusionnn#Me: PAY ATENTTION TO MEEEE#Also me: NOO! NOT LIEK THATTT😭😭#at this point I can't tell if I'm just being difficult myself lmasodsjosok#anyway#hope this nonsense has entertained you on this fine Wednesday!#xx
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On Friendship.
#webweaving#web weaving#on friendship#on love#on platonic relationships#on soulmates#on humanity#words#anyway i love my friends so much
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"i wonder if we ever think of each other at the same time."
#wattpad#love#love quotes#lovers#i love him#enemies to lovers#relatable#relatable quotes#life#relationship#friendship#mental health#feelings#life quotes#daily quotes#thoughts#lines#literature#writing inspiration#writers on tumblr#qoutes#quotes#post on tumblr#beautiful words#quote
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I confuse people. i have a happy personality and a sad soul. i'm bold but shy. i love deeply but sometimes i feel heartless. i'm healing and hurting at the same time. i'm dedicated to growth, but i self sabotage
#love#life#relationship#friendship#mental health#feelings#love quotes#life quotes#daily quotes#thoughts#lines#literature#writing inspiration#writers on tumblr#qoutes#quotes#post on tumblr#quote#beautiful words
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You deserve a healthy love with someone who hears you, sees you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is patient, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow, and bloom together. A love you don't have to heal from.
#love#life#relationship#friendship#feelings#mental health#love quotes#life quotes#daily quotes#thoughts#lines#literature#writing inspiration#writers on tumblr#qoutes#quotes#post on tumblr#quote#beautiful words#heartfelt#deep thoughts#positive thoughts#inspiring words#positive mental attitude#love quote#inspiring quotes#wisdom
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"Moon in the 11th House fosters deep emotional connections with friends and communities, but can also bring emotional challenges."
Visit now : Moon in 11th House: Deep Connections & Challenges
#Moon in 11th House#Moon#Emotional Connections and Social Life#11th House Astrology#astrology#Emotional Connections#Social Networks#Friendships and Relationships#Aspirations and Goals#Vedic Astrology#Intuition and Emotions#Community Involvement#Humanitarian Efforts#Emotional Support#Moon's Influence#Mood Swings#Personal Growth
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
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Maturity is when you realize people can't give you what they can't give themselves, so you stop expecting loyalty from people who betray themselves, stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves, and stop expecting peace from people who are at war with themselves.
#reading#inspiring quotes#relationship quotes#art#relatable quotes#romance quotes#quotes#spilled thoughts#shakespeare#quoteoftheday#love#life#relationship#friendship#mental health#feelings#love quotes#life quotes#daily quotes#thoughts#lines#urdu literature#writing inspiration#writers on tumblr#qoutes#post on tumblr#quote#beautiful words
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I'm here to combat the vicious homophobic granny smith rumours
#granny smith#granny smith mlp#applejack#big mac#big macintosh#apple bloom#my little pony friendship is magic#my little pony#mlp:fim#mlp#pride month#familial relationships#mind palace art
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yeah deancas is cool but you know what else is cool? they gave dean a best friend. dean who never stayed in a school long enough to bond with other boys. he never had inside jokes or slept over at his friend’s house. always an outsider, loner. john even suggested staying away from others in their line of work because no one survives. so they gave him a best friend who’s immortal and who lives with him. someone to have movie nights with and to laugh harder than he has in a while with.
#friends to lovers#their friend arc is so important to me#their friendship has as much value as their relationship#dean winchester#castiel#supernatural#deancas#destiel#q#me yapping
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*proceeds to drink the whole bottle*
Yeah Alastor you're gonna be loved and appreciated wether you want it or not :)
#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel fanart#hazbin alastor#hazbin rosie#radiorose#platonic radiorose#qpr radiorose#even tho they have no idea what label to put on their relationship at this point#hazbin comic#comic#my art#autodesk sketchbook#it probably looks ooc from alastor to react like this but poor man has only learned his whole life that relationships have a hierarchy#“marriage > a simple friendship” in his brain and it's confusing for him that Rosie would put her friendship with him over that#also Rosie was pissed of how terrible her date went and as soon as she comes home Alastor sides with her ex husband#just to explain why she got angry so quickly basically they couldnt really understand each other that's why they got angry#I love cute fluffy radiorose but its good to see them argue sometimes eheh#I needed to get this idea out of my system and made it into a whole comic
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Send me pictures without me asking, i love that shit.
#text#love#intimacy#dark academia#light academia#quotes#emotions#quoteoftheday#spilled thoughts#girlblogging#writeblr#pictures#relationship#friendship#4mtns
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"i fucked myself up getting attached to you."
#love#life#relationship#friendship#mental health#feelings#love quotes#life quotes#daily quotes#thoughts#lines#literature#writing inspiration#writers on tumblr#qoutes#quotes#post on tumblr#beautiful words#quote
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The best revenge is none. Move on and heal yourself so you don’t become like the people who traumatized you.
#love#life#relationship#friendship#feelings#mental health#love quotes#life quotes#daily quotes#beautiful words#thoughts#lines#literature#writing inspiration#writers on tumblr#qoutes#quotes#post on tumblr#quote
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