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Everyone knows that bisexual women are LGBTQ unconditionally right? Right?
#I don’t know why the bi hate is getting to me this year#like even ppl who call themselves bi Allies say the stupidest shit around pride#ESPECIALLY about bi women#like you really hate us huh#even if you don’t say I hate bi women specifically if you’re excluding bi women from pride for like#dating a man#or whatever#read a gay history book or whatever#go outside#it’s nothing new to hate bisexual people in particular like it’s a tale as old as lgbt history lol#but maybe do better in 2024#Mari talks
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who wants to hear my absolutely stunning ideas for atla soap opera aus
#I said katara was bi in these discord messages but if you let me think about it for longer than 5 seconds I'll make a lesbian out of her#anyway I think this is the funniest concept in the world actually going forward I'm a divorced z*tara truther#if I have any secret z*tara fans following me (IDK HOW??? BUT JUST IN CASE) btw I'm sorry about this#I don't like them. I think you're used to that response though#atla#zukka#I guess. they are not the focus but we did talk about them#ok well if I'm tagging that#kazula#let's talk about kazula actually that is SUCH an interesting concept to me why is it not a more popular ship for azula at least#(<- girl who will ship any two women in the same age bracket ESPECIALLY if it's toxic)#ANYWAY THINK ABOUT HOW FUNNY THIS WOULD BE THOUGHHHH#DIVORCED Z*TARA I AM LOSING MY SHITTTT#if it's not clear here we all think zuko is gay as hell that boy does not like women
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i'm starting to sense a certain pattern here...
#and no it's not that i like to take pictures at a certain angle™#the angle™ just... scratches my brain alright? alright.#it's a certain type of pixel girlie that just makes me go off my fragile hinges and howl into the moon at night#i also realised that like 80% of my caps from Odyssey that ain't scenery are low-key like Kassandra's bicep appreciation#what can i say.#🤡🤡🤡#i'm a clown for women. but especially the very hench ones. as you can probaby see following me here...#i become less hinged about it with each passing year.#which... sometimes makes me think if i'm as bi as i think i am.#oh well. that's another pickle for another day to evaluate. i guess.#irregular tag ramble#lady's screencaps
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The radfem who told me I make radfem strawmen and don’t argue with the “reasonable beliefs” of real radfems vs the same radfem’s “reasonable belief” that a literal body part half the population is born with is evil comparable to a swastica or the n-word.
“Reasonable beliefs”
Also if your entire ideology political ideology only works if you refuse to date a people of a gender that makes up roughly half the human population, then it’s a terrible ideology.
#sorry I am too tired to add alt text#very tired of this#had to wake up to this bs#rape mention#racism#swastica mention#antisemitism#sexism#transmisogyny#transphobia#also your movement can include BOTH lesbians and non-lesbian women surprise surprise#though it’s a terrible movement for bi women especially :/#deep sigh#vent post#terf tw#tw radical feminism#genital mention#make a post about benevolent sexism infesting feminist spaces (especially rad ones) at night#get a morning full of comments misgendering me and telling me I want corrective rape to happen#sigh
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&&. katya seeing all these lolth posts and being like 'okay whens my turn to be absolutely dommed and talked down to?'
#&&. ivy speaks.#'unfair i wasnt born a drow'#katya is just gay af for all women but ESPECIALLY monster women who wanna be Like That#honestly shes not even bi at this point#she just fucks any monster#yeah im tipsy dont worry about it
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conservatives hate to admit that this is what biblical femininity looks like:
she is leadership! she is not afraid of getting her hands dirty for the sake of winning the war! she is committed! a true judges 4 woman.
#grace chasity#had to have a pic of her with the wwjd bracelet in shot#npmd spoilers#npmd#nerdy prudes must die#especially when modesty is more about not showing off wealth#now. in ddmd. maybe not. but at this point yeah i feel comfortable saying that#Biblical women did murder. by God's command but still#how do you think grace thinks ab women in ministry#like she should support it given who she is but also she's bi and homophobic so idk at this point in life#and she's not wearing a fucking skirt good grief
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so many bisexuals who are rad/fems 🤢🤢
#you have no place in the bi community#radfems hate you also btw#this goes for bisexuals who hate trans men 'bcuz they're men' too#I constantly feel like too much of a Man for bi spaces that focus on bi women & sapphics & hating men#cis women understand that trans men are not the enemy and hating manhood as an entire vast gender is gonna harm trans ppl#idk why ur so dedicated on hating manhood in bi spaces too. do you understand a big part of the reason ppl hate bisexuals is bcuz they hate#men so much they think ur tainted just for being attracted to them#to me. bisexuality is about embracing all genders especially trans folk and loving unique complex expressions of gender#I forget how cis-focused some bi spaces are. and it's inevitable radfeminism works it's way into communities that only care abt cis women#🐈
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sad that biphobes don't realize that by only valuing bi women when they're dating women, they're entirely tying their worth as people to men. they don't even realize their own misogyny.
#lgbtqia#lesbians especially talk about the misogyny with gay men (rightly so)#but then fail to recognize their own misogyny#and when they're called out for it#they pull the WHY ARE LESBIANS SO HATED card#like honey WE don't hate you for your sexuality#but you sure do hate bi women for THEIR sexuality#rhetoric taken straight from the homophobes#biphobia#bisexual
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girls who convinced themselves they were not even slightly into men and entirely into women bc they know their taste in men is absurd anonymous
#it’s not anonymous i haven’t shut up about it for a month and a half#and truthfully i think my type transcends gender#but i do think it’s easier to feel things for women esp physical and aesthetic attraction#especially in real life (obviously)#it’s just kinda lame that i see so few stories or discussion of women who id’d as lesbian and then figured out they were bi#it’s almost always het -> bi
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No one:
Me whenever I see yet another blog I respect and admire make/reblog a post on how the lesbian/comphet masterdoc is biphobic/inaccurate:
#lesbian#lesbophobia#comphet#lesbian masterdoc#comphet masterdoc#it's like aww c'mon not you too!#but it's like idk what is with people's obsession with trying to invalidate lesbians' experiences and saying that we are biphobic just for#our relation to the patriarchy#and saying that a tool that has helped many lesbians come to terms with our sexualities must secretly be some evil biphobic scheme#to force bisexual women back into the closet/eliminate and invalidate their attraction to men#i promise you that that is not what we're doing#it feels like they're just trying to say that the comphet masterdoc is wrong and that any lesbian who relates to it is really just bi and i#the closet#and as a lesbian who already suffers from comphet/intrusive thoughts about being sexually involved with men posts like these just make my#comphet go through the roof#they make me wonder even more if maybe my intrusive thoughts are my real feelings and i'm just repressing my attraction to men because the#lesbian masterdoc made me realize i was a lesbian and not attracted to men like i previously thought#and in addition they love to say that the creator of the doc came out as bi when it was only one of the editors of the doc#but ofc people just focus on that because they want so badly to prove that the comphet masterdoc doesn't exist and that it's simply#forcing bi girls to have denial#and then they love to say 'it was written by a bunch of teenagers' as if that invalidates it#or as if teenagers' experiences with comphet aren't real or trustworthy or worth listening to as if we are all simply irrational or naive#like atp people should just say the quiet part out loud that they think every lesbian who struggles with comphet is faking it and that we#are secretly bi and just think we're lesbians because we're traumatized by men but that eventually we will realize that we need a man in#fr it's just saddening#it's especially treacherous when other lesbians make posts like these#like come on now are you for real#i thought we were in this together#anyway that's all i'm done ranting lol
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Y'all gonna hate me for this one, but you can't call it a homoerotic friendship if that woman was never into you. It's called lust, limerence and delusion.
#txt#lgbt#wlw#lgbtqia#there is nothing more dehumanizing than being on the ace spectrum and being on the receiving end of this#words cannot describe how betrayed i felt#like especially considering i had to figure it out for myself#some of them arent even gay or bi they just want someone who IS between their legs like WHAT#i was a relationship with my fiancé and reliving gay rumors about me like why would i ever use someone as a beard#people can't tell the difference between platonic and romantic attraction and when you're kind to someone they think you want them#there's a stigma of being bi or pan where people just think your body is a free for all#or that you're really gay and confused when you're with a partner who is your opposite gender#like i always stayed away from dating women after being harmed by them all my life and oooh that was my last straw LMAOOOO#like i hate that people get obsessed with the idea of me#and when i fall from their pedestal they just want to ruin my life because they didnt get sex from me#even worse when they dont like you but they want to BE you like you are not gay#like they dont have an identity in general and are just latching onto mine and using romance as the excuse for access#so sick lmao im venting in the tags#homoerotic friendship my fat ass like a real friend would NEVER
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Different anon here- I’m generally ok with mpreg existing. But the sheer volume of it in this fandom is pretty weird. Especially considering the source material… one of the great things about the unholy family (to me) is that it’s this family unit without the necessity for sexual reproduction. It’s so interesting because they all had lives outside of each other at some point so it’s part found family, part queer and yet biological parents. I think that’s one of the things I first loved about the 1994 movie and it’s a shame that aspect is overlooked
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Yeah, I totally agree on all counts. Like I don't usually bat an eye at mpreg (whatever floats your boat! I'm very good at scrolling, haha) but there have literally been times I've opened ao3 and have counted five or six fics on the front page of updated works that are mpreg which feels really disproportionate to the amount of fic that actually gets posted in this fandom?
I - - mmm, kind of wonder a little if its tied to some of this gender essentialist stuff that's coming up more and more both in this fandom, and in social media generally? There feels like there's this real desire to shoehorn them into a quote-unquote 'traditional nuclear family dynamic' which really feels like it's the antithesis of the show. Like you said, the fact that they've all had lives outside of each other is, and the fact that as a family they are both one found and made is, I feel, pretty crucial not just to their interpersonal dynamics, but also to each individual character?
#this kind of goes back to my original point too but there are also so many ways queer couples have children now?#a good friend of mine and her wife have just had a baby#and one of their best friends#who's a gay man#donated the sperm#which is like! not uncommon?#and he is loving getting to be fun uncle (and has 0 desire to be dad haha)#although apparently has been around quite a bit to help out which makes me very happy for ash and her wife#like idk if i really wanted to write a baby claudia fic#i feel like the obvious thing would be to write lily as the surrogate#especially because then you can keep the themes of the show with louis' ease with commodifying women's bodies by y'know#renting a womb#while also getting to keep lestat's messy feelings about being an outsider to louis and claudia if louis' the bio dad#or louis' weirdness about lestat being bi AND claudia being more like lestat than him if lestat's the bio dad#there's DRAMA to unpack there y'know?#but then i do remind myself that a lot of these sorts of fics don't want there to be drama hahaha#so whatever you could also keep it cute!#but yeah#it's really interesting#iwtv asks
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the only thing “asexual lelouch” makes more interesting in code geass is that one interaction he has with kallen in r2e7 (you know the one) but like that’s a 2 minute sequence in a 50 episode anime ykwim
#i still think bi lelouch for his interactions with kallen are especially funny though like ‘no i like women i just don’t like you. LOL’#lelouch and kallen’s relationship i think is read in a really interesting way when it’s devoid of attraction because then it becomes +#less about trust and more about his willingness to mobilize a suffering colonized people to meet his own objectives#to the point that he’s willing to do this to his so-called ‘friend’#he is not a nice dude lol!
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I need help with something my fellow FFXIV players, I'm not sure how active the fandom is on here, but it can't hurt to try.
I need a new retainer because my other 3 are almost full along with my glamour dresser, and this is without hats thanks to this game hating hats on viera🙃. I can't decide what to make my next retainer, these are the 3 choices I've come down to.
I only have one Viera and I like Viera, but the other two are Au Ra and Roegadyn, so I thought maybe I should add a Miqo'te. I couldn't decide on the hair colour but the pink looks nice and would add to a joke I'll explain next paragraph and the reason to why I added screenshots of my warrior of light and the Viera retainer.
I added these screenshots because of this joke head canon I have of my retainer and warrior of light. I wasn't paying attention to the dialogue when choosing a personality and somehow I made an accidental wife for my warrior of light, haha. The other two retainers don't talk like that, haha.
Now the reason why the pink hair would be funny is because blue hair and purple hair, then adding pink hair would make up the bisexual flag colours. So hey, why not make it a polycule of bisexuals since we have a love of love to give, haha🩷💜💙 (not making fun of polyamorous people, I support you👍🏼). I'm just not sure to continue on theme with Viera or change it up, plus that black hair really looks nice. This retainer will be warrior class.
Miqo'te - black hair?
Miqo'te - pink hair?
Viera?
#Final Fantasy XIV#Final Fantasy 14#ffxiv#ff12#warrior of light#now i have to put this here but biphobes and people who hate on polyamorous can stay the fuck away#i'm not polyamorous but i took time to educate myself about it#but i am bisexual and there has been so much biphobia this year and some really disgusting shit said especially about bi women#my spaces are safe for all LGBTQIA people and the way a lot of you within the community treat fellow queers is disappointing#there is a difference between jokes and being a vile arsehole#joking about bisexuals sucking at choices like i am now is funny#saying that we are filthy whores that spread diseases and that our sexuality isn't real and only an excuse to cheat isn't funny#i expect that shit from the bigots who want us all dead not from fellow people who are victims of them#play nice or you are blocked#jacquiarno's screenshots#jacquiarno#i tried to add a poll but it wouldn't work
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okay the jokes about bi women with jakey ass boyfriends were funny but I'm gonna need everybody to stop before people start getting too comfortable and start getting really biphobic with it
#like the first couple times were funny but like. I do not like the direction this is going. my bestie has straight up got hate comments#for being a bi girl with a bf like people are saying she has it so easy is basically straight etc like😭#not that biphobia (against bi women specifically) didn't exist before this joke blew up recently but some people think it's a lil Too#funny to call bi women with boyfriends basically straight#as if they're like. what? lying about being bi? faking it for attention like what do you think. they're not actually bi bc they're dating#a man. idk just don't like direction this is going#as a person with the opposite problem (people I'm insisting I'm a lesbian) I kinda get it like it obvs doesn't feel great to have people#doubt your sexuality. especially in the context of them making fun of you#ALL THIS BEING SAID this isn't abt my mutuals and friends who I know are normal and not biphobic AND this is not about not making fun#of jakey boyfriends. obviously i think they should all kill themselves.#carmen.txt
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my mother is absolutely convinced of some nonsense conspiracy theory that (in her words) "originally humanity lived in peaceful all-woman societies of goddess worshippers who took care of eachother and lived in harmony, while males were roving loners that had no society and never cooperated. that changed when the men banded together and overthrew the peaceful woman-dominated societies, and enslaved us all." and, according to her, this is proof that a woman-dominated world would be innately more peaceful, and that men are innately violent and evil and should be either barred from holding any legal power or leadership roles or at least should be (again in her words) "gelded like bulls" to remove their testosterone before even being considered for such a thing.
she also evidently believes that the problem with all religions today is primarily that they aren't "goddess worshippers", because she seems to think goddess religions are inherently peaceful and pure too and seems to be especially obsessed with "Isis" in particular. the very very few times she's openly considered it unambiguously bad for some population or another to have been exterminated (she's got a bad case of devil's advocating genocide brain), she's gone out of her way to make up some crap about how said people were a peaceful society of goddess-worshippers, almost always of isis. delusions of isis-worship seem to be the only thing that ever causes her to consider any arab or middle-eastern culture, society, or ethnicity to be relatively uncomplicatedly undeserving of extermination, in fact, because every fucking time she doesn't immediately start devils-advocating it and making remarks about how "the rest of the world should box them in and let them blow eachother up" it's when she's whinging on about how whatever specific micro-ethnicity she's thinking about are or were traditional persecuted isis-worshippers.
the sole major exception to her weird fixation on isis worship justifying worthiness of life is the whole israel thing going on, in which she has consistently made very obvious that literally the only reason she's against the genocide of palestine is because it gives her an excuse to even more openly hate jewish people than she already did. and honestly i'm not sure even that's true because i think she's made some offhand remarks about palestinians having probably been peaceful isis worshipers before the jews infected them with christianity or something anyway.
so for the last, however fucking long it's been i've been constantly having to listen to her go off about how this behavior is in the jew's blood or whatever and that they literally invented all genocide because somehow the concept didn't exist before them and wouldn't have ever been invented by the rest of humanity without those jewish aliens dropping it in i fucking guess apparently and she furthermore goes on about how every single genocide and mass-oppression movement in history is directly inspired by them, ESPECIALLY the nazis, and THEN i have to listen to her rant about how, basically, wwii was something they entirely brought on themselves by "dominating the economy and treating everyone not them like shit" and the nazis were just "using their own tactics back at them". and then she goes on a rant about how the people the original jews exterminated back in the day (aka the first ever genocide, which they invented, because jews invented genocide and hate according to her) in the middle east region were peaceful matriarchal isis-worshipers.
and then she starts making comments about arabs being backwards and palestinians either being mysogynist muslims that should be boxed in to blow eachother up with everyone else or secret peaceful isis worshippers corrupted by men's cruel hand, sometimes in the same sentence, entirely dependent on which group she's more in the mood to hate at the time.
it's exhausting. beyond exhausting. her sole purpose in existence seems to be to have the singularly most exhausting set of politics physically possible to fit into one person.
just, sometimes i think, if there really is anything at all to the incredibly stupid and inexplicably popular idea that anyone or anything has a Purpose tm to exist for, i feel like my mother's purpose is to be walking proof to me of a Type Of Guy That Is Real, cause i sure as fuck would have trouble inventing this mess if it wasn't standing right in front of me spewing confusingly bipartisan hate. all of her thoughts and opinions are these long winding nonsense chains that feel like if that man carrying thing sketch about the friend with confusing politics was a person. on meth.
#and sometimes i feel like she just believes whatever will allow her to hate and feel innately superior to the most people#the fact that this woman considers herself a leftist#... well. given what this country just voted for it looks unfortunately likely that she IS in fact a fairly average example of a leftist#and therefore i have zero remaining hope for or particular desire to save humanity#actually it kind of feels like the only reason she really aligns herself with “the left” is because she's a female supremacist#and the left is the closest thing to a movement in that direction compared to the only current alternate party's “lets undo women's rights”#and also she inexplicably hates trump despite constantly devils-advocating for him and how he “has some good ideas”#and yes she does specifically mean about immigrants and the wall. one of her staunchest positions is pro-closed borders#honesty if trump was a woman and not a misogynist sex pest i think she would like him a lot. even despite his blatant ignorance of economic#she's also a big “anti-wokeist” type and we can barely watch any movies anymore without her whining about there being black people in them#and then she's like “PEOPLE ONLY DON'T WANT TO WATCH MOVIES WITH ME BECAUSE MY THEORIES ARE ALWAYS RIGHT AND THEY'RE JEALOUS OF HOW SMART”#she's nominally anti-corporation but in practice tends to come down on their side and is also staunchly against student loan forgiveness#because she thinks that “anyone who's stupid enough to do that deserves it”#and “it would be a slap in the face to ME and everyone else that had to pay”#and “kids these days don't want to develop healthy financial habits so they can SAVE for things. i SAVED for it and i know how HARD it is”#the way she often talks i also increasingly feel like the only actual reason she hates christianity is because she's a female supremacist#especially since she regularly goes on about biblical things as if they're real and complains that god either must be a woman#because “only women can create”#or that god CLEARLY is a man because he's destructive and evil and Destruction is a Man Thing That All Men And Only Men Innately Do#and likes to talk about how “jesus said he would come back as the least of us so he would be a woman”#and then goes on to describe a woman that sounds suspiciously like her. or at least her perception of herself#she's also said that if she wasn't straight she would be a political lesbian by choice because she hates men so much#and has tried repeatedly to bitch at me about men in an “eyyy amirite sister” kind of way#and got mad when i didn't fancy the idea of sitting there joking with her about half the species being barely-sentient cancer nodes#but she ALSO identifies as sapiosexual despite having the most vanilla housewife smut book taste ever#but ALSO she considers every single other sexuality aside from straight and gay to be made up woke mental illness nonsense!#so according to her the only orientations are “normal”. gay. and sapiosexual. and SOMETIMES bi (but no pan or poly).#i'm fairly sure she's convinced asexuality isn't real and is just repression. she certainly acts like i never said anything every time.#unless she's explosively yelling at me for “always bringing it up” when i tell her to stop making jokes about me being attracted to things#and she thinks anything other than monogamy is “selfish” and “exists only for men to abuse women”. especially muslim and arab men.
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