#and really if they are going to do that make characters be gay straight or lesbian
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Alotta peoole, especially June fans, act like homestuck is ABOUT queer people, NO. ITS NOT. It never was and it was never planned to be.
Homestuck STRICTLY and obviously about ISOLATION. Itâs litterly in the god damn TITLE. And of course u can be isolated because of gay but most of the characters arenât honestly. Saving John for last,
Rose matured quickly but superficially so she doesnât trust anyone
Dave is a horrible person so no one wants to be around him
Jane suffers constant assassination attempts to the point she canât leave the house and falls back into Crocker corp as something safe, ending uo very skeptical (doesnât help that Roxy, Crocker corp hater, is one of them seriously wtf)
I donât think I need to explain the other kids
Karkats a mutant and canât let anyone know
Kanaya is the antithesis to troll culture
Aradia fucking died and lost all feeling then was physically separated by a metal robot
Vriska has spider mom and other influences that cause her to ruin allll her relationships
Terezi has her attachment to vriska messing with her other relationships
I donât feel like doing all of it but Even characters that donât matter as much to the overall story have the same fuckung themeeee
Feferi has to constantly hide as to not be culled by condy to not take tha thrown
Eridan gets no hoes
I brought up June earlier because NONE OF HER âââââFANSââââââ UNDERSTAND THE SOURCE OF HER LONENES. They make it about her being transsss uwu which isnât in the text at alllll and never will be no matter how you read into a one off line of dialogue.
It feels like they are doing it JUST to give John truama uwu because they canât understand what makes characters sympathetic without it. Not even with out it just without them constantly whining about how much they suffer soooo much. They need to act like dad Egbert was some evil patriarcy man who forced june into a MAN NO EMOTION NO FEELING role (despite the fact he constantly pours his heart out about how much he loves John). At best theyll portray âJuneâ as just going after her fatherâs role because sheâs grieving and dysphoria and uhm blah blah blah or something which also is insanely retarded because itâs a straight forward lie.
But anyway itâs all ignoring the fact that JOHN EGBERT IS THE MOST AUTISTIC CHARACTER IN EXISTENCE.
I swear hussie himself could have put fucking books on autism in dads study, transcribe the whole thing, specifically specify Taht they are to Better understand John n bitches would be like âooooooh heâs ignoring his childâs obvious gender dysphoria and blaming it on AUTISM. Classic abusive parent smhâ
Lemme list out every single autistic traits n experiences show in my beatiful goddess princess Johnathan Egbert. I love lists
-he has big explosive reactions to things deemed as trivial by other characters but matter so much to him (Betty Crocker, how he thinks about his father blah blah) also referred to as tantrums by other characters despite technically not fitting the criteria and fitting in much more with melt downs (like he doesnât liek Betty Crocker so he freaks out when a food he likes IS BETTY CROCKER)
-his reactions to more major events are much more low-key . His dadâs a business man? Curled up on the bed horrified. Dads dead? Oh no. Heâs still very sad he just lashes out in other ways, the whole ship melt down n avoiding processing it by focusing on his special interests(like how he started to hate con air)
-he very clearly has special interests as mentioned last point. He rants to Kanaya (my favorite page) and meenah about Mathew McConaughey and paranormal lore respectively Not really caring/ noticing that neither of them give a fuck.
-he is really gullible like heâll go along with what rose says and with what terezi says 1 to 1 because he doesnât really think like that. The most obvious answer is vriska, she was 100% using him against terezi but he doesnât really understand that EVER even when he realizes that sheâs crazy he doesnât realize that vriska was toatluu using him. Not to say vriska doesnt likeeee john ever but they basically fuckung say that their realatiojship started out as daverezi envy.
-he is the most uo front of all the kids. Not THAT Crazy for general people but he doesnât really hide any of his emotions beyond just not being able to process them and compared to litterly every other character itâs noteable
Before yoh freaks say it Iâm not saying June canât exist because Johnâs autistic. YOU are just applying johns very fucking obvious traits to transness that both makes those traits miserable (his special interests and bluntness being covers or whatever) and erases johns ore existing character
Nothing wrong with having a non cannon head cannon you donât have to make it retroactively cannon! Stop eith the delusions !!!
#john egbert#homestuck#june egbert#autism#dave strider#rose lalonde#karkat#kanaya#vriska#terezi#trolls#delusion#stop!!!!
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""KC doesnât have too many bisexual characters youâre just homophobic!!!!"" what does that even mean. (this is primarily a rantpost/response to a post i saw the other day so shit is under the cut)
i have been thinking about a post i saw about how there are 'too many' bisexuals in Kittycorn's work. which i think is kind of stupid, mainly on the basis that there is no such thing as too much representation in media.
and on this point, um. okayv?? who really cares ? just because two thirds of the main characters are bi doesn't mean its a bad thing. i don't think we should demonise inclusivity because you want a different kind of inclusivity.
i have created a pie chart in order to illustrate the idiocy of this claim, yes i admit some of the parts of the chart do overlap. whoops. but this only accounts for approximately 14 points of data.
and yes, bisexuals do make up the majority of the characters. however this does line up with real life data (image taken from the census from 2020 in uk and welsh households) and yeah of course the proportions have been increased in the gay furry webcomic
and if i hear anyone complain about the lack of straight representation or that the straight characters are always the villians i am going to strangle you
#sparklecare#sparklecare hospital#sperklacera#sparklecriticism#sparklecare criticism#sparklecrit community
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What you call shallow I call respectful, to the artist at least. Headcanons and shipping are supposed to be fun, but the only thing I've ever seen from the MHA fandom is insults and buzzwords being thrown back at people who don't subscribe to their headcanons or interpretations. Towards other fans AND Horikoshi. That's why I focused on the common 'ur homophobic' L take initially. I said obvious because it's stated rather plainly:
If Horikoshi wanted any of his characters to be anything that's not considered the societal norm in Japan (a VERY conservative and conformative country still), he would have said so already like he had already for those three, which in of itself is pretty daring with the way LGBT is taken in Japan IRL, but I digress. The fact that he hasn't and didn't says to me that no other character besides those three are canonically LGBT, and since these are his characters, that's the final word because the series is over. I don't really subscribe to the whole coding thing, a lot of them are based off of stereotypes (though I know not all of them are) but even still, personally doesn't sit right with me since it can be such a mixed bag. And in a fandom like MHA, that's basically blasphemy.
Izuku doesn't just blush or get flustered around Ochako, he does with multiple women on the show. He's never seen or even acts that way around any of the men, even in the bath scenes. Same for Bakugo. "That's literally the bare minimum for a straight ship to be valid: one or two awkward blushes and boom, no questions asked" and for gay ships:
Anyone can go through everything that Izuku and Bakugo do and remain close platonically or as (found) family like they do; I'm honestly surprised found family BKDK isn't more popular. Neither are a lesser form of love and it shouldn't be treated as such, as hated, or be overlooked as it does in fandoms or in general. And it shouldn't be seen as hate for the ship either, it may be unpopular but I've seen people on Tumblr, Instagram, Twitter, etc take anything non-romantic BKDK as hate towards the ship when the OP has tags that says "this is not hate".
I say insufferable fans because I've only ever seen threats, wishing bad health, doxxing, death threats, and things alike coming from BKDK shippers at Horikoshi because he goes against their widely accepted interpretation/headcanons and I had hoped that this sort of shit was left in the Steven Universe fandom when I first started getting into MHA. I haven't seen anything like that coming from any other popular ship personally, but then again, I could always be wrong. Honestly, I wouldn't find romantic BKDK half as annoying if it wasn't for the majority of its fans, especially on Instagram who have openly told me to stop shipping platonic/brotherly BKDK and to just ship them romantically and then to kill myself when I told them no. The way they treat anyone who doesn't see their headcanons as canon, with the ship or the characters in general is just wild, to put it lightly.
MHA is not a shounen-ai like Yuuri on ICE. Not accepting that how these characters interact with each other doesn't contribute to them being gay or even bisexual and that they aren't interested in each other romantically in even the slightest sense is not hate or intolerance, and it shouldn't be seen and treated as such. Because that's the kind of viewpoints that make casual anime viewers and readers of MHA turn away and give it its bad rep., which Horikoshi doesn't deserve. Only Horikoshi can confirm or deny which character is gay or not, and he has. Whether people accept it or not is not his problem and he shouldn't be harrassed for it, like how people and most BKDK fans did when he dropped 431.
If Hori ever does come around and says, "Yeah, Izuku/Bakugo/whoever else is (insert not straight sexuality and/or is not cis here)", then I'll accept it, no questions asked. Because that's canon and what came from the creator himself, and I prefer to stick to what the people who created their characters say over any fandom interpretation, headcanon, or reading any day. People can do it for Dana Terrace with The Owl House, so it can be done in kind for Hori.
"Let people have fun. Let people ship", those are some bold words, don't let the anti-proshippers hear you. And I'm not trying to convince anybody, just felt like giving my two cents.

I FOUND IT MY SIGNATURE POST ALIHERABLIHFBAELIHBALEIHBAE
No but seriously those of you who have been liking and reposting know EXACTLY what Iâm talking about
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#also you don't need to feel upset about agreeing with the person you're debating with#even if its just a little#it shows you have an open mind even during heated debates#which is commendable not many people do
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I'm going to be so real I do not understand tim & steph shippers who feel that Steph dating Tim again would save her character. You can make an argument that giving Tim a more compelling love interest would be beneficial for him! And you can at least make an argument that the fujo mischaracterization of Steph would stop. However she'd still, inevitably, be treated as a prop character/extension for someone more popular đ it also wouldn't make her appear in more books! Tim doesn't have many frequent appearances at the moment either! You can just say you like the couple and want them back together without acting like you have some kind of moral stance
#ramblings of a lunatic#dc comics#dc#NOT character tagging. for reasons j feel are obvious#honestly i shouldn't even be posting this here I'm responding more to twitter sentiments but they'd cook me on there if i posted this#anyway sometimes i think ppl (again the twt ppl specifically. tumblr timsteph fans mostly normal) are doing that thing-#-where you get so deep into a hyper online discourse cycle that you end up reproducing mainstream sentiments from scratch#''let men date women!'' this is what some of you sound like when talking about timsteph to me /j#there's a lot to critique about how Tim's been written since canonizing his bisexuality!#personally I've noticed (and seen other ppl notice to) that some writers seem unaware that tim is bi#not in the sense of making him straight but in the sense that they seem to think he's gay bc none of his relationships w women-#-are acknowledged as having been. relationships#or if they are there's an idea that tim was using them to 'hide from his true self' or something#genuinely problematic sentiment!#i also don't really find the ''he should cheat on bernard!'' jokes funny#like lets bffr Tim's cheating was NEVER acknowledged as cheating he was seen as a good all-american boy#so like. bringing that trait back and acknowledging it as cheating ONLY after he comes out as bi? i get it- ironic homophobia but-#-i really don't like it!#anyway. close your eyes and focus on the daminika like the rest of us /j#or the stephcass jason dancing image which will live in my head and heart forever despite arguably being ooc as well <3#bc it's funny <3 and at least I'm self aware <3#also much MUCH more importantly DC POWER SPECIAL EXTREMELY GOOD GO READ IT FOR DUKE#and jace but i haven't read future state yet bc i tried and got. extremely bored đ sorry jace you seem really cool#but he's great in the story dynamjc duo with duke. loved it love them want more#special was sold out at my comic shop tho so i couldn't grab a copy. might hit the other shop in town today to see#BOOST THE NUMBERS WE NEED A POWER COMPANY ONGOING GANG#anyway yeah. tim & steph thoughts. you can just say you like them you don't have to do all that
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sorry but edgeworth would not wear earings. that is not the same character
#like its not just the earings its more the total feminisatiom of this character specifically that this fandom keeps doing#which is completely at odds with canon and clearly the only reason they do it is to turn him into a stereotype#i know earings arent necessarily feminine but in this case its more all the general stereotyping whether as gay or fenimine or both#like he isnt even stereotypically gay in canon#a lot of it comes from americans tbh nutty stereotypes about what a 'gay person' is#ie old fashioned clothes tea posh bright colours etc#and the whole 'europe' thing. not only is it not canon (it was america and he barely lived there) but its americans weird stereotypes again#sorry americans but drinking tea. something billions of people in the world do. does not make you 'gay' OR 'european'#anyway if you go to germany its basically all bloody herb/fruit tea. barely any of the 'tea' actually has any tea in it#which isnt actually relevent#but my point is that this weird fandom characterisation is completely made up small minded stereotypes whovh is actually really annoying#the clothes and stuff are also not gay stereotypes in the context of the game btw. look at all the other characters#and its literally a running joke that women keep flirting with him. you can reasonably assume they think hes straight#anyway i hate that small minded reductive stereotyping thing fandom does#ace attorney#miles edgeworth#é蝢čŁĺ¤
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If Robin were a boy she'd be everyone's favorite character but since she's a girl she only gets to be Steve's gay best friend.
#from the simple fact that male!Robin from alternate dimension would certainly be a gay man#automatically shipped with Steve because Of Course#like of course that's how it'd go. and everyone would accuse the show of queerbaiting because obviously a queer man can't come out to a#male straight friend if it doesn't have some supposed ''romantic subtext'' there#the shipwars among h4rringrove and st3ddie and m/m!St0bin would drive me insane#what really drives me up the walls is people so desperate for canon queer rep they need to make up queerness in characters when it isn't#there. and im not talking abt headcanons or shipping i'm talking about people who wholeheartedly believe byl3r is going to be canon#like beyond it being a theory like these people actually believe mike is gay in canon and was intentionally written that way#it wouldn't bother me if it wasn't so painfully clear the female queer character we got isn't enough.#like idc if people have different opinions from me. if you're a byl3r endgame truther it doesn't affect me you do you#but byl3r and st3ddie being so fucking MASSIVE just shows you how male characters are priorized over female characters. like i get people#liking those ships and characters. i'm just shocked to see the NUMBERS.#and knowing Robin isn't as appreciated as them just because she's a girl#like sometimes i feel almost guilty to fixate on her when she's not like one of the main MAIN characters and she barely has an arc and gets#little attention from the story. but then i remember the eddie/st3ddie fandom exists#idk i just wish i could find robin content in robin tags but it seems like tags such as ''robin buckley internalized homophobia'' (my guilty#pleasure when it comes to angst) is dominated by straight boys steve and eddie. which is ironic
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tiny, nitpicky thought about the concept of "queernorm":
it's interesting to see people phrase it like "one's sexuality is no more important than the color of their hair", when there's a whole ass stereotype that blond-haired women are by nature stupid and sexually promiscuous
#you can't just go 'no one is being bigoted/an asshole about this thing ever' because someone always IS. about things you never knew existed#i DO NOT begrudge anyone their escapist fantasy#it's just that TO ME PERSONALLY the insistence on queerness being really REALLY nothing special and exactly like straightness#makes for a very boring basement-level-stakes story OR runs away from worldbuilding#because okay let's say queerness isn't penalized/frowned upon in your 'verse. great. but does that also mean the humanity isn't concerned#with having children? because if your two sons are firmly gay and you are a king of a country then you have a problem.#do you just go eh c'est la vie my bloodline will end with them whatever?#you don't have to have side characters fling slurs at your protagonists to show that queerness is Not the same as heterosexuality#& for many their queerness is a huge aspect of their identity so insisting on making it inconsequent on purpose... robs you of your chance#to flesh out your characters#shrimp thoughts
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I've been playing persona with my bestie almost every single night since p3r came out and we just finished p5r last night and now I'm like. what's going to fill this arcana-based void in my heart. what else could possibly be the means by which all is revealed
#anyway royal was really fun. i played the regular persona 5 when it first came out and really liked it#but i loved the additions. maruki was great. LOOOOOVE what they did with goro 'gayboy' akechi#my little left handed freak#you KNOW he's unwell bc he wears an argyle sweater vest in fucking july. (i wore basically that exact outfit when i was 17 also in july)#ALSO my bestie GOT ME GOOD bc theyve played royal before and i havent and i was like.#hmm thought experiment time what would akechi's third persona be if he got one. bc i just assumed he wouldnt have one#since you do his social link way before the fact and also dont have opportunities to hang out with him other than darts and the jazz lounge#and they were like PERFECTLY ACTING like. hmm i dont know it would be so tough to do a better one than loki#and then february rolls around and BOOM gayboy gets his shiny new hereward guy and i was HOLLERING#i heard the like. special little tune and went OOOGUGGHGHGJ YOU FOOLED ME#it was great.#also sumire was great. i thought she was very cute.#anyway. there's no straight explanation for whatever the hell was going on between joker and akechi huh.#for a series that has soooo many problems with gay and trans characters they sure do make things gay as hell
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the KNT subreddit is an evil evil place this one poor person made a post like "what if ayane was gay?? i'm halfway through season 3 and thinking it" and everyone is downvoting them and shutting them down and the like 2 people who agreed are getting downvoted too...girl get on over to tumblr we've been saying this here for years!! these boring boring miserable homophobic unimaginative people don't get you but the real KNTheads do
#not to gatekeep but seeing anime-only fans dismissing an insanely popular read of a character that is#honestly pretty canon compliant despite not being actually canon#i'm going to need you to sit down...sit down at the back of the class...go to KNT school...get a KNT education...#someone is like ''i've only watched the anime but when you get to the end of season 3 you'll see why she can't be gay'' bitch#she BREAKS UP WITH KENTO because she's incapable of falling in love with him. do you know how silly you look rn. foolish#''i've only watched the anime'' yeah we can tell bc if you'd read the manga you would NOT think ayakento proved her straightness lmfao#personally i would never dismiss somebody's theory about a text if i hadn't even really read the material but that's just me#anyway to be clear. no shiina's intent wasn't to make her gay most likely however#it is pretty obvious that telling multiple female friends you'd hypothetically date them being incapable of loving any of the boys you do#date and eventually getting a ''crush'' on your unobtainable adult teacher is like#the gayest thing you can do. comphet lesbian 101. all very clearly supported by the text. okay goodnight
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mmm yeah i really don't want them to start adding canon sexualities to all the townies that'd be really fucking stupid
#like /i/ really don't care if you say a character's straight i'll just make them gay i've done it before i'll do it again#but it'd be annoying to fix it every time in cas in a panel i usually forget exists anyway#like who wants this#the sims is not like other games in that respect#it'd be like if they made a villareal mom canon after all these years (which i FEAR)#like. everyone's already made their headcanons and their interpretations. that's like the whole point of the game#anywayyyy i'm gonna go update and see what they've done lmao
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every time i so much as think about that scene where light looks at porn magazines while scowling i go into hysterics its genuinely the funniest thing i've ever seen
#the funniest thing is is that i truly believe he thought he was being 100% convincing. that that's normal behavior for a completely straight#completely allosexual man#light is fucking awful and i hate him but also there's nuance to him. and sometimes i can get a little like. oh thinking about his life#before the series. specifically factoring in my headcanons about him being gay aroace and autistic and stuff. ppl have written some rlly#good fics surrounding those topics.... but yeah thats not even canon stuff but i dont care#anyways its not in a way of making excuses for how he is i just think it adds more to his character#hes total garbage but i think theres really interesting stuff with him when it comes to how he's.... VERY disconnected from others#just in general. he's like aware of how to act ''normal'' on like the most textbook surface level without being like. Aware enough to#be able to make it more convincing. and as ridiculous as it is i do see some of myself in him in that sense#also that person who said light and L is just autistic guy who's been masking his entire life vs autistic guy who's never masked in his#entire life. LITERALLY EXACTLY. genuinely perfect way to describe them they are both so similar when it comes to this#but the ways they go about it are very different. light has been playing the part of the perfect son his whole life. L doesnt try to change#himself for anyone and doesnt care when people think hes weird. both of them arent very socially aware and havent had any real friends#their whole lives. its such a fascinating parallel between them#i could go on a whole fucking thing about how light was pretending to be someone he's not around his family and at school and everything#long before he got the death note BUT. i wont. at least not right now#jesus christ how did i go from laughing about him with the magazine to this. my bad#derailed my own damn post. idk swagever#will say rq tho. watched a vid on youtube that pointed out how light expected his family to think nothing of the fact that he's gone to#such drastic measures to hide his diary when making the plan with hiding the death note which is like#that level of dedication would NOT be normal. so the fact that light expects his family to think nothing of it......#i mean you could read that as light just once again being socially unaware. but it could also imply that light's family kind of Knows#he's hiding something and just doesn't address it. (he's gay. im talking about him being gay)#the video also referenced this comic that i didnt rb cause the actual premise of it (lawlight wedding) is um.#not at all my kind of thing. BUT it was light describing himself as a house with a basement when his family sees him as a one story house#and i thought that was such a cool analogy#ANYWAYYYSSSS i need to go to bed. thanks if you read my ramblings#serena.txt#death note posting#infizero.analysis
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Heyyyyy! Josh 9-1-1 is part of the gay couple who woosh Glenn real REAL hard in Superstore!
#also I fucking love the parody of straight people just NOT getting âââhintsâââ about characters being gay#and doing absolute mental gymnastics to make a clearly queercoded character straight instead of just going âah. gay.â#superstore#i remember this show being really good but its better and funnier than I remembered
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Ringleader (Fake) : I'm just so cute and tiny! Who can say! Ringleader (Real) : ...wait, he's not bisexual? Fake: what? Real: what?
#my characters#when you find out your married friend isnt bisexual after knowing him for a decade#and then you go back to the fact that it should explain a lot but it actually explains nothing#because why would a straight man always comment on how cute another guy is#and Real eventually has to ask the Husband are you really straight? and hes like Oh Absolutely. Why?#and then you are left with so many more questions as your friend is still talking about how funny it is#that no one thinks hes straight but how no one suspects his wife is bi and shes bi did you know she was bi shes wonderful and bi and still#chose to marry him hes so lucky he has such a wonderful wife haha#Real is now real stressed because no he actually assumed she was straight how bad is he at detecting this sorta thing#unrelated to ocs there is a coffee shop i go to and one of the workers likes to write me funny messages on my cups#and so today i was telling him (a trans guy) about going to lunch with my mom n dad#and when my mom and i were presented a side salad i got a sir and she got a maam#and im like its only worth mentioning bc that wasnt our waitress but some waiter#which continues the trend of im only whatever gender makes you gay its so cool#and he was telling me thats the goal in life to make everyone gay#and then he proceeded to write LITTLE FAIRY BOI with an eye emoji on my cup#and then he mentioned a worker starts next week who has my name and im like dang i admire that for the other person#and later realize FUCK i have a gender neutral name idk what gender the other one is#so i ask him and he tells me oh yeah he. hes just a guy. and then pauses before telling me#hes either in the community or an ally and hes not sure which#so now im v curious as to what this guy is like but i appreciate the humor of being called lil fairy boi bc of my salad story#and when i saw i had writing i was like OH OH yay whats my insult of the day#and the worker who handed me my cup waited for me to read it with a wary look but i beamed and go PERFECT! thats so fair!#like ive had a girl and a boy argue with each other (children mind you!) over whether i was a girl or a boy#the girl was convinced i was a girl whle the boy defended my boyhood as a fellow boy#its just always so funny to me that i really do just give off whatever pronouns of the person im talking to use vibes
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It started with a whisper ⼠(Patreon)
#Doodles#SCII#Damned#ZEX#Crackship#Xigbar#Of all the crackships that I didn't expect I probably wouldn't have expected these two the most lol#I super wasn't expecting to feel So strongly about them this is like multi-tier Big Feelings in varying directions#One - ZEX - obvious (lol) | Two - Xigbar (hehe II hehehe) - I think I mentioned it like maaaybe once over here but I was Huge into KH#Specifically Org XIII specifically-specifically 358/2 it is the only game in the Kingdom Hearts line that I've beaten and probably ever will#Oh no wait that's not true I did play through all of the DS release of Re:Coded but like......does that count lol I think no#I played the intro of Kingdom Hearts II and shut it off after the bit with Roxas and Sora like - the egg scene how do I non-spoilers this#I own it and I will never beat it I am too sad I want only my Nobodies lol <3#Kingdom Hearts had a big influence on me - that and Magic Knight Rayearth are a big explanation as to Why I'm Like This lol#Cough cough casting away the dark parts of your heart only for it to come back and bite you later and also The Gay⢠lol#But AnyWay lol - Xigbar!#He wasn't my favourite-favourite - aside from Main Characters that'd probably go to Marluxia - but I still hold him very fondly!!#Definitely doodled him a good bit he's very handsome âŞ#And just - ah ⼠An old fave and a new(er) fave interacting and making each other happy and feel nice and play well I just fsalkfdf#As well as that being Max's body! There's something heightening about all these different aspects that was just overwhelming to me haha <3#If it's not already obvious - yes this was the happy cries lol this is the only explanation I have haha#I feel very strongly about Them and Interactions and Feeling Nice and fjdslafsdf#Anyway! This isn't Just them! Just a lot haha âŞ#I have started a playlist lol - so far it's just this song - Everybody Talks - but some of the others from SCII playlist fit well too :)#The rest is just ZEX being cute hehe <3 ZEX not understanding what crying is is very interesting to me :3c No VUX equivalent?#Seems like they don't have the same kinds of chemicals like adrenaline et al so I guess a flushing system isn't as necessary! Interesting :D#ZEX fumbliness leading to him being a bit on the back foot is so cute hehe <3 He wants so loudly and openly but actually accomplishing it-#I also really like how he holds himself - all the tension through him to fight against new muscles and bone everything too alien!#I imagine his hands as being very rigid and all the fingers pulled together straight but that could just be how he describes bones hehe#Alien in there <3 Plenty to read into :3c
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Y'know, there's this gripe I've had for years that really frustrates me, and it has to do with Love, Simon and people joking about it and calling it too-pg and designed-for-straight-people and all the like. (A similar thing has happened to Heartstopper, but that's another conversation.)
I saw Love, Simon in theaters when it came out my senior year in high school. I saw it three times, once with my friends/parents on opening night, once with my brother over spring break, and once with my grandparents.
On opening night, the air in the room was electric. It was palpable. Half the heads in there were dyed various colors. Queer kids were holding hands. We were all crying and laughing and cheering as a group. My friends grabbed my hands at the part where Simon was outed and didn't let go until his parents were saying that they accepted him. My friend came out to me as non-binary. Another person in our group admitted that she had feelings for girls. It was incredible. I left shaking. This was the first mainstream queer romance movie that had ever been produced by one of the main five studios, and I know that sounds like another "first queer character from Disney" bit but you have to understand that even in 2018 this was groundbreaking. Getting to have a sweet queer rom-com where the main character was told that he got "to breathe now" after coming out meant so much to me and my friends.
But also, from a designed-for-straight-people POV (which, to be frank, it was written by a bisexual author and directed by a gay man, this was not designed for straight audiences), why is it a bad thing that it appealed to the widest possible audience? That it could make my parents and grandparents see things in a new light? My stepdad wasn't at all interested in rom-coms but he saw it with me because it was something I cared about and he hugged me when we came out of the theater. My very Catholic grandparents watched it with me and though my grandpa said he still didn't quite understand the whole 'gay thing,' all he wanted was for me to be happy and to have a happy ending like Simon did. My Nana actually cried when Simon came out and squeeze my hand when his mother told him he could breathe.
And when Martin blackmailed Simon, my mom, badass ally that she is, literally hissed "Dropkick him. Dropkick him in the balls" leading to multiple queer kids in the audience to laugh or smile. Having my parents there- the only parents, by the way, out of my group of queer and questioning friends- made multiple people realize that supportive adults were out there. That parents like those in Love, Simon do exist in real life.
When people complain about Heartstopper not being realistic or Love, Simon being too cutesy, I remember seeing Love, Simon on opening night. I remember my friend coming out and my stepdad hugging me and my mom defending us through this character. I remember the cheers that went through the audience when Bram and Simon kissed and the chatter in the foyer after the movie was over and the way that this movie made me understand that happy endings do exist.
Queer kids need happy endings. Straight people need entry points to becoming allies. Both of these things can come together in beautiful ways. They can find out about more queer culture later, but for now, let them have this. Let them all have a glimpse at a better, happier world. Let them have queer joy.
#love simon#simon vs thsa#simon spier#spierfeld#bram greenfeld#my experiences#meta#the importance of queer joy#heartstopper#becky albertalli#my mom also watched rwrb with me last year when it premiered#and let me tell you that was interesting sitting in the room with her for an r-rated romance movie like that
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When youâre being petty over something completely nonconsiquential and just see other people showing their dislike for inconsequential thing but like FOR THE WRONG REASONS. Like no youâre âhot takeâ is absolutely lame and does nothing and I find no comradery in knowing Iâm not the only one who feels the same way from this because you donât like it FOR STUPID REASONS and that thing that youâre saying is better? ALSO BAD FOR THE EXACT SAME REASON I SPIT ON YOUR âHOT TAKEâ NOW GO DRINK A GLASS OF WARM MILK AND CALL IT SPICY
#vent#mini rant#this really is just something small and stupid completely inconsequential#but damnit if I don't love complaining about small shit that makes me petty#and I will go OFF about how low effort and absolutely lazy some fandom 'takes' are like no#I do not care if a character's canonly gay or straight I'm on another level of this discussion
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