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"Autism Advocate Apparel: 'Autism Dad - His Fight Is My Fight' Design"
Dads on Duty: Standing Strong in the Fight for Autism
For dads of autistic children, the phrase "His fight is my fight" takes on a powerful meaning. It's a declaration of unwavering love, support, and fierce advocacy for their sons.
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These dads are the:
Strong and Silent Pillars: They provide a rock-solid foundation of love and stability, a safe space where their children can thrive.
Tireless Champions: They advocate for their children's needs, navigating therapies, educational systems, and social challenges.
Playful Partners in Crime: From building epic Lego creations to backyard superhero battles, they create lasting memories and foster joy.
This fight isn't just about overcoming challenges; it's about celebrating victories. It's the pride in seeing their child master a new skill, the joy of shared laughter, and the unwavering belief in their child's potential.
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Dads with autistic children are more than just fathers; they're heroes, advocates, and champions. They stand shoulder-to-shoulder with their sons, walking the path of autism together, one step at a time.
This description can be used for various purposes:
Product Description: Highlight products designed for dads supporting autistic children (e.g., sensory fidget toys, autism awareness t-shirts).
Social Media Caption: Share your story or the story of an amazing dad you know.
Blog Post Introduction: Discuss the unique role dads play in the lives of autistic children.
The puzzle piece: A symbol of autism sparking mixed emotions.
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Diversity Represented: Like a puzzle with many pieces, it reflects the vast spectrum of autism experiences, with each individual possessing unique strengths and challenges.
Complexity Acknowledged: It highlights the intricate nature of autism, a complex condition with varying presentations.
However, some within the autistic community view the puzzle piece as suggesting they are incomplete or need to be "solved." This has led to a growing preference for alternative symbols, like the infinity rainbow, which celebrates neurodiversity.
Regardless of the symbol used, promoting understanding and inclusivity for autistic individuals is the most important goal.
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Words of Strength: Inspiring Quotes by Autism Parents
Raising a child with autism comes with unique challenges and immense rewards. Here are some powerful quotes that capture the spirit of autism parents:
"The world needs all kinds of minds." - Unknown
"We may not have it all together, but together we have it all." - Anonymous
"Autism doesn't define our family, it refines it." - Unknown
These quotes showcase the resilience, unwavering love, and acceptance that define autism parents. They inspire others and celebrate the beautiful journey of raising an autistic child.
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Why does everything I see about autism for parents or children? There’s this facebook page I like called Mrs Speechie P (who you’ve probably seen before), and she has great information. But it’s all for kids. I messaged her about this and she explained that she worked with children. But helping people who are adults that have been diagnosed (or self diagnosed) is just as important as helping kids. We need support too.
Say it with me everyone:
AUTISM. 👏AFFECTS. 👏ADULTS. 👏TOO.
#autism#actually autistic#rant#why can’t adults have support#it looks like all people care about are parents and their kids#we need support as much as they do#advocacy#adults have autism too#I guess that’s too hard to understand for some people#feel free to share/reblog
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Thought I’d talk about my care today since a lot of people don’t talk about care they get from families and outside sources.
I am completely cared by my family. They 100% care for me in every way.
My siblings and parents take care of everything for me. From making meals, to making sure I’m safe, making sure I’m bathed, to making sure I’m handling everything correctly and just generally comfortable.
My family is not my caregivers though, and they make that very clear. They do not want the title of being my caregiver. Does that mean they do things that a caregiver would do? Yes. However, I will not force that title upon them if they do not want it. And I will not force them to act as my caregivers either.
My mother is especially the one to thank. She goes to every doctor appointment, every big outing, everything. She takes care of me in every way and I am extremely grateful for that. I get care that I like to call “support needs care” that means that they do what I can’t, and I do what I can. And that’s how it works.
Will I need a part time caregiver from the state in the future? Probably. And if I wasn’t leaving for a college program in April then I would be in the process of getting one. But I’m not at the moment.
Talking about care that autistic people get is so important, and talking about what they do is so important. They are here for me. They advocate for me when I cannot. They help me with so much, and they deserve recognition for that. Caregivers and parents are a vital part of the autism community. Do they overstep sometimes? Yes. But that doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t be talked about. Not talking about them leaves out a big part of the community, and leaves out a big part of higher support needs people. Our caregivers and parents are vital parts to us. They are vital parts to our lives.
Caregivers and parents do things that people couldn’t even imagine. And everyday it’s a battle for them. This is not a “boo hoo, poor caregivers and parents” post. This is a post bringing awareness to something that is vital to a lot of peoples lives.
Recognize caregivers and parents. Recognize what they do. Listen to them. Listen to the people they are caring for.
#zebrambles#long post#autism#actually autism#medium support needs#actually autistic#autistic#caregivers#caregiver#autism caregiver#autism parent
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Having undiagnosed autistic parents is a double edged sword, because on one hand they understand your experience intimately even if they can’t explain it, set up your life in a structured way with lots of margins, and assure you that you are not broken or defective for who you are because they’re the same way, but at the same time they also expect you to just ‘suck it up’ and push forward in a hostile neurotypical world because they had to do it too, and dismiss your concerns with ‘that’s just how our family is.’
#since my diagnosis they’ve become a lot more educated though!#I’m really quite lucky to have such supportive parents#but they do have certain ‘blindspots’ in a way#actually autistic#autistic experiences#autistic#neurodivergent#autism#autistic things#asd#late diagnosed autism#late diagnosed autistic#late diagnosis#undiagnosed autistic
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Honestly as somebody who has friends who are going through so much more than me esp in their home lives I extremely get Fabian because it’s like yeah it isn’t perfect but it’s a million times better than what they have to deal with so like you just kinda have to be grateful for what you have and try not to complain yknow
#fhjy spoilers#kinda a little bit in the tags#it’s 1 am so I’m having fabian aramais seacaster thoughts again#but yeah it’s like you want to be upset over the bad things but they seem so much smaller compared to everyone else’s so it just kinda#gets brushed away so nobody really notices that you are actually struggling to keep it all up#like bro was captain of the bloodrush team top of most of his classes most popular kid in school (and that took effort!) and saving the worl#all with no parents around to support him and a god that is based off of stress and rage looming over them#I think a majority of people would crack honestly#anyways thoughts over that’s all folks#autism (mads) speaks#fantasy high#fhjy#fabian aramais seacaster#fantasy high junior year#fabian seacaster#d20 fantasy high#dimension 20 fantasy high
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It's interesting that in the whole process of starting university, moving cities and beginning to live on my own with all that entails the ONLY thing that has required my parents' contact information specifically is the disability accommodation application. Almost as if they don't consider disabled people to be adults or something.
Don't get me wrong, it's great that the OPTION exists, cause I'm sure there are disabled people that need/prefer to have their parents involved in the process but it was not possible to exclude them from it, which at least i feel is kinda ableist?
#like even the emergency psychiatry at the hospital i had to go to a couple of weeks ago only asked for an additional person close to me to#contact in case they couldn't get a hold of me#i chose to put my dad because I don't know anyone in this town yet#and my parents are still a big part of my support network#but that's not the case for everyone#and it's kinda fucked up that they assume that#disabilty#ableism tw#ableism#mental illness#autism
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WE GOT THE KEYS TO THE BEACH HOUSE BABY
#WE ARE SO BACK#my friend's parents love me and said i could visit any time so ????!??! they gave miffy the keys and told her to bring me 'whenever i want'#holy shit i need a moped or something so i can go alone and chill by the water#it's a 4ish hour drive so we probs will wait to go on special occasions but if i was in possession of them#i would be there right now sitting on the top bunk in the 3rd guest room holy shit#im so happy her family likes me#T^T#my surrogate mom and autistic dad lmao#they are so sweet and cool and im honored to be their fake son#well like we watched christmas movies and made food and went to see lights i think im actually their son now<3333#plus they are like really supportive on like me being trans#also apparently (friend) dad got drunk the other day and was telling my bestie that he really likes talking about stars and space w me#they specifically gave her the keys to the beach house bc they saw how happy i was when i was there i love my second mom and dad so much <3#anyway#if i drop off the face of the earth in the future it's bc im in the ocean trying to swim to uh well...#also *dad when i met him for the first time when we stayed there for thanksgiving just got diagnosed w autism and like would only talk to m#which was fine bc i get it bro im here for you; but he was like so happy to have someone who understood him#and i was happy to be w someone who also got it#and her mom was also really sweet ah#i love the whole fame miffy's bf included; they make me feel so loved and taken care of#i ah; sometimes i dont think i deserve this kind of love and then! people go out of their way to prove me wrong
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Looking back at Girl Meets World, it will forever irritate me especially for how they handled/treated Angela. Oh this show really hated black women because how do you not only 1.) describe her, one of (correct me if I'm wrong) only few black and MAIN characters of the og show, as a "concept" 2.) have characters show obvious disgust at the small mention of her name 3.) depict her as a homewrecker for a new relationship that, really, shouldn't have ever happened 4.) have her old friends treat her like dirt and her old lover like she is the root of his problems, when there was nothing but positive love there 5.) reuse all the concepts from said previous love story just to elevate the new ship with a yte woman and 6.) compare her to Hurricane Katrina, one of the deadliest hurricanes that caused significant numbers of death, harm, misplacement, and trauma to people, largely of whom were black? Mind you, all these points I mentioned were toward the only main black character of the OG show before the spinoff, and the only, from what I can remember, black female character of the spinoff who didn't even stay long. Not even getting into the racist drama with some of the members on set, but you cannot look me in the eye and tell me that the way the show handled Angela, her story, and her relationship with the other characters + Shawn wasn't fucking disrespectful, you can't because I won't believe you.
#boy meets world#girl meets world#like this show had so many issues (from its depiction of autism to religious intolerance to supporting grooming)#but this was a whole other level#it was especially hurtful as a young black girl to see growing bc i really tried to like this show with its lacking diversity#but coming from watching bmw to this a show from the 90s that depicted a black character better than a 2010s show- u get my point#and its so wrong bc it depicts angela as being the one to end the relationship when all she said in bmw how she#didn't want to see her leaving as a goodbye and there was ambiguous hope for the future#also shoving shawn to be with maya's mom was really unnecessary#not only bc of how it depicted being raised in a single parent household so negatively#but that the only way to solve maya's problems was for her...to have a dad? like that really isn't how it works#i blissfully live in the delulu where angela and shawn came back together once she left europe and he eventually married her#after they graduated college and have a beautiful family together#shawn x angela#don't even get me started on how whenever there was a guest cameo it was met audience applause and happy reactions#but when it was for angela: crickets 😬#back to maya- i feel like it would have been better for her story if shawn didn't marry her mother (and was with angela) and u would see her#hope and wish for the opposite to where it nearly consumes her only to finally be sat down and informed that#even if shawn isn't with your mom he'll still be in your life as a father figure no matter what#i personally feel like that would've been better#but this is largely just s rant so forgive the structure of it al
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autism culture is being level 1 autie and not taken seriously.
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#this is so relatable though#a big reason my parents didnt think i had autism#autism culture#autism#autism spectrum disorder#autistic#neurodivergent#neurodiversity#actually autistic#asd#autistic things#asd culture#level 1 autism#low support needs#nd
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My aunt decided a good way to wish me a happy birthday would be to text me a picture of me & my dead dad from my 22nd birthday.
Like yay thanks, I totally wanted to be sad and missing my dad on my birthday. I definitely wasn't trying to do the "out of sight out of mind don't think about sad things" thing to get through it without crying or anything 👍 Definitely wasn't already struggling missing not getting a happy birthday text from him 👍👍
#and like I get that her intentions were good but i find it SO rude#why would you bring up something heart wrenchingly sad to someone on their birthday? Unless they've indicated to you that they want that#it wasn't even like it was a new picture/one she could reasonably believe I hadn't seen before#we literally used a cropped version of that exact photo for his obituary#she has done something similar with EVERY SINGLE holiday since he died#fathers day & his birthday & thanksgiving & christmas all of them we got texts like “i know how hard today must be!”#like uh no i was doing fine til I got your text actually cuz I was blocking it all out & now your text has forced me to think about it#we're not even that close? Like she legit had never texted me before my dad died#and the last conversation I had with her was her telling me that me needing help with things was co-dependence#rather than a legit need because I am disabled#and that keeping my curtains closed all the time was unhealthy#and when I tried to explain sensory issues she said that she 'gets headaches from the sun sometimes too but you just have to power through'#as if that's the same thing as sensory issues from autism#(which she is apparently an expert on because she is a nurse and has worked with a few young boys with autism)#like literally she claimed she knew better than my actual doctor who diagnoses autism for a living#or my therapist who sees me twice a week (whereas i speak to my aunt MAYBE once a year)#oh also did you know that I should totally be able to hold down a full time job?#because the 18 year old autistic boy she knows whose parents do literally everything to support him and who has zero other responsibilities#and a huge support network trying to meet his needs#well HE'S able to work part time at the movie theater#so obviously that means that I should be able to work too because we're all the same#yeah anyway sorry rant over#it just really upset me#also because I was so upset I forgot I wanted to go to the park on my way home from the weed store 😔#beth posts
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My support needs are not being met living with my parents. I’m not homeless anymore and they took me back. But they still treat me as non disabled for the most part, which just sets me up to fail. They expect me to be fully speaking and I just can’t measure up.
#actually autistic#low support needs#medium support needs#autism#ableism#ableist tw#developmentalal disability#parents#tw parents#semispeaking#semiverbal#aac user
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"His Voice for Autism: Personalized Notebook for Tracking Goals and Progress"
"His Voice Autism Awareness" likely refers to an initiative or organization dedicated to raising awareness about autism from a male perspective. This focus is significant because autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is often diagnosed more frequently in boys than in girls, though research suggests this may be due to differences in how autism presents across genders.
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The phrase emphasizes the importance of hearing and understanding the experiences of individuals with autism, particularly males, in their own words. It suggests a platform where men and boys with autism can share their stories, challenges, and triumphs, providing insight into their unique perspectives and needs.
This initiative might involve various activities such as public speaking events, social media campaigns, educational programs, or support groups. The goal would be to increase understanding of autism, reduce stigma, and promote acceptance and inclusion.
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By highlighting "His Voice," the program likely aims to address specific issues that males with autism face, such as social expectations, communication challenges, and navigating relationships. It may also focus on providing role models and mentorship opportunities for younger boys on the spectrum.
This approach to autism awareness underscores the importance of first-hand accounts in shaping public perception and policy regarding neurodiversity.
An "Autism Mom Quote" typically refers to a short, powerful statement that encapsulates the experience, emotions, or perspective of a mother raising a child with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). These quotes often reflect the unique challenges, joys, and insights gained from parenting a child on the autism spectrum.
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Such quotes might express unconditional love, advocate for acceptance, or highlight the strength required in their role. They can be inspiring, educational, or simply honest reflections of daily life. Autism mom quotes often serve to raise awareness, provide support to other parents in similar situations, and challenge societal misconceptions about autism.
These quotes are frequently shared on social media, printed on t-shirts, or used in awareness campaigns to foster understanding and empathy.
Autism Parent Quotes are concise, impactful statements that capture the experiences, emotions, and insights of parents raising children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). These quotes often reflect a range of sentiments, from the challenges and triumphs of daily life to profound realizations about love, patience, and neurodiversity.
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They serve multiple purposes: offering support and validation to other autism parents, educating the public about the realities of autism, and advocating for acceptance and understanding. These quotes frequently appear on social media, in support groups, on merchandise, and in awareness campaigns, helping to build community and foster empathy among both autism families and the broader public.
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i'm autistic and i'm disabled by it. it took me half a lifetime to learn skills that i had been dependent to my parents for. the only reason i had to suffer through learning them is because my parents withdrew support. my mom did help sometimes, but my dad actively forced me into situations he knew would cause me meltdowns and panic attacks. i was severely agoraphobic because of it. i had to learn to survive, and the skills are still very surface level. if something unexpected happens, i don't know how to deal with it. which makes me anxious/confused at best, and throws me into hyperventilating panic at worst.
yes. the ableism and abuse disabled me. it made things harder. but in a world where i was just given the support i needed, i would still be disabled as an autistic person. because i still wouldn't have the skills. i would still have limits. i would just be healthier, happier, and safer. and i deserve that. all autistic people do, regardless of disability status.
#softspoonie#disabled#disability#autistic#autism#autistic experiences#autistic community#autism spectrum#autistic spectrum#actually autism#actually autistic#neurodivergent#ableism#abuse#child abuse#abusive parents#emotional abuse#anxiety#agoraphobia#medium support needs#high support needs#medium high support needs#i dont consider myself high support needs but im medium-high so
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When I would draw furries at like age 7, my mom would be so proud of them that she’d show them off to her workmates
It’s nice to have parents that aren’t embarrassed of my interests. In fact, she always supplies my interest by buying me stuff and accessories. Her support was a big reason I was comfortable dressing scene when people made fun of it at the time.
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I love making up and acting out my silly little scenarios in my head. I know nobody’s going to tell me on my birthday that as my present they’ll pay for my first appointment of gender-affirming healthcare, but I now know exactly how I’d react if they did!
#for the last three or four years every time it’s near christmas or my birthday I’ve had daydreams that my parents will give me a present#that contains a piece of paper saying that they accept me as their son and support me in my transition#and will use the correct name and pronouns from here on out and not complain about it#trans yearning#transgender#lgbt#i have to be prepared for every scenario no matter how unrealistic#autism moment#autism#actually autistic#trans
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Can't stop think about how I brought up using an aac device to my mom ( I started explaining using an aac app particularly not the device itself before she said this) and she straight said it would make me worse and then tried to say she knows for a fact because she is a medical professional (she is but still wtf) and said "if you have to use a notepad , anyway you are fine , you talk fine stop trying to add more stuff onto it" I'm not "adding" anything wtf and I don't talk fine , most times I struggle to speck and get overwhelmed from talking a lot ..she has a thing where she doesn't want me to "look disabled" but seriously why do you want me to not use what I need ..I even confided in her that I was nervous to use aac because I would be worried the device would be annoying to people and she laughed and said "yeah , it would be annoying" .. she 100% used to me just forcing myself through pain/ignoring my pain and ignoring my needs to make things easier for her (which obviously causes some serious issues)
#vent#ableism#ableist parents#ableist nonsense#actually autistic#actuallyautistic#neurodivergent#actually neurodivergent#actually autism#disabled#medium support needs
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