#Adult autism gifts

[noisycowboyglitter]

Wheelchair Accessibility in Adult Entertainment: Lapdance with Stripper

Content warning: This description contains references to adult themes and activities.

A "Wheelchair Handicap Lapdance With Stripper" refers to an adult entertainment service adapted for individuals with mobility disabilities. This concept challenges traditional notions of sexuality and disability, promoting inclusivity in adult entertainment.

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In this scenario, a professional stripper or exotic dancer performs a lapdance for a client who uses a wheelchair. The performance is tailored to accommodate the client's physical needs and limitations, ensuring a comfortable and enjoyable experience.

The dancer may modify traditional lapdance techniques, focusing on upper body movements, facial expressions, and sensual touching that doesn't require the client to stand or move extensively. They might use the wheelchair as part of the performance, incorporating it into their routine creatively and respectfully.

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This service recognizes that people with disabilities have sexual desires and deserve access to adult entertainment, just like anyone else. It promotes body positivity and sexual expression for all, regardless of physical ability.

However, it's crucial to note that such services should always prioritize consent, respect, and professionalism. The comfort and boundaries of both the client and the performer must be maintained throughout the interaction.

This concept also raises awareness about the intersection of disability and sexuality, challenging societal taboos and encouraging more open discussions about diverse sexual experiences and needs.

As with any adult entertainment service, it's important that all parties involved are consenting adults and that the activity takes place in a legal and regulated environment.

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Autism gifts for adults focus on items that cater to the unique needs and interests of individuals on the autism spectrum. Sensory-oriented gifts are often appreciated, such as weighted blankets, textured fidget toys, or noise-cancelling headphones to help manage sensory sensitivities.

Many autistic adults enjoy items related to their special interests, so personalized gifts in these areas can be particularly meaningful. This could include books, collectibles, or specialized equipment related to their passions.

Organizational tools like planners, visual schedules, or time management apps can be helpful for those who struggle with executive functioning. Comfort items such as soft clothing, compression garments, or calming scents may also be welcome.

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For social support, consider social stories or communication aids. Tech gadgets, especially those that assist with daily living or provide engaging sensory experiences, are often well-received.

Remember, autism presents differently in each individual, so the best gifts will be tailored to the specific person's needs and preferences.

[adhdxxsdiary]

[theunderscorenoodle]

The way that if you're smart enough as a kid, you can accidentally convince every medical and educational professional that you'll never need support for anything ever, even when you grow up and are mentally collapsing!

:D

[liquid-mercury-in-alive-form]

There's so much infighting in the queer and neurodivergent communities

The title, really.

I don't really feel like I will ever be supported by anyone in the LGBTQ community or neurodiversity community - and I have a ton of diagnoses.

Instead of uplifting each other, people are finding ways to put each other down and measure who is truly oppressed enough to access these precious services.

I think really it's beyond repair. I don't know how to use the correct language to describe these issues, and I know someone will come at me for using wrong terms or something, but if anything that's further the proof for me that the community is not cohesive and is not as able to fight for equality as I hoped it was.

I know this might sound like "I'm not like other girls, I hang out with boys because there's less drama" trope, but I noticed that cis (accepting!) people are actually more tolerant of me than fellow queer and neurodivergent people, because they're not as familiar with intricacies. Like someone cis who accepts being gifted and autistic would just see a smart although weird trans girl. However in the community there's just sooo much infighting and picking which oppression is more valid than which, who is "TME" or "TMA", who is actually physically or actually mentally abled, who is level 23895235890 or who gets to have which accommodation, why is this term problematic or exclusionary, etc, etc. Meanwhile accepting people will just listen.

(This being said, if this worldview is queerphobic and ableist in the same way "boys have less drama" is misogynist, i'd be happy to learn why).

Tags are only for outreach and do not necessarily represent my opinions

[nmuppetsinatrenchcoat]

learning through experience:

it's okay to wear your noise cancelling headphones in public.

[bbviiwg]

Doubts

[genekies]

I'm autistic and off-putting, but the hoes love it

[69constellationsinatrenchcoat]

// slight vent post //

Me, as a child, reading everything I can on how to interact with people and studying fictional protagonists intentently: "I will learn to interact!! I'll figure it out!!, just like I learned to cook!! These books will help me"

Also me: "learn! yeah! Social skills are learnt and totally not inherent skills that most people can't just do!! Hahaha, why does everyone do it so effortlessly.. wait.. wh- Why do you tease me.. what's wrong with me... wh- I did everything like the books said... I showed you the popular character- I took traits from popular book characters... Why..why am I falling behind... wait...why..why am I weird.. what do wrong.. wait... please... please... guys?"

...how did I stay undiagnosed autistic for 16 years?

[theplushfrog]

so you know those "gratuity journals" and "gratuity meditations" that are very popular among influencers?

I HATE them.

I've never been able to pin point while until lately when listening to the song All-American Bitch by Olivia Rodrigo. The song is a kind of parody/satire about being an American woman and all the conflicting sexist values imposed on you.

The song ends with her softly singing "All the time, I'm grateful all the time" and has a line in the background saying "all the fucking time" underlining how much bullshit these expectations are.

Before this, I thought maybe gratuity was just a practice that didn't jive with me personally, but when I thought about the expectation of gratuity, I started to understand why I disliked it so much.

See, does anyone else remember the posts about The Giving Tree and The Rainbow Fish and how they related to common gifted kid experiences?

As a "gifted kid" (likely just a bookish autistic kid tbh), I loved The Rainbow Fish, but not the story. Just the fish itself. I hated the story with a burning passion. Same with The Giving Tree. I related HARD to both the Tree and the Fish.

I know both books are ideally meant to teach about generosity and sharing, but as a tiny child marked as a"gifted kid", those stories taught me that people will ask of me for everything special I have until I am nothing else but a stump in the ground. And then they'll continue to use me to suit their needs, without respect for mine. They'll take all of my scales (parts of my body even) and leave me with nothing for myself.

I remember growing up Catholic and being told to be grateful to God for everything. Literally everything. Not only grateful to him for the sun in the sky, but grateful too for the A+ on my paper and for learning to ride my bike without training wheels. My own accomplishments weren't even mine, they were God's, apparently.

Told from every angle that people (even deities) were hungry to take what I worked hard for, to take every little thing that was special about me and hoard it for themselves. It's no wonder I hate being told to be grateful.

Fuck you, -I- did the work, it was MY blood, sweat, and tears that got me to the place I am today. I don't need to be grateful. I need to be PROUD.

For me, as a perfectionist and someone with low self-esteem, being proud of myself and my work, that is self-care.

It may not be that way for everyone. But for me, I worked hard to even be able to be proud of myself.

[im-a-lil-bitch-boi]

my mom: ur not autistic, stop

also her: describes aspects of my childhood that r v obvious signs of autism

[noisycowboyglitter]

Weaponized Autism Product: The Perfect Blend of 80s & 90s Vaporwave Aesthetics

"Weaponized Autism Product 80s & 90s Vaporwave Style" is a provocative concept that blends internet culture, neurodiversity advocacy, and retro aesthetics. This fusion creates a unique visual and thematic experience that's both nostalgic and subversive.

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The term "weaponized autism" originated in internet subcultures, referencing the intense focus and pattern recognition abilities often associated with autism spectrum disorders. When applied to product design, it suggests harnessing these traits for creative or analytical purposes.

The 80s and 90s influence evokes a sense of nostalgia, drawing on the bold colors, geometric patterns, and digital aesthetics of that era. This could manifest in neon hues, pixelated graphics, and retro tech imagery.

Vaporwave, an art movement and music genre born in the early 2010s, recontextualizes 80s and 90s pop culture, often with a surreal or ironic twist. It typically features pastel colors, Roman busts, tropical imagery, and glitch art effects.

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Combining these elements, a "Weaponized Autism Product" in this style might feature:

Bright, clashing colors reminiscent of 80s fashion

Glitchy, distorted imagery of vintage computers or game consoles

Retrofuturistic depictions of the brain or neural networks

Ironic use of outdated internet symbols or early web graphics

Text in quirky fonts, possibly featuring autism-related slogans or memes

This concept challenges conventional representations of autism while celebrating the unique perspectives and abilities associated with neurodiversity, all wrapped in a package of nostalgic cool.

Gifts for autistic adults should be thoughtful and tailored to their individual interests and sensory preferences. Consider items that cater to their specific passions or hobbies, as many autistic individuals have intense, focused interests.

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Sensory-friendly items like weighted blankets, noise-cancelling headphones, or fidget toys can provide comfort and help with sensory regulation. For those who enjoy tactile stimulation, consider textured objects or stress balls.

Books or resources related to their special interests can be greatly appreciated. Tech gadgets, especially those that aid in organization or communication, can be practical and enjoyable.

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For creative individuals, art supplies or musical instruments might be perfect. Some autistic adults may appreciate gifts that help with daily living, such as planners, timers, or apps for routine management.

Remember, autism presents differently in each person, so the best gift will depend on the individual's unique traits and preferences.

[valkerymillenia]

Finally had the appointment with the psychiatric specialist. Had to get up at 6am and go to a whole other city but I got it.

He was a guy (not the actual doctor I was supposed to see because she's on medical sabbatical). And he was nice but I am awkward with strangers and there were some things... Look, I just hate medical gender bias and there was a little here.

But most of all, there was... Some ableism?

Don't get me wrong, he was good and proper and did his job, he was also nice (and very young), but I was there for an ADHD and autism screening so I could have an official documented diagnosis and, well, there was quite a bit of gender bias about these disorders... And a significant amount of unconscious ableism too.

I'm already being treated for these things but my current doctors (psychiatrist, psychologist, and GP) don't have expertise in this area because these disorders aren't usually diagnosed in adulthood and that is their field, and this guy is the "expert" so we need his stamp on the matter just to dot the i's.

Turns out we didn't have enough time for all the tests because someone messed up and scheduled this as a follow-up appointment instead of an assessment but we made do. Here's my problem though: he only wanted to focus on the ADHD.

Also, he ignored a lot of details I was trying to put on the table but I might be reading too much into this.

According to him, yes, I definitely have ADHD and it's good that I'm already testing the medication for it but he wants to see what else he can do and if he can fix the side effects, but we didn't really have enough time for a full evaluation so he sent me home with a bunch of written tests to take so he can check them next month and have a more concise idea of my issues.

He also cut some of the older medication I had that is now obsolete with the new stuff.

I'm fine with all that. Grateful even.

But I wanted to talk about the autism diagnosis, I've been trying to approach this with doctors for years, I've desperate to be heard ever since I learned just how strongly the symptoms applied to me every since I was born, I'm been desperate ever since I discovered the gender bias in diagnosing females, I did so much research and talked to other autistic people and associations that gave emotional support, but the doctors keep brushing it off, not because they don't agree but because they literally don't want to talk about autism in general, they don't even wasn't to explain why they don't want to talk about it, the stigma is just too big.

Eventually, this is what this doc said:

"Look, autism is a spectrum and all so it's complicated. You definitely have serious autistic traits for sure but I don't think we should test you for it, there's no point because you're an adult and you've already learned coping mechanisms and masking the hard way, you struggled a lot but you're here, there's really not much else we can do help with and not much treatment we can give for this so why saddle you with a bad label?"

Like, it's so ableist. He totally missed the point? I told him I don't really care about what treatment they can give me, I just want confirmation because:

1. there's safety in labels, much more comforting to know I'm normal zebra and not a failed horse,

2. having the diagnosis gives me access to more information and a better ability to find good coping mechanisms and helpful tools for my daily life,

3. having the diagnosis allows me to find community and get mutual help and support without judgement,

4. having an official diagnosis helps me get certain amenities (or at least understanding) to make my life easier, be it with work or family life, even with social security or at certain events,

5. and finally, just because I survived my childhood without a label and found a way to blend in with neurotypicals doesn't mean that's a good thing (I was horribly bullied and abused for a reason), it doesn't mean that I'm currently happy pretending to be what society expects, doesn't mean it's not fucking exhausting, doesn't mean I don't deserve validation for my struggles.

But noooo, his whole focus was on "we can't medicate to FIX it so why bother" and on "what people would think of you if you had that label".

Bitch, I don't care about either of those, I don't care what people think of me, I care what I think of me, and autistic is not a slur, contrary to what people in this country seem to think! I just want to understand myself and my own struggles, and whenever I get harassed for being different I want to be able to defend myself with this knowledge.

For fucks sake, just test me and show some support!

I stg the doctors in this country are so scared of the word "autism", it's insulting.

[piflnoso]

i am now just about Done with my ADHD and Autism, anyone else want a turn?

[borom1r]

I could do child me proud and finally finish the hobbit. but that is a commitment I don’t think I’m willing to make

[loganofthenorth]

Reblog this and tag mutuals if you want to tell them about a Fantasy Adventure book with LGBTQ+ and Disability Representation!

(More info in my bio)

[lumine-no-hikari]

THIS. Fucking...!!!

Being "gifted" ain't all it's cracked up to be. And what they also don't talk about is how absolutely fucking isolating it is.

I scored ridiculously high on all the standardized tests (like, nationwide 96th percentile). Maintaining near-perfect marks in school was effortless for me. I never had to study. I took the SAT in 6th grade, and I didn't have to study for that, either. I have a brain that just knows what to do with factual information. And maybe this sounds like some kinda superpower, but... it's really, really not.

Meanwhile, all my peers were struggling with algebra. And like. There's nothing overly special about taking the SAT so soon. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with struggling with algebra!! But there IS something wrong with being the only one in your middle/high school who doesn't, and everyone is mad at you because you don't struggle like they do, and so they decide the thing to do is bully you, even though you'd happily help them if only you knew how to speak like a Normal Person™, but no wait, you fucken can't because in addition to being autistic, you grew up in an abusive house where you'll get smacked around if you speak out of turn, and so you've learned to be afraid of speaking at all, and everyone mistakes that for you thinking you're too good for them or some shit. 🙄

All it's ever done is isolate me and make it less likely that I'll be able to relate to other people. I process information differently than Normal People™, and what this translates to is near constant miscommunications, and me trying to talk about some concept or pattern that they just. can't. fucking. see. And then they look at me like I've suddenly sprouted like half a dozen heads, and they back away slowly because they think I'm either bullshitting them or I'm off my fucken rocker. And who knows... maybe I am off my fucken rocker by now; I've got 34 years of living in a world that thinks that people like me ain't worth shit.

So like. Whoop-dee-fricken-doo, I'm good at playing fetch on the standardized tests, I'm lightning-fast at identifying patterns and putting them to good use, and I can quickly and efficiently put together factual information in logical ways that allow me to learn and to synthesize new information faster than ordinary, but like...

Being able to do any of that has no practical applications if you're not a white neurotypical man. Because like... even if you get the right answer, right? Even if you're ahead of the "curve", you still have to overcome the hurdle that is being taken seriously in a world that doesn't value you because you weren't born with the correct body/neurotype for people to imagine that your mind is worth anyfuckenthing. I see patterns and warn people about them and I'm right 9.9 times out of 10, but then they turn around and tell me that even broken fucken clocks are right twice a day, and... the whole thing is a very Cassandrean Task.

And also... there's lots and lots and LOTS of stuff that I can't do. Because like... socially I'm blind, and the world I live in is VERY unforgiving when it comes to that. Also, even in ordinary contexts, I speak using Big Words™, because what I'm going for is precision and clarity (because when I don't, I get horrendously misunderstood), only to have the other person perceive arrogance and pretentiousness (and being AFAB absolutely does not help with that), and... just... ugh...

"Giftedness" is a fucking scam, and I'd give just about anything to have a different neurotype and also to not be traumatized. Maybe then I could fit in with other people.

people misunderstand what ‘gifted kid’ actually means but it’s ok it’s fine it’s cool it’s good