#*DID

[xx-theblack-vixen-xx]

Can confirm, we do,

“how is annabeth head of athena cabin” have you ever met an autistic 12 year old girl. she’s running that shit like the navy

[sysboxes]

[Text: This user’s psuedomemories mirror or parallel the body’s trauma.]

like/reblog if you save or use

meaning/explanation: the psuedomemories are very similar to what happened in the body in some way

[syscultureis]

system culture is convincing yourself you're faking it until you are face to face with a topic that would normally be an panic-inducing trigger for one of your headmates however you feel completely indifferent about it

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[newsies-lodging-house]

Fuck if we ball

fuck it we ball

[spikey-ghostz]

Im almost always dissociated, I never know who I am or what's happening, theres so many time gaps, memory loss, and just over all confusion, was better for a little bit but after some stuff I went through it got a lot worse

My life just feels like one big dissociative puddle, where I dont know who I am, whats going on, or whats real, im always just so disconnected from everything

[what-the-actual-wizardry]

As a DID system, our shadows are often apparent in each other. It really is beautiful seeing Bogeyman help Little Spider overcome a fear, more gently and effectively than the rest of us ever could have. I know this wasn't the point, but genuinely- this is how it feels when we accept our Others as our greatest allies. Every face is a wayward self, bent on bringing some peace back to us. It's amazing. -Dryad

You have no idea how much your shadow self loves you.

Your shadow self is the one who gets angry when someone disrespects you.

The one who fights back when someone hurts you.

The one who tells you to leave a partner, a friend, a job that is harming you.

Yes, your higher self cares about your karma, your wisdom, your peace.

But it’s your shadow self who makes sure you are safe, loved, cherished.

So listen to your shadow self. It’s the oldest friend you’ve ever had.

[egoiac]

𓏵 Puppy System｡ 

A flag for systems who are puppies, have a connection to puppies, or who simply like puppies.

𓏵 Puppy Host｡ 

A flag for hosts who are puppies, have a connection to puppies, or who simply like puppies.

Requested by : @thedecayedsys.

[plurapony]

Brain: A split would fix this problem

Brain: Wait!

Brain: Why don't we do two splits?

Me: *sweating* *headache building*

Brain: But something could go wrong..

Brain: I KNOW!

Brain: Three splits! This is genius!

Me: ...

Me: *splitting too hard to function*

Me: god fucking damn it.

[IMAGE ID: ponyville is a (pro) endo free zone break dni and get blocked loser! END ID]

[thebeesystemandmemes]

Be kind to yourselves, amnesia from childhood trauma doesn’t only mean you forgot traumatic memories. It also means you’re missing a lot of memories of pretty important things that you’re expected to have learned during those times.

[sysboxes]

[Text: This user’s pseudomemories make it hard to separate reality from their memories.]

Like/reblog if you save or use

[ruthimages]

[killerssideblog]

When someone enters the front room some of us will say "[name] joined the chat", and some of us will say things like "chat, are you seeing this?" Or "someone in chat says [...]" when talking too or about people in the room.

I accidentally did this with a friend of ours today, and asked "oh, [name] joined the chat?" And he didnt even question it. Just agreed.

i love you systems who call your alters "parts"

i love you systems who call your alters "alters"

i love you systems who call your alters "headmates"

i love you systems who call your alters "voices"

i love you systems who call your alters swears

i love you systems who call your alters things that are silly, weird, or normal

dont let anyone tell you what to call them <3

[syscultureis]

sys culture is watching a show when you're stressed to take your mind off things and end up SPLITTING A FUCKING FICTIVE OF A CHARACTER FROM SAID SHOW. GET OUT OF MY HOUS

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[madpunks]

we are so ableist about memory. people with good memory take for granted the fact that they can recall as much as they can, and use that to taunt, guilt and threaten people with memory issues. many neurotypes and mental illnesses cause memory lapses. traumatic brain injuries can cause memory lapses. brain cancer can cause memory lapses.

even if your memory is good, it's not right to guilt someone because they can't remember something. trust me, people with memory problems are desperately trying to remember: it's just that we literally can't. it is a very literal "i can't remember".

[misscammiedawn]

Just read The Strange Case of Harley and Harleen and my god I needed a little bit of positive plurality in my life this week.

The way Pam and Harl's relationship adapts to accept the Harley/Harleen split makes my heart swell.

The way Pam sees the difference between her girlfriends.

And assures her that she accepts and loves all sides of her.

And does what she can to accommodate Harleen's memory holes.

The core relationship of this book is just so sweet and positive in accepting things as they are without judgment or pushing. Just acceptance and love.

And after finding that in our own life, I know what a powerfully positive thing it can be.

But the Harley/Harleen relationship is well handled too. There's friction and denial at the start but the two develop and trust one another by the end and Harley takes a seat as my favorite kind of character, the morally ambiguous protector.

I love the way Harley's protectiveness of Harleen is depicted and how she tries so hard to keep her from interacting with the criminal underworld of Gotham.

It's just saccharine and kind.

Highly recommend the book to anyone who just wants soft and kind plurality vibes. Heaven knows the majority of the fiction involving split personalities are flooded with angst and darkness and though this book contains a few dark plot beats like DV it never feels painful or sorrow inducing.

I'm so happy I read it.