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#'are you SURE youre genderfluid'
garmaballs · 29 days
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hey guys can we please be a little more accepting in genderfluid spaces ‼️ i am still genderfluid despite "appearing TOO feminine" in your perspective‼️ not any less genderfluid than you‼️
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seawing-vibes · 1 year
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Some sillay doodles!! Qinterwatcher + trans jade-winglet doodles <3 I tend to do these silly (very off model & probably real out of character) jade winglet doodles as warm ups & cool downs after bigger drawings !! They’re fun to do
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thirteenslily · 2 years
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Eh fuck it. I'll just make The Discourse Post and just not have it be a fucking text essay.
One of my biggest issues with TME/TMA discourse is how much its based on assigning who is affected by oppression, in ways that are just FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG ACTUALLY.
If your method of analyzing oppression is built on a premise where you if you met the author of "I Am A Transwoman. I Am In The Closet. I Am Not Coming Out." you would look her directly in the eyes and say "You aren't the target of transmisogyny, actually" then quite frankly... your method of analysis sucks shit.
My OTHER big issue is... every fucking post about it sounds like this fucking tweet tbh.
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Yeah, I'm sure that the dickhead looking to curbstomp someone who falls outside of gender norms entering a public restroom, is gonna go "Oh! You are a tranny with LADY PARTS! My mistake!"
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ravs6709 · 4 months
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idk if this is something im maybe hallucinating or maybe its just the posts that i see occasionally but ifl sometimes its hard for the fandom to let yjh exist outside of kdj?? like i know the whole kdj being the reason for the story and yjh as an extension to exist is a thing but yjh separating himself from the narrative and establishing himself as not just the protagonist but a person is Also a thing and i feel like we don't talk about it as much.
like i dont know man!! maybe this is all in my head but sooo much of the yjh content also doubles as joongdok?? and you KNOW i love good joongdok but where are the character studies. where are the deep dives. where is the acknowledging yjh as an intricately convoluted and complex characters with his own wishes and desires and the way those desires fuel the narrative like goddddd hes SUCH a Character i think we need to discuss it more. anyways hes my fave btw no one gets him like i do
NO YOURE SO RIGHT THAT IS EXACTLY WHATS HAPPENING
Like yjh becoming a Person is his whole growth??? I haven't been consuming nearly as much orv content, and I'm pretty sure it's for this very reason cause I want more character studies so bad!! Or dynamics with other members of kimcom!!
You ever think about him and mia, mia who is suddenly so distant from her brother, you ever think about him and jihye, how she wants to be strong like him
Or sp!!! Who carries so much grief, and it saddens me that his "why is it not me, but you?" line got reduced to "oh he's jealous he doesn't have a kdj" when it's "he doesn't have ANY companions he doesn't have a SISTER A DISCIPLE A TEACHER"
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jaime-in-chaos · 4 months
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🏳️‍🌈HAPPY PRIDE MONTH YOU QUEER BITCHES!!!!🏳️‍🌈
Make sure to love yourself and take care of yourself because you are a person that deserves love and care no matter your sexuality or gender. :]]]
Remember to stay safe, drink plenty of fluids and unclench your damn jaw!
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alchemiclee · 4 months
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there seems to be so many dudebros who are in love with firefly and all "waifu~" about her....well those dudebros better not be transphobic because my girl is very trans coded...
but something tells me they are 😅 so they aren't ready for this conversation....
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May I suggest…
A pride outfit Betty with your orientation(s) of choice?
I am very curious how you headcanon the ghoul
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[looking respectfully]
Ooh, this one has me a little nervous… but here we go! (These are my current opinions, and they are subject to change!)
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I imagine Beetle/Betty as gender fluid! Since they’re a shape-shifter, we frequently see Beetle switch their gender presentation in the show. I like the potential that gives to explore this identity and help other characters explore their gender too.
I like to imagine that they’d happily go by multiple pronouns since the transformations might get a little confusing to some people.
I have this re-occurring scenario in which Lydia will question this phenomenon, but because they were in the 80’s, Beetle wouldn’t have the right words yet.
“Eh, this whole shapeshifting stuff’s confusing. Call me whatever you want, Kiddo! Girl, boy… pick a swear word and I’ll respond to it!”
Their sexuality is confusing to me since they’d be constantly switching back and forth. In my head, I’ve come to the belief that they would be attracted to whichever gender they defaulted to. If they were primarily Betty in one universe, they would be attracted to women… and vice versa. (I have this odd multi-verse situation going on in my head in which one is gender-bent, and one is cannon compliant-ish 😂)
This all being said, Happy Pride! In this house, we support the strange and unusual, and equally adore the queer and unusual as well! You are loved, seen, and never utterly alone.
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with all the discussions around pronoun circles and similar practices, I’d like to add my thoughts as a Baby Queer TM:
u don’t get pronoun privileges until I’m sure you are cool.
“You” in this context can refer to a person or an institution, but the point stands. Unless I’m sure you’re gonna be chill about it, you don’t get pronoun privileges. Knowing my pronouns is a privilege, not a right.
Does having a compulsory pronoun share communicate to me that you’re cool?
Eh. Not really. It just tells me that I have to decide if you my pronoun privileges right now. And I’m probably not ready to share that yet.
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creed-of-cats · 8 months
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diversity is obviously great for many reasons, but among them being that any character who is normal ass white man is made WAY more interesting in any context if that is deviated from. I will watch so many films/series, ones pre 2000 especially, and wonder how much more interesting and investing it would be if the character just...wasn't the most basic societal "norm" for what's acceptable as a protagonist. Like holy shit, does it not get boring making this stuff with the same dude over and over?
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aachen404 · 3 months
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Am I the only one who isn't understanding this label discourse bullshit?
I keep seeing people trying to justify their hate against [insert label] because [insert more established label] people are uncomfortable and how it invalidates their spaces.
I do mean this in the nicest, politest, with the most worried-looking face I can muster: have you gone outside recently? Have you been to these so called queer spaces outside of online spaces?
I can assure you that besides the very few butthurt idiots, no one in their right mind will give a fuck how you choose to use the labels you happen to find. Most people will just not care that much because their label, as a fully personal thing, will mean different things for different people, and thus a different thing for them, than for you.
And if a label doesn't make sense to you, there's a very simple next step: ask the person about the label, and if you're not an ass about it, there's a good chance that they'll tell you.
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sexygaywizard · 2 years
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Tbh retrospectively I'm p sure that all of the guys who have ever liked me were eggs
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yoshistory · 4 months
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part of me still feels like i might be sort of genderfluid and/or bisexual but just traumatized about it. no idea anymore
#like. remember that. remember following me back when i was bi and genderfluid lol. awhile ago now#its like whatever to me now. its really hard for me to pin anymore#like when i feel like genderfluid and bi again i feel like i can be a lot more open about shit#but i dont really even know. its hard#i feel like. and this is just like. me yknow. i feel like if i wasnt dating a man i'd be missing out on something that i want#like i dont know if i would be content just marrying a woman and being satisfied if i. didnt have a husband. yknow what i mean#and its like. if *I* wasnt a man i'd be sad. if in a relationship i wasnt someone's boyfriend or husband i'd be sad about it#so this is what wraps back around to me being a gayboy about it yknow#its complicated because no matter the gender label outcome. i would STILL want testosterone and surgery and masculine terms#and i KNOW this doesnt mean anything for some people. like some women do all that and are women#so i could just be not-a-man and still want all this anyways#but i also know it doesnt make it any less complicated for some of these women. who also had to think about themselves a lot in this way#its this weird notion of whatever ends up happening i... physically want the same shit anyways. THAT stays almost completely static#so that for me is a breather. its just like.... idk ... if i ever got in a relationship with a woman#i'd feel like i would be intrinsically. missing out on something i wanted#which i think is what a lot of burgeoning gay kids feel generally. right#like if you went down this stringent path laid out for you that you'd be missing out on. your life that you want. right.#i dont know what i want out of that really. sometimes i feel like im too out of it to pursue anything romantically anymore anyways#i do sometimes think it'd be cool to be a butch woman. kinda..?#i think what i like about that is the masculinity of myself is gender non-confirming if i were a woman#which if im a masc guy i'm just like. your average dude. like. right#but i wanna be a bear about it. i wanna fag it up about it. and my metric of being transgender im not ... average about how i present mysel#can someone teach me how to fag it up. the construction worker part of this is working right#sighhhh.... i have to go shower. maybe i;'ll have a shower epiphany or something. sighhhhh#sometimes in my head being a woman would be alright. but its like.. i dont even know how to decode it#i think some people would call what im feeling being genderfluid. some people might call it something else. it depends on like. you yknow#and what you want. and what makes you smile. me? not quite so sure anymore#and i think its like. this sounds like its laid quite bare right. but its hard to word even.#but sometimes im like. am i just like. talking ...? yknow what i mean.
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aloisapologist · 1 year
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modern cielois pride sketch I may never finish, be upon ye
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taintedsoul-if · 2 years
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can you give us option to choose gender of aflistan?
i am playing as male mc and feel weird because that king is after me.it feels like this game is gender locked for females.i don't like to be gay at all. it's gross.i don't want to be aflistan's husband.🤢
Aflistan is a country. Cadmus is the ruler who govern that country.
Don't worry anon there's a bit of something for everyone. If you do not want to romance Cadmus then you don't have to. Later on down a choice will be implemented for the mark on your pc character to be a contractual one, between you and Cadmus. I'll probably also add a friendship route for the players that doesn't want to romance Cadmus.
At this time what I can recommend is the next time you're playing the demo choose the choice to rest. That will lead to a different outcome. You will not come across Cadmus. You'll instead be plagued by a nightmare of something that happened in the past.
I do apologize for any and all inconvience. But I do not see Cadmus as genderfluid. This might steer others from my story but it is what it is.
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ofknowlcdge · 1 year
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start writing carol's bio and she's just so nonchalant about what and who anyone likes, like she came here for the beer and the fun, she isn't here to hear about you having problems because you can't get your dick in someone's ass.
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