#“take my advice im not using it!!”

[merlions]

Here's something really important i have learned wrt overcoming moral OCD and things such as that: one of the main dreads is "well if I stop clenching my fist so FUCKING tight and mentally excoriating and flogging myself for even a tiny moment then I'll immediately become truly evil before I can learn any nuance" but like. If you're trying that hard to be good, like, easing up a little isn't gonna rubber band you in the opposite direction. I can't explain it better than that like. It is NOT GOING TO RUBBER BAND YOU IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION. You're not elastic, you're like a rope being pulled so far it's fraying. Ease up on the tension and you're still basically exactly where you were, just relaxed and not in danger of snapping. Don't relax and, well. You will snap?

[casualavocados]

Learn from who? Learn from you?

Chen Bowen as CHEN YI & Chiang Tien as AI DI KISEKI: DEAR TO ME (2023)

[then-be-a-warrior]

United States/TikTok Ban Check-In

How's everyone doing?

Take a deep breath. We're all in this together. I know it sounds corny but it's true. Over 100 MILLION people used TikTok and we're all mourning together. It's not gone yet, but it almost is.

Remember to do 2 things:

Download as many of your favorites as you can. I'm downloading the rest of mine right now.

Follow your favorite creators on their other platforms.

Honestly, from what I've seen, everyone is still debating on if it's going to get banned or not. So just calm down, do your thing, and breathe.

I'm still here. A lot of other creators will still be around. Just someplace else. It's okay.

And in the grand-scheme of things, if it gets banned, our government will NOT hear the end of it. Because whether it gets banned or not, a lot of us are realizing that we have power and our government is scared.

So just breathe. Everything's gonna be okay.

[faaun]

i feel like my life is falling apart and then my friend makes tiramisu and gives me some and asks if i wanna come to the little gathering on wednesday i feel alone in the world and then another friend asks if i want anything i feel unloveable and then we gather in my room with candles and blankets to watch a film all together until midnight it all becomes so much warmer w friends

[pickled-flowers]

There should be an award you get every time you get misgendered and don't start throwing punches

[tommygotwrittenoff]

the fact that eddie and maddie have never interacted outside a group setting is so funny actually. you cannot tell me those two wouldnt get on like a house on fire. i fear the day we get a solo maddie and eddie scene is the day we get buddie canon

[whorecedes18]

ao3 is down is this a sign to touch grass

[uncanny-tranny]

Daily trans tip: If you shave your face, try using an after-shave. Unfortunately, it really can make the shave feel so much better (especially if, like me, you don't use an electric razor)

[uhzuku]

are u ever gonna write again

to be completely honest w u i don’t really know <3 atm i am perfectly content kicking back n playing games n reading on ao3!! i finished my last comm from my last set and i wrote one gojo thing in jan but other than that i don’t really feel like writing!! i have SEVERAL drafts sitting in varying degrees of completion tho so if i do write u would get one of those dhfbhfcn

[pup-pee]

kon on the practive whiteboard,,,,,save me save me pls

[flashdoesahundredyarddash]

Reading The Flash 2016 #75 and....I love when they put their foreheads together. I want them to laugh together and look lovingly in each other's eyes (woah)

Here is the panel I drew this from

THEY'RE SO CUTE I ACTUALLY CANT??

[our-inspire-verse]

I have a good feeling i know the answer to this but am i the only system irritated with the fact that when i search for osdd or plurality related content i only get educational stuff? Can i get a system introducing all their headmates? Talking about their innerworld? Maybe detailing split/fusion or host history?

I dont need to know peoples traumas or really "need" any of the info i just. Wish our community wasnt based around medicine or vocab lessons. I wanna connect with someone like me. I don't need to watch another video "how my alters communicate" i get it i get it.

I wanna know the names! I wanna see how yall present and why! I wanna form friendships and communities! Humanize ourselves, even if nonhuman, you know?

[carneflower13]

live in the moment. take things day by day because change, good or bad, does not happen overnight. love yourself. love others. put the joy and peace that you would like to see in the world out there. live and laugh and enjoy the little things and don't give up because no matter what people might try to tell you, it's really not over until it's over

[faaun]

my research partner and i are huddled in a blanket in paddington waiting for a too-late train i already miss you and you and you

[youredreamingofroo]

Hey! I just read your post where you answer the "random ask" by changingplumbob, and I'm just wondering if you have any advice for someone trying to get to know their OC better???

hallo friend :) (sorry for the late-ish response) I don't really have any advice, I don't wanna say it comes naturally to me, but it kinda does, and I've always been this way for the most part, I used to fill out really detailed 20 page character "introductions"/"bios" that I found online ALL the time when I was like 14-16 so 🤷‍♂️

I have a board on pinterest that I made if you wanna check that out <:D ppl have asked me (or mentioned how they admire) how I know my ocs so well, and tbh i just go on pinterest and find oc questions and stuff to add to a random private boards, but I'll just start adding that stuff to this board for you and anybody else looking to get to know their ocs better 🫶

[ravenmccookies]

I think I figured out a system that helps me when my anxiety tries to tell me that someone I'm friends with secretly hates me and im unsure if its irrational. All I have to do is ask myself, "have they done anything hurtful to me?". Usually the answer is no thankfully lol.