#‘narcissists are abusers! narc abuse!’
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npd culture is joel/smallishbeans ,,, :3
#actually npd#npd safe#npd traits#npd culture is#npd#narcissistic traits#narcissistic personality disorder#actually narcissistic#narcissistic#narcissist#narcissism#narc#narc abuse isn't real#narc abuse truthers dni#narc abuse does not exist#narc abuse believers dni#smallishbeans joel#joel smallishbeans#smallishbeans#mcyt#joel
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Some people get so up & arms about the stanford npd headcanon. It’s so weird. “Well I don’t believe npd is bad BUT-“ Hey man shut up. Like seriously. Don’t agree with the headcanon? Cool. But to make entire rants about how its not true? Thats weird as hell. What if people did that with literally any other disorder/disability headcanon?? You guys realize that having npd doesn’t make you some evil demon RIGHT? RIGHT??
#sorry to my npd soldiers who fight the good fight every day to not my stigmatized#when its any other headcanon people are normal about it#‘oh yeah i dont agree’#but the SECOND its npd or aspd about a character people go insane about it#JUST DONT AGREE WHY ARE SOME PEOPLE SO MAD 😭#ford pines#stanford pines#‘narcissists are abusers! narc abuse!’#SHUT UP SHUT UP DHUT UP SHUT UP#‘NARCISSIST ABUSE’ ISNT REAL#ITS JUST ABUSE#i wannna rant about how demonized npd is so bad#AND HPD???#NOT TO MENTION ASPD???#DEAR LORRRRRDDDDDDDDDDDD#THEY ARE DISORDERS THAT DEVELOP FROM SOME SORT OF REPEATED TRAUMA#PEOPLE WITH PERSONALITY DISORDERS ARENT INHERENTLY ABUSIVE#IN FACT OFTEN TIMES ARE ABUSED#GOD.#FUCKING.#DAMMIT.#please please please try to be normal about ts for five seconds guys PLEASE
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neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist
#actually npd#narcissistic personality disorder#npd safe#actually narcissistic#narc abuse isn't real#npd abuse isnt real#npd
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Homicidal Ideation
homicidal ideation is the term for having active thoughts about murdering others. these thoughts can be intrusive, however they can also often be voluntary.
misconceptions:
‘people who have these thoughts either have killed someone or will kill someone in the future’ - this is false. most people who have these thoughts usually have disordered behaviours (most commonly as a result of personality disorders) and struggle to find healthy ways to cope with their emotions, therefore provocation and stress can easily cause thoughts of inflicting harm onto others. this doesn’t inherently mean these people are dangerous, nor does it mean that they’re going to act upon these thoughts. most people who experience homicidal ideation never act on it and use it more as a way to process their distress/frustration internally.
‘having these thoughts about people in your life means you can’t possibly care for them’ - also false. caring for someone doesn’t make them an exception to mental illness and it doesn’t stop your mental illnesses from existing. to think that someone’s love for you is only valid as long as they’re not displaying traits of mental illness is unfair and is hugely misinformed. to love and be loved by someone who is mentally ill is to accept that they will display symptoms of their mental illness. you are not the exception and they do not love you any less by showing traits of being unwell.
‘so you endorse murder’ - no. that’s not at all what this means and if you seriously think this then your grasp of severe mental health issues is too limited to be commenting on such topics.
‘you’re evil’ - for being unwell? don’t be a cunt. if you seriously think that having a disordered manner of processing emotions internally makes someone ‘evil’ then that sounds more like an issue with you being too sensitive and having a lack of understanding, not an issue with the mentally ill person experiencing these thoughts. don’t make your inability to understand mental illness into someone else’s problem.
as someone who does experience homicidal ideation, it’s also important to not make the mistake of assuming everyone who is mentally ill experiences these thoughts either. i had an anonymous ask earlier today that directly associated the fact i’m mentally unwell with murder and homicidal thoughts, to immediately make this assumption just because someone is mentally ill is disgusting.
#actually mentally ill#clusterb#actually aspd#actually npd#aspd#npd#cluster b#actuallynpd#actuallyaspd#actually bpd#bpd#actuallybpd#actually antisocial#actually narcissistic#actually borderline#antisocial personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#narcissistic sociopath#narcissistic personality disorder#cluster b personality disorder#psychopathy#homicidal ideation#homicidal thoughts#mental illness#personality disorder#narc abuse isnt real#stigma#stigmatised disorders#being ill doesn’t make you evil#ableism
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Those "how to defeat a narcissist" articles are so stupid because if people didn't have a general conscious of narcissists being Bad People, these articles would just be abuse tactics.
"How to destroy your partner." "How to break down your girlfriend's self esteem." "How to collapse your boyfriend's ego." "How to break your partner so they stop being so disrespectful, know their place, and know their own worth in comparison to yours, as an alpha gamer."
Literally sigma male podcast shit.
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my abuser had brown hair im a victim of brunette abuse :(
#npd memes#actually npd#npd safe#npd#npd culture is#npd positivity#npd traits#cluster b#actually cluster b#narcissism#narc abuse isn’t real#narcissistic abuse isn’t real#narcissism positivity#actually narcissistic#narcissistic personality disorder#narcissistic abuse#npd awareness#npder
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I have no empathy, remorse, guilt or compassion.
That is how I experience things, as a result of my personality disorders.
If you are going to support personality disorders then you also must include people with these symptoms as well and not just the glorified version the media attempts to convey.
#actually antisocial#actually aspd#actually borderline#actually bpd#actually mentally ill#actually narcissistic#actually npd#actuallyaspd#actuallybpd#actuallynpd#npd#bpd#aspd#actually cluster b#clusterb#cluster b#cluster b personality disorder#aspd culture is#no empathy#no guilt#no remorse#narcissistic sociopath#narcissistic personality disorder#narc abuse isn't real#antisocial personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#mental illness#stigma#sociopath#psychopathy
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Reminder for people with Personality Disorders:
You can be in therapy for years to be able to cope.
You can mask the difficulties you have.
You can cope well with your disorders.
You can function in daily life.
But the day you have a bad day, the day you're so overwhelmed that the mask slips and you simply say one thing, the neurotypicals will use it against you and use it to abuse you.
Abuse is a choice. Abusers make the choice to abuse someone. Not every abuser has a personality disorder. There are plenty of abusers that are Neurotypical. Plenty of neurotypicals will abuse those with PDs due to the stigma and misinformation around them.
Quit using terms like "Narcissistic/Histrionic/Borderline/Anti-Social Abuse"
Quit using "Narcissist" and "Anti-Social" as insults.
Quit justifying abuse towards people with PDs.
Quit armchair diagnosing abusers and assholes with Personality Disorders when you don't know the lived experience of people with them.
Stop fucking appealing to Neurotypicals.
#npd#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissism#narcissistic personality disorder#pwnpd#narc abuse#narcissistic abuse#actually bpd#bpd#borderline personality disorder#actually cluster b#cluster b disorders#actually hpd#hpd#actually aspd#aspd#aspd safe#hpd safe#npd safw#bpd safe
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you have any fucking word in the dictionary to describe your abuse. please stop using the one that describes a personality disorder
#and directly puts the blame on mentally ill people#npd vent#npd positivity#npd things#npd culture is#actually npd#narcissistic abuse#malignant narcissism#narcisst#narcissistic personality disorder#narcissism#narc abuse#actually narcissistic#npd#narcissist#npd safe
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Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead
#I’m not npd but the stigma you all face is horrible#narc abuse does not exist#narcissistic abuse is not real#npd positivity#narcissist positivity#cluster b positivity#narcissism#narcissistic personality disorder#narcissistic positivity#reblog bait#reblog bait cw
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WHY DOEA IT MAKE IT AOUND LIKE WE'RE SOME FINAL BOSS IN A VIDEO GAME 😭😭
lmao the scary narc you have to defeat to get the special item !1!1!!!1!
I can't take this shit seriously bcs WHAT THE FUCK 😭😭😭😭😭
#npd safe#npd traits#actually npd#npd#narcissistic traits#narcissistic personality disorder#actually narcissistic#narc abuse isnt real#narcissistic abuse isnt real#narcissistic#narcissism#narc#actually a narc#actually a narcissist
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“empaths” are THE stupidest fucks on the planet. not to mention the ableism lol
#actually npd#cluster b safe#cluster b#npd safe#npd#npd vent#npd stigma#aspd#bpd#low empathy#actually mentally ill#narcissistic abuse#narc abuse isn't real#empaths DNI
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NOBODY is excusing or supporting abuse when they talk about how narc abuse isnt real. you are making this up in your head.
90% of the time these people ABSOLUTELY preface first that your abuse wasnt okay and when they start talking about how you shouldnt blame a trauma based disorder for the abuse your abuser did you start freaking out. do you realize how pathetic it is to completely ignore when these people say it isnt okay to demonize a disorder people obviously dont choose to have.
you're blaming the narcissism. you're blaming the abuse on the narcissism. you aren't blaming the person for the abuse, you're blaming the disorder they have for their actions, not blaming the person themself.
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tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’
stfu.
we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.
#actually aspd#actually npd#aspd#npd#clusterb#actually mentally ill#actuallyaspd#actuallynpd#cluster b#actually bpd#actuallybpd#actually narcissistic#actually antisocial#actually borderline#hpd#actually hpd#actually cluster b#cluster b personality disorder#antisocial personality disorder#narcissistic personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#histrionic personality disorder#narc abuse isnt real#narc abuse isn't real#npd positivity#aspd safe#aspd positivity#npd safe#npd vent#bpd safe
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>"cluster b demonization isn't real! you're just making that up because you're attention seeking and wanna be a victim!!!"
>open internet browser
>"how to defeat narcissists" article is on the front page in the health tab
#🫀.vents#it's real guys#they're pedaling that shit out to the masses#also yes this actually just happened. my bf opened his laptop to order groceries and we saw that#with no prior search history#it was just there. everyone who uses that browser probably got that article today#fucking infuriating#cluster b#cluster b safe#npd#actually npd#npd safe#npd stigma#cluster b stuff#mental health stigma#bpd#hpd#aspd#cluster b pds#npd stuff#actually narcissistic#mental health support#cluster b personality disorder#bpd safe#aspd safe#narc abuse isn't real#narc abuse believers dni#narc abuse truthers dni#narc abuse does not exist#narcissistic personality disorder
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reblog to kiss a narcissist on the mouth (with passion)
#narc#actually narcissistic#narcissistic abuse#narcissistic personality disorder#narcissism#narc abuse isn’t real#narcissism positivity#narcissistic abuse isn’t real#npd memes#npder#npd awareness#npd positivity#actually npd#npd safe#npd
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