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duck-n-clover · 1 month ago
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I will be out of state visiting family for an indefinite amount of time, if anyone wants to request any of my ocs so I can sketch em in my down time that'd be very appreciated!!!! Also bonus points if you have an idea what you wanna see em doing. Both silly and serious suggestions encouraged 🫡
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sunnibits · 5 months ago
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TODAYS THE DAY
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puppppppppy · 11 months ago
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anton belongs to @poicyss
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subjectsix · 4 months ago
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DYLAN FADEN?
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icewindandboringhorror · 3 months ago
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"We can get through this by working together, reach out to your friends, community is all we have, a social network will be your security in the world, now is the time to lean on others!"
I do agree, and it's scientifically sound (pretty sure there is data about how people with better social networks live longer and etc) but also....augh..... what about the severe social issues, difficulty to leave the house, physical issues which lead to like zero socialization energy a majority of the time, etc. etc. Social support can be a replacement for structural support, but.. I guess I just wish it didn't have to be. Community is extremely difficult to build, even moreso if you're someone who has issues with social cues or group conversations or even just being around others in the first place. And blah, nuance, of course I'm just complaining or maybe being too negative or maybe misunderstanding, but, I hardly have the energy to brush my hair once every 2 months.. how am I supposed to maintain a wide social network and be active in a Community and Join Groups lol... sometimes it kind of feels like "er.. well if thats my only option then...... ruh roh". It's overwhelming
#Kind of like some post I saw a long time ago talking about how even the meanest shittiest most difficult to get along with#elderly people or whaever still deserve to have some sort of systems in place to support them so they're not just relying on the#grace of relatives or etc. who may not be able to deal with them. Not saying that I'm like mean and cruel or anything#but the fact of the matter is in most social situations either I am compromising or the other person is. Not in like an ~`ouuu im so weirdd#nobody willever understand my quirky swagg hee heee~' way but like a.. Just factually the things that make me happy and comfortable#are often incompatible with people. The way I communicate and process things is different from the way other people do and that#is always a barrier. I cannot have ''easy''' interactions. Even with 'understanding' people there is nearly always a significant#amount of effort. You can't walk into a group of people and then be like ''okay you guys all have to wear#masks and you also cant play music too loud and also we should communicate turns of speaking very clearly so group conversations#arent too stressful. and also i need this and that and we have to do this and that and '' etc. etc. You CAN. And some people will#go along with that. but they will ALWAYS secretly resent you for it. You will be the one person they're relieved to not have to be around.#theyre glad when you dont show up since they can go back to doing things however they want and not masking and all these boring#annoying things. OR you can say none of that and just deal with the loud music and the talking and the unmasked people. but then#YOU'RE compromising. and no matter how nice they are it's exhausting to be around and youre just further alienated#while in the presence of people and uncofmrtoabel the whole time.#Which I'm not saying the only form of community is a group setting specificially but just giving that as an example lol#I just wish there were a better option than ''well learn to socialize normally or just suffer then'' . Which I know is not what people are#saying. I guess I just always feel a bit scared when 'community is the answer'. Since its not like 'oh im just socially anxious and need to#get out of my shell~!' or something thats really that remedy-able. It's like.. my mostly unchangeable physical health issues combined#with the mostly unchangable literal way that my brain processes sensory informationand other things means that interacting with#others in a normal and easy way is incredibly difficult and often exhausting especially to maintain in any longform fashion. So then#when it's like ''the answer to staying safe is to maintain longform social connections!! :3 just reach out!!'' then.. ermm... O_O#also I'm not even one of the cutesy shy emotional hermits that's nervous. I'm the Bad Stereotype emotionless robotic cold seeming#looms in the corner of the room type of thing so people have less pity on you in that way. -_- ANYWAY gghj#I need like.. a designated social representative or something.. When I did work in that bookshop forever ago they gave me a#person who basically was just with me to help communicate with others on my behalf and supervise me and stuff. I need that.. Some#more extraverted person I can latch onto and they can maintain the Social Support Network for me and I can just be their +1 to all#of the Social Things and community. I have helpful skills I can contribute to other people and stuff it's just like.. I cant socialize lol#I cook food or something for you.. then you keep me in contact with Community.. a deal. (but then what about when I'm too sick to#contribute? as is often the case. there's not much place for people like me in communities sometimes i fear.. sigh.) ***
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maria-aegyptiaca2 · 2 months ago
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Experiencing time slippage again unfortunately, ripped out a toenail and felt nothing until like minutes later… crazy how being submerged in water is one of the only reliable sensations in this sort of situation. Makes you think!
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episims · 2 years ago
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@moocha-muses' Lorelei Lee is looking for the right person to sweeten her life, and Candy Sullivan believes the search ends with her!
Candy's heard that she has somewhat of an expensive taste, so no wonder a gem like Lilo caught her attention. Don't mistake her for one of those business major divas, though; Candy knows how to laugh at herself! She has the best ideas (have you ever thrown a pop-up fashion show in a library?) and is everyone's favorite party company.
Technically Candy is still working on her business degree, but she has her priorities straight and is ready to skip a semester or two for a chance to charm Lilo.
Candy was especially thrilled to learn that in addition to being a dark-haired goddess, Lilo is a cat person like herself. Candy's future dreams consist of running a successful business, having a backyard pool, and sharing a house with a beautiful person and at least three equally beautiful felines.
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pastafossa · 2 years ago
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Might or might not be a chapter tonight, having some nerve pain that's been interfering should have recognized it when everything felt overly scratchy yesterday. Fingers crossed.
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waterfallofspace · 1 year ago
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Soooo apparently not inducing for awhile makes it a little more sensitive..! So here's a lil thing that I recorded~ No cuts in this, which for me is pretty rare since usually I can't get this many this fast! (at least fast for me~)
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unsettlingcreature · 4 months ago
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Just described earthquakes as the ground going brrrrrr and I'd actually like one to occur directly centered on my flat so the ground can swallow me whole
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yume-fanfare · 1 year ago
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la estampita de la virgen 💯
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ethereii · 2 years ago
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i went to see ATSV on sunday and it was 10/10 amazing, hobie has my heart even though i only understood like 50% of what he said throughout the entire film😭 been fighting a losing battle to spider verse brainrot all week and succumbed to making a spidersona 💕
so uh,, meet cam! he hides his face with his hair because after he got bit by the spider his eye color changed and he didn’t want to be conspicuous(yet he finds himself in situations where the attention is shifted to him at the worst times). i had actually started developing this oc when ITSV came out but didn’t fully commit till now. hopefully i’ll flesh him out some more. i definitely plan on going to see ATVS in theaters again, been listening to the soundtrack nonstop…
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justewil · 7 months ago
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twitter is. scary i don't like it anymore
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darehearts · 1 year ago
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i love james tiberius kirk a normal amount
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camgoloud · 2 years ago
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we are now officially within 50 hours of the air date of ted lasso season 3 episode 9 “la locker room aux folles” (yes i’m counting). prayer circle for colin hughes starts now and doesn’t stop until isaac mcadoo gives him a hug on my screen. participation is not optional
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kaktus-jus · 2 years ago
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Okay, so I've written a fic first time in YEARS and i just wanted to share it with you guys. I know it's not perfect but this pairing is way too underrated so fuck it. Also it's angst so idk, maybe don't read it if you're having a bad day. (or do if you wish, sometimes when i feel bad i specifically go for sad songs, fics or movies to feel even worse so who am i to judge lol)
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