girlblogger-2007

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Girlblogger-2007 on choosing the life path

(Guide to a better life)

Whenever i hear someone complaining about being blue in terms of life plans, I ask myself if it's actually this hard? I guess I figured it out really early in life and never really thought about it, so now I want to share it with you so you can feel less stressed or even sure of what to do.

The problem is that people nowadays don't have time to think. You might be questioning my words right now, but it's true, and here's why. We watch tiktok, reels, youtube, and all that stuff that gives us false feelings of thoughts. You consume content and don't even think about what you're watching. You just do out of habit. There's no room left for real fleshy thoughts because all we do is jump from work stuff to brain melt back and forth.

To find a solution, you must change your current path, be more conscious about what small choices you make daily that make you feel what you feel. Look closely at what habits you've developed (like automatically going back to tiktok right after closing it or something like that)

Start a journal, write about yourself, your feelings, try to avoid meaningless subjects, and just focus on yourself. I suggest you write it on paper so you have more time to think about what to write and it gives that human feeling to it that is so lost in our times. (If you feel motivated enough, you might want to try doing morning pages - 3 pages written every morning of pure consciousness)

Meditate, spend time with your mind, get to know it. The faster you start meditating, the easier it will get in life because at the end of the day, it will be just you and your mind until your last day. Remember that.

Let yourself get free. You see a thing that you want but you don't get because you think it doesn't fit some social standards or whatever? Screw the standard, get it, and be happy.

Last but not least, just sit, get rid of distractions like your phone or other people, and think. It might take you 15 minutes, an hour, 7 hours or 4 days, doesn't matter. Just get those though, energy consuming, fleshy thoughts in your head and sort them out.

Hope it helped at least one person :)

Stay safe, drink water, keep you head up, and remember that you have only 1 life

[girlblogger-2007]

Stop dwelling on the old story , forget about it. Be delusional it will help you alot. If you see something in your 3D which you do not like , simply ignore it and affirm about what you want DELULU IS THE SOLULU💗✨️

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I fear this might be a new better chapter in my life

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I didnt really belive in all that stuff about universe always having a backup for you until recently when I decided to let go of my toxic friends whom I was desperately holding onto for like a year now and I kid you not in 2 or 3 days I befriended a beautiful soul that I love with my whole heart and would die for ♡

Universe really does have your back💕💗

[girlblogger-2007]

Just a girl against the cruel world

[girlblogger-2007]

You dont need to find a soulmate

You need to find your soul mate

[girlblogger-2007]

so me ྀི

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[girlblogger-2007]

Girl

You don't need a man, you need a new lipgloss.

(Omg how i need romand juicy lasting tint 😭🙏🤞)

[girlblogger-2007]

Get to know yourself 🩰

the key to confidence is knowing yourself and what you want. so here are some tips for you to start embracing and knowing yourself ♡

find your "aesthetics" or start presenting yourself the way you would like to.

there are a lot of styles you could get inspo from, and feel the best in. I want you to not put yourself in one box of an aesthetic like "I like coquette, so I will forever wear things like it". sure! you can do it if you feel like this is the style that suits you most, but if you feel like expressing yourself more than in one go for it! there is no way you have to pressure yourself to fit in one category just because people or you won’t be "confused". you are you by wearing pink dolly dresses with grey hoodies and cargo pants.

find hobbies and stand strong by them

try many different things which you will enjoy. books, movies, knitting, writing, journaling, self care and the list goes on. do not listen to anyone saying that it’s "weird" or "doesn’t suit you". this is what will make you , you! never let go of beautiful things that make you happy. even if you like collecting dolls at the age of 16 (like me) and society tells you it’s child’s hobby, so be it. hobbies do not have an age range bc with the same logic they could say "knitting if for grandmas".

journal

find some promts on pinterest and write , write , write

start being comfortable with yourself or when you’re alone

realize that you are that person who’s funny , charming, smart, INTERESTING. a lot of us are uncomfortable with being alone and have the need to always meet someone. now don’t get me wrong, you have to meet people! do not by any means isolate yourself but forcing yourself to meet just because you don’t like being all alone is wrong. Imagine going on dates where you go to YOUR favorite restaurant, order YOUR favorite food, buy YOURSELF the prettiest flowers. why don’t you like being with yourself if you and your body knows all your favorite things , and offer a lot than anybody could ? my advice for you to is go out on single dates , sit in your home and read a book, or even in silence just with yourself. and you will realize a lot more about yourself. trust me you’re going to love it <3

set goals and make promises to yourself , work on them

these are essential things that will help you trust yourself more. I want you to remember that everything in your life is success. even if it’s not "perfect" it’s yours! and that’s what should matter the most. keep growing and teaching yourself.

- ♡

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I love myself so much 💖🎀✨️🔮🫧

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Why would i want to hate myself if im the only one who understands me?

If my friend understood me as good as I understand myself, I would never ever say a bad word about them. So why do you do it to yourself?

[girlblogger-2007]

Remember that you're not alone in your body. Just because the brain is your main organ doesn't mean that your heart, eyes, lungs, and every other part of your body don't matter. The feelings of all those body parts should be considered, not just the brain's.

The fact that you think others might not acknowledge your achievements doesn't matter. The only acknowledgement that truly matters is your own. Once you realize this, you'll be happy no matter what. 💞

[girlblogger-2007]

I wont stop until I become perfect just like her

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I'm so sure Lana Del Rey's music has some hidden subliminal affirmations; my day always goes perfectly well whenever I put on her songs on the ride to school

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Literally me 🫢